How to Use Your Eyes to Build Attraction

Your eyes are a very important asset in the whole dating and pick up game. Ever hear a girl say "he has nice eyes" and then you look at the guy she's admiring and his eyes don't look like anything special.

It's because he knows how to use his eyes to communicate confidence and sensuality. Something that took me years to figure out. You can be sensual without being sexual. There are a ton of things you can do to build attraction and every dating coach has their own opinions as well as their own field-tested results. Most will agree that your body language, how close / far away you are from her, your eyes, your vocal projection, how and when you touch her, sense of humor, confidence, etc. are all necessary ingredients for building attraction.

You are going to use your eyes to build SOME level of interest. Then you're going to use them to build attraction. Interest, then attraction....got it? If you're not used to looking a girl straight in the eye without making a weird face or without turning away, then it's something you can overcome by practicing. How do you practice?

Simply start making more eye contact. It helps if you bring a buddy or a female friend to walk a few feet away from you so they can see your facial expression when you do make eye contact. Their feedback will be invaluable. Here's the biggest lesson about eye contact:

Looking a woman in the eye and holding it longer than normal communicates to her that you are confident. It tells her you are not an average guy. An average guy looks a hot girl in the eye and then looks down at the floor or he looks away. Let's take this deeper.

Her internal biological and psychological mechanisms that CREATE or DESTROY attraction go into motion. Without even thinking about it on a conscious level she already begins to get that "ewwww" feeling.

All you're doing from across the room, cafe, bowling alley, gas station, night club, bar, wherever...is communicating that "hey, I'm a great catch, I'm confident, and I'm not an average guy."

Women, especially cute ones, get approaches by TONS of men who suck up to them and say stupid things, so by simply holding your eye contact a little longer than normal you're telling her that there's a small chances you are one of those guys.

There are dozens of ways to use your eyes to BUILD the attraction after you have generated initial interest. Here's one that I used recently at a night club. I saw a group of girls at the bar getting drinks. One of the brunettes turned around to see what was going on (hot girls tend to do that) and our eyes met. We lock, 3 seconds later we both look away.

Brunette becomes intrigued and turns around again pretending to look at other people but then her eyes land on me again. To her surprise I'm still standing there, drink in my hand, and catch her gaze again. This time I take a few steps closer to her though not walking directly toward her. I'm walking more to the group to her left.

As I'm walking toward her I caress her face with eyes and let out a small smirk. I've read / heard some pick up artists say to never, every smile or smirk at a woman, and I could NOT disagree more. There's a time and place for just about everything.

There are two basic types of smiles:

A weak, needy smile.

A smile that exudes confidence.

If you've watched enough movies in your lifetime you know what I'm talking about.

She smirks back. Not an ear-to-ear grin, but a smirk. Like most hot girls, this girl knew how to pace. By the time she has turned 18 years old, a hot girl has had far MORE social interactions than your typical 18 year old male.

When was the last time you had 25 to 50 females approach you in one week? One weekend? It's not easy being a good-looking female, which is why many of them resort to being bitchy when you first approach them. I actually LIKE it when a hot babe is bitchy to me because I know she's mistaking me for the wrong guy.

Sometimes just staying there and talking like everything's normal does the trick. Sometimes just saying "hey, it's ok, relax...my bark is worse than my bite." Back to the bar girl.

I was not at this night club to pick up. I was there with my date to dance and listen to the DJs bring the house down, but I love to flirt, especially with my eyes. So I walked by the brunette and then continued walking. This is non-neediness at it's best. I was at the club to have a good time, not to get digits or get somewhere with any one girl.

About an hour later I bumped into her group again and decided to caress her face again with my eyes. We were about 5 inches apart, talk about creating sexual tension (a good thing in this case). She then smacks my shoulder and walks off.That smack on my shoulder was her way of telling me:

"You flirt with me with your eyes and then you don't step up and talk to me?"

The thing is, if you're confident you don't give a crap on what some cute young thing thinks about you. You really don't. So her little smack on my shoulder....I loved it man. I get smacked a lot by cute girls, I think I drive them crazy sometimes. I'm just out to have a good time. Girls GET that vibe and are drawn to it.

Remember girls can SENSE when you're needy or WANT something from them. The hotter they are the more they will assume that you WANT them. By the way you talk, the way you move, and the way you use your eyes you can communicate to them that "there's always another girl".....without having to say it. It will come with practice.

