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Power of Body Language in the Dating Game - How to Get the Women You Crave

Most guys do not truly understand the power of body language in the dating game. It seems that the entire seduction industry has men believing that they need to simply whisper 5 magic words into a woman's ear and that she'll just jump out of her pants for them. This is absolutely not the case. Here is how to get women deeply attracted to you.

Power of Body Language in the Dating Game

1. Be the Prize

You are never going to achieve any real success with women if you continue to see them as goddesses. Yes I know...I love women too...they are so hot and fun to be with. But that does NOT mean that they are higher value than you. You see, a woman is only going to be sexually attracted to you if she believes that you are higher value than her.

So you need to work on conveying this nonverbally in order to have a chance with her. The best way to do this is show indifference through your body language. What you want to do is always be slightly leaning back when you're having a conversation with her.

This will give the woman the impression that your presence is going to be temporary and now she has to work to hold YOUR attention and keep you interested.

2. Voice Tonality

The tone of your voice is WAY more important than what you actually say. A man with a high pitched voice cannot convey dominance (especially with a woman who has just met him). A high voice actually signifies low status among men because it conveys that you have low levels of testosterone in your body.

Work on having a lower, powerful, and dominant voice. This can be achieved through doing simple exercises every day. Your voice should be able to command the attention of an entire room.

Online Dating - Success in Online Relationships

Most worthwhile online dating sites are geared towards meeting and dating novel friends. This is basically what they are there for and what they do best. The good thing with these sites is that they are genuinely aimed at providing you with all the relevant information that you need to make that specific date a memorable red-roses letter day, in a safe place and success in drinking from the wells of love and acute intimacy.

While you are engaging in online dating relationships, the most important thing is that you are after an effective relationship that is characterized by dating romance and love, plus serious thoughts like marrying in future. Another reason for trying to find a lovely date and companion is because you are after a person you are ready to love with whom you could play some kind of sport and other activities that might need a partner.

Online dating is emphasized and motivated by the fact that it is a lot of fun, enjoyment and relaxation. This site is one of those sites which expose you to the environment which you can easily carry out things safely and devoid of any pressure. The main reason as to why you visit an online dating site is meet someone who might not within your locality, and this is the reason they will give you some good advice that can really aid along the way.

The fact is that these sites can never take the responsibility of any actions during your usage of the service, since you are all adults. The first thing that you need in your profile after registering is messages and e-mails coming in. You can easily affect this if you pay attention to the way you have written you profile. The gravest mistake is to have spelling errors and grammatical problems in sentence construction.
Also remember to minimize your description to something short but absolutely honest. Online dating is such that if you are not honest, once you meet the date you will be overtly discovered.

The profile is your gateway into the lives of other like minded individuals, so you must add spice and attractive writing in it. Make it humorous and avoid being over serious at the first instance. Never let the fear of stating categorically the kind of person you are after, and the reason as to why. Instantly, it has been possible for any man to realize if you are that person they have been looking for. Make clear of your dislikes and likes without appearing any offensive.

Never be in a hurry at any one time. Online dating offers you the chance to edit the profile you have given at any one time. You can transform it occasionally with a tinge for originality. Always be very polite with sending the message while avoiding the mistake of judging that time that you are about to receive a message, any one time. Inadvertently, always make the first email as impressive as possible and lacking in a lot of details.

Online Dating - Success in Online Relationships

Most worthwhile online dating sites are geared towards meeting and dating novel friends. This is basically what they are there for and what they do best. The good thing with these sites is that they are genuinely aimed at providing you with all the relevant information that you need to make that specific date a memorable red-roses letter day, in a safe place and success in drinking from the wells of love and acute intimacy.

While you are engaging in online dating relationships, the most important thing is that you are after an effective relationship that is characterized by dating romance and love, plus serious thoughts like marrying in future. Another reason for trying to find a lovely date and companion is because you are after a person you are ready to love with whom you could play some kind of sport and other activities that might need a partner.

Online dating is emphasized and motivated by the fact that it is a lot of fun, enjoyment and relaxation. This site is one of those sites which expose you to the environment which you can easily carry out things safely and devoid of any pressure. The main reason as to why you visit an online dating site is meet someone who might not within your locality, and this is the reason they will give you some good advice that can really aid along the way.

The fact is that these sites can never take the responsibility of any actions during your usage of the service, since you are all adults. The first thing that you need in your profile after registering is messages and e-mails coming in. You can easily affect this if you pay attention to the way you have written you profile. The gravest mistake is to have spelling errors and grammatical problems in sentence construction.
Also remember to minimize your description to something short but absolutely honest. Online dating is such that if you are not honest, once you meet the date you will be overtly discovered.

The profile is your gateway into the lives of other like minded individuals, so you must add spice and attractive writing in it. Make it humorous and avoid being over serious at the first instance. Never let the fear of stating categorically the kind of person you are after, and the reason as to why. Instantly, it has been possible for any man to realize if you are that person they have been looking for. Make clear of your dislikes and likes without appearing any offensive.

Never be in a hurry at any one time. Online dating offers you the chance to edit the profile you have given at any one time. You can transform it occasionally with a tinge for originality. Always be very polite with sending the message while avoiding the mistake of judging that time that you are about to receive a message, any one time. Inadvertently, always make the first email as impressive as possible and lacking in a lot of details.

Turning a Female Friend Into a Lover

Every guy knows what it's like to be the "therapist" for his female friends. It sucks, right? But your female friends keep coming back to you, since you've become such a good shoulder to cry on, especially when their idiot boyfriends have been treating her like dirt again.

It's pretty tempting to grab them, shake them, and slap some sense into them. But it's probably even more tempting to just tell them that they're better off going out with you, and deep down you know it to be true. But that would be crazy, wouldn't it? You don't want to risk your friendship by doing something like that, so you continue to suffer in silence.

