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среда, 23 июля 2008 г.

Fear of Dating

When you are on a date and you are scared of something, he can sense it too. Trust me when I say that. It makes you feel unattractive and not confident, which makes rejection come easier to them.

When you are scared, it inhibits your speech and body language. It prohibits you from being the person you truly are. You will stutter your speech. Your body language will be the opposite of the message you are trying to convey. You don't have to be the most confident person, but have some confidence that you will not be rejected. Until you have a necessary amount of self-confidence, fake it! It will help prepare you for the real thing.

To overcome this fear, I recommend that you try to relax before your first date. You also need to be confident that the date will work out. Don't put so much pressure on the situation. Just be you. It is not a job interview. He is not grading you; therefore you should not worry about your performance. Just remember to use proper etiquette. Lighten up and have a good time!

Before you go on the date, take a hot bath, light some scented candles, if your schedule permits. This will ensure you are relaxed. When you get to the date, smile, laugh, or tell a joke! Make yourself relax. Have fun and remember that dating is supposed to be fun. It is not supposed to be stressful. Laughter and fun are breeding grounds for admiration. If you can show him that you are fun and don't take yourself too serious, you bet you will get a first date or better yet, get to the second one, which is more important, right??

Remember that the number one attractive quality is self-confidence. Men love a woman that is not afraid to take control of the situation. They love women that are confident with their bodies and comfortable with their sexuality.

But confidence does not come over night nor does it come with using drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol will only provide you with temporary false self-confidence. What are you going to do when the effects wear off? Continue with the abuse? I don't think so nor do I think it is healthy.

Another issue is that many of us have been rejected several times, which leads to fear. I can understand that one. I have been rejected a few times. If you are out with friends and see someone of interest, I recommend that you make it known that you are approachable and interested in meeting him. Make him come to you. Be clear in the message that you are trying to convey. Don't send him mixed signals. That is too frustrating.

Make a Man Chase You and Fall in Love With You

So you think you've met the man of your dreams. The only problem is that he doesn't seem as enamored with you as you are with him. At some point in the life of many women they meet a man they instantly envision spending their future with. Unfortunately, we can't just wave a magic wand to ensure he falls deeply in love with us. If you want to make a man chase you and fall in love with you, you need to know exactly how to appeal to him so he finds you utterly irresistible.

If you really want to make a man chase you, you must show him that you value him. Complimenting a man you are interested in is a great way to indicate your interest. Don't lay it on too thick. One genuine compliment about something you find attractive about him will do the trick. Don't make it something obvious but pick something about him that most people wouldn't recognize. Perhaps it's how kind he is to others, or how he always asks your opinion on things. Men fall in love with women who make them feel better about themselves, so you want to do just that.

When you are with him, try and maintain eye contact with him. Men love this. When you look directly into a man's eyes you are indicating your interest. If you want to make a man chase you, always stay engaged in what he's saying or doing when you are with him. Show him that during those moments, when you two are together, nothing else in the world matters but him. He'll feel loved and special.

Loving yourself is really the first step in getting a man to love you. If you are self confident men will find you much more attractive. In order to make a man chase you, you need to feel comfortable with who are. You should never apologize to him for how you look or your opinions. If you are strong and secure in who you are, he'll find you enticing.

How to Read Men's Body Language to Tell If He's Interested

Men can be incredibly difficult to read. It's sometimes almost impossible to know whether a man is into you or not. Asking him if he's happy or enjoying spending time with you isn't always the best approach. If you really want to know if a man is interested in you, you need to be aware of how to read men's body language. The way he conducts himself around you can reveal a great deal about how he feels.

In order to read men's body language you have to pay close attention to almost everything he does. One of the more subtle clues that a man is sincerely interested in you is he'll raise his eyebrows when he's looking at you. It may not even be that noticeable but for women who know what they are looking for, they can spot it in an instant. The next time you're meeting the man you adore, take special notice of his eyebrows. If they rise and fall when he first sees you, he's smitten.

Just as women fuss with their hair when they are attracted to a man, men do much the same thing around a woman they like. Depending on how he wears his hair, he may either smooth it down or tousle it a bit. You may first think that he's simply self conscious about his hair, but more than likely it's because he's attracted to you and wants to appeal to you too.
When talking with a man, if he leans towards you that's a clear indicator that he's taken with you. This is one of the easiest methods to read the body language of a man. If instead, he's got his arms crossed and he's leaning his back against a wall while standing in front of you, this shows he's not that attracted to you.

Many men sit with their legs crossed and even this unconscious gesture can help you read men's body language. If you two are sitting together and he crosses his legs in such a way that the foot on the crossed leg is pointing at you, that's a sign that he's into you. Most women aren't aware of this body language signal, so take time to notice it next time you're out with the man you like.

10 Tips For Flirting - Easy Ways to Flirt Successfully - Unleashed

It's understandable that being single can leave you feeling lonely, especially if you've been in a relationship for a long time. The best way to mend a broken heart is to get out and find someone new and interesting to spend your time with. The best way to get the attention of a potential new love is to flirt. Some people admit that they have difficulty flirting while for others, it can seem like a second nature skill. The reality is that anyone can learn how to flirt; it just takes practice.

Eye contact is a must. You must learn to attract attention with your stare. For instance, if you are sitting at a lounge and you see a guy that catches your attention, glaze around the room until you see him look at you. When you notice his eyes on you, look right back at him and stop for a short moment, smile then look away. It only takes one quick stare. If he moves to a different area and you see him staring at you again, you might want to give him a quick smile. If he's interested, that should be enough to make him come to greet you.

Giving him compliments are also effective ways to flirt. A man just loves to be complimented on his physique or his muscular strength. It's even better if you could ask him to help you with something. After asking for his help, immediately compliment him on what a wonderful job he did and how strong he is. As long as you sound sincere when you talk to him, he will turn to mush.

Whispering secret nothings in his ear is a way for you to purposefully get close to him. Before doing this, be sure that you have a light scented perfume on that he can smell. Also, be sure to pop a few mints before you close in. Whispering sweet nothings in his ear should make him feel extra special.

Touching or rubbing up against him as you pass by will surely give him goose bumps; the good kind, of course. A light touch on his back or arm is all that's needed. Be sure not to touch him too much; that might get annoying. You'll be able to notice if he likes it by watching his reaction.

The main thing to remember when flirting is to be yourself. Treating him with kindness and showing him your interest is should be more than enough encouragement for him to make his move.

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