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вторник, 7 октября 2008 г.

Best Time to Approach a Woman You Are Attracted To

Many times men come to me wanting to know how to approach a woman that they are attracted to. The one thing that most of these men have in common is that they don't approach women they are attracted to either because if they did then approaching women they are attracted to would be a whole lot easier because you approach both women exactly the same way.

What you need to realize and understand is that just because you happen to find a woman attractive does not change the way you approach her. It might change the direction of the conversation after a certain point but in regards to the approach you treat all women equally.

You can approach her with a simple hi or hello or if the situation warrants it something about what she is doing or the environment that she is in. A sincere approach will only get you blown out when a woman either doesn't like you or is already in a bad mood over something that you have no control over.

Now, once you have made that initial approach and hopefully connected with her in some way it then becomes necessary to advance the situation in some way. Whether that is doing something right then, asking for her phone number, or inviting her into your life is up to you and what you are doing.

In the end, when you see a woman you like that moment in time is more than likely the best time for you to approach her if there isn't anyone else that you happen to be talking to at the moment who might get offended.

The Dating Litmus Test

For each question, answer as honestly as possible, assigning one of the following scores to each answer.

0 = Definitely no!
1 = Probably no
2 = Uncertain (or does not apply)
3 = Probably yes
4 = Definitely yes!

Add up your numbers, and see bottom for your final score. Remember, you are not grading yourself. Your final score will give you an indication of how your boyfriend ranks as a prospective life partner. It's helpful to take the test more than once (hide earlier results until after you have retaken the test to avoid biasing yourself). If you haven't known your partner for much longer than three months or 10 dates, you may not be able to answer some of the questions. If you are in the first weeks of a relationship, there are some questions that will (and should) remain uncertain, such as whether he wants to have children. Give him a "2" on the questions you can't answer yet, and take the test again in a few months to compare results.

Dating Litmus Test

1. Do you look forward to seeing him when you've been apart?
2. Do you find your partner entertaining and interesting?
3. Do you share similar interests, usually agreeing on how to spend time together?
4. Do you find more things to appreciate and respect in your partner as time goes on?
5. Do you have an enjoyable sex life, one that is satisfying physically and emotionally? Does it make you feel good to please him?
6. Are you physically, intellectually, and emotionally attracted to him?
7. Does he make you feel better about yourself? Has your confidence or self-esteem improved during your relationship?
8. Does he pay attention when you speak, and truly listen?
9. Is he considerate of your feelings and desires?
10. Do you trust him, rather than feeling the need to check up on him to make sure he's not being dishonest or cheating on you?
11. Can he be counted on to make the right decisions about his finances or professional life?
12. Do you have compatible long-term goals on major issues, such as career goals and where to live? Are you reasonably confident you can achieve these goals together?
13. Is he supportive emotionally and spiritually?
14. Will you be able to count on him in a time of personal crisis (illness, bereavement, job loss, financial despair)?
15. If you were ill or dying, would you entrust him to make medical decisions on your behalf and care for your children?
16. Does he give comparably or more than he takes from the relationship?
17. Can he get over his anger, frustration, or disappointment in a constructive way?
18. Is he polite, not just with you, but also with friends, family, colleagues, and strangers?
19. Does he take care of himself and encourage you to do the same? Is he a positive and healthy influence?
20. Do you agree on whether or not to have children, and how many?
21. If you do desire kids, do you agree on major child-rearing issues, such as education, faith, health care, and discipline? (If neither one of you wants children, score four points for this question and skip to question 22.)
22. Do you accept each other's strengths and weaknesses, without trying to (dramatically) change each other?
23. Does he make your life easier, rather than creating more work or complicating matters for you?
24. Can you tolerate his personal commitments and burdens, including children from a past relationship, obligations to relatives, a physical disability, mental disorder, or addiction, or an all-consuming career, job, faith, or hobby?
25. Is he a good person, viewed by yourself and others as someone with strong moral convictions and high character?

Final Score:

90 - 100 Grade: A. Very good chance you're with the right guy.
80 - 89 Grade: B. Good prospects, requires work to reach ideal category.
70 - 79 Grade: C. Further work required. He barely passed. Give serious thought about whether he's worth the time, effort, and risk.
Below 70 Grades: D and F. Move along! You're wasting valuable time.