But did you know that you can actually turn her into a lover if you wanted to? The main reason why they look at you as such a good friend is because you follow all the rules - you're nice, you're polite, and you always try to help out. In other words, they feel so safe with you that they know you won't try to pull something like that on them.

Try this - try to "spice up" your personality a little with a bit of cockiness, humor, and confidence. Stop picking up the dinner tab - split it with her. Stop giving her compliments - instead, tease her and have a little fun. And try to keep your social life interesting - stay in touch with friends and family, and go out with other women.

When you make these interesting changes to your personality, some good things will happen. Your female friends will notice them and stop looking at you as just a friend. In fact, they'll like the changes so much that they'll start wondering if you'd make a good boyfriend.

Of course, you may not want to turn her into a lover for one reason or another. If you really do think that you're just better off being friends, then don't do anything. But if you want to "test the waters," so to speak, then make the changes and see if she stops talking about her idiot boyfriend and starts talking about you.

Just be careful in case she begins asking what it would be like if the two of you took things to the next level. Most men tend to revert to their old "therapist" personality when this happens. Make sure you keep the new you - the cocky, funny, and self-confident you - when you deal with this new development. Who knows? You just might make her very happy down the line.

Turning a Female Friend Into a Lover

Every guy knows what it's like to be the "therapist" for his female friends. It sucks, right? But your female friends keep coming back to you, since you've become such a good shoulder to cry on, especially when their idiot boyfriends have been treating her like dirt again.

It's pretty tempting to grab them, shake them, and slap some sense into them. But it's probably even more tempting to just tell them that they're better off going out with you, and deep down you know it to be true. But that would be crazy, wouldn't it? You don't want to risk your friendship by doing something like that, so you continue to suffer in silence.

But did you know that you can actually turn her into a lover if you wanted to? The main reason why they look at you as such a good friend is because you follow all the rules - you're nice, you're polite, and you always try to help out. In other words, they feel so safe with you that they know you won't try to pull something like that on them.

Try this - try to "spice up" your personality a little with a bit of cockiness, humor, and confidence. Stop picking up the dinner tab - split it with her. Stop giving her compliments - instead, tease her and have a little fun. And try to keep your social life interesting - stay in touch with friends and family, and go out with other women.

When you make these interesting changes to your personality, some good things will happen. Your female friends will notice them and stop looking at you as just a friend. In fact, they'll like the changes so much that they'll start wondering if you'd make a good boyfriend.

Of course, you may not want to turn her into a lover for one reason or another. If you really do think that you're just better off being friends, then don't do anything. But if you want to "test the waters," so to speak, then make the changes and see if she stops talking about her idiot boyfriend and starts talking about you.

Just be careful in case she begins asking what it would be like if the two of you took things to the next level. Most men tend to revert to their old "therapist" personality when this happens. Make sure you keep the new you - the cocky, funny, and self-confident you - when you deal with this new development. Who knows? You just might make her very happy down the line.

4 Step Guide to Meeting Women - How to Use Facebook to Meet Women

With all the social media sites out there, one has taken the world by storm: Facebook. And it only comes naturally that guys will want to leverage this new tool to meet women.

It's not too hard to meet women on Facebook, but you have to do it with some understanding of how to play the game. Because there are many ways to do it wrong, and only a few to do it right...

I've been eyeing this method to meeting women for some time, and I agree completely. It IS a mega-mega opportunity to meet women...

...if it's handled right.

First of all, let's remember the catastrophe that is "MySpace." (May it rest in peace.) That social network has been so polluted and abused that it's really not useful anymore. I know I don't take it seriously.

What happened there?

Well, first of all, everyone got slammed with spam. A few clever programmers and bulk friend programs, and suddenly you had MySpace pages that looked like web sites from the year 1998.

Cheap backgrounds, silly wallpaper, and everybody's page looked like a 14-year-old girl's bedroom, complete with Britney Spears posters.

Enter Facebook.

A whole lot classier than its trailer-park cousin, Facebook has maintained a better image. But with a bunch of cool toys and add-ons that made it interesting and more fun.

So how can you work this great social networking tool to help you with your dating life - while not looking like some pervert who got kicked out of the alleys of MySpace?

I'll give you a very simple 4-step model to use. This is the one that my friends and I have used consistently to get results online.

STEP 1: Connect with the guys - and other women - who have a lot of cute girl friends.

In other words, connect with people that YOU are not interested in dating who have big networks.

You must be very indirect at first using Facebook.

Remember the lesson from MySpace - Don't be a spammer!

This is not "match.com" or an online dating site, so don't just start sending out invites and emails hoping to score based on numbers. We've come to hate the abusers, and you'll just get your sorry ass kicked right off.

Start out with light connections. Think "friends first."

Don't make your Facebook profile look like you're trying to meet women. Be subtle.

What you're trying to do is multiply your results and increase your connection potential by meeting more people who know more people.

If you just start trying to hit on the women you're interested in right off the bat, you'll be limiting your results with shortsighted thinking.

Think out to the LONG term. The more cool people you connect with and forge relationships with, the more likely you are to connect with a woman naturally.

STEP 2: Connect with women you are interested in VERY indirectly.

What you have to do is send a simple friend request - and make sure you include a message with it!

You just say something like, "Hey, I saw we're both friends with Greg... Then I noticed you're a snowboarder, too... Ever go to Tahoe?"

You see what I did there? I left a question INSIDE my friend request. For her to answer it, she's going to feel compelled to add me.

It's also just something people are looking to do. Let's face it, we all measure our social success by how many people we've got as friends on Facebook. We all want a HUGE network, so women will WANT to add you - if only to increase their friend count.

STEP 3: Start leveraging the tools.

Facebook has a huge amount of potential for the guy who wants to take advantage of them. You can add all kinds of cute little applications to send virtual drinks to friends, send goofy gifts, or even start your own polls and surveys.

