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Behaviors to Avoid Around Women - Know This and Make a Great Impression Every Time


Two types of behaviors exist in the dating world, behaviors that turn women on and behaviors that turn women off. The problem is that most guys do not know how to distinguish between the two behaviors and think that what they do and say while with their friends on the weekend is the same thing they should be saying while being with a woman on a date.

Not knowing the difference between these two may have caused you crucial set backs on your dating life and you might have had a lot of physical relationships that turned into friendships simple because you did a few minor behaviors that turned women off and ended up getting you put into the friend zone which is usually very hard to escape from. In this article I will outline two behaviors you can avoid around women to make you more successful.

One thing to avoid doing while with a woman is focusing on topics that only appeal to guys such as cars and sports. Women do not care how many rushing yards the wide receiver had or the new duel injection engine that can increase horsepower by twenty percent. Topics like this will may the woman feel uncomfortable and have her mind wander off to thinking about other more desirable men.

Another thing you want to avoid when talking to women is highly controversial subjects such as politics and religion. There is no worse way to start off a potential relationship then discussing these subjects since they are often very personal and will result in a clash of opinions that can lead to very negative emotions amongst you two. These emotions can be the breaking point of the possible relationship and create a ton of uncomfortable situations in the future. Avoid these topics at all costs and focus on topics that women like to talk about such as TV shows, celebrities and funny world events.

Behaviors to Avoid Around Women - Know This and Make a Great Impression Every Time


Two types of behaviors exist in the dating world, behaviors that turn women on and behaviors that turn women off. The problem is that most guys do not know how to distinguish between the two behaviors and think that what they do and say while with their friends on the weekend is the same thing they should be saying while being with a woman on a date.

Not knowing the difference between these two may have caused you crucial set backs on your dating life and you might have had a lot of physical relationships that turned into friendships simple because you did a few minor behaviors that turned women off and ended up getting you put into the friend zone which is usually very hard to escape from. In this article I will outline two behaviors you can avoid around women to make you more successful.

One thing to avoid doing while with a woman is focusing on topics that only appeal to guys such as cars and sports. Women do not care how many rushing yards the wide receiver had or the new duel injection engine that can increase horsepower by twenty percent. Topics like this will may the woman feel uncomfortable and have her mind wander off to thinking about other more desirable men.

Another thing you want to avoid when talking to women is highly controversial subjects such as politics and religion. There is no worse way to start off a potential relationship then discussing these subjects since they are often very personal and will result in a clash of opinions that can lead to very negative emotions amongst you two. These emotions can be the breaking point of the possible relationship and create a ton of uncomfortable situations in the future. Avoid these topics at all costs and focus on topics that women like to talk about such as TV shows, celebrities and funny world events.

Emotional Attraction - How to Get Her Attracted


Emotional attraction is a great way to ensure your dating success. This skill will let you hang back while you have interested women approaching you (instead of having to chase after them).

The best way to get her really attracted is by getting emotional attraction. That is the type of attraction that is not superficial, and REALLY affects her. There are two ways of doing this: letting her feel a complete range of emotions when she's with you, or becoming an alpha male.

Men are more logical, and women are more emotional. This is one of the reasons why making her feel a range of different feelings will get her really interested in you. Have you ever seen a relationship where the guy mistreats his girlfriend, but she's madly in love with him anyway? He's giving her a full range of emotions that is making her emotional attraction REALLY high. Obviously I'm not encouraging you to mistreat your girlfriend, but make sure that she has a ton of different feelings when she's with you.

This method is absolutely crucial for more long term relationships, or marriage. Once she's not feeling a range of emotions, her attraction for you will slowly start to dwindle. A typical example would be the couple that has lived together for 10+ years. If she's not interested in him on an emotional level, their relationship is in for some tough times.

Establishing emotional attraction is all about letting the girl feel joy, sadness, ecstasy, happiness, and excitement. It is the best way to keep her emotionally invested in you. When you keep her emotionally invested, she will want to spend time with you. Remember that if she's not getting a wide range of emotions from you, she'll try to get them by seeing somebody else.

A great way to increase the emotional attraction in any relationship is to be spontaneous. Take her on a surprise date, get her cute little gifts, do something huge for your one year anniversary. However, don't fall into the trap of seeking validation from her, or giving her all the attention.

A second great way of getting her emotionally attracted is by becoming an alpha male. Alpha males are traditionally the leaders of the group. They are confident, and never seek validation from women. These qualities make them irresistible. In fact, if you are an alpha male, you will naturally give her a range of emotions that will keep her attracted.

John Alexander wrote a great book called on Becoming an Alpha Male. Becoming an alpha male is something you should look into in order to get long term success with women.

There you have it! Get her invested in you on an emotional level, and you will succeed at getting her interested. Give her a full range of emotions, and you will get her emotional attraction to a point where she will LOVE to spend time with you.

How to Get Her to Want to Date You - 3 Killer, No-Nonsense Tactics That Work 100% of the Time


Dating should never be restricted to weekend parties and club hopping. You need to realize that other places like gyms, malls, parks and cafes are several highly productive grounds to hunt for dates. Shopping malls are usually crawling with various hot girls, so you shouldn't miss any chances of meeting some during the day.

For the best results, try going where girls go after work and talk to them there. This would include trendy delis, cafes, bookstores and coffee shops. In order to turn into a dating superstar, flexibility is a must, as well as pouncing whenever chances present themselves. Read on to discover the 3 ways to ask for a date, and get a "yes" answer every time...

How to Get Any Girl of Your Choice to Date You - 3 Dating Tactics that Work Every Single Time

Tactic 1: Be arrogant in an adorable way. Girls like guys who are attentive, but hate the kinds who are sniveling and simpering and constantly fawn over them. Show how high your self-esteem is and make it clear to her that you do not need her approval.

It is important for you to have other hobbies besides picking up girls, by the way. By having various things in mind, you can get cocky enough to reject girls who are playing hard-to-get. Girls actually like guys that act like this, surprisingly.

Tactic 2: Talk in a dramatic way. Girls tune in much faster to emotions compared to guys, so you have to send her mixed signals in order to trigger this particular tendency. The minute she understands how much you like her, confuse her by pulling back a bit.

Tactic 3: Hypnotize her. One psychological tactic exists that is known as fractionation and can instantly make girls feel emotional towards you. By sending girls on a rollercoaster of emotions with sentimentality and cocky attitudes, you can get girls attached to you in an instant. Plus, the effects will show after just 15 minutes.

How to Seduce Any Man - Part 2


Carrying on with the theme, if you want to know the secrets to seducing any man, then check out these additional tips below. Practice and perfect and soon you'll be Queen of Seduction...