So, I followed her, tapped her firmly on the shoulder, grabbed her hand, twirled her around, let her go, and then walked back to my group of friends (my date had disappeared to the bathroom). My friend told me the look on her face was "priceless"...it could have been a Mastercard commercial.

Pick up is a skill. Flirting is a skill. Just like learning tennis, how to write calligraphy, or learning a new language...it's a real skill and it takes practice. Once you ACCEPT this fact you take away a lot of stress and self-doubt.

Then you can focus more on your goals and not so much on the PROCESS. You've got to practice, reject rejection, and learn to use your eyes, then you go in and make the approach, IF you want to. That's the great thing about working on your skill set, you can opt to approach, or not. You can opt to get her phone number or simply have a great interaction with a girl and then walk away.

I do it all the time. My friends constantly tell me "dude, you should have asked for her number."

My response is always the same:

"I chose not to."

When you can get a date anytime you want, it no longer becomes a NECESSITY. Once you get to this level of personal development is when you know you've gotten rid of your neediness.....

I know you guys are going to ask me this question so I'm going to answer it right now:

"Do I have to get eye contact to talk to a girl?"

No.

You do NOT need it. It's great if you get it, but I've done some of my best work by just walking up to a girl and just start talking.

Holding your eye contact is just one of the few things you can start doing RIGHT now to begin having better results with the female population. So start having fun with this. Start experimenting with your eye contact. Who knows, you just might make a new friend.

How to Use Your Eyes to Build Attraction

Your eyes are a very important asset in the whole dating and pick up game. Ever hear a girl say "he has nice eyes" and then you look at the guy she's admiring and his eyes don't look like anything special.

It's because he knows how to use his eyes to communicate confidence and sensuality. Something that took me years to figure out. You can be sensual without being sexual. There are a ton of things you can do to build attraction and every dating coach has their own opinions as well as their own field-tested results. Most will agree that your body language, how close / far away you are from her, your eyes, your vocal projection, how and when you touch her, sense of humor, confidence, etc. are all necessary ingredients for building attraction.

You are going to use your eyes to build SOME level of interest. Then you're going to use them to build attraction. Interest, then attraction....got it? If you're not used to looking a girl straight in the eye without making a weird face or without turning away, then it's something you can overcome by practicing. How do you practice?

Simply start making more eye contact. It helps if you bring a buddy or a female friend to walk a few feet away from you so they can see your facial expression when you do make eye contact. Their feedback will be invaluable. Here's the biggest lesson about eye contact:

Looking a woman in the eye and holding it longer than normal communicates to her that you are confident. It tells her you are not an average guy. An average guy looks a hot girl in the eye and then looks down at the floor or he looks away. Let's take this deeper.

Her internal biological and psychological mechanisms that CREATE or DESTROY attraction go into motion. Without even thinking about it on a conscious level she already begins to get that "ewwww" feeling.

All you're doing from across the room, cafe, bowling alley, gas station, night club, bar, wherever...is communicating that "hey, I'm a great catch, I'm confident, and I'm not an average guy."

Women, especially cute ones, get approaches by TONS of men who suck up to them and say stupid things, so by simply holding your eye contact a little longer than normal you're telling her that there's a small chances you are one of those guys.

There are dozens of ways to use your eyes to BUILD the attraction after you have generated initial interest. Here's one that I used recently at a night club. I saw a group of girls at the bar getting drinks. One of the brunettes turned around to see what was going on (hot girls tend to do that) and our eyes met. We lock, 3 seconds later we both look away.

Brunette becomes intrigued and turns around again pretending to look at other people but then her eyes land on me again. To her surprise I'm still standing there, drink in my hand, and catch her gaze again. This time I take a few steps closer to her though not walking directly toward her. I'm walking more to the group to her left.

As I'm walking toward her I caress her face with eyes and let out a small smirk. I've read / heard some pick up artists say to never, every smile or smirk at a woman, and I could NOT disagree more. There's a time and place for just about everything.

There are two basic types of smiles:

A weak, needy smile.

A smile that exudes confidence.

If you've watched enough movies in your lifetime you know what I'm talking about.

She smirks back. Not an ear-to-ear grin, but a smirk. Like most hot girls, this girl knew how to pace. By the time she has turned 18 years old, a hot girl has had far MORE social interactions than your typical 18 year old male.