But one of the best tools you need to be using is the GROUP function on Facebook.

In fact, in preparing for this article, I created a group to start connecting you guys together and enabling men to share information.

You can do this, too. Just create a group based on your passion and your local area.

I'm going to advise you to avoid starting a group based on "Warcraft" or on the latest hot actress.

Make your group something a woman can relate to and might be interested in. Maybe it's the television show "Lost..." or maybe it's about all things Italian.

Ba-da-bing! Now you've got a hook to use to invite her into your group.

STEP 4: Start escalating and creating more opportunities.

Remember, this is a VIRTUAL tool. It's online.

In other words, your connections don't REALLY exist anywhere except on some server in an air-conditioned room in a data center somewhere.

It's up to YOU to bring these connections to life with events that you can invite people to.

Most people will stroll around this virtual network, but then never take it into the REAL world. That's where YOU come in.

Maybe once a month you should organize a happy hour at your local favorite bar. Or maybe you make a Facebook group for wine tasters, and then every other Friday you meet up and go tasting the latest Pinot Noirs.

THAT is your opportunity to start looking for romantic potential in the groups. You have to remember that you can't be a Facebook "pickup artist" and try to attract women online.

You have to build a network, forge some connections, and meet women in person to start creating the attraction.

That being said, you can also send out some playful introductions to women you don't know and see if they bite. (Just make sure your profile has enough interesting bait for them to nibble at...)

- Write on people's walls...

- Send a few virtual drinks...

- Send some good karma...

- Use the "Flirtable" app...

For the man with initiative, the Facebook world is yours.

So step up and start creating the social network, then start meeting the women in it.

8 Top Secret on How to Get the Attention of the Man You Want Fast

Whether he is your boy friend or husband, there may be times when the man does not seem to notice you as you would like. Instead of enjoying your company, he may appear more interested in other things - whether his work or hobby. Although such an attitude may get you really worried, it does not necessarily mean that your man does not love you any more. It is really more likely the opposite.

When a man is assured of the love of his woman, he gets a sense of security that tends to make him more relaxed. As a result he will hardly see any need in making much effort in getting your attention. He sees that there is no problem that requires his attention in the relationship, and hence he will make very little effort in enhancing the relationship. Unfortunately, this tends to kill the romance in a relationship.

The best way to solve this problem is to show him your need through your actions. Being blunt about it and confronting him with the issue will hardly yield the desired results. You should not give the impression that you are demanding. Remember that in his view there is nothing wrong with the relationship, and you will just take him by surprise. He may just see as if you do not appreciate or trust him, and he is more likely to defend himself.

This is even more so if what has been occupying him is his job, since he may interpret your actions to mean that you do not appreciate his great efforts. A man's work is very important to him, and he may be working that hard especially for you. This may be his way of trying to create more input in the relationship.

There are a number of salient methods that you can use to make your man notice you once more fairly quickly. Here are some of the things you may take into consideration.

1. Review the mood in your bedroom. In case either of you appear to get bored in the bedroom; you need to find ways of making it livelier. For example, take more initiative in sparking the romance and you will get him more interested in you.

2. Briefly visit him at his place of work, and may be ask him out for lunch. This will silently tell him that you are thinking of him.

3. Take note of how you dress. Get his attention by putting on in a sexier manner. This usually works pretty fast.

4. Let him miss you. When there are times when you are not available while he needs your company, he will think of and miss you. Just do not take it to the extreme that may make him focus even more on his work.

5. Tease him at times. Flirt with him a little more and he is bound to notice you.

6. Carry yourself with confidence. Check how you walk and talk. When you carry yourself with confidence, you will be able to make him notice you.

7. Prepare some things especially for him. Think of the type of meal he likes, and prepare it as best as you can.

8. Talk to him directly about your need. You should sweetly and seriously tell him about your need without sounding as if you accuse him in any way. Use the 'I' method to express your own need.

8 Top Secret on How to Get the Attention of the Man You Want Fast

Whether he is your boy friend or husband, there may be times when the man does not seem to notice you as you would like. Instead of enjoying your company, he may appear more interested in other things - whether his work or hobby. Although such an attitude may get you really worried, it does not necessarily mean that your man does not love you any more. It is really more likely the opposite.

When a man is assured of the love of his woman, he gets a sense of security that tends to make him more relaxed. As a result he will hardly see any need in making much effort in getting your attention. He sees that there is no problem that requires his attention in the relationship, and hence he will make very little effort in enhancing the relationship. Unfortunately, this tends to kill the romance in a relationship.

The best way to solve this problem is to show him your need through your actions. Being blunt about it and confronting him with the issue will hardly yield the desired results. You should not give the impression that you are demanding. Remember that in his view there is nothing wrong with the relationship, and you will just take him by surprise. He may just see as if you do not appreciate or trust him, and he is more likely to defend himself.

This is even more so if what has been occupying him is his job, since he may interpret your actions to mean that you do not appreciate his great efforts. A man's work is very important to him, and he may be working that hard especially for you. This may be his way of trying to create more input in the relationship.

There are a number of salient methods that you can use to make your man notice you once more fairly quickly. Here are some of the things you may take into consideration.

1. Review the mood in your bedroom. In case either of you appear to get bored in the bedroom; you need to find ways of making it livelier. For example, take more initiative in sparking the romance and you will get him more interested in you.

2. Briefly visit him at his place of work, and may be ask him out for lunch. This will silently tell him that you are thinking of him.

3. Take note of how you dress. Get his attention by putting on in a sexier manner. This usually works pretty fast.

4. Let him miss you. When there are times when you are not available while he needs your company, he will think of and miss you. Just do not take it to the extreme that may make him focus even more on his work.

5. Tease him at times. Flirt with him a little more and he is bound to notice you.

6. Carry yourself with confidence. Check how you walk and talk. When you carry yourself with confidence, you will be able to make him notice you.