Resource:
www.DitchingMrWrong.com

Get Your Lover to Listen to You

As relationships continue both men and women seem to get caught in a rut. They have developed a way of communicating with their lover in a certain way and that's pretty much it. When problems or challenges to the relationship come up many people simply can't change gears mentally to allow them agree or even give in if needed. We are creatures of habit and dealing with a loved one can be set and inflexible at times.

Let's change the way we respond to our lover by learning a new methodology. It's called Conversational Hypnosis and it works. Just imagine allowing yourself to help your very best friend to agree with you. Not forceful, not underhanded but simply to help that special someone to come around to your way of thinking. Sure there are times when you need to give in and let go. Then there are times when its really important you get your way. Right? Of course!

It's done by changing the way you speak, how you use words and methods of hypnosis that are easy to master and use all the time. Wow! Your mate can now understand you better. If you have children, think about how wonderful to be able to give a command in a simple request and have him/her do what you asked. The best part is no back talk or hesitation.

I was eating at Burger King lately and Kim a pretty blue eyed blond girl sat down crying. She'd told me her daughter of 11 was tearing her relationship apart with her new man. Every time he came over, her daughter threw a fit. I explained how to use her voice and how to talk. Then we talked about how to make her daughter listen to her. Kim listened intently like a sponge soaking up water. I felt I had talked too much and gave her too much to try. I hoped it would work for her.

Three days later I ate at BK again and Kim cornered me. The broad smile and clear eyes told me she'd been a success. Her daughter was coming around nicely. We talked more and what a pleasure it was to see her so happy. I wish I could help more people all the time after such a rewarding experience.

The next time you are with someone and want to get them to listen more to you, try this simple experiment. When you want to say something important and especially if you want that someone to do something, here is what to try. As you are talking and just before you want to say the part of the sentence containing a command, pause ever so slightly, drop you verbal tone down just a tiny bit, say that word or phrase, pause ever so slightly again and then change you voice tone back to normal. Practice it in private a few times so it's easy for you to do. It's only a small part of conversational hypnosis but it is powerful all on it's own. Try it. I think you will be amazed.

How to Become an Irresistible Seduction Magnet, Guaranteed!

One of the most pressing questions concerning seduction I get from my clients and peers is,"How do I meet a pretty chic without losing face? What do I say when I meet her and how do I manage to get her to give me her number..."

These questions, it seems, are part of what keeps many men awake at night, terrified of the prospect of meeting a woman and seducing her as if it's a no holds-barred wrestling match with a nine foot tall one eyed giant in a steel cage.

How ironic, often we forget that women are human too, and regardless of one's exterior beauty, women, just like any member of society, have feelings and emotions and go through the same ordeal as any.

How sad then that, the most beautiful girls God has put on Planet Earth must go without the affections of a loving boyfriend, just because all men assume she's taken, or "it is impossible for her to be single?"

Instead, pretty chics are subjected to lewd advances from jerks and half drunks who have more courage of approaching them than the perfect guy has guts to master the courage, let alone the thought!

Suffering Succotash!

In today's information rich and attention lacking environment, speed is of the utmost priority; it's as if everyone's a rabbit and in a super big rush to copulate with as many partners as possible in the shortest amount of time.

However, given the prospect that men are afraid of approaching pretty chics, copulation, I'm afraid, is only a frame of mind, not a physical endeavor! That being said, how does one even begin to attract pretty women like a junkie is attracted to Crystal Meth?

You see, seduction is not an event, it's a process. Let me clarify; it's like riding a bike or learning to play a musical instrument. Seduction and attraction are a fine art that one must learn until they become a master.

When a master is at work, one cannot but stop to marvel at the sheer genius of it all. When Tiger Woods or Roger Federer execute Grand Slams in their respective sports or, as you would have it, Vanessa Mae strums her Stradivarius, there is no accident to the reward and, as flawless as they both make it look, there's been sweat and tears that went into making them Masters in their field.

I must admit, I started dating at a very early age, 16 to be exact and, by the time I was 20, I had lost count in the number of older women I'd been with.

Unlike most seduction gurus who spent most of their 20s dateless and in front of the TV screen scratching their heads wondering how to date fine women, I had already progressed into other areas of interest beyond dating in my 20s.

I am not saying this to brag or anything to that effect, but it pains me to see so much information flying about the internet on seduction and how to become a master simply by reading a book when your Mindset is not right!

I never!

If your mindset is that of failure due to past experiences with women, self esteem or other childhood misfortune that kids are always too eager to mete on another in the name of play or teasing, then no amount of reading will redeem you from the curse of failure.