When was the last time you had 25 to 50 females approach you in one week? One weekend? It's not easy being a good-looking female, which is why many of them resort to being bitchy when you first approach them. I actually LIKE it when a hot babe is bitchy to me because I know she's mistaking me for the wrong guy.

Sometimes just staying there and talking like everything's normal does the trick. Sometimes just saying "hey, it's ok, relax...my bark is worse than my bite." Back to the bar girl.

I was not at this night club to pick up. I was there with my date to dance and listen to the DJs bring the house down, but I love to flirt, especially with my eyes. So I walked by the brunette and then continued walking. This is non-neediness at it's best. I was at the club to have a good time, not to get digits or get somewhere with any one girl.

About an hour later I bumped into her group again and decided to caress her face again with my eyes. We were about 5 inches apart, talk about creating sexual tension (a good thing in this case). She then smacks my shoulder and walks off.That smack on my shoulder was her way of telling me:

"You flirt with me with your eyes and then you don't step up and talk to me?"

The thing is, if you're confident you don't give a crap on what some cute young thing thinks about you. You really don't. So her little smack on my shoulder....I loved it man. I get smacked a lot by cute girls, I think I drive them crazy sometimes. I'm just out to have a good time. Girls GET that vibe and are drawn to it.

Remember girls can SENSE when you're needy or WANT something from them. The hotter they are the more they will assume that you WANT them. By the way you talk, the way you move, and the way you use your eyes you can communicate to them that "there's always another girl".....without having to say it. It will come with practice.

So, I followed her, tapped her firmly on the shoulder, grabbed her hand, twirled her around, let her go, and then walked back to my group of friends (my date had disappeared to the bathroom). My friend told me the look on her face was "priceless"...it could have been a Mastercard commercial.

Pick up is a skill. Flirting is a skill. Just like learning tennis, how to write calligraphy, or learning a new language...it's a real skill and it takes practice. Once you ACCEPT this fact you take away a lot of stress and self-doubt.

Then you can focus more on your goals and not so much on the PROCESS. You've got to practice, reject rejection, and learn to use your eyes, then you go in and make the approach, IF you want to. That's the great thing about working on your skill set, you can opt to approach, or not. You can opt to get her phone number or simply have a great interaction with a girl and then walk away.

I do it all the time. My friends constantly tell me "dude, you should have asked for her number."

My response is always the same:

"I chose not to."

When you can get a date anytime you want, it no longer becomes a NECESSITY. Once you get to this level of personal development is when you know you've gotten rid of your neediness.....

I know you guys are going to ask me this question so I'm going to answer it right now:

"Do I have to get eye contact to talk to a girl?"

No.

You do NOT need it. It's great if you get it, but I've done some of my best work by just walking up to a girl and just start talking.

Holding your eye contact is just one of the few things you can start doing RIGHT now to begin having better results with the female population. So start having fun with this. Start experimenting with your eye contact. Who knows, you just might make a new friend.

Dating Tips For Men - What is Her Problem?

From where you sit everything looks okay. You more often than not have a blast every time you and your girlfriend get together. The relationship in your opinion is hitting on all cylinders. So it's understandable that you just don't get it. You have done everything within your power to please your date and she is still not happy. That's not to say she is miserable all the time. The two of you are still together. You like her and she has on more than a few occasions expressed her feeling towards you.

But there are some things men do that really grate on women (no kidding right?). It's not that these things cause women to end the relationship immediately. They may suffer through it silently, give you some subtle or not so subtle hints as to the nature of the problem or state it outright but for whatever reason it is just not registering with you. It could be that whole men are from Mars, women are from Venus thing. We have all heard the rumors.

Still there are a few things you need to be careful about when it comes to your dating relationship.

1. Showing Off

Very few people enjoy being around a braggart. Sure it's okay to talk about the incredibly good things going on in your life. But many times the conversation can be about what's going on in her life and yet you still find a way to turn the discussion back towards you.

May be you don't say much of anything but when you go out, your date catches you strutting like a peacock. You are just too cool for words. Women are very good at noticing things and reading body language is one of them.

2. Chivalry On Life Support

It's a new era as far as many of us are concerned. If women want to be treated as equals that's okay with you but it's not all gravy so they have to learn to take the good with the bad when it comes to equal treatment.

Scores of men miss the point about this. Women have always wanted to be treated as equals but that does not mean you stop treating them like ladies. In quite a few surveys women mention things like opening doors for them, helping them on with their coats or when walking together making sure she walks to the inside. They are such little tidbits that it's no big deal one way or another. Right?

