If you are one of those guys wondering how one guy gets all the girls; what does this guy have that I don't? The answer might surprise you, absolutely nothing!! I don't care if this guy has a great body, gorgeous eyes, and drives a sports car he does not have an advantage over you unless you let him.
It's not hard to learn how to attract women consistently, I'm not saying it's easy; but it is fun and pay's off. If you want to learn how to attract women then you have to understand how women work. The most important theory to understand is attraction is not a choice. There are ways to show her your personality so that you tug on those inherent attraction switches in women. Once you have a firm understanding of social dynamics you will be able to understand how to attract women, how to pick up women, and all the why's behind this.
By understanding the social dynamics you will get a better understanding of what women are attracted to psychologically and socially. In today's dating world beautiful women get approached hundreds of times a week and build up psychological defenses to deal with it. The key is to learn how to break those defenses down. Beautiful women get approached by the same type of men all the time, if you can show her that your are different and better than all those other men she will respect you and maybe even open up to you. This is the type of psychological advantage that men have been understanding and using with success for a while now. It is also very important to read the physical indicators of interest as well as the psychological ones.
When you first meet a women there has to be an attraction, and to build on that attraction there needs to be a little flirting going on. By this I mean she might flirt with you and put her hand on your knee and you might put your hand on her lower back very lightly. Don't make the mistake of being to shy and awkward around women, this can sometimes come across as being disinterested and cold. In order to have a healthy relationship it's important to make sure physical contact is a natural part of your relationship. There are some steps you can do to make this happen.
First, when you meet a women it's OK to increase the closeness you feel by touching her on the arm or hand. This will show her that you are a friendly and warm person. Second you want to keep up physical contact and make it a normal part of your relationship. For example, you can touch the small of her back to show her which direction to go. Keeping physical contact will help you form a bond with her so she won't forget you. Now don't get too aggressive and make her feel uncomfortable. Look for her to respond to you positively and she should also make gestures of physical contact to show that she is interested in you.
Attracting women is not rocket science, if you follow these tips you should be able to attract the women of your dreams. And of course always be a gentlemen, men that treat women like dirt only attract women that have low self-esteem and are young and naive. You can easily attract a beautiful woman if you give her the respect that she deserves.
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