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четверг, 5 февраля 2009 г.

How Important is Physical Attraction to You?

For some people in relationships, their physical attraction to their partners or lovers could falter. Time and again, males find other ladies physically pleasing to their eyes as they go out. At times, most guys notice somebody else out there even if they are already with their significant others. This is actually a sort of physical attraction check as they go out anywhere. Hmmm...so what do you think are some of the reasons why people in love or currently in relationship status be physically attracted to anybody else aside from their partners? Well for one, some merely look at others with no undue malice or ulterior motives at all, but since they find anybody else which caught their eyes-well they can't help it if they're really attracted.

There are some people who never raise eyebrows regarding this matter and just view this as being normal-part of human nature. While some people still thinks that having feelings outside or even physical attraction for other individuals is deemed to be wrong. Okay, another question: why will a person still be looking at other eye candies if they can always look at that special someone which they're already committed to? Most persons find their daily activities such as physical attraction checking for a variety of reasons. And one of the major ones is the lack of attraction for their own partners or lovers.

Yes, it is true and somewhat pretty natural. If at all, being in a relationship (seriously committed or flings) does not in any way change anything as far as physical attraction is concerned. Well, although you might argue that it's not the same in your relationship with your partner, I can still say that it's a case-to-case basis although this is generally the logic when it comes to attractiveness. Let's face it-people are always going to find more than just one human being to be attractive or good looking-because beauty as they say is what pleases the eyes. In short, just because you're in a relationship right now, doesn't mean you're off-limits in finding others to be worthy of a second look.

But it's totally a different story if a person can no longer contain their admiration and can't keep it to themselves alone, so they are frequently on the lookout for somebody else. Well, it's quite natural for eyes to look around, yet if doing this almost habitually, now that must be dealt with-this is where you set your parameters or limits when it comes to physical attraction. Sometimes it happens though-eyes "roaming around outside" when not enough physical attraction is present with the significant other. Therefore, it's been found out that in some relationships, their lovers may not be their ideal type-physically, though they really love or even compatible with the partners they're with.

There are those who place too much importance on looks, but some simply look past this, and are just happy with the right one-with a great personality which therefore is pretty much "perfect" for them.

Courtship Tips For Women

Courtshipping is different then dating. Courting is more like being friends without the emotional or sexual involvement. If this sounds like something you would be interested in then read on for some great courtship tips. "To court" actually prepares people for a healthy relationship/marriage, while dating subconsciously prepares people for a relationship/marriage without respect and commitment. Why is that? Let's find out.

Get To Know Him Based On Respect

The word "courting" can be labeled as dating by society, but we cannot compare apples with oranges - they are two different things. Sex is almost always a given in a dating relationship. In a dating relationship you may not really know the man you are with. He may seem evasive and not like to talk about himself. That is a red flag of dating. You may never meet his parents before the relationship crumbles? He may not care to meet your parents. All you know about him is what he has told you. He most likely has dated and had sex with several other women before you. Who knows if he has a venereal disease, AIDS, HIV - who knows.

Courtshipping is getting to know each other through respect of each other. Sex is never an issue and should never be. It is regarding yourself with respect and regarding him with respect. The minute you become trapped in the sexual schemes of dating you have lost the battle with self-respect and you will get hurt. That is what dating is - love them and dump them.But usually with dating there is really no love involved.

Who is this guy who suddenly shows up in your life? Is he considerate of your feelings or does he seem selfish and egotistical - only out for one thing? A man who genuinely likes you will behave respectful. He will respect you for who you are, not for what you can do for him or what he can receive from you.

Let Him Get To Know You Based On Respect

Be honest about who you are, right from the start. Don't beat around the bush, letting him think you will have sex with him. Let him know right off the bat that no sex is one of your boundaries and you will not give in. If he walks away, great. If he decides to stay for the ride, that's great too, but certainly doesn't mean he is a good guy. Tread lightly by only being friends.

It's ok to talk about yourself and your likes and dislikes. Talk about what you feel comfortable about divulging, but do not play on his ego and give him any private information that will involve the two of you emotionally. Don't let him be the savior/hero who comes into to rescue you from something going on in your life. Don't get personal with him about your problems or family...until you can see that he can be trusted. Some things are left unsaid until the relationship evolves from just friends to trusted friends.