7. Prepare some things especially for him. Think of the type of meal he likes, and prepare it as best as you can.

8. Talk to him directly about your need. You should sweetly and seriously tell him about your need without sounding as if you accuse him in any way. Use the 'I' method to express your own need.

So, He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You is the story of a group of 20 - 30 year olds who are trying to navigate their way through the love, relationship and dating maze. The movie, tells the story of four women not getting what they want in a relationship - whether it is a phone call, a date, or a proposal. In the movie, the women are to learn the psychology of dating - both the "rules" and the exceptions to the "rules." And in my view, it's also about stereotypes, outdated, misguided and limiting beliefs about dating, love and relationships.

As the movie bears out in the end, the characters find themselves and they find love, once they let go of these "rules" and beliefs.

The movie opens showing a young girl being treated badly by a boy. Going to her mother for comfort and advice, she is told that he is behaving this way because, of all reasons - he likes her! As you watch this scene you get your first glimpse into the absurdity of what you and I accept as some of the relationship, love and dating "rules" that we carry with us into our adult lives.

Whether your man is sleeping with someone else, doesn't like you, won't propose, or isn't calling, "He's Just Not That Into You" gives the women in the audience a harsh dose of reality that their girlfriends are too nice to say. Trying to read the signs of the opposite sex, each of the women in the movie, hopes she is the exception to the dating "rules".

Watching the different situations play out can be like déjà vu from your own past dating experiences.

Take, Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin), for example, who is so desperate to find the man of her dreams, that she doesn't read the "signs", even when Alex, (Justin Long), the friendly barman spells them out to her. She sees and believes what she wants to believe, only to be disappointed and let down each time. What drives her is the fear that she'll end up on her own. Anyone is better than no one. It's only when she lets go of her "need" that she finds the man that is really right for her.

Alex, on the other hand, has the complete opposite experience. He is a "player" who doesn't get emotionally involved with the women he dates. He stays in control, not allowing any of the women get too close and not allowing himself to get too close to them either. It's "safe." It's only when he drops the stereotype that he finds and falls in love.

Then there is Anna (Scarlett Johansson), who at first, appears to be quite independent and together. You quickly realise, however, that she defines herself by being in a relationship. She can't be on her own. She's partly involved with Conor (Kevin Connolly) the estate agent, who would like a serious relationship. She keeps him on tow, coming back to him when her other relationships don't work out. At the end of the movie she is on her own and is heading for India for three months to "find herself."

Conor, doesn't want to acknowledge that he won't get what he really wants out of this relationship and is hooked into the 'game' of trying to get the woman he can't have. He keeps compromising what he wants, in order to stay in the relationship. Eventually, however, he is able to let go of that need to have her and when he does this, he meets Drew Barrymore. Drew has been in charge of the marketing for his real estate business, but which up until this point, he hasn't even really noticed.

There is also a married couple in the film, Janni (Jennifer Connelly) and Ben (Bradley Cooper), who were struggling to keep their relationship together. Early on in their relationship, Janni gave Ben an ultimatum. He had to either marry her or the relationship was over. He conceded and married her and is now struggling with how he feels about having done this. The couple don't face the growing distance in their relationship. Instead, she becomes obsessed with the redecoration of the new house and he becomes obsessed with Anna. In the end, their relationship doesn't survive.

And finally there is, Beth (Jennifer Aniston) and Neil (Ben Affleck), who seem to have the most together relationship except for one sticking point - the different meaning they both give to the institution of 'marriage.' According to the "rules," if the man you have been together with for some years - 7 years in their case - doesn't want to marry you, he never will. Ben loves and is committed to Jennifer, but doesn't believe in marriage. The belief or the 'rule' that drives Jennifer to end the relationship is the one that says, "if he really loves you, he will marry you." After observing her married friends, Jennifer realises that she and Neil had a much happier and healthier relationship. In the end, both Jennifer and Ben let go of their limiting beliefs - and guess what happens? Ben proposes to her and yes, it looks like they will be living "happily ever after."

"For the first time in history, every couple is on their own to discover how to build a healthy relationship and to forge their own vision of how and why to be together" John Welwood

Rather than continuing to follow limiting, outdated, unhelpful, misguide and stereotypical beliefs about relationships, which don't seem to be working in the modern world anyway, isn't it time you take charge of your own relationship happiness?

Get Real! Be more of who you are and let others be more of who they really are too!

8 Top Secret on How to Get the Attention of the Man You Want Fast

Whether he is your boy friend or husband, there may be times when the man does not seem to notice you as you would like. Instead of enjoying your company, he may appear more interested in other things - whether his work or hobby. Although such an attitude may get you really worried, it does not necessarily mean that your man does not love you any more. It is really more likely the opposite.

When a man is assured of the love of his woman, he gets a sense of security that tends to make him more relaxed. As a result he will hardly see any need in making much effort in getting your attention. He sees that there is no problem that requires his attention in the relationship, and hence he will make very little effort in enhancing the relationship. Unfortunately, this tends to kill the romance in a relationship.

The best way to solve this problem is to show him your need through your actions. Being blunt about it and confronting him with the issue will hardly yield the desired results. You should not give the impression that you are demanding. Remember that in his view there is nothing wrong with the relationship, and you will just take him by surprise. He may just see as if you do not appreciate or trust him, and he is more likely to defend himself.

This is even more so if what has been occupying him is his job, since he may interpret your actions to mean that you do not appreciate his great efforts. A man's work is very important to him, and he may be working that hard especially for you. This may be his way of trying to create more input in the relationship.

There are a number of salient methods that you can use to make your man notice you once more fairly quickly. Here are some of the things you may take into consideration.

