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Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

If you want to make women absolutely melt, then you need to learn the principles of seductive nonverbal body language. Most men do not know this, but your body language is a huge determinant of success with women. So if you are not yet dating the type of women you truly desire, it most likely has to do with your body language. Read on.

Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

Here are some ways you can demonstrate dominance with your body language (thus sparking interest and attraction in women).

1. Strong Eye Contact

There are many differing opinions on exactly how much eye contact you should be making with a woman. Some believe that too much eye contact demonstrates too much interest in her too early in the interaction. At the same time, others believe strong eye contact is the be-all and end-all of seductive body language.

My experiences have taught me that you should hold VERY strong eye contact with a woman when you are speaking directly to her. This displays confidence in who you are and what you're saying. At the same time, you should NOT hold strong eye contact when the woman is speaking to you, or when you are speaking to a group of people. I will go into more detail on this subject in a bit.

2. Slow Down

Slow down all of your movements. This includes the rate at which you walk down to the smallest movements to how fast you blink. Slow movement demonstrates many things to the opposite sex. It shows that you are VERY high value, and extremely comfortable in your surroundings.

Just make sure you are not going TOO slow as this will lead women to believe that you are not at full mental capacity.

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

How to Approach Beautiful Women (Top 3 Tips)

I'm going to show you how to approach beautiful women, because there is a right way of doing it. Do it wrong and you'll be walking away with your tail tucked between your legs.

Okay, so let's get started.

The first thing when it comes to approaching beautiful women is ... you don't want to compliment or "hit" on her. Why? because she gets complimented all the time! Like 20 times today.

So what you want to do is be different. You want to appear as interesting -- this is how you get her attracted. That's the first tip.

Tell her something interesting that she didn't know. For example, you can read her palm. I know it's cheesy but women love that. What I like to say, as a conversation opener, is "Hello, I can sense something interesting about you. Here, let me read your palm".

The second tip is, be interesting without bragging. That's where most guys lose it, because they think that just because they brag about their $200,000.00 a year job that woman is going to love him. Just no.

Tell some interesting facts about yourself, where you traveled, stuff like that.

The third tip is ... avoid being nervous. How so? By practicing on lots of pretty women. What I want you to do is go to the mall, or the club, and start approaching hot gals. The more practice you get, the less nervous you become. Until you got this cool, confident aura around you.

And we all know women dig confident guys, this advice has been given thousands of time.

How to Approach Beautiful Women (Top 3 Tips)

I'm going to show you how to approach beautiful women, because there is a right way of doing it. Do it wrong and you'll be walking away with your tail tucked between your legs.

Okay, so let's get started.

The first thing when it comes to approaching beautiful women is ... you don't want to compliment or "hit" on her. Why? because she gets complimented all the time! Like 20 times today.

So what you want to do is be different. You want to appear as interesting -- this is how you get her attracted. That's the first tip.

Tell her something interesting that she didn't know. For example, you can read her palm. I know it's cheesy but women love that. What I like to say, as a conversation opener, is "Hello, I can sense something interesting about you. Here, let me read your palm".

The second tip is, be interesting without bragging. That's where most guys lose it, because they think that just because they brag about their $200,000.00 a year job that woman is going to love him. Just no.

Tell some interesting facts about yourself, where you traveled, stuff like that.

The third tip is ... avoid being nervous. How so? By practicing on lots of pretty women. What I want you to do is go to the mall, or the club, and start approaching hot gals. The more practice you get, the less nervous you become. Until you got this cool, confident aura around you.

And we all know women dig confident guys, this advice has been given thousands of time.

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

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