5 Ways to Get a High Quality Boyfriend

Women constantly complain that they cannot find quality men. Only last night I listened to a long time friend of mine mouth the recurring theme of "no good men left."
 
Well the truth be told, high quality things are not easy to find. High quality, valuable stones are not only expensive but very rare. Their value is proportionate to their scarcity. Gold, diamond and other precious stones are premium because they are not easy to come by.
 
Accept that quality men are  a rare breed
 
My first suggestion in finding a quality man is to accept that he will not be waiting for you around the street corner or knocking on you door tomorrow. Understand and be prepared to sift through the rubble to find your diamond of a man. Most diamonds actually come in the rough. They have to be cleaned, cut and polished. I do believe that you may have to kiss many frogs to find your prince.
 
Quality men are not always "ready made."
 
Although many women would not admit many women behave as if the man they want has to be "ready made." That is they should possess with most if not all of the qualities they dream about.
 
"I don't want someone I have to work on," Ashley told me in no uncertain terms, after I pointed out that Chris is a work in progress. Ironically I do think the she needs some polishing herself as she can be very brash and blunt.
 
Be a high quality person
 
Well that brings me to my third point; in order to get a high quality man, you need to be a high quality woman. You cannot be a pig and expect to attract a peacock. That is not the way it works in real life. If you want an intelligent person, you need to cultivate your intellect. If want a person of class and dignity you need to be classy and dignified. I think it was Ghandi who said you need to be the change you want to see in the world.
While opposites attract it is similarity that binds people together.
 
Have many high quality friends and associates
 
 A corollary point to this is that you need to have quality friends. Birds of a feather not only flock together but they attract similar birds that also bring their friends and family along. The important point here is simply to have friends and associates like the person you want to attract in your life. Each of these people, have a network of friends, one of whom may be the person you are looking for. Many people admit that they met their husband through a friend, colleague or family. Someone once said that you are only six persons away from what you want. In other words someone you know, knows someone, who knows someone else, etc who can put you in touch with who and what you want. Start expanding your base of friendship to include people of the same ilk of the person you desire.
 
Lastly but certainly not least, if you are looking for a high quality man, you need to go to high quality places. High quality places should not be interpreted to mean expensive places. It simply means you should frequent places where many of these types of people hang out. For example if you want an ambitious man you should going inspirational and motivational meeting or even meetings where investment and money making ventures are discussed and taught. If love and admire people who can speak elegantly maybe you should join Toast Masters International. The chance of you finding a compatible person in these meetings is significantly increased. 
 
In summary, to find a quality man:
 

1. Accept that the process is not going to be a piece of cake. Good things are not easy to acquire. Good men are hard to get. Accepting this makes the process a lot easier.


2. Realize that the gem you are looking may not first appear like a polished diamond.


3. To get a quality man you must also be a quality woman.


4. To increase the probability of meeting a quality man have lots of quality friends and associates


5. To heighten your chances of meeting a quality man visit places where quality men gather.

5 Reasons Why You Should Be Able to Get a Date - How to Become a Player

How do you tell if you are on the right track into getting a date and if you really know how to become a player?

It's very easy to find out if there's something wrong with the way you flirt with women or not. There are lots of indicators that can provide you with the proof whether you are on the right track or not when it comes to getting a date. There are only 5 indicators that can tell you whether you are most probably going to get a date or not, and these 5 tips, when practiced properly can teach you how to become a player:

1. Your confidence. Confidence can tell so much about your personality. If you are shy, you will most likely have a hard time getting a date, but on the other hand, if you know how to act around women, it will be easy for you to get them to like you. Just see how in demand confidence is: when attracting women, you need confidence; when talking to women, you need confidence; when even walking through a hall full of women, you will still need confidence to make it to the other side without stumbling down along the way. A lot of guys can't handle themselves properly when around women and they would most likely make more mistakes than their confident counterparts. To avoid clumsiness, you must equip yourself with enough confidence and poise.

2. Your looks. Not to sound superficial here, but attraction begins with how women see you and not how you good you are in certain "nerdy" areas. If you want to attract women at the first glance or to command attention at least, try to dress maturely and neatly as possible. Don't overdress nor under-dress because that can be a huge turn off. Turn to nice suits and ties or probably a clean polo.