Wrong. The fact that women talk about these things means that they are a big deal. Besides if acting like a gentleman can score you bonus points with your girlfriend then do it.

3. You Were Listening. Sort of.

This is the one that probably does it for women more than showing off and lack of chivalry. Mainly because it sends out a couple of unmistakable signals: One is you have no respect for what she has to say and two, she is really not worth listening to. You may not mean any of those things but that is how it is coming across. If you want to put the future of your relationship in jeopardy then this is the way to do it.

We are who we are and there are some women who hold the flawed notion that they can change the man they are with so as to make him more suitable to their taste. That of course is a blueprint for trouble. But there is nothing wrong with practicing a little humility, good manners and better listening skills. Making her happy by doing the little things can only be to your benefit.

Dating Tips For Men - What is Her Problem?

From where you sit everything looks okay. You more often than not have a blast every time you and your girlfriend get together. The relationship in your opinion is hitting on all cylinders. So it's understandable that you just don't get it. You have done everything within your power to please your date and she is still not happy. That's not to say she is miserable all the time. The two of you are still together. You like her and she has on more than a few occasions expressed her feeling towards you.

But there are some things men do that really grate on women (no kidding right?). It's not that these things cause women to end the relationship immediately. They may suffer through it silently, give you some subtle or not so subtle hints as to the nature of the problem or state it outright but for whatever reason it is just not registering with you. It could be that whole men are from Mars, women are from Venus thing. We have all heard the rumors.

Still there are a few things you need to be careful about when it comes to your dating relationship.

1. Showing Off

Very few people enjoy being around a braggart. Sure it's okay to talk about the incredibly good things going on in your life. But many times the conversation can be about what's going on in her life and yet you still find a way to turn the discussion back towards you.

May be you don't say much of anything but when you go out, your date catches you strutting like a peacock. You are just too cool for words. Women are very good at noticing things and reading body language is one of them.

2. Chivalry On Life Support

It's a new era as far as many of us are concerned. If women want to be treated as equals that's okay with you but it's not all gravy so they have to learn to take the good with the bad when it comes to equal treatment.

Scores of men miss the point about this. Women have always wanted to be treated as equals but that does not mean you stop treating them like ladies. In quite a few surveys women mention things like opening doors for them, helping them on with their coats or when walking together making sure she walks to the inside. They are such little tidbits that it's no big deal one way or another. Right?

Wrong. The fact that women talk about these things means that they are a big deal. Besides if acting like a gentleman can score you bonus points with your girlfriend then do it.

3. You Were Listening. Sort of.

This is the one that probably does it for women more than showing off and lack of chivalry. Mainly because it sends out a couple of unmistakable signals: One is you have no respect for what she has to say and two, she is really not worth listening to. You may not mean any of those things but that is how it is coming across. If you want to put the future of your relationship in jeopardy then this is the way to do it.

We are who we are and there are some women who hold the flawed notion that they can change the man they are with so as to make him more suitable to their taste. That of course is a blueprint for trouble. But there is nothing wrong with practicing a little humility, good manners and better listening skills. Making her happy by doing the little things can only be to your benefit.

How to Impress a Woman - 2 Killer Tips You Must Know Right Now

Imagine seeing a beautiful woman walking across the street. How do you feel? Do you get the urge of going over to approach her, but at the same time you feel nervous? If you do, then you are a fully functional male! This happens to most men at one point or the other - but the bad thing is that most men do not get over this nervousness and anxiety. They do not know exactly what the problem is - and the truth is that unless you know what the problem is you won't get any better. Read on to discover the secrets on how to impress women - and get super amazing results right off the bat...

How To Impress A Woman - 2 Killer Tips You Must Know Right Now

Tip #1: "The Differentiating Factor". The biggest mistake that any man can make in dating women is to think that in order to impress women, they will need to be better than other man. That's wrong, plain and simple. You really do not need to be better - you just need to be DIFFERENT.

When women see something new and different, they will naturally be curious. Taking this further, if you are able to bring women through a new and unique experience, then they will be impressed with you easily.

Tip #2: "Hypnosis / Fractionation". Expert seducers have been using hypnosis techniques to impress women and make them fall in love super quickly. The fact is that hypnosis remains a super powerful seduction technique - although its usage has been very controversial.

