For Men Only - The Secret of Finding True Love

Have you been longing for an intimate, loving and lasting relationship that will give you a life filled with happiness, constant affection, peace of mind, and someone you can introduce to your family and friends and say "I want you to meet my soul mate, my one true love"? Everyone has a soul mate waiting to be found; the one obstacle standing in your way is to discover that very special one.

Deep down everyone in their right mind wants exactly that and they don't want to keep wishing and waiting to meet the right person. Having Expectations of meeting the right person at a party, a bar, or at the office can go on forever. Anyone meeting their soul mate by chance is a million to one shot. Sure you may meet someone that throws you for a loop, and the infatuation starts to set in and you do flips over that gal and you're positive its true love, but when reality sets in you have to ask, is it love or simply infatuation?

I will say there is a 99.9% chance it is infatuation, you know the feeling, love at first sight, your heart beats faster and faster, you can't wait to call her several times a day. You wait with great expectations for your next meeting and the scenario goes on and on until one day you wake up to the fact that you don't want to spend the rest of your life with this person.

Maybe after the smoke clears you notice more and more about the behavior of this woman that bothers you. Maybe she is always late or cancels often. Possibly you don't like the way she is not as affectionate as before, and list can go on forever. This is a good indication that your infatuation dampened your judgment which can and does happen with most of us when we can't distinguish between love and infatuation. The feeling of passion can release all kinds of hormones and send us into a tail spin. You know the old saying "I went head over heels over her" Well that's it, that's the feeling I am talking about.

It feels better than inheriting a million bucks, and some of us would give up anything to keep that feeling for the rest of our lives, but guess what, studies show that infatuation last a maximum of two years and then reality sets in and the feelings start to crumble.

That's why it pays to be matched up with the right personally and profile before you even meet the person of your dreams. You can be matched with someone that is your perfect counterpart or soul mate. A soul mate should be someone not only very lovely on the outside but also pleasing on the inside, and attracted at the level of the soul. Of course there must be chemistry, and lots of it, but it must be chemistry that lasts and lasts for a lifetime. This may seem like it sounds impossible but it's not, studies have shown that match making has much more chance of success and lasting a lifetime that any other type of introduction, meeting at the office or by chance.

That's why many match making companies have millions of members, one boasts having over 30 million members and grows every year. That in itself says something about the success of this type of service doesn't it.

The profound difference regarding the service I am talking about and others is this is for single men interested in meeting some of the most beautiful Latin ladies on earth. These ladies are raised and taught from early childhood by their mothers that when they reach the age of marriage that they should care for their husbands in every fashion, and put their man before anyone else. Above all these ladies are not feminists in any way, shape or form, however they are very feminine, beautiful, caring, loving, and without hesitation very attentive to their soul mates. They don't consider it a duty to care for their soul mate they truly enjoy pleasing their man. A little different than some other places in the world, isn't it?

Dating Scams and Background Checks

Internet Dating Investigations on the Rise

The rise in online dating worldwide has changed the way men and women meet around the globe. As more and more people become accustomed to doing business on the Internet, so too are more and more people finding romance over the Internet. New match making sites appear in the search results each week, and from the U.S. to China to Argentina, consumers are finding love online. With this new playing field, however, come sizeable risks.

Honest people seeking new relationships aren't the only ones taking advantage of the new services. Criminals are also finding their way onto the match making websites, including major sites such as Match.com and eHarmony. No matter what a site may claim, no dating website is immune from fraud and scams. In fact, international scam cases have risen along with the rise in dating websites. And with the rise in scams and fraud, the demand for professional background checks has never been greater.

Beware of any individual overseas proclaiming his or her love prematurely. Be skeptical of any sudden emergencies that require financial assistance. If there have been no requests for money, and everything seems to be legit, consider a background check as an insurance policy. Many victims end up losing money and learning the hard way. A background check early along in the relationship can save you time and money, and also prevent you from potential heartache and emotional distress.

Several services are now available that offer international background checks and surveillance. Probably the most respected in the business is Wymoo International, which also runs a separate division for investigations in the Philippines, known as Philippine PI. Whichever firm you decide to use, consider the service an insurance policy, and when it comes to fraud and scams, it's better to know sooner rather than later. These types of services are usually strictly confidential, so the subject will never know, and you can sleep easy!

Happy hunting,

A. Hathaway
© 2006-2008 A. Hathaway

Discover the 7 Sure Signs Your Ex Definitely Wants You Back - Don't End Up, "The One That Got Away"

It happens to most of us. You are in along term relationship, but something happens and for what ever reason you break up. Even though you two have decided to part, you still have feelings with that person. It hurts to even think that you will never be together again. You want nothing more than to get him back. The reverse may also be true. Your ex may want you back too. How can you tell?

Wanting an ex back is a common reality. I mean, you two have spent some of your life's best moments together. Why wouldn't either of you want that back?

If you suspect that your man wants you back again, it's best not to act as if you've moved on. Act as pleasant and respectful as you can around him. Let him see the softer side of you without making any indication that you are desperate to get him back.

Visit the places he frequents, often. When you are there, see if he takes notice of you. Look into his eyes. See if he smiles at you. Upon leaving, look to see if he looks hurt that you are going away again. Try to be as discrete as possible.

When you are in his presence, take notice of how he acts around do. Does he linger around you for a longer time than usual? Does he do things that he used to when you two were together like touch you in ways that he knows you like.

Look to see if he has corrected any of the issues that at one time caused problems in your relationship such as stopped smoking, started working out, or become more responsible in some areas.

When you to walk, take notice of the words he uses. Does he include you in the things he says? If he does, pay attention to see if he corrects the mistake or leaves it as is.

If you flirt with him, look to see how he reacts. Does he open your flirty invitation with open arms? If so, this may be a sign that he's warming up to you again.

Breaking up with your ex may have been a big mistake, especially is you still have feeling for him. If he's not seriously dating someone else, there may be a strong possibility that he might want you back. Take notice to a few things that he does around you to see if his feelings are mutual. If all works out, you two will be back together in not time.

Dating Tips For Women - What NOT to Do on the First Date

First dates are tricky, and I don't think anybody ever really masters the technique. I have a friend who runs a haircutting salon, and I asked her to find out from the customers - male and female - what NOT to do on a first date.

1. Don't talk about your ex's

2. Don't give him the third degree about his former girlfriends

3. Don't make a big thing about being on a diet, especially if he has taken you to a fancy restaurant.

4. Don't hire a financial rating service to do a background check.

5. Don't look too surprised if he asks you to split the check.

6. Don't forget your date's name.

7. Don't lose a contact lens.

8. If you do lose a contact lens, don't get down on your knees to look for it.

9. Don't ask the waiter for a doggie bag.

10. Don't ask him to ask the waiter for a doggie bag.

11. Don't laugh if he asks the waiter for a doggie bag.

12. Don't ask if he has a dog.

While we are on the subject of first dates, I want to pass along a supposedly foolproof method for determining how good a guy will be in bed by watching the way he eats. Don't blame me if it doesn't work, though I am merely the middleman on this one. I have heard that it is very accurate.

It is said that if he carefully cuts everything up and moves the food around until it's just perfect, forget it. He's a dud. The one who digs in and goes for it, relishes it and eats it like it's his first and last meal is going to be gangbusters in the bedroom.

It now makes me wonder about the guy who doesn't use a fork at all; rather he just lays his head down to the plate and inhales it whole?