5 Ways to Have Success With Dating

Having success with dating does not take a lot. It just needs you to know the basic steps and practice to follow the 5 ways to have success with dating.

1. Be Humorous

Humor is the best medicine. In fact, humor is the best ice-breaker. Find a sincere note on the person you would like to know and poke in simple laughter.

2. Be yourself at your best

Being yourself is important but it is more important to be at your best. Be at your best personality and be polite. The person at the receiving end will appreciate your effort.

3. Think attraction, not impression

Feel attracted to the person and think the other person is really attracted to you. Good emotions evoke you to speak with charisma and gives a very complete experience of you. Instead of trying to impress, think of how to attract and make your companion be attracted to you.

4. Touch

Humans loved to be hugged just like when we were babies and we loved to be held by our mothers. It's is one of the strongest affection and it makes the human mind filled with tens of thousands of euphoria electrical signals. Give your companion like pat and tap on her wrist and forearm so she knows you are attracted to her.

5. Have fun and be Spontaneous

Most importantly, enjoy the activity and be very engaged. People like people who are committed and focused on having fun. Usually, the sparkle of confidence comes from being very involved in the activities and it actually helps to bring out the best in you.

10 Excuses For Not Approaching Women!

This probably is the most overly discussed topic yet the most important topic. I was coaching this student last night. He told me he was real afraid of approaching women and in his mind he cannot attract beautiful women. I asked him to write a list of things he is afraid of. When we discussed that list it was obvious that his fears were nothing but excuses. In fact for a long time I labeled my excuses as fears as well. But now I know that most of your fears are mere excuses or myths and if you do not push yourself to face them you will spend most of your life hurting. So one more time I am listing some of these excuses here from my book "Social Mastery". Hope you read them and make a commitment to get rid of your excuses, take action and approach those beautiful women. Make a promise right now to approach two women today after reading this post.

Here are some excuses or internal conflicts that prevent us from making the move:

1. I am not good looking.

Most guys are not good looking, and most women are more attracted to personality than looks. In fact, good looks in men has its own set of challenges. They come across as players and women don't trust them. I cannot tell you how often I have to bring my value down when I am not even good looking. If you display qualities that women are attracted to , nothing else matters. Remember Seal marrying Heidi Klum! Do I need to say more? So you know there are factors other than looks that can get you the Woman. In fact, these other factors are what get you the woman MOST of the time.

2. Everyone will laugh at me when I get rejected.

Only if you act rejected. No one knows you got rejected unless you leave the set crushed. When a set ends or you get rejected, be a man, smile, shake hands, and say it was nice talking to you anyways, have fun and leave with a smile on your face. Besides, women usually are very polite when they reject you. And if they do, NO BIG DEAL! Everyone including me gets rejected.

3. She probably has a boyfriend.

She probably does, she probably does not! And it means nothing. She might be dating him to land that role she has been dying to get or because she has not met anyone like you yet but she does not want to come across as a loser by being single. I could publish a whole book with stories of women leaving their boyfriend and husbands for someone else.

4. That guy is probably her boyfriend.

Only way to find out is by approaching her. If he is her boyfriend, he won't kill you. Remember, 8 out of 10 times the guy will be her friend because women do not go out alone and they feel more secure with a guy to prevent the losers from approaching them. In fact, approaching a woman who is with guys raises your value. You have to be a confident, ballsy guy to be able to do that.

Recently, I was with a student. I sent him to open a set on the dance floor. This woman was with three guys. I was at a distance when he opened the set. Five minutes later I saw him surrounded with three guys and I thought he needed help. I walk into the set and find out that these three guys are traveling from Europe and that woman was with them. In a short time, they had become good friends with my student and also ended up telling him that she was single and that he should make the move. Now I have to admit, had I realized early on that she was with three guys, I probably would have not sent this student to open her, this being his first time in the field, but then I would have done a huge disservice to him. Valuable lesson learned! Go open and don't worry about dynamics. Let it play out! You'll be surprised!

5. She will think poorly of me if I approach her. I will lose value for approaching her.

Au contraire. She will have more respect for you for approaching her than not approaching her. After all, they go out themselves to meet men. I was once recording live pick up in a bar. A group of women approached me. We had a discussion on this and they agreed that they would rather have guys approach them then not approach them. In fact, can you imagine how crushed they will be if no one approaches them! You are only respecting them by approaching them. They know it and will only confess it to confident men.

6. She spotted me with other girl.

Congratulations! You have real high value in her eyes! Women love a man that other women want as well. That is why all the rock stars get laid all the time. In fact, you will lose value if you don't flirt with other women. One of my ex-girlfriends confessed that she would always let her boyfriend flirt with other women because it increased his confidence and her jealousy level which resulted in good sex. No need to apologize for being sexual!

7. I don't have much to say.

Not after reading my book "Social Mastery" and doing the exercises I ask you to do! You will have enough material to use. And if not, you will create it while in action. Start the conversation with high energy and se the magic unfold. Your high energy will automatically drive the conversation in the right direction.

8. She is sitting in the corner by the wall.

Good news-seduction will be easy. You don't have to look for an isolated corner and this will also ensure less distraction. Also, if she is sitting in a corner, chances are she is shy, so you will need to do more talking at first. It also means she has not been approached much that night. It also means she will thank you for helping her have fun or she would have been bored the entire night. I cannot insist any stronger than this: WOMEN ARE DYING FOR YOU TO APPROACH THEM! THEY WANT THE SAME THING YOU DO! So be a Man and seduce her. She will thank you for that!