Be flirtatious - with your mannerisms, your body, everything. Definitely use eye contact (but don't overdo it). Touching is good but be subtle about it; cross your legs, show some cleavage - but don't show everything all at once - that would be ridiculous.

Listen to what he has to say. Pay attention (tip - look at his eyes then lips alternatively) when he's speaking - he'll be mesmerized and won't know what the hell hit him. Look him up and down (very subtly) from time to time. In addition, do not be checking around the room to see what else is going on when you're speaking with him (or anyone else for that matter); that is just the height of rudeness.

Laugh with him, softly and when appropriate. This will show him that you're good company and good fun and he'll like being around you because you make him feel good about himself (men are delicate like that and have very fragile egos to boot)!

Lean into him when he's talking, so he feels close to you and can smell your perfume - but don't get so close that you're leaving makeup on his jacket! You want him to 'know' that you're interested and by subtle body language, you can get him mirroring 'your' actions - very powerful in the game of seduction.

An air of mystery - you don't want to be spilling out maudlin details or your latest catastrophies (work, colleagues, kids, money, etc etc) - he doesn't need to hear that and it'll do 'nothing' at all to attract him to you. You want to be like a butterfly in his presence - light, breezy, carefree, beautiful and sexy. Save the sagas for your longterm suffering girlfriends - that's what old friends are for. If you unleash your diatribe on him, guaranteed, he won't be around for seconds!!

How to Seduce Any Man - Part 2


Carrying on with the theme, if you want to know the secrets to seducing any man, then check out these additional tips below. Practice and perfect and soon you'll be Queen of Seduction...

Be flirtatious - with your mannerisms, your body, everything. Definitely use eye contact (but don't overdo it). Touching is good but be subtle about it; cross your legs, show some cleavage - but don't show everything all at once - that would be ridiculous.

Listen to what he has to say. Pay attention (tip - look at his eyes then lips alternatively) when he's speaking - he'll be mesmerized and won't know what the hell hit him. Look him up and down (very subtly) from time to time. In addition, do not be checking around the room to see what else is going on when you're speaking with him (or anyone else for that matter); that is just the height of rudeness.

Laugh with him, softly and when appropriate. This will show him that you're good company and good fun and he'll like being around you because you make him feel good about himself (men are delicate like that and have very fragile egos to boot)!

Lean into him when he's talking, so he feels close to you and can smell your perfume - but don't get so close that you're leaving makeup on his jacket! You want him to 'know' that you're interested and by subtle body language, you can get him mirroring 'your' actions - very powerful in the game of seduction.

An air of mystery - you don't want to be spilling out maudlin details or your latest catastrophies (work, colleagues, kids, money, etc etc) - he doesn't need to hear that and it'll do 'nothing' at all to attract him to you. You want to be like a butterfly in his presence - light, breezy, carefree, beautiful and sexy. Save the sagas for your longterm suffering girlfriends - that's what old friends are for. If you unleash your diatribe on him, guaranteed, he won't be around for seconds!!

How to Seduce Any Man - Part 2


Carrying on with the theme, if you want to know the secrets to seducing any man, then check out these additional tips below. Practice and perfect and soon you'll be Queen of Seduction...

Be flirtatious - with your mannerisms, your body, everything. Definitely use eye contact (but don't overdo it). Touching is good but be subtle about it; cross your legs, show some cleavage - but don't show everything all at once - that would be ridiculous.

Listen to what he has to say. Pay attention (tip - look at his eyes then lips alternatively) when he's speaking - he'll be mesmerized and won't know what the hell hit him. Look him up and down (very subtly) from time to time. In addition, do not be checking around the room to see what else is going on when you're speaking with him (or anyone else for that matter); that is just the height of rudeness.

Laugh with him, softly and when appropriate. This will show him that you're good company and good fun and he'll like being around you because you make him feel good about himself (men are delicate like that and have very fragile egos to boot)!

Lean into him when he's talking, so he feels close to you and can smell your perfume - but don't get so close that you're leaving makeup on his jacket! You want him to 'know' that you're interested and by subtle body language, you can get him mirroring 'your' actions - very powerful in the game of seduction.

An air of mystery - you don't want to be spilling out maudlin details or your latest catastrophies (work, colleagues, kids, money, etc etc) - he doesn't need to hear that and it'll do 'nothing' at all to attract him to you. You want to be like a butterfly in his presence - light, breezy, carefree, beautiful and sexy. Save the sagas for your longterm suffering girlfriends - that's what old friends are for. If you unleash your diatribe on him, guaranteed, he won't be around for seconds!!

Singles Dating the Old Fashioned Way


If the internet is not your thing and you do not fancy online dating then here are some ideas to find like minded singles. Think of places and surroundings you are familiar and comfortable with. If you like sports, like tennis for example, then why not join a tennis club and start your search there. Maybe you're into acting or singing. Why not join your local drama club or choir. If you are familiar with a certain place it would be easier and less awkward for you to start a conversation with someone that catches your eye, and since both of you share a common interest, it would be much easier to think of interesting topics to talk about.

Another good place in your search for singles to date would be schools or campuses. Learning is a never-ending exercise and is not only for young people. You can attend training that interests you, and sign up. In class be friendly, approachable and exude warmth. And then you can meet someone from class that has the same interest as you. With the common interest of the class it will be easier to start talking about personal backgrounds, subjects, schoolwork, teachers, and so on. You can expand your conversations to hobbies, interests, like favorite sport, food, and movies. From there you may form a bond which can lead to something more fruitful and intimate.

Do not be disappointed if things don't work out the first time when you try this method of singles dating. When you get to know someone, sooner or later you will be introduced to his or her friends and your network will be widened. The important thing is to go out there and meet people.

Sometimes you really don't need to go far to meet someone interesting. You may actually get to find someone interesting right in your own neighborhood. You can say hi or start a conversation with someone who you get to see often but haven't had the chance to know. Another advantage when you go out with someone in your neighborhood is the feeling of safety and security knowing that the person you're dating is from a place very familiar to you. The downside of it though is if things don't work out well with that person, you may find yourself bumping into him or her more often that you like.

Another good place to meet new people is parties. The mood is perfect in parties since people are out there to have fun, have a good laugh with friends plus the fact that it's highly likely that you and the person you would be talking to would have mutual friends. If you see someone interesting and you feel uneasy walking up to him or her to introduce yourself, you can ask someone you may both know to do the honors for you.

Hopefully this has triggered your own ideas on where you can go and find people who are also looking for relationships. The main thing is to take some action. Why not draw up your own list now, but don't forget to have fun along the way.