Don't Give In Sexually

If a man really, really cares for you and is serious about you as a possible marriage prospect he will respect your boundaries and not ask you for sex. So don't ever put yourself in a situation where either one of you will become tempted and give in - because that could ruin the relationship. This means that you should probably never go out alone together but always bring a sister, brother, mother, or another friend or couple to come a long with you. This is preferable and practical in a courting relationship.

Temptation can be hard to overcome, especially if we tell ourselves there is really nothing wrong with having sex with someone we have known for months. If you break the courtship rules and have sex it will change the relationship immensely. It will change your attitude towards one another - it will begin to cause numerous problems within the purity of the relationship that could harm it considerably. Jealousy, suspicion, control, resentment, and all kinds of negative emotions begin to play out because now you are just dating. That's what dating is.

Don't Get Emotionally Involved

The minute you allow your emotions to rule a relationship you're now dating. Dating is a negative sexual agenda that almost always ends negatively, even if you happen to get married. Couples who have dated many partners before marriage aren't prepared for marriage because they really do not understand the difference between dating and marriage. Courtshipping is about respect and commitment, and getting to know someone better for the prospect of a possible marriage partner. It is not to see what you can get from a relationship, but rather what the relationship can become.

How to Make a Woman Stick to You (Until the End of Time)

Let's face it, guys - we all have been in those difficult situations where no matter how hard we try, the woman just plain not interested. You might try all the tricks up your sleeve and pull out all the stops but she just doesn't respond to your advances. You know that she is not going to date you - or worse, not really even THAT excited to see you in the first place. Disheartening, isn't it?

Have you wondered why that happens? Most men do know HOW to talk to females, but CAPTURING their attention and interest is a different story altogether. There are some important and deadly effective techniques which you should use if you intend to capture her interest and make her captivated with you for long. Read on to discover what these techniques are, and achieve fast, killer results...

Two Killer Methods To Make A Woman Stick To You...Forever!

Method Number One - "Kill That Neediness". First, you have got to stop the emotional dependency on the woman. Strangely, if you get too attached to a woman (and worse, you blatantly show it to her), her attraction to you will soon drop to zero. One sure way to stop being emotionally dependent on one woman is simple - go out with as many women as you can!

(Advanced) Method Number Two - "The Fractionation Tactic". This is a (slightly) advanced hypnosis technique where a guy is reputed to be able to make a girl want to sleep with him in 14 minutes or even less.

This is how this technique works. By making the woman go through a proverbial 'emotional rollercoaster', you would make the her get emotionally addicted to you if you 'anchor' (or associate) her pleasure (or happy) states with you in a conversation. Very powerful stuff - but highly controversial.

Getting the Girl - Tips For Beginners

Getting the girl can be a real challenge for a lot of men, but that's only because no one ever taught them how to do it. It's not a topic that's taught in schools, after all. Most men don't know that getting the girl of their dreams is an entirely achievable goal, even if the girl seems out of reach at first. All it takes is the right techniques, and that's what you're about to learn.

Many men say they're looking for the woman of their dreams, but they don't really know what that means to them. They don't have a real idea of what their perfect girl looks like. Getting the girl isn't going to happen until you have a clear idea of exactly what you want! So, how do you find out? Ask yourself about the qualities you would like in your ideal woman. What types of things are important to you in a woman's personality and character? Once you get a picture of her in your mind, you'll be able to use it as a guide and find your dream girl faster.

Of course, you'll have some "deal breakers." Every man does. These are characteristics that would cause you to not be able to be with a girl for the long-term. If you're just looking for a one night stand or a brief fling, you don't have to pay as much attention to deal breakers. However, if you're looking for a lasting relationship, you need to give your deal breakers some consideration and refuse to settle for anything less than your dream girl. If you settle in the name of instant gratification, you'll regret it later, guaranteed.

Pay close attention to her personality, as well. Personality lasts a lot longer than looks, so if you're with a girl whose personality you hate, but whose looks you love, you're not going to be happy with her forever. That said, you need to be physically attracted to her as well, if you're going to be happy together for a long time to come. Find a woman who has both the personality AND looks you're after, and you'll both be happy.