9. I am not in the mood.

Excellent-go and talk to her to get out of the gloomy mood you are caught in. And for Christ sake, stop making the damn excuses!

10. I'll start tomorrow.

There is no tomorrow! Back when I was going to school in New Jersey, I was living in a town house. We were four guys and four girls in the house. I was very attracted to a girl and initially she was attracted to me as well. One night there was a senior party. She asked me if I was coming and "I was not in the mood". There was tomorrow to seduce her. My roommate ended up making the move at her while partying with her. I was pissed the entire night hearing him having sex with her. AND REMEMBER TOMORROW YOU WILL AGAIN SAY "I'LL START TOMORROW!"

I can only give you advise, I cannot make you go and do what you are supposed to do. Need motivation? The sooner you start your journey, the sooner you will reach your destination. Everything else can wait!

RULE:

From now on, anytime you have an excuse as to why you should not approach the woman, you have to approach her just to prove yourself that you were not making an excuse.

Good Luck and Be Happy!

The Best Ways to Meet Women in Your Area

Meeting women isn't always an easy task. Although you most likely encounter many different women on a daily basis, it can be hard to find one that you actually want to date. It's unlikely that your hot office mate will turn into your next date - too awkward and likely against policy. Picking women up at the bar is simply cliché and doesn't work well most of the time.

And randomly running into someone at the mall or the park or the coffee shop is, well, too random. They're there, but they might not want you to approach them there. So what's a guy to do? Instead of leaving it all to chance, there are several activities you can get involved in that will give you the perfect opportunity to meet women that you want to date.

Think about how you met women back in high school or college: it was likely because you had a class with them, right? When you spend day after day in a classroom with someone, you not only get to know them, but already have something in common as well. Why not use that same method to find women now that you're out of school?

One of the best ways to meet women is by taking a continuing education class and striking up a conversation with one of your fellow students. It really makes no difference what type of class you choose to take. As long as it's a class that's of general interest, it's a good time to make a new acquaintance and work towards getting a date. Consider cooking or wine tasting classes - the already romantic environment will help you to strike up that initial conversation.

Another great idea is taking a class do learn how to dance. Forget those dorky ballroom dancing classes you may have seen depicted on TV. Today, you can take dance classes with trendy groups of people and meet your ideal woman along the way.

Many dance bars and clubs offer dance lessons on slower nights during the week as well. What better setting to meet your match - part social, part learning, totally fun. If your local bars do not offer events like this, there are sure to be schools around - even high schools! - that do. While halfway through learning how to rumba, you'll be asking for her phone number.

Once upon a time, busy professionals turn to personal ads in newspapers for help in finding dates. This is still considered one of the best ways to meet women, although with the advent of advanced technology, times have changed.

Forget the newspaper; instead, log on to the internet and your next date is only a few clicks away. Quite a number of online personals sites exist, allowing you to post a profile and search the profiles of others. Although some charge fees, there are still options available for free as well.

Among the best ways to meet women, these three options stand out. Give them a try - one at a time of course - and you'll be well on your way to meeting a woman that you want to date!

How to Tell If a Woman is Flirting With You - 3 Signs to Know

Most women are born flirts. Maybe they are even born into this world knowing how to flirt. I've never seen volumes of material trying to instruct women in the art of flirting. It would be about as useful as instructions on how to breathe.

Men, on the other hand, must learn how to flirt and even recognize when a woman is flirting with them so they can return the favor. Here are some certain signs that a woman is flirting with you:

She Keeps Glancing at You
If every time you glance her way, she is glancing your way, it's a pretty good indication she is flirting with you but if she drops her glance it could mean that she is interested buy shy. Get up, walk over to her, introduce yourself and start a conversation.

If her glance includes a smile then that is an open invitation for you to make the first move. If she goes out of her way to get you to notice her, that my friend, is flirting!

If, on her way from point A to point B, she takes an unnecessary detour through point C (you), she might be trying to get your attention. For instance, if she walks by your table "on her way" to the washroom in a coffee shop, but your table is located at the opposite end of the restrooms, she is probably interested. Why else would she be taking the long way? If she smiles at you on her way, consider your job half done.

When Women Play with Their Hair, They are Flirting
A woman's hair really is her 'crowning glory' in her opinion. Why else would they get so upset over a bad haircut? When you see a woman who is glancing at you, smiling AND twirling her fingers in her hair...go get 'em, tiger.

If she talks to you first - that is a sure sign of serious flirting on her part. Taking the first step to initiate a connection with you is a huge sign that she's interested.

"You Remind me of Someone I Know"
If she tells you something like "You remind me of someone I know," which begs a response and subsequent conversation, that's a concrete sign.

Compliments are another sure sign she is flirting with you... especially if she compliments you on your physique. Women are sparse with compliments, so if she throws one your way, you can pat yourself on the back.

Touching you on purpose is definitely flirting. When a woman breaks the contact barrier during a conversation, it is almost a sure sign that she's interested. It can be as obvious as touching your arm or knee while making a point, or as faint as having her knees come into contact with yours under the table. But you must make sure that she makes the first skin convergence.

Laughing at your jokes when you are in a group of other people is a sure sign she is flirting with you. When you relate a funny story, does she throw her head back in riotous laughter or does she just look at you and say, "Is that supposed to be funny?" Flirting involves reactions to a person, so if she acts captivated by your words, you're in the green. Other reactions that convey approval include asking "really?", "wow" and opening her mouth in amused disbelief.