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четверг, 2 апреля 2009 г.

Relationship Problem Advice - Dating Mistakes to Avoid

I bet that you search for that special person or someone who means a world for your and soul mate everywhere and you never was sure was is the right person. There is a chance that you are doing things right, but also, there is a possibility that you are doing a lot in a wrong way. Thing that probably can guarantee failure or unsuccessful love story, which will lead to a broken heart.

Today aggressiveness, perfection, hard working and some lies are all factors of the success and ways to achieve your goals.

However, the same qualities which were mentioned above can have negative consequences when you are looking for somebody on online dating websites and even when you are off line.

There is a huge difference between being self confident and aggressive, and too self confident and too aggressive, or just slimy or plain sleazy from a women frame of reference. If you will reduce the distance between both of you, you will across overdoing things, which is not always necessary to achieve your goals. It can even lead you that you will loose your self confidence when you will see that woman does not allow you that close.

Try to concentrate on the outcome not on the business deal you are going to close at the moment. Try to maintain your relationship progressing slowly but continuously. Remember: Rome was not built in one day.

You will never find a perfect person, you are looking for, because there is a simple reason: we are all flawed in some way or another... You also are a part of that group. If you expect somebody to be exactly what you are looking for and demand that, you will be never satisfied, indeed disappointed. Struggling perfectionism in your acts and work is one thing but trying to demand it from others is absolutely another thing.

Demanding perfectionism from a fellow, business partner or a woman you are interested in isn't just fine. It will not happen. Expect that somebody is not perfect and just try to overcome them. Decide the ones you can deal with and one you can not.

Little tiny lies and false fronts will not work. Be honest from the early beginning of your relationship. Write your profile ads based on your experience. Make it interesting but do not make false or any unreal statements.

The truth will come out anyway and you will be on the fool place. If you say you are a lawyer who generates a million dollars a year and recently you are a waiter that makes 75K, you have set yourself up for a failure.

Remember, do not be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.

How to Attract Women Night After Night - Use the Alpha Male Attitude & Women Will Want You!

Women have certain triggers that, if you know how to hit, will cause them to lust over you. I'm talking about ways to make a woman fall for you right away. It isn't hard. You simply must change your mindset and become the alpha male. Women are naturally attracted to the Alpha Male, and will choose him over any other man every time. Are you ready to join the ranks of those who never spend a night alone? This is a change you will not regret.

I'm sharing this because I know how it is. Going out every night, looking for a woman I can convince to come home with me. I got frustrated and started reading everything I could about attracting women. What I learned is that women just want the Alpha Male. The man with confidence. The man in charge of every situation.

Women love guys with massive self confidence. The Alpha Male can walk into any situation and pick his companion for the evening. It's science. Women are programmed to want to mate with the man on top. Not some useless underlings. Given the choice, a woman will always stay with the Alpha Male.

I want you to stop spending money on girls, spend some on yourself and become an Alpha Male today. You deserve to do this for yourself!

Get the self-confidence that you deserve. It really does change the rules of the game. I promise you that you will notice a difference the first time you head out on the town!

Flirting Tips

When guys want to flirt with women, they usually do the entirely wrong things. But they can hardly be faulted. After all, who has taken the trouble to teach them? What you do want to avoid is the misguided notion that women are attracted to big strapping guys who cut down trees and kill small animals.

But did you know that certain androgynous characteristics help a person become close to attractive women? And what is the number one thing you can do in terms of flirting which so-called masculine men rarely do? Touch. You need to learn the art of touching. Now for the extremely masculine man, touching means hot-and-heavy kissing, sexual touching, and trying to get her straight into bed. What guys like this find difficult is reaching a middle ground between ordinary touching (shaking hands, etc.) and highly sexual touching. This is where we reach the androgynous zones. You need to learn to know how to give a woman a light touch on the arm, a touch to the hair, a hand squeeze.

One of the best flirting tips is knowing what to avoid. You do want to avoid touching sexual zones--breasts, pubic regions, and butt-at this stage of the process. These are off limits for now. Not only are they not "flirting" but they will kill your game.

Other flirting tips you should be aware of: if she mentions a current or ex boyfriend or husband, you should never denigrate him no matter what she says about him. The very minute you start jumping into the game and sending negative comments in his direction, she will start to defend him.

Be aware that you need to get your target woman in an emotional state. No, we don't mean you need to make her cry. What we mean is that everything you say and do needs to be directed in an emotional direction. Seduction and attraction are emotional; therefore everything leading up to it has to be in the same emotional vein.

For example, you never want to talk about ordinary impersonal things like cars, weather, politics, etc. The problem is not that they are dull and boring (even though they are) but that they do not involve emotions. Even if the emotions that you evoke from her are negative, this is still far better than any kind of conversation that does not involve emotions

Leaving a Great Impression and Knowing How to Talk to a Woman

Knowing how to talk to a woman and leaving her with a great impression is a great skill to possess. It is a major social skill for one to know how to leave great impressions just by using small talk.