Singles Dating the Old Fashioned Way


If the internet is not your thing and you do not fancy online dating then here are some ideas to find like minded singles. Think of places and surroundings you are familiar and comfortable with. If you like sports, like tennis for example, then why not join a tennis club and start your search there. Maybe you're into acting or singing. Why not join your local drama club or choir. If you are familiar with a certain place it would be easier and less awkward for you to start a conversation with someone that catches your eye, and since both of you share a common interest, it would be much easier to think of interesting topics to talk about.

Another good place in your search for singles to date would be schools or campuses. Learning is a never-ending exercise and is not only for young people. You can attend training that interests you, and sign up. In class be friendly, approachable and exude warmth. And then you can meet someone from class that has the same interest as you. With the common interest of the class it will be easier to start talking about personal backgrounds, subjects, schoolwork, teachers, and so on. You can expand your conversations to hobbies, interests, like favorite sport, food, and movies. From there you may form a bond which can lead to something more fruitful and intimate.

Do not be disappointed if things don't work out the first time when you try this method of singles dating. When you get to know someone, sooner or later you will be introduced to his or her friends and your network will be widened. The important thing is to go out there and meet people.

Sometimes you really don't need to go far to meet someone interesting. You may actually get to find someone interesting right in your own neighborhood. You can say hi or start a conversation with someone who you get to see often but haven't had the chance to know. Another advantage when you go out with someone in your neighborhood is the feeling of safety and security knowing that the person you're dating is from a place very familiar to you. The downside of it though is if things don't work out well with that person, you may find yourself bumping into him or her more often that you like.

Another good place to meet new people is parties. The mood is perfect in parties since people are out there to have fun, have a good laugh with friends plus the fact that it's highly likely that you and the person you would be talking to would have mutual friends. If you see someone interesting and you feel uneasy walking up to him or her to introduce yourself, you can ask someone you may both know to do the honors for you.

Hopefully this has triggered your own ideas on where you can go and find people who are also looking for relationships. The main thing is to take some action. Why not draw up your own list now, but don't forget to have fun along the way.

How to Seduce Any Man - Part 2


Carrying on with the theme, if you want to know the secrets to seducing any man, then check out these additional tips below. Practice and perfect and soon you'll be Queen of Seduction...

Be flirtatious - with your mannerisms, your body, everything. Definitely use eye contact (but don't overdo it). Touching is good but be subtle about it; cross your legs, show some cleavage - but don't show everything all at once - that would be ridiculous.

Listen to what he has to say. Pay attention (tip - look at his eyes then lips alternatively) when he's speaking - he'll be mesmerized and won't know what the hell hit him. Look him up and down (very subtly) from time to time. In addition, do not be checking around the room to see what else is going on when you're speaking with him (or anyone else for that matter); that is just the height of rudeness.

Laugh with him, softly and when appropriate. This will show him that you're good company and good fun and he'll like being around you because you make him feel good about himself (men are delicate like that and have very fragile egos to boot)!

Lean into him when he's talking, so he feels close to you and can smell your perfume - but don't get so close that you're leaving makeup on his jacket! You want him to 'know' that you're interested and by subtle body language, you can get him mirroring 'your' actions - very powerful in the game of seduction.

An air of mystery - you don't want to be spilling out maudlin details or your latest catastrophies (work, colleagues, kids, money, etc etc) - he doesn't need to hear that and it'll do 'nothing' at all to attract him to you. You want to be like a butterfly in his presence - light, breezy, carefree, beautiful and sexy. Save the sagas for your longterm suffering girlfriends - that's what old friends are for. If you unleash your diatribe on him, guaranteed, he won't be around for seconds!!

How to Make a Lasting Impression on a Woman And Make Her Think About You!


You probably already realize that you have to make a lasting impression on a woman if you really want to make her think about you. After all, most women are approached by lots of men during the course of a week and to make yourself stand out in the sea of men that surround her, you have to stand out in some way. Now some guys will go to extremes to try and achieve this and others will kind of fade into the background, never getting the attention that they deserve from women.

If this is how you feel, then you may feel comfort knowing that you can learn how to make a lasting impression on a woman without taking it to extremes.

Here's a few tips to help you attract a woman's attention and make her think about YOU:

1. DON'T do what every other man that she passes does. Now, this should go without saying, but you will do absolutely nothing to create a lasting impression on a woman if you just follow in the footsteps of other guys. You have to go with your own approach to really get her to think about YOU.

2. You will make a lasting impression on a woman if she feels a connection. To make her feel this connection, not only do you have to create a bond or rapport with her, you also have to do something that will generate a powerful attraction. This is not as hard as it may seem. Making her laugh at just the right time can easily accomplish this for you.

3. Attract her attention with YOUR body language. This should also go without saying. When a man walks into a room, he makes an impression. This can either be a good thing or a bad one. Think about what kind of impression you make when you enter into a room. Do people pay attention to YOU? If not, a few simple changes to your body language can make all of the difference.

Matchmaking and Dating Tips For Women Series - Date Your Husband As You Stop and Smell the Roses


Date Your Husband

Keep the excitement of your relationship alive by going on regular dates with your husband. The key is to treat it just like a real date, the kind you went on when you were single. Blow him away with your makeup, hair, and outfit. Meet at a hot restaurant and make out on the way home! And of course, on these dates, you don't have to ask yourself if you should sleep with him or not. Have fun!

Planning the Family

If part of your marriage plans includes starting a family, don't put it off too long. Getting pregnant is not a piece of cake after 35. If you are having a hard time, talk to your doctor about other options, including donor eggs. Adoption is also an option. I know many women who have used all of these options to create beautiful families. Bit I will say again, the fact that there are more options does not mean you should procrastinate too long in starting. Fertility treatments can last months and adoption can be a long process. Once you have made the decision to have children, the sooner you start, the better off you will be.

Your Honeymoon

A honeymoon is your chance to relax and regroup after what has likely been a very hectic time in your lives. The ideal honeymoon should last two weeks. If you can swing that much time, go for it. Location is important, but not as important as being alone together.

Be Considerate

Sometimes you can forget the good manners that you practiced before you were married. When you are living together you may have a tendency to stop being considerate of each other in little ways that can make a difference. There are a million little things that diminish the quality of life in your home. Maintaining a loving atmosphere of respect and good manners makes each of you feel important to each other. And when these little things are lost, it's not uncommon for one of you to become disillusioned with the marriage.

Tell Each Other

In today's world, consideration goes beyond simply good manners. It's important for each of you to let the other know:

- If you're going to be late coming home
- Where you are
- Where you're going to be in the immediate future
- What time you'll be home
- A meeting place in case you are separated in a catastrophic event
- A couple places (friends, family) where you can leave messages for each other, if necessary

Stop and Smell the Roses

Don't forget to take moments during the day or week to notice the things around you. Reflect on the good fortune you've received from finding a lifelong mate.