3. Your appeal around women. If women remember you as someone who is confident, it will be very easy for you get their attraction as well as attention. It is important to keep a certain appeal when around women, because if your looks can't do it, your appeal will attract them for you. Just think about this, who would you prefer talking to: someone who is confident of himself and his actions or someone who is shy and uncertain of what he does everyday? You must build your appeal with women so they will likely you more and will most definitely prefer you among other guys they meet.

4. Your intriguing personality. You must try to be mysterious as much as possible so as to attract women. Women love intriguing guys since they claim that attraction ends as soon as the intrigue does. Keep them hooked on you by being intriguing and attractive to your date.

5. Your interpersonal skills. You must know how to socialize with people for them to know you better. If you want to be noticed by girls, somehow you just need to very friendly and charming to be able to attract many women possible. It is very important to know how to socialize and to keep that attraction flowing.

Do you find one of your traits written above? If you do, then that is definitely one of the best traits you should try to develop. On the contrary, if you seem to lack confidence, then build that missing trait up so you'll know how to become a player.

Rarely Call a Man You Have Interest In

If you know you are interested in a certain man or the attraction you are feeling for him is growing, do not make it a habit to call him often. I know this sound like the "rules" but there is a very good reason why you should not give up your power while you are getting to know him.

If I see a man as a friend, I have no problems calling him often or even if he does not return my calls. I even harass him a little in a friendly way. But not if you have an attraction to the man you are with, you need to do the opposite.

The concept behind this is what some call the mating game. If you look at certain species in the animal kingdom, the female exhibits certain behaviors that will naturally spark the attraction in the male.

You might think it's no big deal and that you should just do whatever you want to do...well, it's time to take a look at whether you are having the level of success that you want.

You need to exhibit the BEHAVIORS that build attraction. When you do, you will get the results you are looking for.

Everyone wants to believe that they are getting a prize and a woman who is just out of a man's reach will be far more appealing to him than a woman who hops at his every word.

Your relationship with the telephone will say a lot about the kind of woman you are, just make sure that you're not using it to get into a power play.

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5 Reasons Why You Should Be Able to Get a Date - How to Become a Player

How do you tell if you are on the right track into getting a date and if you really know how to become a player?

It's very easy to find out if there's something wrong with the way you flirt with women or not. There are lots of indicators that can provide you with the proof whether you are on the right track or not when it comes to getting a date. There are only 5 indicators that can tell you whether you are most probably going to get a date or not, and these 5 tips, when practiced properly can teach you how to become a player:

1. Your confidence. Confidence can tell so much about your personality. If you are shy, you will most likely have a hard time getting a date, but on the other hand, if you know how to act around women, it will be easy for you to get them to like you. Just see how in demand confidence is: when attracting women, you need confidence; when talking to women, you need confidence; when even walking through a hall full of women, you will still need confidence to make it to the other side without stumbling down along the way. A lot of guys can't handle themselves properly when around women and they would most likely make more mistakes than their confident counterparts. To avoid clumsiness, you must equip yourself with enough confidence and poise.

2. Your looks. Not to sound superficial here, but attraction begins with how women see you and not how you good you are in certain "nerdy" areas. If you want to attract women at the first glance or to command attention at least, try to dress maturely and neatly as possible. Don't overdress nor under-dress because that can be a huge turn off. Turn to nice suits and ties or probably a clean polo.

3. Your appeal around women. If women remember you as someone who is confident, it will be very easy for you get their attraction as well as attention. It is important to keep a certain appeal when around women, because if your looks can't do it, your appeal will attract them for you. Just think about this, who would you prefer talking to: someone who is confident of himself and his actions or someone who is shy and uncertain of what he does everyday? You must build your appeal with women so they will likely you more and will most definitely prefer you among other guys they meet.

4. Your intriguing personality. You must try to be mysterious as much as possible so as to attract women. Women love intriguing guys since they claim that attraction ends as soon as the intrigue does. Keep them hooked on you by being intriguing and attractive to your date.

5. Your interpersonal skills. You must know how to socialize with people for them to know you better. If you want to be noticed by girls, somehow you just need to very friendly and charming to be able to attract many women possible. It is very important to know how to socialize and to keep that attraction flowing.

Do you find one of your traits written above? If you do, then that is definitely one of the best traits you should try to develop. On the contrary, if you seem to lack confidence, then build that missing trait up so you'll know how to become a player.