In order to leave a good impression on the woman of your choosing, you need to initiate the conversation with a nice hello, and then follow her lead. Women are particular in that they aren't that excited to carry on a conversation that is boring. If you pay attention to her body language, you can learn about her feelings and how she feels about the conversation. So to keep the conversation going, make sure it is interesting and she has something to look forward to.

The most common mistake the men make when talking to women, is telling all there is know about them. But that takes the fun out of the woman getting to know you. By leaving some things to suspense, she will want to continue the conversation. But, first, you have to initiate the conversation. This can be done with a conversation starter that lightens the moment, as these conversations can be a little on the awkward side.

The manners and personality that you display is very telling about you, and the woman can learn a lot about you. Learning things about her by using questions is a good way to get the conversation going. But don't fire questions at her, or she will quickly walk away. Ask questions that require her to open up and listen to what she has to say. Really listen and show her that you are interested in what she has to say.

By letting her take the lead of the conversation and following along with her, you can confidently talk to a woman. You can also leave her with a great impression of you if you make comments on what she has to say, which shows that you have listened and followed along the conversation with her.

Leaving a Great Impression and Knowing How to Talk to a Woman

Knowing how to talk to a woman and leaving her with a great impression is a great skill to possess. It is a major social skill for one to know how to leave great impressions just by using small talk.

In order to leave a good impression on the woman of your choosing, you need to initiate the conversation with a nice hello, and then follow her lead. Women are particular in that they aren't that excited to carry on a conversation that is boring. If you pay attention to her body language, you can learn about her feelings and how she feels about the conversation. So to keep the conversation going, make sure it is interesting and she has something to look forward to.

The most common mistake the men make when talking to women, is telling all there is know about them. But that takes the fun out of the woman getting to know you. By leaving some things to suspense, she will want to continue the conversation. But, first, you have to initiate the conversation. This can be done with a conversation starter that lightens the moment, as these conversations can be a little on the awkward side.

The manners and personality that you display is very telling about you, and the woman can learn a lot about you. Learning things about her by using questions is a good way to get the conversation going. But don't fire questions at her, or she will quickly walk away. Ask questions that require her to open up and listen to what she has to say. Really listen and show her that you are interested in what she has to say.

By letting her take the lead of the conversation and following along with her, you can confidently talk to a woman. You can also leave her with a great impression of you if you make comments on what she has to say, which shows that you have listened and followed along the conversation with her.

How to Become an Adventurous Woman That Every Man Wants

If you are like most women, then chances are you are always on the lookout for new ways to be appealing to the opposite sex. If you look around you, you will notice that everything from books and magazines to talk shows and websites aim to show how to make a man want you. Aside from these sources of information, many brands of cosmetics, clothing, perfume and accessories carry out their marketing campaign by boasting how their product will make you more attractive to men.

It's not enough to be pretty

It's true that knowing how to make a man want you involves knowing what clothes to wear, what hairstyle to try and what type of makeup to put on. There's already enough TV commercials and billboards to show us how to look right, but what about the next step after looking good? A woman's openness to new experiences is a trait that doesn't get enough time in the limelight. Yet if you ask any guy, he'll tell you that a gal who is ready to try new adventures always rates high in his sexy meter.

This fact does not really come as a surprise. If you put yourself in the guy's shoes, you'll understand what it's all about. Once you find a guy you like and he likes you back, then you would naturally go on regular dates. During the first few dates, you'll probably do generic date activities, such as going out to dinner, watching a movie or going on a romantic picnic. Pretty soon, however, the two of you would most likely look for more exciting things to do.

If you want to be his ideal girl, you should be willing enough to do new things and accommodate his interests. This means trying spicy Indian food or going rollerskating to going bungee jumping or trekking the Himalayas. If he's into something that's not really your cup of tea, why not settle for a trade-off? You'll watch a kick boxing match this weekend if he agrees to go salsa dancing with you next week.

Guys like women who are able to keep up with them, not pampered princesses who are cooped up in the powder room for the duration of the date. So if you want to know how to make a man want you, try to learn being open to new experiences. Who knows, you may end up gaining a new hobby even if the relationship doesn't last.

Get Your Confidence With Women Mastered

Confidence with women is something every man in the world would love to posses. We would all love to have more self confidence in this area. Let's be honest, we would all be happier if we could attract beautiful women with ease. If we saw a hot, sexy women walking down the street and we could just calmly walk up to her and start an interaction that leads to immediate attraction, and you walking off with her number. Or even better, walking off with her to have a coffee. That would simply be an awesome experience, don't you agree?