How to Make a Lasting Impression on a Woman And Make Her Think About You!


You probably already realize that you have to make a lasting impression on a woman if you really want to make her think about you. After all, most women are approached by lots of men during the course of a week and to make yourself stand out in the sea of men that surround her, you have to stand out in some way. Now some guys will go to extremes to try and achieve this and others will kind of fade into the background, never getting the attention that they deserve from women.

If this is how you feel, then you may feel comfort knowing that you can learn how to make a lasting impression on a woman without taking it to extremes.

Here's a few tips to help you attract a woman's attention and make her think about YOU:

1. DON'T do what every other man that she passes does. Now, this should go without saying, but you will do absolutely nothing to create a lasting impression on a woman if you just follow in the footsteps of other guys. You have to go with your own approach to really get her to think about YOU.

2. You will make a lasting impression on a woman if she feels a connection. To make her feel this connection, not only do you have to create a bond or rapport with her, you also have to do something that will generate a powerful attraction. This is not as hard as it may seem. Making her laugh at just the right time can easily accomplish this for you.

3. Attract her attention with YOUR body language. This should also go without saying. When a man walks into a room, he makes an impression. This can either be a good thing or a bad one. Think about what kind of impression you make when you enter into a room. Do people pay attention to YOU? If not, a few simple changes to your body language can make all of the difference.

Matchmaking and Dating Tips For Women - Getting Committed to Marriage


Getting Committed to Marriage?

Congratulations! You're engaged or you're in a serious long-term commitment. You'll be creating an entirely new domain-the one you will operate in as a couple. Strong unions consist of many parts. The most important ingredient is, of course, the relationship itself. Practical issues must also be considered, such as finances, family planning, and family obligations, none of which seem particularly romantic. Figuring out how you will handle these issues is essential before you say, "I do." Unfortunately, many relationships have ended because the couples didn't discuss the big issues before they tied the knot. Communication and tolerance are two other ingredients of a lasting, happy relationship. So learn how to communicate, and more importantly, how to listen. Success at building and maintaining a harmonious relationship comes from understanding and accepting your mate's peccadilloes, feelings, and opinions. This simply means you should respect them when making your own decisions.

Keep the Engagement Short

Once you have made the decision to get married, don't wait! Long engagements are a waste of time. If you love each other and you're sure, there's no reason to wait more than six to eight months to tie the knot. This is especially true if you're over 35 and want to start a family. Don't let the planning of it be an excuse to wait. There are many beautiful places to plan a wedding in a short amount of time.

Location, Location, Location

If you have your heart set on a particular location, and it's booked for the month you would like, consider the following:
- June is a busy wedding month, consider spring or fall. These times of year are gorgeous, and often the weather is very cooperative.
- Consider a weekday or luncheon wedding if you have your heart set on getting married during high season at a popular venue. Most weddings are at night, and the venue may be able to accommodate you at an off time during high season.
- Holiday-time weddings can be romantic, and often wedding chapels, churches, restaurants, and hotel ballrooms are already decorated for the season, saving you money on the décor.

Tell Everyone

If you have a ring on your finger, tell anyone and everyone that you're engaged to be married. But be careful of "verbal engagements" because they don't prove a thing. The value of a ring is monetary. It doesn't matter how big or flawless the diamond is. A ring has a potent symbolic value. It's meaning is significant. That is why an engagement is really only an engagement for marriage if a ring is offered and accepted in promise.

Plan the Wedding

Planning a wedding can and should be fun for all couples. Some women get caught up in the planning and forget about the man they are actually marrying. Be sure to include your fiancé in the plans, with the exception of shopping for your gown. Make joint decisions on everything else. If he gives you the okay to make certain decisions on your own though, then that's fine. But you have to give him the option of sharing his opinion. Don't assume he's not interested in the finer points of reception planning. You'll learn a lot about your husband-to-be by making decisions together.

Wedding Invitation Smarts

When you are planning a wedding you'll need invitations and announcement cards. Afterward, you will need thank-you cards for writing notes to those who were kind enough to give you a gift. Gorgeous stationary is an essential for every sophisticated couple. Here are some tips from New York stationer:

- Wedding invitations should match the colors and style of the wedding. If you're having a small, traditional wedding, white or creme paper with a crisp embossed border and simple script engraving is perfect.
- Engraving is beautiful. Many people are now going back to the old letterpress style.
- Thank-you notes should be simple heavyweight linen card stock. Your name should be simply engraved at the top of the card and make sure the envelope is lined in the same color your name is engraved in. These note cards can carry you through many occasions and can be used for thank-you notes, handwritten invitations, or simple personal notes.
- Invitations for special events can have lots of personality and color depending on what the celebration is for. Let your imagination run wild!

Prenuptial Agreements

Prenuptial agreements are necessary for everyone. A matrimonial lawyer in New York says there are three common reasons why couples draw up these agreements. The first is people coming into marriage on unequal footing; meaning one person has substantially more assets than the other does. The second situation is a couple who really haven't known each other for a very long time. And the third is that one of the parties is paranoid and doesn't believe in love. Believe it or not, he says many men walk into his office and give this as their reason for wanting a prenup. This last reason should be a red flag, ladies!

Dating Tips For Men - When to Approach a Woman


Knowing the right time to approach a woman can easily seem as though it's a mystery to YOU. As a man, you want to make sure that you approach a woman at the RIGHT time. After all, when you approach a woman and your timing is off, then there is no amount of help that can get you to make a good impression on her. Timing is everything when it comes to creating attraction with a woman. Trust me, it's okay to feel a bit out of touch when it comes to knowing when the time is right.

But, you can learn a few things that WILL help you out.

Here they are:

1. When you spot a beautiful woman, you don't want to wait forever. It's easy to feel as though your feet are stuck and stand back and play the waiting game. Don't do this! This will only make you seem less attractive in her eyes. And if you keep your eyes on her, she might even feel a bit creeped out.

2. If you make eye contact and she smiles and then looks down, it's time to make YOUR move. When she does this, she's not only signaling that she likes what she sees (YOU!), but also her own insecurities when she looks down. This is when you should make NO hesitation at all and walk over to her.

3. If she looks away and moves her body away from you, then it's a pretty good indicator she does not want to be bothered. This does not mean that it necessarily has anything to do with YOU. It might mean that she's having a bad day and does not want to be bothered with anyone. Whatever the case may be, this is probably not the time to walk over and introduce yourself.

Cougar Woman - How to Date Her and Have Fun


Cougar women are fun, fearless and smart. They have a lot more experience than younger ladies, which often translates into them being wonderful lovers and companions. For some time it has been considered taboo for a young guy to date a cougar woman, but as more celebrities are indulging in these fun relationships, society is beginning to accept that older women can still have fun!