Herpes Online Dating

Unfortunately, there are millions of people in the world who suffer from the incurable affliction of herpes. Often times, this is the least thought-about sexually transmitted disease, and even more rarely do people take measures to warn their partners about the situation. This has caused herpes to become one of the fastest spreading STDs in the world. Sometimes, a person doesn't even know they're infected with herpes and still manages to transmit them to their sexual partner. Once a person learns of this condition, is their life over? No, far from it; in fact, the only real side effect to herpes is an occasional ugly sore. Even still, herpes online dating sites have become huge over the past few years. With herpes online dating sites, people can be comfortable in knowing that someone else shares their embarrassing affliction. Not only is there no current cure for the herpes virus, but there's also no surefire way to stop from transmitting the virus to your partner. With herpes online dating sites, people can find someone who shares the affliction, thus not having to hide or worry.

Herpes online dating sites work in multiple ways. The first thought from someone without herpes might be "these people are just sticking together." Okay, this isn't far from the truth. But there's a lot more to it than that. One of the most popular aspects about online dating sites in general is the way they bring people together with similar backgrounds, similar cultures, etc. Dating sites help draw people together who have something in common. It's only logical that with over 45-million people in the world with herpes that a herpes online dating site would arrive. A large number of people with herpes are to afraid to start dating again.They fear rejection and they simply do not stay in touch with the rest of the world, persuading themselves that dating is not a viable option.With the appearance of sites that offer dating services for people with herpes,people suffering from it realize that the world has not come to an end for them.

These sites have a huge amount of treatment options and newsletters and some even organize support groups to help people afflicted with herpes. In addition, a lot of people are so quick to judge, ready to write someone off simply because, most likely through no fault of their own, they contracted this virus. Herpes online dating sites give sufferers a break from this harsh world and allow them to feel at ease with themselves. It doesn't matter if you're searching for support, new friends, or a soul mate, herpes online dating sites exist so that those impacted by this virus have somewhere to go that understands their needs.

5 Reasons Why You Should Be Able to Get a Date - How to Become a Player

How do you tell if you are on the right track into getting a date and if you really know how to become a player?

It's very easy to find out if there's something wrong with the way you flirt with women or not. There are lots of indicators that can provide you with the proof whether you are on the right track or not when it comes to getting a date. There are only 5 indicators that can tell you whether you are most probably going to get a date or not, and these 5 tips, when practiced properly can teach you how to become a player:

1. Your confidence. Confidence can tell so much about your personality. If you are shy, you will most likely have a hard time getting a date, but on the other hand, if you know how to act around women, it will be easy for you to get them to like you. Just see how in demand confidence is: when attracting women, you need confidence; when talking to women, you need confidence; when even walking through a hall full of women, you will still need confidence to make it to the other side without stumbling down along the way. A lot of guys can't handle themselves properly when around women and they would most likely make more mistakes than their confident counterparts. To avoid clumsiness, you must equip yourself with enough confidence and poise.

2. Your looks. Not to sound superficial here, but attraction begins with how women see you and not how you good you are in certain "nerdy" areas. If you want to attract women at the first glance or to command attention at least, try to dress maturely and neatly as possible. Don't overdress nor under-dress because that can be a huge turn off. Turn to nice suits and ties or probably a clean polo.

3. Your appeal around women. If women remember you as someone who is confident, it will be very easy for you get their attraction as well as attention. It is important to keep a certain appeal when around women, because if your looks can't do it, your appeal will attract them for you. Just think about this, who would you prefer talking to: someone who is confident of himself and his actions or someone who is shy and uncertain of what he does everyday? You must build your appeal with women so they will likely you more and will most definitely prefer you among other guys they meet.

4. Your intriguing personality. You must try to be mysterious as much as possible so as to attract women. Women love intriguing guys since they claim that attraction ends as soon as the intrigue does. Keep them hooked on you by being intriguing and attractive to your date.

5. Your interpersonal skills. You must know how to socialize with people for them to know you better. If you want to be noticed by girls, somehow you just need to very friendly and charming to be able to attract many women possible. It is very important to know how to socialize and to keep that attraction flowing.