1. Review the mood in your bedroom. In case either of you appear to get bored in the bedroom; you need to find ways of making it livelier. For example, take more initiative in sparking the romance and you will get him more interested in you.

2. Briefly visit him at his place of work, and may be ask him out for lunch. This will silently tell him that you are thinking of him.

3. Take note of how you dress. Get his attention by putting on in a sexier manner. This usually works pretty fast.

4. Let him miss you. When there are times when you are not available while he needs your company, he will think of and miss you. Just do not take it to the extreme that may make him focus even more on his work.

5. Tease him at times. Flirt with him a little more and he is bound to notice you.

6. Carry yourself with confidence. Check how you walk and talk. When you carry yourself with confidence, you will be able to make him notice you.

7. Prepare some things especially for him. Think of the type of meal he likes, and prepare it as best as you can.

8. Talk to him directly about your need. You should sweetly and seriously tell him about your need without sounding as if you accuse him in any way. Use the 'I' method to express your own need.

The Mystery - What Do Scorpio Women Want in a Man?

So, a Scorpio woman has pierced your heart! Man, you're on for a big ride.

First, let us define a Scorpio woman. Scorpios are extraordinary, mystifying and totally alluring. They are deemed to be the most extreme of all zodiacs and falling in love with them is a roller coaster ride. They are very passionate and strong. Well, what do Scorpio women want in a man anyway?

A Scorpio woman she can be a very reliable friend or, alternatively, she can be a most formidable enemy. They are very attractive --- she knows that and is proud of herself. She will direct her wishes to dominate and control but will let a man lead in a relationship. She knows how to mesmerize a man and be victorious. If you are not genuine with your feelings, don't even try to get close to a Scorpio woman. They want a man who is strong as they are, knows what they want and will do everything to get it.

These women have the knack on piercing into the very core of another person's being. She has been endowed with a pair of the most intense of eyes to accomplish that point. With those beautiful, penetrating eyes of hers, she can read closely what is running in your head. She can effortlessly make out your real objective, so you can cut the flirting part. She desires a man who is stronger than she is and his faults and failures won't get her compassion at all. She wants a man who can make her proud. At the same time, he should be able to respect her individuality. He should be good looking than normal, with intelligent and manly. He must also be ambitious, even ruthless, and able to handle hard-hitting circumstances with bearing and finesse.

After she gets dedicated, a Scorpio female will shower you with all her love and interest. The optimistic and sensible Scorpio woman views sexuality within the context of love. Her whole life will start revolving around you and she will be tremendously faithful and extremely adoring. However, this sign can be very jealous and fiercely overprotective of her loved ones. The fire within a Scorpio woman will sure do give you one hell of a love affair. Good luck!

If you would like to discover AMAZING strategies on finding what Scorpio women want in a man, then visit my website to get your hands on my FREE report which has helped thousands of men get women they thought they never had a chance with!

Discover How to Make Girls Like You With the Snap of a Finger - Learn to Make Girls Like You

If you are trying to figure out how to make girls like you, you have either had zero success or you have finally found that special someone and you want to make sure that you don't screw it up. There is really no secret to it and all of the answers you really need are right in front of your face, but just in case you are your own worst enemy, here is a little push to get you going back in the right direction.

Listen to what she has to say - This is not the mandatory "uh-huh" every 10 seconds or so when you are having a conversation. You really have to listen to what she is talking about and give her some good feedback. If you are struggling to do this, you may not be with the right woman and you should think about moving on. Face it, you are going to be stuck with this person for the rest of your life and if her conversations don't grab you, you are doomed to failure.

Romance is key - If are not romantic, you better learn how to be, this is one of the most important ways on how to make girls like you. Your woman is not one of the guys and she is not going to be happy going out for a beer and watching football every Sunday. If she does like this, she is doing it because she likes you, not because she actually wants to be there. You need to pay her back by taking her out to a nice romantic dinner and send her some flowers every now and again. And don't just send them on the mandatory days, send them for absolutely no other reason than you think she is the hottest woman alive and just wanted her to know that. Also start doing the things she likes to do as.

Like we said in the beginning, this is not brain surgery. Everything you need to know is built right into you from day one. You just have to get out of your own way and do what you feel is right and the next thing you know, you will have the hottest woman you could ever imagine hanging right onto your arms for the rest of your life!

If you want to learn the best ways of how to make girls like you then visit my website and get your hands on my FREE report that has helped men  get girls they thought they never had a chance with!

The Mystery - What Do Scorpio Women Want in a Man?

So, a Scorpio woman has pierced your heart! Man, you're on for a big ride.

First, let us define a Scorpio woman. Scorpios are extraordinary, mystifying and totally alluring. They are deemed to be the most extreme of all zodiacs and falling in love with them is a roller coaster ride. They are very passionate and strong. Well, what do Scorpio women want in a man anyway?

A Scorpio woman she can be a very reliable friend or, alternatively, she can be a most formidable enemy. They are very attractive --- she knows that and is proud of herself. She will direct her wishes to dominate and control but will let a man lead in a relationship. She knows how to mesmerize a man and be victorious. If you are not genuine with your feelings, don't even try to get close to a Scorpio woman. They want a man who is strong as they are, knows what they want and will do everything to get it.

These women have the knack on piercing into the very core of another person's being. She has been endowed with a pair of the most intense of eyes to accomplish that point. With those beautiful, penetrating eyes of hers, she can read closely what is running in your head. She can effortlessly make out your real objective, so you can cut the flirting part. She desires a man who is stronger than she is and his faults and failures won't get her compassion at all. She wants a man who can make her proud. At the same time, he should be able to respect her individuality. He should be good looking than normal, with intelligent and manly. He must also be ambitious, even ruthless, and able to handle hard-hitting circumstances with bearing and finesse.