If you want to cut out all of the games and struggles of dating younger ladies, then perhaps you should consider a cougar relationship. Just like any women, there are many cougars, looking for many different kinds of relationships, from one night stands and casual hook ups to dating and marriage. Whatever you are looking for, it is very likely you will be able to find a cougar woman who wants the same thing.

It is important to remember that all cougar women are different. They all have different interests and personalities. However, a common theme amongst cougar women is that they are often sophisticated and enjoy the finer things in life (including good looking younger guys). Therefore if you want to meet cougar women you would be wise to frequent up market bars and clubs. You should dress the part. Wear smart clothes and a dab of expensive cologne. Not only will this help you get noticed by a cougar, you will also feel good about yourself. Exuding confidence is one of the best ways to attract a cougar.

You have your youth on your side and that is very appealing to a cougar woman, so you should feel good about yourself and let your personality shine through. If you see an older woman who you are attracted to, go and offer her a drink. Be polite and act like a gentleman, but be yourself as well.

Now some men may not feel comfortable going out on the pull for a cougar woman. For these men an online dating site may be more appropriate. There are some sites dedicated to hooking cougars up with cubs (younger guys). Here there are loads of cougar women looking to meet guys. You can browse through their profiles by location, age etc. You can also set up your own profile and you will be amazed by how many cougar women actually contact you. The more information you supply the better. Remember to add a flattering photo.

Cougar Woman - How to Date Her and Have Fun


Cougar women are fun, fearless and smart. They have a lot more experience than younger ladies, which often translates into them being wonderful lovers and companions. For some time it has been considered taboo for a young guy to date a cougar woman, but as more celebrities are indulging in these fun relationships, society is beginning to accept that older women can still have fun!

If you want to cut out all of the games and struggles of dating younger ladies, then perhaps you should consider a cougar relationship. Just like any women, there are many cougars, looking for many different kinds of relationships, from one night stands and casual hook ups to dating and marriage. Whatever you are looking for, it is very likely you will be able to find a cougar woman who wants the same thing.

It is important to remember that all cougar women are different. They all have different interests and personalities. However, a common theme amongst cougar women is that they are often sophisticated and enjoy the finer things in life (including good looking younger guys). Therefore if you want to meet cougar women you would be wise to frequent up market bars and clubs. You should dress the part. Wear smart clothes and a dab of expensive cologne. Not only will this help you get noticed by a cougar, you will also feel good about yourself. Exuding confidence is one of the best ways to attract a cougar.

You have your youth on your side and that is very appealing to a cougar woman, so you should feel good about yourself and let your personality shine through. If you see an older woman who you are attracted to, go and offer her a drink. Be polite and act like a gentleman, but be yourself as well.

Now some men may not feel comfortable going out on the pull for a cougar woman. For these men an online dating site may be more appropriate. There are some sites dedicated to hooking cougars up with cubs (younger guys). Here there are loads of cougar women looking to meet guys. You can browse through their profiles by location, age etc. You can also set up your own profile and you will be amazed by how many cougar women actually contact you. The more information you supply the better. Remember to add a flattering photo.

Flirty Text Messages to Send to a Woman


If you are going to flirt the first thing you need to realize is we process different than you do. We are emotional, where as you are visual. If you think a picture of you with your shirt off is going to do it for us, think again. If you can stimulate our minds and put us on an emotional ride, chances are good you have the hook set. When you text message women, remember to make your sms flirty. Some call this art sexting instead of texting.

We don't like boring either. The typical "how are you", "Hope you have a great day", are lame to say the least. We get that at the drive through getting our morning coffee. Spice it up a bit and I don't mean by adding the word sexy or gorgeous. How about I had a dream about you last night. Now she is interested, she thinks, wow, he thinks about me. It will require more than a one word response from her. Now it's up to you to come up with the dream or just tell her, that's for me to know and you to find out. The key to flirty text messages to send to women is in building suspense and tension. If you are going to text message women, make it flirty, funny or cute, not boring.

Another way to build the suspense is if a woman texts you first is not to reply right away. Let her wait awhile. Our brains, trust me, start wondering what are you doing, why aren't you answering and our imaginations run away. Then when you do reply, well what a relief. You just set us on an emotional roller coaster where we were holding our breathe. That's tension in a good way. Flirty text messages to send women should always build that tension which builds the attraction.

Text messaging is fast becoming one of the key tools in the dating world. If you know how to flirt with women through texting, you will have an upper hand. Learn this art, stand out above the other men. Learn about flirty text messages to send to women.

Cougar Woman - How to Date Her and Have Fun


Cougar women are fun, fearless and smart. They have a lot more experience than younger ladies, which often translates into them being wonderful lovers and companions. For some time it has been considered taboo for a young guy to date a cougar woman, but as more celebrities are indulging in these fun relationships, society is beginning to accept that older women can still have fun!

If you want to cut out all of the games and struggles of dating younger ladies, then perhaps you should consider a cougar relationship. Just like any women, there are many cougars, looking for many different kinds of relationships, from one night stands and casual hook ups to dating and marriage. Whatever you are looking for, it is very likely you will be able to find a cougar woman who wants the same thing.

It is important to remember that all cougar women are different. They all have different interests and personalities. However, a common theme amongst cougar women is that they are often sophisticated and enjoy the finer things in life (including good looking younger guys). Therefore if you want to meet cougar women you would be wise to frequent up market bars and clubs. You should dress the part. Wear smart clothes and a dab of expensive cologne. Not only will this help you get noticed by a cougar, you will also feel good about yourself. Exuding confidence is one of the best ways to attract a cougar.

You have your youth on your side and that is very appealing to a cougar woman, so you should feel good about yourself and let your personality shine through. If you see an older woman who you are attracted to, go and offer her a drink. Be polite and act like a gentleman, but be yourself as well.

Now some men may not feel comfortable going out on the pull for a cougar woman. For these men an online dating site may be more appropriate. There are some sites dedicated to hooking cougars up with cubs (younger guys). Here there are loads of cougar women looking to meet guys. You can browse through their profiles by location, age etc. You can also set up your own profile and you will be amazed by how many cougar women actually contact you. The more information you supply the better. Remember to add a flattering photo.

Cougar Woman - How to Date Her and Have Fun


Cougar women are fun, fearless and smart. They have a lot more experience than younger ladies, which often translates into them being wonderful lovers and companions. For some time it has been considered taboo for a young guy to date a cougar woman, but as more celebrities are indulging in these fun relationships, society is beginning to accept that older women can still have fun!