Fractionation is a hypnosis technique which is purportedly able to make a woman want to sleep with a man very quickly (in less than 15 minutes). It involves bringing a woman through an emotional roller coaster, and in the process make her emotionally 'dependent' on you.

Online Dating Tips - What Your Conversation May Be Telling Your Dating Partner

In the offline world it's not really a bad thing as far as you are concerned. Your friends know that once you get going it's hard for you to stop. You talk about your interests, likes, dislikes, what you saw, what you wish to see and so forth with such gusto and passion that at times it appears to lift anyone's spirit who happens to be within earshot.

Yet that same enthusiasm does not appear to be translating well in the world of on line dating. Every potential relationship has always ended rather quickly. As far as you know you have polite and thoughtful.

The problem is if a discussion with your dating partners mostly or always swings back in your direction than it may be telling them something you are not aware of. Whether it turns out to be true or not, it is hard to shake an initial impression of someone. Instead of coming across as passionate, it may be telling your cyber date:

1. Conversation Domination

Online or off there are few things worse than dating someone who will not let you get a word in edgewise. They even tend to dismiss what the other person typed in an online chat. If they do notice, it's only to take a small portion of what they said and swing the conversation back to their vantage point. It's bad enough that they are not really paying attention; it gets even worse when they take what the other person says out of context.

2. Lack of Respect

Simply put you are telling your online dating partner that what they have to say is not all that important. In fact it's just background noise. Since you are hogging the conversation and in essence dismissing their input that is a red flag to tell them you would have no problem doing the same thing when the two of you met face to face.

3. Self Centered

If it is all about you in cyberspace than it must really be all about you in the offline world. In poll after poll; one of the things that always makes the top five list when it comes to dating turnoffs is arrogance. Chatting with you may give the other person the impression that you are not looking for a date so much as you want a servant to cater to your every whim.

4. Control Freak

If it strikes your dating partner that you must hog the conversation; than they may start to think that it probably does not stop there. One of the signs of a control freak is not just the conversation domination but that everything must be exactly their way. This might not be true for you but your dating partner does not really have anything else to go on.

You are a good person. People that come into contact with you know it now it's time for the folks in cyber space to find out. Keep your passion and enthusiasm but do not be afraid to set it aside from time to time so you can make way for your online dating partner along with their passion and enthusiasm.

What Women Want - Less Important Than You Might Think

You can determine what women want in a man by examining which men are successful with women, rather than which men women claim they prefer. Actions speak louder than words, after all.

Essentially, there are two main groups of men when it comes to dating and relationship success...

Roughly 85% of the men who date don't do very well at it and the other 15% make out pretty well most of the time.

The exact percentages over specific population segments might be higher or lower, but the fact remains that some guys seem to excel with women while most others struggle at it.

One of the most useful exercises for learning how to do better is to watch how each of those two groups approaches dating and then notice the patterns which are common to one group but rare in the other.

• A regular pattern amongst guys who excel might be worth adopting, especially if it's rare with guys who struggle.


• And if there's a pattern common to guys who struggle but rare with guys who excel, there's a good possibility that this behavior might be worth eliminating.

One of the most pronounced differences we've seen between guys who struggle with women and guys who excel with women is that the guys who struggle with women tend to focus obsessively on figuring out what the women they're dating (or the woman they hope to date) want ... and then to give her everything she wants.

The entire focus (his and hers) is on that woman and making her happy.

Not surprisingly, he'll end up feeling miserable. Why? Because he'll probably be doing "all giving" and "no getting."

If your sole pleasure in life is being used by women, that's the formula for achieving your goal of having a one-way relationship ... from you to her.

But if you're like most guys and would like some affection, sex, and even some appreciation now and then, you won't get it by being her unpaid personal valet.

Women don't respect servants ... they respect men they can't wrap around their little fingers. And women don't get hot for men they don't respect.

• If your goal is to be used by women, then hang on her every word and satisfy her every want, but


• If your goal is to be treated well by women (both in and out of the bedroom), then also focus on what you want and expect that your needs be accommodated as well ...

In other words, the guys who get laid a lot are usually the guys who focus on getting laid a lot. The guys who end up being servants are usually the guys who focus on being servants

If you focus solely on what women want and their needs, she'll serve up more wants and needs to you - endlessly!

There's nothing wrong with meeting some of the wants and needs of a woman if she's doing the same for you.

Don't settle for less than that. What women want is not the only thing!