After she gets dedicated, a Scorpio female will shower you with all her love and interest. The optimistic and sensible Scorpio woman views sexuality within the context of love. Her whole life will start revolving around you and she will be tremendously faithful and extremely adoring. However, this sign can be very jealous and fiercely overprotective of her loved ones. The fire within a Scorpio woman will sure do give you one hell of a love affair. Good luck!

If you would like to discover AMAZING strategies on finding what Scorpio women want in a man, then visit my website to get your hands on my FREE report which has helped thousands of men get women they thought they never had a chance with!

The Mystery - What Do Scorpio Women Want in a Man?

So, a Scorpio woman has pierced your heart! Man, you're on for a big ride.

First, let us define a Scorpio woman. Scorpios are extraordinary, mystifying and totally alluring. They are deemed to be the most extreme of all zodiacs and falling in love with them is a roller coaster ride. They are very passionate and strong. Well, what do Scorpio women want in a man anyway?

A Scorpio woman she can be a very reliable friend or, alternatively, she can be a most formidable enemy. They are very attractive --- she knows that and is proud of herself. She will direct her wishes to dominate and control but will let a man lead in a relationship. She knows how to mesmerize a man and be victorious. If you are not genuine with your feelings, don't even try to get close to a Scorpio woman. They want a man who is strong as they are, knows what they want and will do everything to get it.

These women have the knack on piercing into the very core of another person's being. She has been endowed with a pair of the most intense of eyes to accomplish that point. With those beautiful, penetrating eyes of hers, she can read closely what is running in your head. She can effortlessly make out your real objective, so you can cut the flirting part. She desires a man who is stronger than she is and his faults and failures won't get her compassion at all. She wants a man who can make her proud. At the same time, he should be able to respect her individuality. He should be good looking than normal, with intelligent and manly. He must also be ambitious, even ruthless, and able to handle hard-hitting circumstances with bearing and finesse.

After she gets dedicated, a Scorpio female will shower you with all her love and interest. The optimistic and sensible Scorpio woman views sexuality within the context of love. Her whole life will start revolving around you and she will be tremendously faithful and extremely adoring. However, this sign can be very jealous and fiercely overprotective of her loved ones. The fire within a Scorpio woman will sure do give you one hell of a love affair. Good luck!

If you would like to discover AMAZING strategies on finding what Scorpio women want in a man, then visit my website to get your hands on my FREE report which has helped thousands of men get women they thought they never had a chance with!

Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

If you want to make women absolutely melt, then you need to learn the principles of seductive nonverbal body language. Most men do not know this, but your body language is a huge determinant of success with women. So if you are not yet dating the type of women you truly desire, it most likely has to do with your body language. Read on.

Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

Here are some ways you can demonstrate dominance with your body language (thus sparking interest and attraction in women).

1. Strong Eye Contact

There are many differing opinions on exactly how much eye contact you should be making with a woman. Some believe that too much eye contact demonstrates too much interest in her too early in the interaction. At the same time, others believe strong eye contact is the be-all and end-all of seductive body language.

My experiences have taught me that you should hold VERY strong eye contact with a woman when you are speaking directly to her. This displays confidence in who you are and what you're saying. At the same time, you should NOT hold strong eye contact when the woman is speaking to you, or when you are speaking to a group of people. I will go into more detail on this subject in a bit.

2. Slow Down

Slow down all of your movements. This includes the rate at which you walk down to the smallest movements to how fast you blink. Slow movement demonstrates many things to the opposite sex. It shows that you are VERY high value, and extremely comfortable in your surroundings.

Just make sure you are not going TOO slow as this will lead women to believe that you are not at full mental capacity.

The Mystery - What Do Scorpio Women Want in a Man?

So, a Scorpio woman has pierced your heart! Man, you're on for a big ride.

First, let us define a Scorpio woman. Scorpios are extraordinary, mystifying and totally alluring. They are deemed to be the most extreme of all zodiacs and falling in love with them is a roller coaster ride. They are very passionate and strong. Well, what do Scorpio women want in a man anyway?

A Scorpio woman she can be a very reliable friend or, alternatively, she can be a most formidable enemy. They are very attractive --- she knows that and is proud of herself. She will direct her wishes to dominate and control but will let a man lead in a relationship. She knows how to mesmerize a man and be victorious. If you are not genuine with your feelings, don't even try to get close to a Scorpio woman. They want a man who is strong as they are, knows what they want and will do everything to get it.

These women have the knack on piercing into the very core of another person's being. She has been endowed with a pair of the most intense of eyes to accomplish that point. With those beautiful, penetrating eyes of hers, she can read closely what is running in your head. She can effortlessly make out your real objective, so you can cut the flirting part. She desires a man who is stronger than she is and his faults and failures won't get her compassion at all. She wants a man who can make her proud. At the same time, he should be able to respect her individuality. He should be good looking than normal, with intelligent and manly. He must also be ambitious, even ruthless, and able to handle hard-hitting circumstances with bearing and finesse.

After she gets dedicated, a Scorpio female will shower you with all her love and interest. The optimistic and sensible Scorpio woman views sexuality within the context of love. Her whole life will start revolving around you and she will be tremendously faithful and extremely adoring. However, this sign can be very jealous and fiercely overprotective of her loved ones. The fire within a Scorpio woman will sure do give you one hell of a love affair. Good luck!

If you would like to discover AMAZING strategies on finding what Scorpio women want in a man, then visit my website to get your hands on my FREE report which has helped thousands of men get women they thought they never had a chance with!

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Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

If you want to make women absolutely melt, then you need to learn the principles of seductive nonverbal body language. Most men do not know this, but your body language is a huge determinant of success with women. So if you are not yet dating the type of women you truly desire, it most likely has to do with your body language. Read on.

Nonverbal Body Language - How to Make Her Melt!

Here are some ways you can demonstrate dominance with your body language (thus sparking interest and attraction in women).

