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To a Shy Guy Dating Often Appears Scary and Terrifying But it Doesn't Have to Be Like That

If you're a shy guy, dating can often seem like something that is not for you and fraught with terror and disappointment, but if you learn and understand a few techniques about how to put yourself and the girl you like at ease, then you stand a much better chance of leaving with her number.

The first thing you should do if you're a shy guy dating is to remember that the more confident you can appear, the more success you will have.  Which I know is easier said than done, but it is vital if you're going  to make it past just staring at a girl across a room.

Decide before you go out how you are going to approach a girl you see and run through the steps you will take in your mind:

  • Don't wait too long to approach a girl when you first see her.  Waiting only gives the negative thoughts to come into your mind.  And before you know it you've come up with all kinds of reasons why you shouldn't approach her and once that happens, all chances are gone.  So get in there as soon as you decide you like the look of someone.

  • Ask her if you can get her a drink or ask her some general question that she has to answer, so giving you a little bit of time to get your thoughts together.

  • Make sure that you make eye contact.  Girls like a man who can make eye contact with them because in terms of body language you are saying to her that you have nothing to hide.  However, don't stare at her without breaking your gaze, because that will not work.  You will freak her out and you will have no success.

For a shy guy, dating really doesn't have to be traumatic.

How to Supercharge Your Seduction Abilities - By 300%

Guys, let's admit it - we have all been there before one point or the other in our lives. We do not feel that we are worthy enough to get dates with beautiful women because of our inner belief that we are not rich or handsome enough.

Our insecurity drives us to settle down with average looking women. Come on, guys, we can do better! To discover how you can boost your seduction powers by threefold, read on to find out about the three 'power boosters' you can use immediately and achieve killer results fast...

Three Seduction Supercharger Tactics

Supercharger Tactic Number One - "Deception Is The Ultimate Weapon". This might sound totally nuts to you, but the more she is confused, then the easier it gets for you to get behind her 'barriers' and seduce her. The key to this tactic is to come across as totally unpredictable so that she continually guesses your true intentions. On the flip side, once she thinks that she has got you figured out, then you have failed.

Supercharger Tactic Number Two - "Show Security". Women generally look at men based on how men perceive themselves. Therefore, if you want to be better with women, first you have to work on your own weaknesses and insecurities. The truth is that women have the ability to sniff losers out two miles away. Overcome your own insecurities and women will naturally come to you.

Supercharger Tactic Number Three - "Emotional Attachment". This is a killer tactic where you make the girl feel certain emotions and force her to associate those emotions to you. Once you have done this, she will become (emotionally) dependent on you, and as a result, become compliant to your requests.

How Having the "Plenty of Fish in the Sea" Attitude Can Make Dating Women Easier!

Guys, you need to have what I like to call the "plenty of fish in the sea" attitude if you want to improve your dating. This attitude can really change things when it comes to women. The alpha males use this attitude to gain an unfair advantage over all the regular average frustrated chumps out there. And now you can use it too!

Why do I even want you to have this information? Because I have been where you are at right now. And I can't let you do it anymore. I want you to have more success with women. I want you to have your choice of available women. This stuff can change your life but only if you let it. You can start using this information as soon as tonight to start having more success with dating hot women. Do you want to know what the alpha males already know?

The "plenty of fish in the sea" attitude is just what you need to have. This means you need to stop fearing rejection. You need to come from the mindset of abundance. And what this means is that you need to realize that there are so many hot available women out there that even if one turns you down, it doesn't matter. It means you need to pick yourself back up, dust yourself off, and head onto the next one. Once you stop operating from a place of fear, women can tell that you're no longer needy. And that is a huge turn on for women. They want to be with a man that doesn't need them.

Try this attitude next time you go out and you'll be amazed at the response you get from women. This is what the alpha males know. And now you do too!

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