Five Tips For Choosing an Online Dating Service!

1. Does the site let you have a good look around and test drive for free? Any site that's worth its salt and has nothing to hide should let you be able to set up a profile, search for other members using a variety of criteria that suit you (age, location, sex, hair colour, occupation, income, pet lover, non smoker, likes ludo, cluedo and judo etc) and generally use the site to your heart's content so that you can see if you get on with the basics. If a site has very few members or poor navigation or inadequate search facilities then they might not allow any form of free membership. Happens less than it used to, but if you came across a site like this my advice is to stay well clear!

2. Does the site operate in your area or your country? Some sites are country specific. And that's great, as long as it's your country! There's nothing wrong with the global sites although they are a bit of a jack of all trades. But as long as they are big enough (ie. have a large enough database of members) then they too are fine. A global site with few members probably is of little use to anyone. As is a country specific site with few members. few members equals less chance of meeting someone! Unless it's a very specialist site (international cat lovers under five foot two who like art and play golf on Wednesdays dot com might only have eight members on its entire database, but if you're a short cat lover who likes art and spends Wednesday nights at the golf club then you could be in with a chance!).

3. The important thing is you want to meet someone. Or in some cases many people, depending on the type or types of relationship or relationships you are after. Dating has become, and is becoming even more specialist (see 2. above). Clearly it makes sense to consider joining a generalist site as well as a specialist one that caters to more niche interests that you may have. During your "free" membership when browsing the profiles of other members read what they have said. You'll get a feel for the types of members on any particular site. this should help you make your mind up whether the "community" of that particular site is your type of people.

4. But it's not just about other members. You should not lose sight of the fact that online dating sites are run by companies as businesses. The question here is are they doing a good job? What is the customer service like? Do they respond to your email enquiries promptly? If so, do they address your enquiry properly or fob you off with a lazy, standard copy and paste response? Do they offer any money back guarantee? If so, are the terms and conditions reasonable? Some sites now offer some guarantees, but with some it's virtually impossible to meet the stringent criteria of the guarantee. Read the terms very carefully before deciding to sign up.

5. Finally, the whole process should be fun! the point is does the site look like fun, or is it stifled and boring? Some sites are well designed, have a community feel, are engaging with lots of fun stuff as well as helpful info. And in many cases are packed with additional features. look carefully at what's on offer. Draw up a list of what you'd like to see in your ideal dating site and pick one (or more than one) that tick your boxes! If your site is not an ideal match then the likelihood is that neither will be the membership base!

Hopefully the above tips will help you choose a great site so you can meet some great people and have a great time! All the best and have fun!

The 5 Fatal Online Dating Mistakes That Men Make

Online dating can be a fun and interesting way to find your dream girl. In fact, online dating is one of the fastest growing industry on the internet. You get to meet thousands of women online, and the choices are really endless. However, when it comes to online dating, some men have absolutely no sense of etiquette when communicating with women online.

Here are the 5 things that you should never do when you are online. They can be real turnoffs for women. Show the other party, and yourself, some due respect.

1. Don't email her several times in a day asking why she hasn't replied to your email. In general, women receive more emails than men, so just chill. It is also possible that she is away for a holiday, or too busy with work to check her emails. You only appear desperate by doing so.

2. Don't get offended if she doesn't want to you on the phone right away. It doesn't mean that she is not interested to know you. Maybe she just isn't ready yet and feels more comfortable conversing through emails. Either way, you have to be patient and understanding. Women love guys who are understanding.

3. Don't take years to call her. If she gives you her number, it's best to call her that day. If you hesitate and take too long to call her, it's highly possible that she will forget who you are.

4. Don't appear desperate when trading pictures. If you have to ask for more pictures, be polite and refrain from making any special requests. some men request the women to send pictures of themselves in bikinis or stuff. Well, if you know that the girl is cool about it, go ahead! But you must know that not all girls are that generous. And the last thing you should do is to send her dirty pictures of yourself!

5. Don't ask her if she wants to have sex with you. Oh come on! You are NOT on an adult site! Women appreciate men who are intellectual and caring, and not those who are seeking fun. Go elsewhere if you need to!

Avoid these 5 deadly mistakes and you are on your way to meeting the perfect girl of your dreams!

Find Your Dream Man

Are you ready to find the man of your dreams? Have you been looking for a way to be irresistible to men and have them chasing after you?

Sometimes dating can be extremely frustrating and you may be feeling disappointed because you haven't found your true love. Deep down you know that you can connect with a special man and have him fall head over heels in love with you.

There are so many women who do not know the truth about men and commitment. When you discover what attracts men and cause them to commit, suddenly everything will fall into place for you.

Most men date a lot and know the qualities they are looking for in their dream woman. Men want to fall in love and commit to a special woman, but also find it difficult to connect with the right woman who can take their breath away.

Finding your dream man is easy when you learn how to get in tune with what your soul mate is after. Your man is looking for you just as much as you're looking for him and he wants to show you that you can make him the happiest man alive.

It starts with understanding how to create the sort of interest that will lead a man to be naturally drawn to you. When your dream man feels a certain level of connection with you, he'll want to do whatever it takes to make you his woman.

Don't wait anymore for your dream man. Find him easily today.

The One Killer Tactic in Getting a Girl to Fall Head Over Heels For You - Using "Choice Constraint"

Getting a girl attracted to you is indeed tricky business. This is because most men do not really know for sure what women look for in a partner.

To make things a little bit more difficult, it is also impossible to get an answer directly by asking a girl what she wants in a man. If you actually do that, do not be surprised if she shuts you off totally. This is what you would get if you come across as insecure and needy.

Here's what a woman looks for in a man - summarized in one sentence. She wants a confident man who KNOWS EXACTLY what she wants - even though she does not really know what she wants herself.

Did you get that? If not, read that sentence again.

Now that you know exactly what women want, then you will need to do this in order to win any woman's affection - the act of transforming from being a needy person to someone who is charismatic and overflowing with manliness and confidence.

It is important to do this without coming across as arrogant and cocky.

Sure, this is easier said than done, but I will share with you some tips on how to make that transformation. Read on.

So here is how you do it. I am going to share with you a technique adapted from psychology called the 'choice constraint'. The best way to illustrate this is via an example. If she is only presented with one choice only, then she will be hard-pressed to REJECT that option. However, if you give her two or three choices, then she will be choosing any one of the options presented to her.

So how to use this when talking to women then? Simple!

Let's say you go and talk to a woman and want to get her phone number. If you ask her for her number outright, then there is a huge risk of rejection - simply because she knows that she has got the option to reject you.

Instead, apply the "choice constraint" principle and say to her, "Good talking to you. Shall we exchange phone numbers or arrange for a drink this Friday evening?" She will then have to choose between the two, and either choice is great for you.