Guide on How to Talk to Girls

So, you want to learn how to talk to girls? What makes you think it's any different from talking to your mother? See, this is the biggest problem with most guys. They think that talking to girls should be done in a "special" or "seductive" way. This is wrong, wrong, wrong! This article tells you why..

The reason why you think that you need to talk to girls differently is because you're nervous. You see a pretty girl, you get in a conversation, and you immediately think, "ok, I have to get her". The fact is, there is not a lot you can do to make her attracted to you apart from being your natural self. The good news is that most guys DON'T act like their natural selves when trying to seduce a girl.

Be Calm & Confident - Just Like When Chatting With Mom!

Right, I know it sounds a bit suss, but think about it. When your mother asks how your day was, you reply with a calm and honest tone. You're not nervous, you're just yourself. You don't stutter, or play with your hair, or touch your face, or lick your lips, you just talk naturally. Take this "mom" technique, and apply it to all the other women in your life.

Just be sure not to treat the girls you're trying to seduce too much like your mom!

Be Interested!

Many guys will tell you that you need to act uninterested to get a girl. There is some truth in that. The idea is to act extremely interested in her, but not too sexually interested. She'll start thinking, "is this guy just naturally interested in the world, or does he really want me? I hope he wants me.." Ask many questions, but let her breath and ask you back. A good sign that she's interested is if she asks you many questions back.

Keep the questions above the belt!

Humour, humour, humour!

Don't be scared to be silly. So many guys (and girls for that matter) are so focused on being cool and macho. This can work for some, but not for all. My personal method of attracting women is to be the confident, happy, funny guy. The fact that you're even reading this article says that you're a creative person, so give it a go.

OK, so there are many, many, many more tips. A short list of things to think about:

- The news, read it! It leads to many great discussions.

- Learn some things in different languages. Really good for hitting on foreign women!

- Make fun of yourself. You want to be cool, so egos are fine, but a "holier-than-thou" attitude is not.

Online Dating Advice - How to Pick the Best Profile Picture That Will Get You a Date Anytime

When trying to date online, you have to understand that it is vastly different then the face-to-face world. Why do I say this? You see the face to face world is scary. The last thing you want to do is say the wrong thing to a women and get a drink thrown on you or even worse, get smacked in the face! That's why so many men are turning to online dating. I am here to give you some online dating advice specifically geared to show you how to pick the best profile picture.

This can be a tricky subject. Here's why. Most men think "Let me take my shirt off so girls will like me". Let me tell you this, you will not be attract the girls you really want. Classy girls will look at you and skip right over you. Here's the reason, you are just like all of the other guys who do the same thing.

This can be a turn off so please take my advice and keep that shirt on for now. At least for the initial contact!

Also, you can get some great responses if you are in front of some sort of monument. An example would be a picture in from of the Statue of Liberty. Believe it or not, these types of things are what starts conversations online and what will separate you from the rest of the men out there. Most men don't think this way so now you know you already have a step against them.

This next tip can be one of the most important tips ever. Check out a website called HotOrNot.com. This website lets users rate picture from a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest. This is a great place to experiment.

You see, you don't want to throw any random picture up there on your profile if you want to attract a high quality female to you. Get at least 3 pictures of yourself and put them on that site. Give it about a week and see what picture gets the best rating. Then you will have a better idea on which one to actually put up to show to the world.

This can be a very powerful strategy that is not used by many. I suggest you separate yourself from everyone else and use it. It will work!

Role of Courtship in Building a Longer Lasting Relationship

The period of Courtship for two individuals in love with each other plays a vital role in building a longer lasting relationship than many civilizations will want to give credit and attach importance to.

What is rife is falling in love one moment and then living in the next moment. This can be traced to the easy permissiveness that has permeated the moral fabric of our society and the community we live in bringing such levels of degradation and moral depravity fiction books should feature.

Aside of getting to meet that young man or young lady that makes your world turn 'rainbow' over and over, melts your heart with the touch of love... there is every need to get to know each other in a more responsible way than the average knowing that will suffice for any fleeting acquaintance.

Communication in relationship building is such an essential tool that both partners will need to master and deploy at every available opportunity. The time of courtship presents the couple with such a golden opportunity in getting familiar with each other.

Courtship is a time whereby you get to meet and begin relating with each other in such a way and at such a level that will enable you move from the position of strangers to being intimate friends.

One mistake many couples who are into Courtship make from time immemorial is spending this period to go on dates such as taking strolls/walks in the garden, going to the movies, day dreaming about one another, writing and sending love messages in form of letters, poems, flowers, presents, etc.

As much as all these are necessary, many delay till a later time especially when they have both finally tied the 'nuptial knot' to become husband and wife before taking out time to discover their spouse.

This alone explains why there is so much resentment when the couples begin to discover how incompatible they both are in the love relationship turned marriage. They both feel trapped and doomed to a life of misery and unsatisfied desires, hopes and aspirations.

In many instances, this marks the beginning of many surprising discoveries about their 'better half'.

Time that could have been spent in asking each other important questions about likes and dislikes, favorite colors, your partner's views on issues such as in-laws, friends, joint savings account, number of children desired, mood swings, to mention a few is expended on 'enjoying life' during the period of courtship.

As much as you might want to enjoy life with your heartthrob during courtship going on dates, sightseeing, being in each other's company for as long as time and opportunity will allow, one very important thing you should do is get to meet and know your lover's real and true self by asking questions.

Waiting until you are finally joined in matrimony as husband and wife may simply prove late.

Courtship is an essential season in a relationship that opens your eyes and feeds your mind as you get to know and understand your partner even though your heart is overwhelmed with love.

This way, you stand a better chance of building a longer lasting relationship seeing you will have had sufficient time to determine and ascertain the extent of compatibility that exists between the two of you.

This alone can save you a lot of heartache and disappointment in later years to come if you make the mistake of entering into agreement in marriage with your spouse.

Courtship allows you determine the extent of your compatibility and equally informs you whether to continue or end the relationship at whatever stage it has reached.

Marriage is to be celebrated and life with your partner enjoyed to the full rather than having to tolerate each other the remaining days of your life imprisoned in marriage.
Fallout occurs and divorce is imminent.

Handling the period of your courtship well cannot be overemphasized. It is one good opportunity to do all the checks and balances, additions, subtractions, and equally provides you valid time to make the right choice and take the appropriate decision in life about the relationship you have going with your partner before you enter into a lifetime commitment together married as husband and wife.

To build a longer lasting relationship, utilize the period of your courtship well -ask questions, get to meet and know your partner and ascertain the level of your compatibility together first.