I say this not as ridicule, but as a way to show you that, despite all your shortcomings, there's a way to get rid of that excess baggage and begin a new journey into the unchartered waters of dating!

For instance, and this is more the norm than the exception, if you come from a broken home and all you know is ridicule and pain, if all you know is failure; never a word of encouragement, then chances are; each time you meet someone you have an emotional affinity to, your past experiences come home to roost full circle, and you exhibit those characteristics playing in your life all over again... it's like a rat on a wheel...the story keeps playing in your life ad infinitum.

Let me explain:

Sales professionals World-over attend sales seminars and couching classes when they hit slumps. It's because they realize that, to be masters in their professions, they need to horn their skills and break self imposed barriers that were not there in the first place.

When your mind is clear of emotional baggage and phobias, you have no barriers to break through; you only have opportunity to fulfill.

It's like when you receive an unexpected bonus check or you receive a well deserved pay increase.

Your gait changes the instant you see that check stub or bank balance. When you walk into your local grocery store or supermarket...you couldn't care less what the World is thinking, because in that instant, you've attained the God consciousness. Even if you've never approached a pretty lady before, chances are, you could approach anyone and make a fool of yourself a hundred times over...

Why?

Because your confidence levels are at an all time high; because you've suspended all your limiting beliefs, for the moment anyway, through your Self-worth!

Ahh, the magic word; Self Worth!

Now, consider this flip side:

Ever been to a zoo and watched lions in captivity? How pitiful they look - the King of the Jungle, all the mojo stripped out. Chances are, let that feline loose and..the results? I bet you the results are the poor pussy will die of hunger, because it has lost its natural killer instincts.

Now, if you're a self confident young stud and have no qualms about approaching women, then good on you but, if you have issues from your past, and spend the majority of your waking moments biting your nails at the mere thought of approaching pretty chics, chances are you need a coach, not a book or some opening liners to meet women.

You see, women these days are darn smart; they can smell a con job a mile away and, unless your mindset is one of thinking like a champion, chances are you've bought one seduction ebook too many and are scratching your head, just wondering what it is you need to do to attract Alice from next door.

Remember that Nest egg investment commercial with a guy about to retire and he's in an elevator with a 2000lb Gorilla offering him advice? The punch line is, Don't listen to me, What would I know, I'm just a 2000lb Gorilla in the room with you...

Listen, don't listen, it's your free will.

Food for thought...

The Reasons Why Caucasian Guys Loves Asian Women

In our world today, there a lot of couples that are of different races. Among them, it is not hard to find a Caucasian man paired up with an Asian woman. As we can see from movies, Caucasians like to work with Asian women. We can see renowned Asian actress Michelle Yeoh in some Hollywood films. Hollywood has introduced Asian ladies to Caucasians and therefore attracted attention towards Asian women.

Every race in the world is unique and can be characterised by special physical and cultural differences. There are a lot of likable qualities that are attractive to the Caucasians. One of them is simply looks. Asian women do look young even in their thirties. Take for example famous Taiwanese supermodel Lin Chiling. The gorgeous thirty-plus looks just like any twenty-year-old and puts most women to shame. We also have the popular Japanese model Hoshino Aki who, also in her thirties, has been called "eien no shoujo", meaning "The Eternal Girl". This is good evidence that asian women can look ten years younger then their actual age.Another physical attraction is their slimness.Asian women are generally very thin, and are obsessed over being slim.Caucasians love slim women and it is no wonder Asians are among their favourites.

Most Caucasian also find Asian women attractive as wives. They are very loyal towards their family and most are willing to be simply housewives. They cook meals for their family and do not grumble over the house chores. They also value the importance of hygiene and cleanliness. These values make for a very dutiful and responsible wife.

Asian women are also very hardworking. A lot of them make it to renowned Universities in the Caucasian countries. So it is not too rare to spot Asian girls in internationally famous universities. They are also very gentle and submissive.The race most recognised for those qualities is Japanese.

If you are actively seeking Asian girls to make friends,you may find them at Asian restaurants. It is common to have clubs that are formed by Asians to support Asians to ease their lonely hearts living in a foreign land. A connection to these clubs will help greatly to make Asian friends. Perhaps the easiest and most convenient way is to go online. Look for dating websites catered mainly to Asians and your quest for a Asian wife can start from there.

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