Having an idea of what you really want is the first step to getting the girl of your dreams. Take some time to figure it out now, and save yourself a lot of heartbreak and hassle in the future. One night stands are one thing, but a lasting relationship is quite another. Which one do YOU want?

Top Three Ways to Ruin a First Date

Everyone who has ever gone on a date can appreciate how difficult it can sometimes be to establish a strong chemistry with the person whose sitting across the table from you.  There are many things that you can do right during a date, but there are far more ways that you can immediately destroy a first date.  Avoiding the top three ways to ruin a first date will insure that you can at least enjoy a level playing field with all of the other daters out there who are looking for true love.

How to Avoid the Top Five Ways to Ruin a First Date

Print out this list if you have to, but the following items are the most important things that you'll want to avoid if you hope to have a successful first date.  Keep in mind that this isn't a "things to do on a date" list, this list is far more important.  These are things that you should never do on a first date, or any other date for that matter.

Talk About Yourself Too Much

Social scientists have proven that people who are offered an opportunity to talk about themselves report having a far greater social interaction than when they are forced to listen to someone else speak.  This is because even the most modest people in the world ultimately enjoys sharing their own experiences with others.  This is why writers write, and this is why many job interviews where the interviewer does most of the talking usually ends on a very positive note.  People love talking about themselves.

This is why, when you're on your first date, always try to ask questions about the other person, and avoid talking too much about yourself.  That isn't to say that you shouldn't answer any questions that your date poses to you, it just means that when you're finished answering, you should immediately ask to learn more about your date.  By doing this, you're not only encouraging the person you're dating to talk about themselves, but you're also showing that you aren't self-centered, and that you're sincerely interested in your date.

Space Invaders

Avoid invading the other person's space.  This is one of the fastest turn-offs, especially for women.  Maintain a good space between yourself and your date, unless an opportunity presents itself for a slight touch. Use every opportunity that arises if you can.  After a joke or anything that makes you both laugh, gently place your hand on your date's hand or forearm, and when you're both done laughing, remove your hand.  Do it fast enough so that your date hardly has time to register what happened.  The effect will be that they will instantly relish the feeling of the brief touch, and before the night is over, they will long for more.  Don't get carried away with these moments of contact - just a few during the date will establish very strong chances that by the end of the night the chemistry and buildup of passionate tension will be quite strong.

Dining Etiquette

This should go without saying, but if your date involves eating out (as most dates do), make sure you understand good dining etiquette.  There are very simple aspects to dining etiquette that many people don't realize, like putting your napkin on your lap, keeping your arms off the table, and how to eat certain foods neatly.  By understanding how to dine like a gentleman or like a lady, your date will immediately recognize your maturity and well-mannered nature.  If you were raised in a household with very little etiquette, then take the time to learn.  Buy a book on dining etiquette for dummies, and read it carefully.  Practice it while dining out with friends.  In the end, having good manners will greatly increase your chances of having a very successful first date.

Top Three Ways to Ruin a First Date

Everyone who has ever gone on a date can appreciate how difficult it can sometimes be to establish a strong chemistry with the person whose sitting across the table from you.  There are many things that you can do right during a date, but there are far more ways that you can immediately destroy a first date.  Avoiding the top three ways to ruin a first date will insure that you can at least enjoy a level playing field with all of the other daters out there who are looking for true love.

How to Avoid the Top Five Ways to Ruin a First Date

Print out this list if you have to, but the following items are the most important things that you'll want to avoid if you hope to have a successful first date.  Keep in mind that this isn't a "things to do on a date" list, this list is far more important.  These are things that you should never do on a first date, or any other date for that matter.

Talk About Yourself Too Much

Social scientists have proven that people who are offered an opportunity to talk about themselves report having a far greater social interaction than when they are forced to listen to someone else speak.  This is because even the most modest people in the world ultimately enjoys sharing their own experiences with others.  This is why writers write, and this is why many job interviews where the interviewer does most of the talking usually ends on a very positive note.  People love talking about themselves.