1. Strong Eye Contact

There are many differing opinions on exactly how much eye contact you should be making with a woman. Some believe that too much eye contact demonstrates too much interest in her too early in the interaction. At the same time, others believe strong eye contact is the be-all and end-all of seductive body language.

My experiences have taught me that you should hold VERY strong eye contact with a woman when you are speaking directly to her. This displays confidence in who you are and what you're saying. At the same time, you should NOT hold strong eye contact when the woman is speaking to you, or when you are speaking to a group of people. I will go into more detail on this subject in a bit.

2. Slow Down

Slow down all of your movements. This includes the rate at which you walk down to the smallest movements to how fast you blink. Slow movement demonstrates many things to the opposite sex. It shows that you are VERY high value, and extremely comfortable in your surroundings.

Just make sure you are not going TOO slow as this will lead women to believe that you are not at full mental capacity.

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

How to Approach Beautiful Women (Top 3 Tips)

I'm going to show you how to approach beautiful women, because there is a right way of doing it. Do it wrong and you'll be walking away with your tail tucked between your legs.

Okay, so let's get started.

The first thing when it comes to approaching beautiful women is ... you don't want to compliment or "hit" on her. Why? because she gets complimented all the time! Like 20 times today.

So what you want to do is be different. You want to appear as interesting -- this is how you get her attracted. That's the first tip.

Tell her something interesting that she didn't know. For example, you can read her palm. I know it's cheesy but women love that. What I like to say, as a conversation opener, is "Hello, I can sense something interesting about you. Here, let me read your palm".

The second tip is, be interesting without bragging. That's where most guys lose it, because they think that just because they brag about their $200,000.00 a year job that woman is going to love him. Just no.

Tell some interesting facts about yourself, where you traveled, stuff like that.

The third tip is ... avoid being nervous. How so? By practicing on lots of pretty women. What I want you to do is go to the mall, or the club, and start approaching hot gals. The more practice you get, the less nervous you become. Until you got this cool, confident aura around you.

And we all know women dig confident guys, this advice has been given thousands of time.

How to Approach Beautiful Women (Top 3 Tips)

I'm going to show you how to approach beautiful women, because there is a right way of doing it. Do it wrong and you'll be walking away with your tail tucked between your legs.

Okay, so let's get started.

The first thing when it comes to approaching beautiful women is ... you don't want to compliment or "hit" on her. Why? because she gets complimented all the time! Like 20 times today.

So what you want to do is be different. You want to appear as interesting -- this is how you get her attracted. That's the first tip.

Tell her something interesting that she didn't know. For example, you can read her palm. I know it's cheesy but women love that. What I like to say, as a conversation opener, is "Hello, I can sense something interesting about you. Here, let me read your palm".

The second tip is, be interesting without bragging. That's where most guys lose it, because they think that just because they brag about their $200,000.00 a year job that woman is going to love him. Just no.

Tell some interesting facts about yourself, where you traveled, stuff like that.

The third tip is ... avoid being nervous. How so? By practicing on lots of pretty women. What I want you to do is go to the mall, or the club, and start approaching hot gals. The more practice you get, the less nervous you become. Until you got this cool, confident aura around you.

And we all know women dig confident guys, this advice has been given thousands of time.

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

Internet Dating Web Sites

If you were forced to take a stab at it right now, how many internet dating web sites would you guess are currently in operation on the web? Well, I personally haven't counted every single one, but the number is well into the 1,000's - and that's plenty. With so many sites competing against one another for your business, there has to be a "best" internet dating web site, right? But how would you determine a top notch site? The good internet dating web site will be at the head of the class. What makes a particular internet dating web site special?

The first thing we would look for upon logging onto the quality site is the super simple search structure. Without even signing up for membership, you would need to be able to take a look and see dozens and dozens of single guys and gals, and see how many singles are currently signed on. This unpretentious approach to an internet dating web site's homepage instantly earns any good site some serious points. Far too often, you're forced to click on various links, fend off pop-up ads, and even file for a "free" membership before viewing singles. With the quality online internet dating web site you won't have to deal with these annoyances.

The next thing we would look for is to see if there are multiple cultures catered to at this site. Users should have a variety language options to choose from, including English, Dutch, Portuguese, Spanish, Italian, and more. This all-inclusive package makes it possible for people to truly meet someone for them. Who says that your potential mate is located in the same country? You could live in Sweden while the love of your life lives in Italy, and you'd never know. There are a number of internet dating web sites that have bridged the gap here and allowed for a multi-cultural customer base to take advantage of their features.

The search features and the ease of sign up are the next things working to make a good quality site stand out from the rest. Simply click around on the categories on the right hand side of the homepage and select your areas that interest you. A good resource internet dating web site shouldn't require a name or any other information to let you look around at the options available making everything very discrete. Another helpful tool is a search box you can enter a key word and you should be taken to the appropriate information. This search box is installed to speed things up in your search.

A well thought out internet dating web site should cater to everyone. You will find a lot of different nationalities, interest groups and sexual preferences trying to make a connection, so find a great site and spend some time looking around, you will be amazed at what you dig up.. A good internet dating website should be very easy to navigate, not intrude on your privacy, and there should be heaps of FREE resources for you to brows around like how to write a profile and what to write in your first email.

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

Shy Guy Tips For Attracting Women

One of the things that most shy guys don't realize is that there are many women out there who find them fascinating. I'm one of them!

I once read somewhere that love is a power game. Each person is trying to have the ultimate power. To be the one in control of the relationship. Why? So they don't feel vulnerable. So they can feel safe.

Shy guys are really appealing to a lot of women for this reason. It makes us feel powerful, which allows us to have one of our most important needs met- to feel safe. Not too safe. But safe.

So don't be too quick to throw off your mantle of shyness. It's got a lot going for it.

Shyness is a normal human reaction to situations of stress. Think about animals that freeze when they're faced with danger. It's a safety mechanism, to protect them from predators. See a snake, stand still, don't move. It only realizes you're there if you move!