If you want to cut out all of the games and struggles of dating younger ladies, then perhaps you should consider a cougar relationship. Just like any women, there are many cougars, looking for many different kinds of relationships, from one night stands and casual hook ups to dating and marriage. Whatever you are looking for, it is very likely you will be able to find a cougar woman who wants the same thing.

It is important to remember that all cougar women are different. They all have different interests and personalities. However, a common theme amongst cougar women is that they are often sophisticated and enjoy the finer things in life (including good looking younger guys). Therefore if you want to meet cougar women you would be wise to frequent up market bars and clubs. You should dress the part. Wear smart clothes and a dab of expensive cologne. Not only will this help you get noticed by a cougar, you will also feel good about yourself. Exuding confidence is one of the best ways to attract a cougar.

You have your youth on your side and that is very appealing to a cougar woman, so you should feel good about yourself and let your personality shine through. If you see an older woman who you are attracted to, go and offer her a drink. Be polite and act like a gentleman, but be yourself as well.

Now some men may not feel comfortable going out on the pull for a cougar woman. For these men an online dating site may be more appropriate. There are some sites dedicated to hooking cougars up with cubs (younger guys). Here there are loads of cougar women looking to meet guys. You can browse through their profiles by location, age etc. You can also set up your own profile and you will be amazed by how many cougar women actually contact you. The more information you supply the better. Remember to add a flattering photo.

Flirty Text Messages to Send to a Woman


If you are going to flirt the first thing you need to realize is we process different than you do. We are emotional, where as you are visual. If you think a picture of you with your shirt off is going to do it for us, think again. If you can stimulate our minds and put us on an emotional ride, chances are good you have the hook set. When you text message women, remember to make your sms flirty. Some call this art sexting instead of texting.

We don't like boring either. The typical "how are you", "Hope you have a great day", are lame to say the least. We get that at the drive through getting our morning coffee. Spice it up a bit and I don't mean by adding the word sexy or gorgeous. How about I had a dream about you last night. Now she is interested, she thinks, wow, he thinks about me. It will require more than a one word response from her. Now it's up to you to come up with the dream or just tell her, that's for me to know and you to find out. The key to flirty text messages to send to women is in building suspense and tension. If you are going to text message women, make it flirty, funny or cute, not boring.

Another way to build the suspense is if a woman texts you first is not to reply right away. Let her wait awhile. Our brains, trust me, start wondering what are you doing, why aren't you answering and our imaginations run away. Then when you do reply, well what a relief. You just set us on an emotional roller coaster where we were holding our breathe. That's tension in a good way. Flirty text messages to send women should always build that tension which builds the attraction.

Text messaging is fast becoming one of the key tools in the dating world. If you know how to flirt with women through texting, you will have an upper hand. Learn this art, stand out above the other men. Learn about flirty text messages to send to women.

Flirty Text Messages to Send to a Woman


If you are going to flirt the first thing you need to realize is we process different than you do. We are emotional, where as you are visual. If you think a picture of you with your shirt off is going to do it for us, think again. If you can stimulate our minds and put us on an emotional ride, chances are good you have the hook set. When you text message women, remember to make your sms flirty. Some call this art sexting instead of texting.

We don't like boring either. The typical "how are you", "Hope you have a great day", are lame to say the least. We get that at the drive through getting our morning coffee. Spice it up a bit and I don't mean by adding the word sexy or gorgeous. How about I had a dream about you last night. Now she is interested, she thinks, wow, he thinks about me. It will require more than a one word response from her. Now it's up to you to come up with the dream or just tell her, that's for me to know and you to find out. The key to flirty text messages to send to women is in building suspense and tension. If you are going to text message women, make it flirty, funny or cute, not boring.

Another way to build the suspense is if a woman texts you first is not to reply right away. Let her wait awhile. Our brains, trust me, start wondering what are you doing, why aren't you answering and our imaginations run away. Then when you do reply, well what a relief. You just set us on an emotional roller coaster where we were holding our breathe. That's tension in a good way. Flirty text messages to send women should always build that tension which builds the attraction.

Text messaging is fast becoming one of the key tools in the dating world. If you know how to flirt with women through texting, you will have an upper hand. Learn this art, stand out above the other men. Learn about flirty text messages to send to women.

Best 10 Ways to Get a Boyfriend - See If You Have What it Takes


These are the 10 best ways to get a boyfriend. Use this information well and you'll be surprised at how quickly you get results.

1) Be true to who you are. You'll here this time and time again and yet many women still tend to pretend to be someone they are not in hopes of landing their man. This only makes him think he's falling in love with someone you're not. You don't want to get any man. You want to find that right man and the right man is going to love you for who you really are not who you pretend to be.

2) Smile. Those pearly whites are going to be what turns his heart inside out and makes it do little flip-flops in his chest. Practice smiling and smile a lot.

3) Laugh. People laugh when they are having fun and he wants to find a girl that is fun. Make sure he sees you laughing as much as possible and avoid moping around in the corner.

4) Lift other people up. Many women think they have to rip other women to shreds in order to make themselves look better to a man. This is so not the case. Men want a woman that is confident enough in who she is to know she doesn't need to tear other women down to look good.

5) Be his friend. Even if your ultimate goal is to be so much more than friends start out by being his friend. Eventually he's likely to see you in a different light (if it takes too long you can take more decisive action but being his friend is a great beginning).

6) Ask him out. Believe it or not, the direct approach works. Don't make it sound like a big deal or a lifetime commitment but make sure he knows it's a date. Say the word date specifically (sometimes men are a bit thick about getting the big picture). If you start with a date it can work up to boyfriend status but you've gotta start somewhere.

7) Flirt. More specifically, flirt with him. This is a sure sign to many guys that you are interested. If you aren't comfortable with the direct approach the subtly of flirting is a close (though not quite as effective) second.

8) Get inside his head. Think like him and you'll be surprised at how quickly you realize what you need to do get him interested. It might be packaging a little differently or finding the right words but you'll be better able to get your point across if you think the way he thinks.

9) Date someone else. There's nothing quite as effective as jealousy for getting a guy's attention. If you have a specific guy in mind dating someone else might be just what it takes to shake him into action.

10) Self assurance. Be confident in who you are. You are a beautiful vibrant woman who has a lot to offer any man who catches your eye. Don't sell yourself short over an ounce of cellulite or an imperfect complexion. Fix those problems if you must but face the world and the object of your affections with the assurance that he'd be a fool to miss out on this opportunity

Are these the best 10 ways to get a boyfriend? You better believe it. Give them a try and see for yourself.

Dating Online - Quite an Experience


Dating online has changed the dating world for quite a number of single people. With so many dating websites out there, it's not hard to find one to meet your particular needs. Just like in real life, the tricky part is finding the right person to connect with.