The problem is, many men have heard of pick up artists. They will sit in their bedrooms and absorb information after information about how to talk to women. They try to learn every technique possible to approach women and attract women. There is where the problem lies. You can learn all the material you like but, trust me, it will never (and I mean never) get you any girls on its own. You still have to get out there and put this material to the test. The thing is, it can be so nerve-wracking and can feel like you are jumping into the deep end. Think of it like this: you do not go to the gym for a week and become buff, or take music lessons once and become a rock legend. It takes time, effort and practice. Well, confidence around women in the same way takes time, effort and practice.

What most men really need is practice out in the real world. You need to start with the easy stuff. Here are a few examples of what I did when approaching women for the first time. This enabled me to build up some confidence. This meant I was more confident when it came to using the material I had learned.

Here are some tips to build more confidence with women:

* Go round your local town asking women what the time is.

* Asking women where a particular building or place is.

* Slightly more advanced: give them a compliment about their hair, clothes, shoes, etc. (but don't wait for a reply).

This will build up your confidence to approach women. There is no real end goal. You are not thinking of picking them up. Once you can do the above without too much anxiety, move onto the material that you have learned. You will be nowhere near as anxious as you would normally be. This will help your chances of attracting women massively.

Try it, you will be pleasantly surprised when your confidence with women skyrockets and you start attracting women left right and centre.

How to Become an Adventurous Woman That Every Man Wants

If you are like most women, then chances are you are always on the lookout for new ways to be appealing to the opposite sex. If you look around you, you will notice that everything from books and magazines to talk shows and websites aim to show how to make a man want you. Aside from these sources of information, many brands of cosmetics, clothing, perfume and accessories carry out their marketing campaign by boasting how their product will make you more attractive to men.

It's not enough to be pretty

It's true that knowing how to make a man want you involves knowing what clothes to wear, what hairstyle to try and what type of makeup to put on. There's already enough TV commercials and billboards to show us how to look right, but what about the next step after looking good? A woman's openness to new experiences is a trait that doesn't get enough time in the limelight. Yet if you ask any guy, he'll tell you that a gal who is ready to try new adventures always rates high in his sexy meter.

This fact does not really come as a surprise. If you put yourself in the guy's shoes, you'll understand what it's all about. Once you find a guy you like and he likes you back, then you would naturally go on regular dates. During the first few dates, you'll probably do generic date activities, such as going out to dinner, watching a movie or going on a romantic picnic. Pretty soon, however, the two of you would most likely look for more exciting things to do.

If you want to be his ideal girl, you should be willing enough to do new things and accommodate his interests. This means trying spicy Indian food or going rollerskating to going bungee jumping or trekking the Himalayas. If he's into something that's not really your cup of tea, why not settle for a trade-off? You'll watch a kick boxing match this weekend if he agrees to go salsa dancing with you next week.

Guys like women who are able to keep up with them, not pampered princesses who are cooped up in the powder room for the duration of the date. So if you want to know how to make a man want you, try to learn being open to new experiences. Who knows, you may end up gaining a new hobby even if the relationship doesn't last.

Help For a Broken Relationship

Breakups are hard, especially if a relationship has just ended that you thought would last forever. If you find yourself in that situation, hang on. There is hope. There are proven methods you can use to get your ex back. And in the process, build a strong relationship that will last. You will need to learn from the things that didn't work before, and make changes, but if you are willing, you may just save the relationship. But before that can happen, there are a few mistakes you want to avoid right away!

Mistake #1- Be emotional rather than objective

Your first instinct is going to be to react emotionally to the break up, and try to give your ex's reason for breaking up no merit. That is not what you should do. Instead, you should listen to what they have to say and respond objectively to it. What I mean by this is that you need to see your situation outside of the emotions you are feeling. At that moment, the best thing to do would be to simply agree with them, and let it be.

Learning to respond objectively  is more easily said than done. If you can't see your situation outside of the flurry of emotions your are feeling, then my best advice would be to talk with a friend. Ask them share insights as to what they see in your relationship. Honesty is going to help you the most so make sure they know that they will not hurt your feelings by speaking candidly.

Another way to find objectivity is to try to ask yourself questions. For example, you may ask yourself about the reason your ex gave for the break up. Is it fair? Have you done anything to lead your ex to that conclusion? If so, can you correct it? Asking yourself questions like this will allow you to see any behavior patterns you have that may be affecting your relationships with others negatively. In turn, you then may be able to work on those behaviors. Nevertheless, being objective, rather than merely emotional is an important first step. No crazy behavior!

