How to Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend - Take Advantage of Your Time Apart

How to get back with your ex boyfriend might seem to take as much effort as the relationship itself did. The reason is because you are fighting two emotions. The emotions of wanting him back but also the harsh sting of a breakup. They are somewhat polar opposite emotions and thus during this time trusting your instincts is not a great idea. Now is a time for healing and growth with love, support, and wisdom from those closest to you and those that know you best. The reality exists that couples reunite all the time and often the separation was a time of positive growth needed for the relationship to last forever. Take advantage of this time.

How to Take Advantage of this Opportunity!
Tip #1
Learning exactly why your ex boyfriend ended the relationship. Reasons can be many. It could be he felt you were too clingy or just the opposite he wanted more time with you. You need to know search the why the relationship and what pushed him away. This is not a time to raise your defenses but rather a time to look hard in the mirror to grow in areas that perhaps you have not thought about for awhile or areas you have put of f and it has now caught up.

Tip #2
Do not stalk his friends and family. Whatever pushed him away do not take actions that will push him away farther. He wanted space. You need to respect that and adhere to that wish. Calling his friends and family to talk about your ex or to find out how he is doing will get back to him. He will not be happy and will feel betrayed. Remember trusting your instincts is not wise during this time. The very things you think you should do might push him farther away. Stay away from his friends and family.

Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend - 2 Hot Tips to Melt Your Boyfriend's Heart

So you want to know what sweet things to say to your boyfriend? After all, girls are not the only ones who can benefit from a little bit of sweet talk.

To be quite honest, guys can sometimes use a whole bucket load of sweet stuff. But don't expect them to ask for it. Your boyfriend, for one, would probably not admit that he wants you to say such things to him. So it's up to you to figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend does not necessarily want to be told that he's the most beautiful boy you have ever laid your eyes on (although that works for some). Guys and girls are not made of the same ingredients.

Luckily, you have this article to help you figure out what sweet things to say to your boyfriend.

1) Call out his name... and then tell him "I love you."

You do not need an excuse to tell your boyfriend that you love him. A lot of people might think that the phrase is overused but I beg to differ.

Telling the person you love that you love him should be the most natural thing in the world. What I advise is that you spring it on him when he least expects it (but not if you two haven't said these three words to each other yet!).

Casually call out his name as if you want him to run a few errands for you. Once you have his attention, smile and tell him that you love him. This will be sure to leave a smile on his lips for the rest of the day.

2) You are the most wonderful guy I have ever met.

The word "wonderful" transcends the physical. However, other adjectives like "amazing" and "sexiest" will also do as long as you use them in superlative form. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will assure him that you only have eyes for him.

Guys like knowing that they are special in someone's eyes. These sweet things to say to your boyfriend will make him feel even more special because you're the one saying them.

Attraction and Bad Boys

I know you have seen the ads for the movie about the love story between a young male vampire and a "normal" young girl. This movie has really gotten a lot of publicity! To tell the truth, I thought it was strange that such a movie could be so popular, but young girls loved it. Perhaps, my not being a young girl is the reason that I do not understand why so many people would think so highly of a love affair between a vampire and a normal young girl.

Since the movie is a love story, my thoughts of the movie lead me to thoughts about relationships and attraction. Growing up I always heard that girls were attracted to the "bad boys". So, what I did was to try and visualize the young vampire as a "bad boy". I know that many people consider vampires to be a type of monster, but, if you think about it a young male vampire would have to be the ultimate "bad boy". If we can assume that girls actually are attracted to bad boys, maybe there is some logic in the popularity of the movie.

For the most part I was a good boy while in high school; that was until I lost a few girl friends to the so-called bad boys. I tried to ask one of my sons if it was different when he went to high school, but they were usually busy with their video games. I did notice that the boys growing up during my sons era, mostly wanted to look like thugs. Most of them were probably good kids, but if they wanted to be stylish, they needed to look like thugs. I wondered if there was more to my son and his friends' thuggish look than just being stylish.