About six months ago, I found myself dating online. I met some nice guys but it seemed that those guys I wanted to see again didn't necessarily feel the same way. Those who pursued me were the ones I had weeded out the moment I saw their screen name or the picture that screamed, "I'm a 44-year-old dude living in my mom's basement!" One particularly obnoxious guy took me out for Japanese, was rude to the server and then told me that he would leave the tip if I paid for dinner. Still, I knew that there were people who found love by dating online. Two of my best friends met on eHarmony and they are perfect together. If they could find each other, there was hope for me too.

In my determination, I kept at it. Maybe it was time to shake things up and try a different dating site. After spending too much time creating my new profile at Yahoo Personals, my new profile was online. Then I saw his picture. He had long hair and thoughtful eyes, the kind that look like they are smiling at you all by themselves. But it was his crooked smile that I recognized. He was a boyfriend from years before. I couldn't even remember how it had ended all those years ago, so I couldn't guess whether he would want to talk to me. But he was here too and anything was possible. It only took a few days before I noticed that he had viewed my online profile. Trying to be coy, I made myself private so he wouldn't notice me looking at him.

Day after day, he visited my profile. Finally, I couldn't take the suspense anymore. The time had come to send him a message. Imagine my surprise when his only response was "Thanks, I liked your message." Of course, I soon learned that this was a canned response from the dating website, which was all that a non-paying member had the ability to send. In just a few days, there was email in my mailbox from him--a real email rather than a canned response. He purchased a membership and told me that he had to see me again.

Dating online was a great experience for me, in the end. I was able to reconnect with an old flame and not a single week has gone by that we haven't spent most of our time together. He might have been anyone, not necessarily someone I once knew. The only difference is that the comfort level was there; the memories were there. After all these years, we met each other again but this time, it was thanks to Internet dating.

Best 10 Ways to Get a Boyfriend - See If You Have What it Takes


These are the 10 best ways to get a boyfriend. Use this information well and you'll be surprised at how quickly you get results.

1) Be true to who you are. You'll here this time and time again and yet many women still tend to pretend to be someone they are not in hopes of landing their man. This only makes him think he's falling in love with someone you're not. You don't want to get any man. You want to find that right man and the right man is going to love you for who you really are not who you pretend to be.

2) Smile. Those pearly whites are going to be what turns his heart inside out and makes it do little flip-flops in his chest. Practice smiling and smile a lot.

3) Laugh. People laugh when they are having fun and he wants to find a girl that is fun. Make sure he sees you laughing as much as possible and avoid moping around in the corner.

4) Lift other people up. Many women think they have to rip other women to shreds in order to make themselves look better to a man. This is so not the case. Men want a woman that is confident enough in who she is to know she doesn't need to tear other women down to look good.

5) Be his friend. Even if your ultimate goal is to be so much more than friends start out by being his friend. Eventually he's likely to see you in a different light (if it takes too long you can take more decisive action but being his friend is a great beginning).

6) Ask him out. Believe it or not, the direct approach works. Don't make it sound like a big deal or a lifetime commitment but make sure he knows it's a date. Say the word date specifically (sometimes men are a bit thick about getting the big picture). If you start with a date it can work up to boyfriend status but you've gotta start somewhere.

7) Flirt. More specifically, flirt with him. This is a sure sign to many guys that you are interested. If you aren't comfortable with the direct approach the subtly of flirting is a close (though not quite as effective) second.

8) Get inside his head. Think like him and you'll be surprised at how quickly you realize what you need to do get him interested. It might be packaging a little differently or finding the right words but you'll be better able to get your point across if you think the way he thinks.

9) Date someone else. There's nothing quite as effective as jealousy for getting a guy's attention. If you have a specific guy in mind dating someone else might be just what it takes to shake him into action.

10) Self assurance. Be confident in who you are. You are a beautiful vibrant woman who has a lot to offer any man who catches your eye. Don't sell yourself short over an ounce of cellulite or an imperfect complexion. Fix those problems if you must but face the world and the object of your affections with the assurance that he'd be a fool to miss out on this opportunity

Are these the best 10 ways to get a boyfriend? You better believe it. Give them a try and see for yourself.

How to Seduce a Woman Easily - Without Having to Look Like Tom Cruise


When a woman suddenly comes to the realization she's in love with a guy, she swoons. That doesn't necessarily mean that she's going to pass out cold on the floor - but she may show other signs, such as increased heart rate, blushing, and that look of pure adoration.

Who wouldn't want to be the guy that makes women swoon? You don't need to look like a movie star to do it, either. This easy system consists of 3 just simple skills, so there's no reason not to try it out.

How To Seduce A Woman Easily - Without Having To Look Like Tom Cruise

Tactic #1. Courtship Tips - If your standard method is to start with the "cold approach" and then escalate with innuendo and light touching, then here's a good tip. Girls love a man who can chat all night with them. During your conversation, move near her and lightly touch her in a totally platonic way. If you can be forward without being forceful and lead the conversation, girls will really like you.

Girls these days are really smart, which means you must be able to hold a conversation. A clever girl can easily just use you for drinks and then ditch you if she realizes that you're nervous. Get her attracted to you by providing compelling conversation that she can't get enough of.

Tactic #2. Show Your Sensitive Side - Letting a woman see your softer side will go a long way toward getting her to let down her barriers. Just because you have a manly façade doesn't mean you can't show your feelings. Share with her a story that she relates too emotionally. Even if you lack a good story, you can borrow one from a friend or even a movie, or just make one up. Ultimately, showing your vulnerability will make her reveal hers, and then you're in.

Tactic #3. Hypnotize Her - Along the same lines as the second tip, you need to get her to feel drawn to you. You can employ hypnosis techniques in a subtle way to draw her in even as you talk about normal things - such methods have been used before. One hypnotic technique, known as fractionation, is said to make a girl fall in love almost instantly - in 15 minutes or less. While it's sometimes frowned upon, this technique is remarkably effective.

How to Talk to Girls With Style


One of the most difficult and time consuming things in a man's life in finding out how to talk to girls effectively. Since every woman is her own little enigma, sometimes it can be difficult to wrap your head around what the girl is thinking. The best way to get into her head, then, might not be to acknowledge her thought process whatsoever. Instead, try to look more at how you converse with anyone, this should give you a better barometer of how you are getting through to people.

When you first start talking to someone, especially someone that you don't know or haven't spoken to before, you'll want to convey certain personality traits. One of the most important, especially when you are learning how to talk to girls, is confidence. Having a rock-solid sense of self esteem is a powerful ally on your side.

Have you ever spoken to someone that was absolutely sure they knew what they were talking about? It doesn't even matter if they were correct or not, because when people are extremely confident in their beliefs, that sense of sureness is contagious. Even if you are completely wrong about something, people will tend to believe what you are saying if you believe it yourself, because the confidence that you have in your own words will show.