Break Up Mistake #2 - Pleading and Bargaining

When a break up has just occurred, the emotions that follow naturally lead towards these two behaviors. It is almost instinct because you want them to know just how much you really want to keep the relationship in tact. You think if they can just see how much you really care, they will change their mind. The only problem is, pleading and bargaining are actually a big turn-off and the natural reaction you will get is resistance. It will end up hurting your chances of getting back with your ex more than if you said nothing at all.

A specific way people tend to plead is by using guilt. If your ex comes back to you out of guilt, it is not going to end up lasting. You want them to come back because they love you, and not for any other reason. Therefore, avoid using guilt at all costs.

Another thing people usually try is bargaining.  This is simply a form of begging where you say, "If you stay, then I will xxxx." It is like your last ditch effort to hold on to them, and you may even promise something you have been unable to give thus far in the relationship. Not a good place to put yourself. You don't need to be the needy type. That is not healthy. Again, you want your ex to come back to you because they love you and choose to be with you.

If you can avoid those two mistakes, you will position yourself well for working on restoring the relationship. It will take time, but you need to handle things the right way to make sure you are giving your relationship a chance to reconcile.

Help For a Broken Relationship

Breakups are hard, especially if a relationship has just ended that you thought would last forever. If you find yourself in that situation, hang on. There is hope. There are proven methods you can use to get your ex back. And in the process, build a strong relationship that will last. You will need to learn from the things that didn't work before, and make changes, but if you are willing, you may just save the relationship. But before that can happen, there are a few mistakes you want to avoid right away!

Mistake #1- Be emotional rather than objective

Your first instinct is going to be to react emotionally to the break up, and try to give your ex's reason for breaking up no merit. That is not what you should do. Instead, you should listen to what they have to say and respond objectively to it. What I mean by this is that you need to see your situation outside of the emotions you are feeling. At that moment, the best thing to do would be to simply agree with them, and let it be.

Learning to respond objectively  is more easily said than done. If you can't see your situation outside of the flurry of emotions your are feeling, then my best advice would be to talk with a friend. Ask them share insights as to what they see in your relationship. Honesty is going to help you the most so make sure they know that they will not hurt your feelings by speaking candidly.

Another way to find objectivity is to try to ask yourself questions. For example, you may ask yourself about the reason your ex gave for the break up. Is it fair? Have you done anything to lead your ex to that conclusion? If so, can you correct it? Asking yourself questions like this will allow you to see any behavior patterns you have that may be affecting your relationships with others negatively. In turn, you then may be able to work on those behaviors. Nevertheless, being objective, rather than merely emotional is an important first step. No crazy behavior!

Break Up Mistake #2 - Pleading and Bargaining

When a break up has just occurred, the emotions that follow naturally lead towards these two behaviors. It is almost instinct because you want them to know just how much you really want to keep the relationship in tact. You think if they can just see how much you really care, they will change their mind. The only problem is, pleading and bargaining are actually a big turn-off and the natural reaction you will get is resistance. It will end up hurting your chances of getting back with your ex more than if you said nothing at all.

A specific way people tend to plead is by using guilt. If your ex comes back to you out of guilt, it is not going to end up lasting. You want them to come back because they love you, and not for any other reason. Therefore, avoid using guilt at all costs.

Another thing people usually try is bargaining.  This is simply a form of begging where you say, "If you stay, then I will xxxx." It is like your last ditch effort to hold on to them, and you may even promise something you have been unable to give thus far in the relationship. Not a good place to put yourself. You don't need to be the needy type. That is not healthy. Again, you want your ex to come back to you because they love you and choose to be with you.

If you can avoid those two mistakes, you will position yourself well for working on restoring the relationship. It will take time, but you need to handle things the right way to make sure you are giving your relationship a chance to reconcile.

How to Make Women Approach You

Okay, show I'm going to show you a couple ways to make women approach you (for a change. Because you feel awesome when a chick approaches you, right?)

The first tactic to make her come to you is ... wear something interesting. This is an old trick, because when she sees you wearing something funky/unique, she thinks to herself "is he a celebrity or something? Might as well go there and compliment him".

What I recommend (that actually works) is a name tag with programmable LCD screen. Basically you program the text to appear on th samll LCD screen. (Cost you like $10 to buy it). Program something like, "If you read this message, holla at me" or something silly like that.

Women will come to you and compliment you. Why? Because wearing the LCD screen (or something unique/funky) display confidence in itself.

How so? Because it non-verbally says that you can wear whatever you want and do not care for what people think. But of course, there is a line that you don't want to cross. (Looking like a weirdo comes to mind)

For something less extreme, try the good old "I'm walking my dog" trick. Walk your dog in the park and -- I bet you on this -- you'll have at least 5 woman approach the dog, pet it, and start a conversation with you.

But don't try to force the conversation on your dog too long -- get to know her also. The biggest mistake guys make is trying to hold on to the conversation by telling her what kind of dog food you feed the little guy.

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