What Women Want - Less Important Than You Might Think

You can determine what women want in a man by examining which men are successful with women, rather than which men women claim they prefer. Actions speak louder than words, after all.

Essentially, there are two main groups of men when it comes to dating and relationship success...

Roughly 85% of the men who date don't do very well at it and the other 15% make out pretty well most of the time.

The exact percentages over specific population segments might be higher or lower, but the fact remains that some guys seem to excel with women while most others struggle at it.

One of the most useful exercises for learning how to do better is to watch how each of those two groups approaches dating and then notice the patterns which are common to one group but rare in the other.

• A regular pattern amongst guys who excel might be worth adopting, especially if it's rare with guys who struggle.


• And if there's a pattern common to guys who struggle but rare with guys who excel, there's a good possibility that this behavior might be worth eliminating.

One of the most pronounced differences we've seen between guys who struggle with women and guys who excel with women is that the guys who struggle with women tend to focus obsessively on figuring out what the women they're dating (or the woman they hope to date) want ... and then to give her everything she wants.

The entire focus (his and hers) is on that woman and making her happy.

Not surprisingly, he'll end up feeling miserable. Why? Because he'll probably be doing "all giving" and "no getting."

If your sole pleasure in life is being used by women, that's the formula for achieving your goal of having a one-way relationship ... from you to her.

But if you're like most guys and would like some affection, sex, and even some appreciation now and then, you won't get it by being her unpaid personal valet.

Women don't respect servants ... they respect men they can't wrap around their little fingers. And women don't get hot for men they don't respect.

• If your goal is to be used by women, then hang on her every word and satisfy her every want, but


• If your goal is to be treated well by women (both in and out of the bedroom), then also focus on what you want and expect that your needs be accommodated as well ...

In other words, the guys who get laid a lot are usually the guys who focus on getting laid a lot. The guys who end up being servants are usually the guys who focus on being servants

If you focus solely on what women want and their needs, she'll serve up more wants and needs to you - endlessly!

There's nothing wrong with meeting some of the wants and needs of a woman if she's doing the same for you.

Don't settle for less than that. What women want is not the only thing!

Getting a Girl to Like You - Why Boys Want Girls to Like Them

Have you boys wondered about the underlying reasons why you exert a considerable amount of effort to win hearts of girls, even in a 'one at a time' fashion? Have you guys ever thought of the potentials you receive when you are getting a girl to like you? Here is a checklist which you may accept or reject, but probably enjoy just the same!

Having a girl who likes you confirms your identity of being a man. This does not specifically pertain to the Freudian concept of ego and feeding this ego altogether, but for most men, confirmation or recognition of the masculine identity is as crucial as developing self-esteem. Yet, it is still a lot more important if you are getting a girl to like you for reasons other than 'because you are man enough'.

If you have a girl who likes you, you have the chance to explore and discover yourself more. When a girl likes your company as a friend or as a partner in a relationship, you may be able to do things you do not usually do with people of your same gender. You have a shot of becoming aware of what you can or you may do, without getting into so much trouble of strictly adhering to traditional views of how one must perform roles according to gender. For instance, you may, at times, be able to show your weaker or softer side if only to remain honest to yourself - which you are expected not to show to the whole world, especially your male peers.

When a girl likes you, you become open to the opportunity of having a deeper understanding about girls in general. Having a girl liking you may mean that you potentially become more aware of how girls think and act, of what may be pleasing according to each one's personality, of how you may better respond to and eventually complement girls in your life. This is especially the case when the girl who likes you has a personality similar or close to your mother or your sister; you get to understand them on a new level.

Getting a girl to like you also gets you the chance to prove your uniqueness. If a girl reveals that she likes you, you may be able to show how you differ from other men. Opportune moments present themselves, allowing even one girl to discover men in general and you in particular. Most men claim that they are farther away from the stereotypical, yet a lot more do not have the chance of proving this. In one way or another, losing this kind of chance becomes an excuse for even more men to resort to remaining 'just another one'.

Simply put, or to conclude, or to embrace all the other reasons which are not discussed here - a guy needs a girl to like him because in actuality, this completes the guy and vice versa. There really is so much more than the saying 'behind every man... is a woman'.

Getting a Girl to Like You - Why Boys Want Girls to Like Them

Have you boys wondered about the underlying reasons why you exert a considerable amount of effort to win hearts of girls, even in a 'one at a time' fashion? Have you guys ever thought of the potentials you receive when you are getting a girl to like you? Here is a checklist which you may accept or reject, but probably enjoy just the same!