Do you find one of your traits written above? If you do, then that is definitely one of the best traits you should try to develop. On the contrary, if you seem to lack confidence, then build that missing trait up so you'll know how to become a player.

Herpes Online Dating

Unfortunately, there are millions of people in the world who suffer from the incurable affliction of herpes. Often times, this is the least thought-about sexually transmitted disease, and even more rarely do people take measures to warn their partners about the situation. This has caused herpes to become one of the fastest spreading STDs in the world. Sometimes, a person doesn't even know they're infected with herpes and still manages to transmit them to their sexual partner. Once a person learns of this condition, is their life over? No, far from it; in fact, the only real side effect to herpes is an occasional ugly sore. Even still, herpes online dating sites have become huge over the past few years. With herpes online dating sites, people can be comfortable in knowing that someone else shares their embarrassing affliction. Not only is there no current cure for the herpes virus, but there's also no surefire way to stop from transmitting the virus to your partner. With herpes online dating sites, people can find someone who shares the affliction, thus not having to hide or worry.

Herpes online dating sites work in multiple ways. The first thought from someone without herpes might be "these people are just sticking together." Okay, this isn't far from the truth. But there's a lot more to it than that. One of the most popular aspects about online dating sites in general is the way they bring people together with similar backgrounds, similar cultures, etc. Dating sites help draw people together who have something in common. It's only logical that with over 45-million people in the world with herpes that a herpes online dating site would arrive. A large number of people with herpes are to afraid to start dating again.They fear rejection and they simply do not stay in touch with the rest of the world, persuading themselves that dating is not a viable option.With the appearance of sites that offer dating services for people with herpes,people suffering from it realize that the world has not come to an end for them.

These sites have a huge amount of treatment options and newsletters and some even organize support groups to help people afflicted with herpes. In addition, a lot of people are so quick to judge, ready to write someone off simply because, most likely through no fault of their own, they contracted this virus. Herpes online dating sites give sufferers a break from this harsh world and allow them to feel at ease with themselves. It doesn't matter if you're searching for support, new friends, or a soul mate, herpes online dating sites exist so that those impacted by this virus have somewhere to go that understands their needs.

Herpes Online Dating

Unfortunately, there are millions of people in the world who suffer from the incurable affliction of herpes. Often times, this is the least thought-about sexually transmitted disease, and even more rarely do people take measures to warn their partners about the situation. This has caused herpes to become one of the fastest spreading STDs in the world. Sometimes, a person doesn't even know they're infected with herpes and still manages to transmit them to their sexual partner. Once a person learns of this condition, is their life over? No, far from it; in fact, the only real side effect to herpes is an occasional ugly sore. Even still, herpes online dating sites have become huge over the past few years. With herpes online dating sites, people can be comfortable in knowing that someone else shares their embarrassing affliction. Not only is there no current cure for the herpes virus, but there's also no surefire way to stop from transmitting the virus to your partner. With herpes online dating sites, people can find someone who shares the affliction, thus not having to hide or worry.

Herpes online dating sites work in multiple ways. The first thought from someone without herpes might be "these people are just sticking together." Okay, this isn't far from the truth. But there's a lot more to it than that. One of the most popular aspects about online dating sites in general is the way they bring people together with similar backgrounds, similar cultures, etc. Dating sites help draw people together who have something in common. It's only logical that with over 45-million people in the world with herpes that a herpes online dating site would arrive. A large number of people with herpes are to afraid to start dating again.They fear rejection and they simply do not stay in touch with the rest of the world, persuading themselves that dating is not a viable option.With the appearance of sites that offer dating services for people with herpes,people suffering from it realize that the world has not come to an end for them.

These sites have a huge amount of treatment options and newsletters and some even organize support groups to help people afflicted with herpes. In addition, a lot of people are so quick to judge, ready to write someone off simply because, most likely through no fault of their own, they contracted this virus. Herpes online dating sites give sufferers a break from this harsh world and allow them to feel at ease with themselves. It doesn't matter if you're searching for support, new friends, or a soul mate, herpes online dating sites exist so that those impacted by this virus have somewhere to go that understands their needs.

Why Did He Stop Calling After Sex?

Astonishingly this type of thing occurs frequently. Men stop calling after they've had sex and women sit by the phone wondering what happened. You date a man casually for a few times and things seem to go so well. You have chemistry with this man. He takes you out on a few great dates and you sense incredible connection.