Now, this doesn't mean to lie to people, which is the exact opposite thing that you want to do. If you aren't one hundred percent sure of something, then don't open your mouth. It's really that simple. Doing this will also allow other people the chance to speak, and everyone likes a good listener.

In fact, when two people are having a conversation, and one of the people talks more than the other, the talker tends to think that the conversation went really well. This is because they control the conversation, and are trapped in their own head-space while you're just along for the ride. So, another little useful tip when you are finding out how to talk to girls is to listen!

Now, listening to something and hearing something are two completely different things. When you are actively listening to someone, you want to take bits and pieces of what they are saying and formulate responses, which can either be a question or a statement. Try to make your responses more general, as this won't pigeonhole the conversation and will instead lead it to other topics.

Lastly, if you are trying to learn how to talk to girls effectively, you need to do it on a daily basis. Period. The only way to get good at something is to try! You will probably fail a few times, especially if you are trying to speak to a woman that you don't know, but this happens to everyone and is part of the process. Also, you'll never know what works if you don't find out what doesn't work first!

How to Seduce a Woman Easily - Without Having to Look Like Tom Cruise


When a woman suddenly comes to the realization she's in love with a guy, she swoons. That doesn't necessarily mean that she's going to pass out cold on the floor - but she may show other signs, such as increased heart rate, blushing, and that look of pure adoration.

Who wouldn't want to be the guy that makes women swoon? You don't need to look like a movie star to do it, either. This easy system consists of 3 just simple skills, so there's no reason not to try it out.

How To Seduce A Woman Easily - Without Having To Look Like Tom Cruise

Tactic #1. Courtship Tips - If your standard method is to start with the "cold approach" and then escalate with innuendo and light touching, then here's a good tip. Girls love a man who can chat all night with them. During your conversation, move near her and lightly touch her in a totally platonic way. If you can be forward without being forceful and lead the conversation, girls will really like you.

Girls these days are really smart, which means you must be able to hold a conversation. A clever girl can easily just use you for drinks and then ditch you if she realizes that you're nervous. Get her attracted to you by providing compelling conversation that she can't get enough of.

Tactic #2. Show Your Sensitive Side - Letting a woman see your softer side will go a long way toward getting her to let down her barriers. Just because you have a manly façade doesn't mean you can't show your feelings. Share with her a story that she relates too emotionally. Even if you lack a good story, you can borrow one from a friend or even a movie, or just make one up. Ultimately, showing your vulnerability will make her reveal hers, and then you're in.

Tactic #3. Hypnotize Her - Along the same lines as the second tip, you need to get her to feel drawn to you. You can employ hypnosis techniques in a subtle way to draw her in even as you talk about normal things - such methods have been used before. One hypnotic technique, known as fractionation, is said to make a girl fall in love almost instantly - in 15 minutes or less. While it's sometimes frowned upon, this technique is remarkably effective.

How to Talk to Girls With Style


One of the most difficult and time consuming things in a man's life in finding out how to talk to girls effectively. Since every woman is her own little enigma, sometimes it can be difficult to wrap your head around what the girl is thinking. The best way to get into her head, then, might not be to acknowledge her thought process whatsoever. Instead, try to look more at how you converse with anyone, this should give you a better barometer of how you are getting through to people.

When you first start talking to someone, especially someone that you don't know or haven't spoken to before, you'll want to convey certain personality traits. One of the most important, especially when you are learning how to talk to girls, is confidence. Having a rock-solid sense of self esteem is a powerful ally on your side.

Have you ever spoken to someone that was absolutely sure they knew what they were talking about? It doesn't even matter if they were correct or not, because when people are extremely confident in their beliefs, that sense of sureness is contagious. Even if you are completely wrong about something, people will tend to believe what you are saying if you believe it yourself, because the confidence that you have in your own words will show.

Now, this doesn't mean to lie to people, which is the exact opposite thing that you want to do. If you aren't one hundred percent sure of something, then don't open your mouth. It's really that simple. Doing this will also allow other people the chance to speak, and everyone likes a good listener.

In fact, when two people are having a conversation, and one of the people talks more than the other, the talker tends to think that the conversation went really well. This is because they control the conversation, and are trapped in their own head-space while you're just along for the ride. So, another little useful tip when you are finding out how to talk to girls is to listen!

Now, listening to something and hearing something are two completely different things. When you are actively listening to someone, you want to take bits and pieces of what they are saying and formulate responses, which can either be a question or a statement. Try to make your responses more general, as this won't pigeonhole the conversation and will instead lead it to other topics.

Lastly, if you are trying to learn how to talk to girls effectively, you need to do it on a daily basis. Period. The only way to get good at something is to try! You will probably fail a few times, especially if you are trying to speak to a woman that you don't know, but this happens to everyone and is part of the process. Also, you'll never know what works if you don't find out what doesn't work first!

How to Seduce a Woman Easily - Without Having to Look Like Tom Cruise


When a woman suddenly comes to the realization she's in love with a guy, she swoons. That doesn't necessarily mean that she's going to pass out cold on the floor - but she may show other signs, such as increased heart rate, blushing, and that look of pure adoration.

Who wouldn't want to be the guy that makes women swoon? You don't need to look like a movie star to do it, either. This easy system consists of 3 just simple skills, so there's no reason not to try it out.

How To Seduce A Woman Easily - Without Having To Look Like Tom Cruise

Tactic #1. Courtship Tips - If your standard method is to start with the "cold approach" and then escalate with innuendo and light touching, then here's a good tip. Girls love a man who can chat all night with them. During your conversation, move near her and lightly touch her in a totally platonic way. If you can be forward without being forceful and lead the conversation, girls will really like you.

Girls these days are really smart, which means you must be able to hold a conversation. A clever girl can easily just use you for drinks and then ditch you if she realizes that you're nervous. Get her attracted to you by providing compelling conversation that she can't get enough of.

Tactic #2. Show Your Sensitive Side - Letting a woman see your softer side will go a long way toward getting her to let down her barriers. Just because you have a manly façade doesn't mean you can't show your feelings. Share with her a story that she relates too emotionally. Even if you lack a good story, you can borrow one from a friend or even a movie, or just make one up. Ultimately, showing your vulnerability will make her reveal hers, and then you're in.

Tactic #3. Hypnotize Her - Along the same lines as the second tip, you need to get her to feel drawn to you. You can employ hypnosis techniques in a subtle way to draw her in even as you talk about normal things - such methods have been used before. One hypnotic technique, known as fractionation, is said to make a girl fall in love almost instantly - in 15 minutes or less. While it's sometimes frowned upon, this technique is remarkably effective.

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