Having a girl who likes you confirms your identity of being a man. This does not specifically pertain to the Freudian concept of ego and feeding this ego altogether, but for most men, confirmation or recognition of the masculine identity is as crucial as developing self-esteem. Yet, it is still a lot more important if you are getting a girl to like you for reasons other than 'because you are man enough'.

If you have a girl who likes you, you have the chance to explore and discover yourself more. When a girl likes your company as a friend or as a partner in a relationship, you may be able to do things you do not usually do with people of your same gender. You have a shot of becoming aware of what you can or you may do, without getting into so much trouble of strictly adhering to traditional views of how one must perform roles according to gender. For instance, you may, at times, be able to show your weaker or softer side if only to remain honest to yourself - which you are expected not to show to the whole world, especially your male peers.

When a girl likes you, you become open to the opportunity of having a deeper understanding about girls in general. Having a girl liking you may mean that you potentially become more aware of how girls think and act, of what may be pleasing according to each one's personality, of how you may better respond to and eventually complement girls in your life. This is especially the case when the girl who likes you has a personality similar or close to your mother or your sister; you get to understand them on a new level.

Getting a girl to like you also gets you the chance to prove your uniqueness. If a girl reveals that she likes you, you may be able to show how you differ from other men. Opportune moments present themselves, allowing even one girl to discover men in general and you in particular. Most men claim that they are farther away from the stereotypical, yet a lot more do not have the chance of proving this. In one way or another, losing this kind of chance becomes an excuse for even more men to resort to remaining 'just another one'.

Simply put, or to conclude, or to embrace all the other reasons which are not discussed here - a guy needs a girl to like him because in actuality, this completes the guy and vice versa. There really is so much more than the saying 'behind every man... is a woman'.

What Men Want in a Woman

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Having a relationship with a person you love is one of the most amazing feelings in the world.  However, today most relationships do not last due to problems in the relationship.  Men have been complaining about not knowing what women want, yet women feel the same way and do not know what men want. 

What do men want?  Men want many things in a woman.  First of all, men want respect from a woman. Men want to feel like a man by feeling strong, able to support and please a woman, and the head of the household or leader of the family. If a woman can give a man the respect he needs then the man will be more attracted to the woman and be more inclined to start a relationship with her.

Love

Men want to feel love and want to share their love with someone. Men are taught from an early age to hide their emotions; however men need love and bonding as much as women do. Men may not cry or tell you everything on their mind when the relationship starts, but when the man feels close to a woman he loves and trusts her, he will open up and share his love and feelings. Even though women are more emotional than men and show it more often, men still do have emotions and like to share them, just not as much as women do. So do not get mad when a man does not open up because he has learned to rely on himself for his emotional support most of his life, but as your love grows he will open up to you and love you more and more for providing his need for love.  

Family

All men want family, no matter how independent they are. It is an instinct they have to create and take care of a family. He wants a woman he can come home to and share his life with. Almost all of men want kids as well. If they do not want them right away they will later in life. It is also another instinct they have to carry on their genes. Men want to be able to have and provide for their family.

Superhero Ways of Attracting a Girl - You Absolutely Must Know These Tricks

Have you guys been aware of how you portray your attraction to or court a girl you like making her want you in return? Every boy - who falls head over heels about a girl - assumes or portrays (or is likely to emulate) a set of traits, traits which complement one another forming a distinct personality. There are different types of personality, and within each typology there are also variations. What is presented here is a creative list of superhero type of character traits, based on the Marvel companies - the amazing Spider-man, the invincible Ironman, the stars and stripes vanguard Captain America, the uncanny X-man Wolverine, and the incredible Hulk. Check out which character best describes your personality, when it comes to making a girl want you!

If you are at first deemed nerdy by many, and treats being a photo journalist as a boring career, then from time to time you submit to unexpected tricks like poetry and death-defying stunts, then you may be a Spider-man type of suitor. There are small activities you engage in, which are all connected to each other creating one big picture, your 'web'. You may like to do things the 'flashy' way, yet some may think that your antics may not be readily duplicable. This type of character courts a girl without formally declaring he is doing so.

When you are already displaying affection yet you still seem to be somewhat aloof, like wearing a suit of metal armor, then you are under the character of Ironman. You almost always resort to physical efforts - like rendering services, creating personalized items and volunteers to do the work which is supposedly assigned to the girl who captured your heart. The Ironman may start as 'hard', or he is assumed to be not the type who is going to profess love anytime soon. But expect that this character uses 'photon cannon'; in everything he does, energy and momentum are his best friends.

