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суббота, 6 сентября 2008 г.

Free Yourself of Past Relationship Baggage and Make Room For Someone New

Have you ever felt as if someone from your past was still holding on to you? Or maybe you felt that you are still holding on to them? Or hope of getting them back?

Free yourself and them and allow yourself to make room for someone better to come into your life.

Consider how much more energy and focus you will have once you learn how to free yourself from the baggage of past relationships.

You can do whatever you want with this extra energy and you may find that you have made room for someone new in your life. Done correctly, you may actually release pain, anger, fear and resentment from the past and make room for someone special to come into your life.

Imagine, doing something simple and effective that makes you feel a whole lot better about yourself AND which has the added benefit of attracting someone into your life who is better suited to who you are now.

In this article I will share this simple yet powerful technique that has its roots in Shamanic ritual and native American tradition. NYC Prime Hypnosis combines powerful techniques, practices and disciplines and combines them into a user friendly approach to being your BEST SELF!

You will need and open mind and some things for this ritual :

1. Toilet tissue ( burns easier )

2. Pen

3. 30 minutes of quiet/alone time

4. A candle ( matches )

5. Bathroom with the toilet lid opened

Give yourself a few minutes to write down the name and whatever emotion you are feeling about this person from your past. Write this down on the toilet tissue ( I fold it several times and place a book underneath for easier writing )

It is best to start with the one relationship that feels like it is holding you back the most. This way you can get a feel for the ritual and how great it feels. Then the next time you can make a longer list of names and do a longer more complete ritual.

You can write something along the lines of :

"I now release ( write their name ) this person and forgive them and myself for whatever happened. We did the best we could with what we had at the time. For the best of all concerned, I honor the good times and the lessons learned. I now resolve any and all unhelpful emotions related to this person and relationship. I keep the lessons and leave the bitterness behind. I free myself and them to move on with our lives on separate paths towards happiness...and make room for someone better suited to enter into my life." etc.

You can start with just writing this and naming one person whom you feel is somehow holding you back from happiness or is somehow keeping you stuck in the past or in a destructive pattern.

The way I do this ritual is by standing in my bathroom with the toilet lid opened and lighting a candle. I make sure there is a clear space where nothing can catch fire. ( the water puts out the flames and relates to the elements in nature and in alternative healing )

Then I take my toilet tissue that I wrote on and I tear off a section of it relating to that person/relationship and I very carefully touch the paper to the candle ( which is set on the top of the toilet tank )

I take a deep breath and think of that person and feel whatever the emotion is relating to them that may have been keeping me from my full potential. Then I exhale as I touch the paper to the candle and drop it carefully into the water in the toilet bowl. You may feel as if you are releasing the unwanted or painful emotions and making room for something better.

You can see the past baggage going up in flames and smoke and then being cast into the water. There is a sizzling sound as the flames hit the water and you can see, hear and feel that something powerful is happening.

Every time I do this ritual I feel a tremendous sense of peace and serenity as well as feeling energized the next few days afterwards.

It feels as if I have let go of the past and forgiven myself and those from my past and I am thankful for the lessons as I feel a clear path in front of me that leads to greater success and happiness. There are many ways to release emotions and blockages and this is just one of the simple and effective methods that is easy enough to learn from reading.

Blow out the candle and flush the toilet and let yourself feel that same wonderful sense of peace. As if all is right with the world again.

P.S. You may be pleasantly surprised to find someone new and special entering into your life within a few weeks of performing this shamanic releasing ritual. And for some people they meet someone special even sooner!

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