After a great night out, dinner and a movie, perhaps some dancing and a couple of drinks you end up in bed with this man.

Sparks fly. And you are feeling strong feelings for him. And it just feels right, as it it was destiny.

You get up in the morning only to find that he is getting ready to leave the house. After your inquiry he gives you a peck on the cheek and says that he has to leave in a hurry. Or perhaps not. Maybe he offers to take you out to breakfast and then take you home. So he does. He even buys you breakfast at a diner and drives you home.

He says he will call you.

But there is just something that doesn't feel right. Why did he have to leave so soon? Why did he seem so indifferent?

Unfortunately this is not uncommon. What women don't understand is how men regard sex in relationships and what sex means to a man. Women and men think of having sex differently and the expectations of the relationship drastically change after physical intimacy. The reason that men stop calling after sex is that while men expect a woman act a certain way after the fact, women often act completely differently from what men expect, thereby causing men to pull away almost immediately.

What Not to Do When Dating

Want to know what not to do when dating? Here are some pointers:

Seduction can be enticing but everyone has a threshold for how many mind games they can absorb in one relationship.  Seduction is common in the early stages of dating but as a relationship becomes serious, more emphasis is placed on reality instead of fantasy.  Keeping secrets is not sexy forever and hot and cold personality shifts eventually become very trying.  In other words, too much game playing can be exhausting, perhaps even hurtful, to people who is looking for true love, not just constant fun.

Another issue to consider is that of going after the wrong person.  Face it, many relationships end simply because the two lovers are not compatible with one another.  This is not so much a problem with behavior by either mate, as it is a problem with not seeing the "red flags" early on in a budding relationship.  Unfortunately, many lovers go mad trying to do the impossible: make a doomed relationship work.

When couples make too many reckless choices early on in a relationship, this can be foreboding for the future.  Relationships should be approached carefully.  In a relationship, you are dealing with two very delicate egos and an entire lifetime of bliss that rests upon just a few pivotal months of introduction.  Relationships that are rushed into without much thought usually crumble over time.  Reckless behaviors by both partners can also cause friction in the relationships.  For the best results, consider a relationship like a new organism - one that needs a strong foundation of trust before it can thrive. 

What Not to Do When Dating

Want to know what not to do when dating? Here are some pointers:

Seduction can be enticing but everyone has a threshold for how many mind games they can absorb in one relationship.  Seduction is common in the early stages of dating but as a relationship becomes serious, more emphasis is placed on reality instead of fantasy.  Keeping secrets is not sexy forever and hot and cold personality shifts eventually become very trying.  In other words, too much game playing can be exhausting, perhaps even hurtful, to people who is looking for true love, not just constant fun.

Another issue to consider is that of going after the wrong person.  Face it, many relationships end simply because the two lovers are not compatible with one another.  This is not so much a problem with behavior by either mate, as it is a problem with not seeing the "red flags" early on in a budding relationship.  Unfortunately, many lovers go mad trying to do the impossible: make a doomed relationship work.

When couples make too many reckless choices early on in a relationship, this can be foreboding for the future.  Relationships should be approached carefully.  In a relationship, you are dealing with two very delicate egos and an entire lifetime of bliss that rests upon just a few pivotal months of introduction.  Relationships that are rushed into without much thought usually crumble over time.  Reckless behaviors by both partners can also cause friction in the relationships.  For the best results, consider a relationship like a new organism - one that needs a strong foundation of trust before it can thrive. 

What Not to Do When Dating

Want to know what not to do when dating? Here are some pointers:

Seduction can be enticing but everyone has a threshold for how many mind games they can absorb in one relationship.  Seduction is common in the early stages of dating but as a relationship becomes serious, more emphasis is placed on reality instead of fantasy.  Keeping secrets is not sexy forever and hot and cold personality shifts eventually become very trying.  In other words, too much game playing can be exhausting, perhaps even hurtful, to people who is looking for true love, not just constant fun.

Another issue to consider is that of going after the wrong person.  Face it, many relationships end simply because the two lovers are not compatible with one another.  This is not so much a problem with behavior by either mate, as it is a problem with not seeing the "red flags" early on in a budding relationship.  Unfortunately, many lovers go mad trying to do the impossible: make a doomed relationship work.