I looked up attract and attraction in a Webster's Dictionary. It stated:

Attract: "to draw to or toward oneself". Attraction: "the act or power of attracting".

I suppose the dictionary was a good place to start, but it does not tell you very much. What I wanted to know was what causes attraction? A large number of people will likely respond that appearance is the number one cause of attraction. But, I have known some guys whose physical appearance was not that great, yet they had no problem attracting women.

During my research, I saw several instances of supposedly scientific persons (actually pointing to our connection to animals) stating that individuals release a chemical substance (pheromones) that stimulates a behavioral response in others. Perhaps the pheromones released by bad boys are different from what the average male releases, and we can believe that attraction is the result of signals from our sense of smell. My relationship history will attest that I am no Dr. Mac Daddy Got This Down, but anytime I investigate behavioral situations I usually end up at the level of the subconscious mind. Physical appearance may be important in some cases when considering attraction, but I do not believe that it is not the most important factor. I believe that individuals illuminate vibrational energy that is picked up by other individuals. When our intuition tells us that the energy is good or capable creating comfort for us, then we begin to develop an attraction.

Getting back to the question of whether girls are attracted to bad boys? I believe that only girls who are insecure as a result of having been raised without a father present, or with a father who was negligent in his duties as a father. Such girls have a strong desire to be protected by a male. They interrupts the mostly negative energy that vibrates for the bad boy as being protective energy. Her attraction begins and she believes that her days of being afraid are over. Things go well until her bad boy turns on her. What she does not know or does not realize is that most bad boys loose touch with their emotional level of being. They cease to even care about their self. It is almost impossible that her bad boy will ever care about anyone else, at least not for very long.

Herman Wheeler

How to Get the Woman You Want - Dating Tips For Men

Online dating has come a long way in the past 10 years. There are quite literally hundreds of dating sites that cater to all ethnic and religious back grounds. However they all share one common factor: Selling yourself to the opposite sex. The first online pick up secret is to adopt the mentality that you are selling yourself. Here is how to exponentially increase your numbers and get more dates with any online dating site.



1) Online Dating Profile:



Your online dating profile is probably the most important aspect of online dating it must convey your positive traits. Think of it as a company website or marketing brochure, your online profile is meant to sell you to her. The trick is not to be arrogant be honest and inject a little humor in your profile. Remember one important fact, women love men that are fun and humorous.



2) Photo:



The next step is to upload a photo no matter what. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look like Brad Pitt, you must upload a photo. The biggest mistake I see are profiles that lack even one photo for her to see. Without a photo you are guaranteeing that no one will click on to your profile.



Make sure you are conscience about your body language in the photo you wish to upload. Sit or stand up straight and look relaxed and natural with a smile. Don’t forget to smile.



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How to Make Hot Women Attracted to You - Secrets of the Alpha Male System Revealed!

Attracting hot women can be one of the easiest things you do once you understand how attraction works in women. Alpha males already know this trigger and they use it take hot women home with them time and time again. If you are one of those guys that wants to take their pick-up game to the next level you need this information. If you are sick and tired of striking out with the ladies then it is time you made a change and became the alpha male that women love.

You see, I have been where you are right now. Hoping that I could attract women, hoping that I was doing a good job when flirting with them. I decided that I needed to know more so I began studying just what it was that the alpha males and the best pick-up artists were saying. The results were more than surprising. If you want to completely transform your game with women then you need to listen to what these guys are trying to teach.

There are so many tips and tricks that the master pick-up artists use to seduce women, but one of the best techniques I have used is called the "cocky & funny" technique. You have to understand that women are used to men doting on them...buying them whatever they want whether it is drinks, dinner, expensive gifts. And that is exactly why this no longer turns them on.

Turn the tables on them and tease them playfully and they will melt. It makes you stand out from the huge tide of chumps that want their attention. Alpha males know and use this technique all the time. And you need to become that alpha male!