The Captain America type is one who expends efforts to protect his loved one from different struggles brought about different aspects of life - like financial, emotional and sometimes family matters. If you belong to this category, you want to use yourself or your love as much as possible, as 'shield' from all kinds of harm which the girl you want may encounter. Yet, you are firm about professionalism, displaying a kind of 'justice', knowing that subjecting your beloved to merit and fitness will benefit her more than doing otherwise.

When you resort to a 'mean attitude' in making a girl want you, then you may belong to the Wolverine category. This type is seen as not very organized in showing efforts, acts on the spur of the moment which may be considered almost savage, or makes use of 'instinct' most of the time. The Wolverine is a hunter of opportunities. He is also the type who does not readily admit his sins. If he is hurt by his beloved in any way, he is able to quickly heal himself, start all over again, and may not be prepared to just give up his love.

The Hulk is one who seems to force himself ever forward to achieve his goal of winning a girl's heart. This type of character is someone who does things which are always easily observed by a crowd, like telling jokes which may offend (maybe he does not mean all of it), or tends to be a bully or a ringleader. A Hulk-type also commands presence without talking; he does so just by standing. If you are not very mindful of what may be the reaction or comments of others on how you show your affection, then you belong to this type.

Well, the world is not strictly cut out into these typologies revealed here, the same way that there may really be a very thin line separating heroes and villains. Some boys may have used some or all types mentioned one at a time, some may have used combinations of these. But what matters more about making a girl want you, is that you have to do something, you have to act. This separates heroes and villains from ordinary people - they make their purpose known and actually felt.

What Men Want in a Woman

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Having a relationship with a person you love is one of the most amazing feelings in the world.  However, today most relationships do not last due to problems in the relationship.  Men have been complaining about not knowing what women want, yet women feel the same way and do not know what men want. 

What do men want?  Men want many things in a woman.  First of all, men want respect from a woman. Men want to feel like a man by feeling strong, able to support and please a woman, and the head of the household or leader of the family. If a woman can give a man the respect he needs then the man will be more attracted to the woman and be more inclined to start a relationship with her.

Love

Men want to feel love and want to share their love with someone. Men are taught from an early age to hide their emotions; however men need love and bonding as much as women do. Men may not cry or tell you everything on their mind when the relationship starts, but when the man feels close to a woman he loves and trusts her, he will open up and share his love and feelings. Even though women are more emotional than men and show it more often, men still do have emotions and like to share them, just not as much as women do. So do not get mad when a man does not open up because he has learned to rely on himself for his emotional support most of his life, but as your love grows he will open up to you and love you more and more for providing his need for love.  

Family

All men want family, no matter how independent they are. It is an instinct they have to create and take care of a family. He wants a woman he can come home to and share his life with. Almost all of men want kids as well. If they do not want them right away they will later in life. It is also another instinct they have to carry on their genes. Men want to be able to have and provide for their family.

What Men Want in a Woman

Body

Having a relationship with a person you love is one of the most amazing feelings in the world.  However, today most relationships do not last due to problems in the relationship.  Men have been complaining about not knowing what women want, yet women feel the same way and do not know what men want. 

What do men want?  Men want many things in a woman.  First of all, men want respect from a woman. Men want to feel like a man by feeling strong, able to support and please a woman, and the head of the household or leader of the family. If a woman can give a man the respect he needs then the man will be more attracted to the woman and be more inclined to start a relationship with her.

Love

Men want to feel love and want to share their love with someone. Men are taught from an early age to hide their emotions; however men need love and bonding as much as women do. Men may not cry or tell you everything on their mind when the relationship starts, but when the man feels close to a woman he loves and trusts her, he will open up and share his love and feelings. Even though women are more emotional than men and show it more often, men still do have emotions and like to share them, just not as much as women do. So do not get mad when a man does not open up because he has learned to rely on himself for his emotional support most of his life, but as your love grows he will open up to you and love you more and more for providing his need for love.  

Family

All men want family, no matter how independent they are. It is an instinct they have to create and take care of a family. He wants a woman he can come home to and share his life with. Almost all of men want kids as well. If they do not want them right away they will later in life. It is also another instinct they have to carry on their genes. Men want to be able to have and provide for their family.