When couples make too many reckless choices early on in a relationship, this can be foreboding for the future.  Relationships should be approached carefully.  In a relationship, you are dealing with two very delicate egos and an entire lifetime of bliss that rests upon just a few pivotal months of introduction.  Relationships that are rushed into without much thought usually crumble over time.  Reckless behaviors by both partners can also cause friction in the relationships.  For the best results, consider a relationship like a new organism - one that needs a strong foundation of trust before it can thrive. 

Date Who You Want

Most people approach dating with many limits on themselves and who they feel they are able to attract. They may have a dream guy or girl in mind, but they never really think that they can be the kind of person that would be able to date that man or woman. So, instead they never even try. Worst of all, they continue to think that they have these limits and if they do find someone, they usually settle.

YOU DON"T HAVE TO!

You don't have to settle for someone that is not the kind of person you would like to date. Don't believe in the limits that you have placed upon yourself. Remember that all limits are made to be broken and you can learn how to attract the kind of people that you would like to date.

Most people do not get the dating results that they want simply because they lack the confidence or the assured feeling that is required to forget about rejection and pursue whomever they choose. You can easily double your dating results the minute you decide to take control and let go of any dating fears that you may have. Remember, if a fear does not serve you, you do not need it. So, instead get the dating results that you would like. It is probably a lot easier than you think and you never know what could happen until you try.

Learn how to attract someone that you really want. Forget about what you thought about dating. Learn something new!

How to Attract a Woman - 7 Proven Steps Unleash Your Inner Bad Boy and Easily Make Any Woman Yours!

Today's society has proven itself to be a tough place for men and women to connect no matter how they go about it.  Let's face it, on the dating scene men are divided into two groups; the nice guys and..... the bad boys. Then there are guys that combine the best of both to spark attraction in women.  You too can find a happy medium between the good and the bad it just takes smart thinking.  How can you make this come together?  To put it in one word:  Compromise. Every good guy has an inner bad boy just waiting to rise up and have fun.  Here are some ways to help you bring your bad boy to the surface and be the alpha male that women cannot resist. Here are some ways to help you become that guy, then you can learn to attract a woman.

The Steps for How to Attract a Woman:

*Be Confident - You must change your thinking a little before you can put a plan into action.  This is just plain common sense.  Put a little attitude in what you say and do.  Having a confident attitude leaves the impression that you know what you are doing and you don't need anyone to tell you how to do anything because you have things well under control.  This means no one has power over you; not even a beautiful woman.  Confidence is the first step in how to attract a woman.

*Be the Man that Makes Her Feel Secure - Once you have your attitude and confidence under control you can now make her feel safe and secure in your relationship.  She'll feel your confidence, show her by taking her hand, walking on the side of the sidewalk nearest to the street, and defending her in any situation. This doesn't mean to get into fights, just to make her feel protected.

*Be Physically Strong - Women love a guy that can protect them.  This all goes along with the confidence and making them feel safe, comfortable and secure.  You can accomplish this by hitting the gym or taking a karate class. You do not have to be big and tall; being strong will do. 

*Be Spontaneous - Women love surprises.  Do something she does not expect you to do.  Do things that are fun and flirty to show her you are not boring or set into a pattern of the same things over and over.  This can be anything from sending her naughty text messages to challenging her to a game of Twister.   This way you are being confident and exciting without being a jerk.  This is a big rule in how to attract a woman.

*Be a Little Rebellious - This is also a big part of attitude and will impress her like you would not believe.  One thing that you can do to show a little rebellion:  You can suddenly stop somewhere in a crowded public place and lay a big kiss on her.  Be brave and spontaneous!   Go forth and break the rules a little sometimes. 

*Be Funny and Joke Around With Her - There is nothing wrong with kidding around with a woman.  You don't want to do it in a mean way but you can still have fun with this.  This incorporates attitude and a little teasing.  This keeps things exciting and a little rebellious as well. 

*Remember, you need confidence and only you can do this for yourself.  Don't let any woman think she is too good for you.  That is just not true.  If you happen to run into this situation it is time to move on to the next woman.  You are worth much more than that.  Make your life more fun and exciting by letting your inner bad boy out and learn to be an alpha male and you will get the girls.  These tips should teach you some of what you need to know about how to attract a woman.