This is why, when you're on your first date, always try to ask questions about the other person, and avoid talking too much about yourself.  That isn't to say that you shouldn't answer any questions that your date poses to you, it just means that when you're finished answering, you should immediately ask to learn more about your date.  By doing this, you're not only encouraging the person you're dating to talk about themselves, but you're also showing that you aren't self-centered, and that you're sincerely interested in your date.

Space Invaders

Avoid invading the other person's space.  This is one of the fastest turn-offs, especially for women.  Maintain a good space between yourself and your date, unless an opportunity presents itself for a slight touch. Use every opportunity that arises if you can.  After a joke or anything that makes you both laugh, gently place your hand on your date's hand or forearm, and when you're both done laughing, remove your hand.  Do it fast enough so that your date hardly has time to register what happened.  The effect will be that they will instantly relish the feeling of the brief touch, and before the night is over, they will long for more.  Don't get carried away with these moments of contact - just a few during the date will establish very strong chances that by the end of the night the chemistry and buildup of passionate tension will be quite strong.

Dining Etiquette

This should go without saying, but if your date involves eating out (as most dates do), make sure you understand good dining etiquette.  There are very simple aspects to dining etiquette that many people don't realize, like putting your napkin on your lap, keeping your arms off the table, and how to eat certain foods neatly.  By understanding how to dine like a gentleman or like a lady, your date will immediately recognize your maturity and well-mannered nature.  If you were raised in a household with very little etiquette, then take the time to learn.  Buy a book on dining etiquette for dummies, and read it carefully.  Practice it while dining out with friends.  In the end, having good manners will greatly increase your chances of having a very successful first date.

Top Three Ways to Ruin a First Date

Everyone who has ever gone on a date can appreciate how difficult it can sometimes be to establish a strong chemistry with the person whose sitting across the table from you.  There are many things that you can do right during a date, but there are far more ways that you can immediately destroy a first date.  Avoiding the top three ways to ruin a first date will insure that you can at least enjoy a level playing field with all of the other daters out there who are looking for true love.

How to Avoid the Top Five Ways to Ruin a First Date

Print out this list if you have to, but the following items are the most important things that you'll want to avoid if you hope to have a successful first date.  Keep in mind that this isn't a "things to do on a date" list, this list is far more important.  These are things that you should never do on a first date, or any other date for that matter.

Talk About Yourself Too Much

Social scientists have proven that people who are offered an opportunity to talk about themselves report having a far greater social interaction than when they are forced to listen to someone else speak.  This is because even the most modest people in the world ultimately enjoys sharing their own experiences with others.  This is why writers write, and this is why many job interviews where the interviewer does most of the talking usually ends on a very positive note.  People love talking about themselves.

This is why, when you're on your first date, always try to ask questions about the other person, and avoid talking too much about yourself.  That isn't to say that you shouldn't answer any questions that your date poses to you, it just means that when you're finished answering, you should immediately ask to learn more about your date.  By doing this, you're not only encouraging the person you're dating to talk about themselves, but you're also showing that you aren't self-centered, and that you're sincerely interested in your date.

Space Invaders

Avoid invading the other person's space.  This is one of the fastest turn-offs, especially for women.  Maintain a good space between yourself and your date, unless an opportunity presents itself for a slight touch. Use every opportunity that arises if you can.  After a joke or anything that makes you both laugh, gently place your hand on your date's hand or forearm, and when you're both done laughing, remove your hand.  Do it fast enough so that your date hardly has time to register what happened.  The effect will be that they will instantly relish the feeling of the brief touch, and before the night is over, they will long for more.  Don't get carried away with these moments of contact - just a few during the date will establish very strong chances that by the end of the night the chemistry and buildup of passionate tension will be quite strong.

Dining Etiquette

This should go without saying, but if your date involves eating out (as most dates do), make sure you understand good dining etiquette.  There are very simple aspects to dining etiquette that many people don't realize, like putting your napkin on your lap, keeping your arms off the table, and how to eat certain foods neatly.  By understanding how to dine like a gentleman or like a lady, your date will immediately recognize your maturity and well-mannered nature.  If you were raised in a household with very little etiquette, then take the time to learn.  Buy a book on dining etiquette for dummies, and read it carefully.  Practice it while dining out with friends.  In the end, having good manners will greatly increase your chances of having a very successful first date.

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