So, in its way, shyness is a part of that 'freeze' mechanism. Your brain 'locks' and you can't think what to say. You don't know what to do. And if you force yourself to move, you get clumsy. And this only makes it worse.

Whether you're staring at a grizzly bear or a beautiful woman asking you a question, the result is often the same. Your brain goes into 'danger' mode and initiates 'lock down'. Your brain thinks it's doing you a favor. You feel like a fool.

So what can you do about it?

Have something to say ready. Practice it often, so it becomes a natural response when 'lock down' happens. You could try for something really appealing like 'Wow you're beautiful!' or 'amazing' or 'incredible'. A lot of women won't believe you if you say they're beautiful. They'll think it's a line. So words that send the same message can often be better in getting across your awe.

What if you learn this off and she isn't any of these things? Hey, do you freeze like that for just anyone? If so, you may have to do some serious work on your self-confidence. But if it's mainly when faced by a woman you really fancy, then it's as good as anything, to break the freeze.

If you want to be even more intriguing, just look at her and stammer out 'Oh, wow!' She'll have to say 'Wow what?' if she has any curiosity at all. If she asks what? You can then stammer out the 'You're amazing'. She'll be flattered and you'll have made it through the first few interchanges.

You should have broken the 'lock down' by this stage, so you can go back to the start. Say something like 'What was it you asked me?' You get to have her answer your question then, and get another run at it. If you still can't seem to work out what she's saying because you're brain-dead. Tell her so. 'Sorry, I'm coming across as an idiot, but I can't seem to think straight at the moment.'

Be honest about what's happening and give the impression that it's really happening because of her- that you usually aren't a nervous wreck. That will please her no end. She'll feel powerful. And safe. And in control.

But you can take back the control later, once you've hooked her. But let her have her moment in the sun. She deserves it, if she's attracted your attention!

Is This the Only Thing Preventing You From Attracting Women?

In this article we are going to discuss what for a lot of men is one of the most challenging and oftentimes the only thing that is preventing you from achieving the kind of success that you want with women.

While some of you might already know the answer to this, for those of you who don't let me tell you, it is the fear of change.

"It's the most unhappy people who most fear change." Mignon McLaughlin

This quote pretty much says it all in a nutshell when it comes to having the kind of success that you want with if you are currently unhappy with the results that you are getting then now is the time to change. Of course, most men get that part of the equation; deep down you already realize that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women. Unfortunately for a variety of different reasons instead of changing the things that you must oftentimes you look to change those things that are the easiest to change or even worse attempt to become someone that you are not in order to attract women.

Believe it or not, attracting women and having the kind of success that you want with women usually requires you to change into the kind of person that is content with where he is at now and most importantly knows where he is and wants to go. In other words, a man who has discovered and is able to reside within his own power and knows who he is will attract women. Now, it is important that you realize that when I say attract women I mean that you will attract the kind of women into your life that you want and most importantly can thrive in the power that is your essence of man.

A lot of times what throws many men off in terms of success with women is that you change into the kind of man that you aren't really are but have been led to believe that it will attract women. However, the truth of the matter is you cant attract all women nor should you even try. In the end, once you begin to accept the fact that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women, you can begin discovering just exactly who you are which ultimately will lead you to exactly where you want to go.

How Any Guy Can Attract Hot Girls Like Brad Pitt

If you have always believed that the only reason why so many women are mesmerized by Brad Pitt was because of his looks, then you're so deadly wrong. His looks do play a part but that's not the crux to his mega attractiveness with women.

Brad Pitt is what society considers as an Alpha male. An alpha male is simply a guy who is dominant, confident and is assured of himself. If you've ever watched any of Brad Pitt's movies, from FightClub to Ocean's Thirteen, you would realized that Brad was always confident, sure of himself and sometimes just plain cocky and funny.

That's the qualities women are hardwired and deeply attracted to. Think about it for a moment. Do you have friends that aren't as good looking as you but just have some of the most awesome looking girlfriends. Be honest. Look at the streets and you can easily find such beauty and the beast examples.

Convinced? So how can any guy transform himself to cocky and funny Brad Pitt quickly?

Here are 3 traits you need to pay attention to.

Confidence

Now I'm sure this shouldn't come as a surprise for confidence is an important key in success in many areas of life including dating and relationships. Take the many James Bond movies for example, most of the women James meets are reluctant and resistant to him initially. It's his confident behavior that get him what he wants eventually.

Initiate & Conquer Rejection

The reason why alpha male tend to get the female is because alpha males are more pro-active. They take the initiative to start the conversation or asking her out. Alpha males don't fear rejection and besides rejection can only make one stronger. After all, what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger! Thus, be an alpha male and take the lead. As you practice more and more, rejection will not bother you anymore.

Body Language

When you interact with someone, words only make up of 7%, while 38% accounts to tonality and body language makes up 55% of your interaction. Thus, body language can tell a lot about you and your personality.

So, what type of body language does the alpha male portray? First, they stand confidently with their chest slightly sticking out. They walk confidently with both arms swinging and when they sit, they
occupy more space than required.

If you're still clueless in finding the right words when approaching a lady, you would like to consider reading the Alpha Male Newsletter by dating expert, Jake Riley. His popular newsletter is read by newbies and dating experts to improve their dating game.

Is This the Only Thing Preventing You From Attracting Women?

In this article we are going to discuss what for a lot of men is one of the most challenging and oftentimes the only thing that is preventing you from achieving the kind of success that you want with women.

While some of you might already know the answer to this, for those of you who don't let me tell you, it is the fear of change.

"It's the most unhappy people who most fear change." Mignon McLaughlin

This quote pretty much says it all in a nutshell when it comes to having the kind of success that you want with if you are currently unhappy with the results that you are getting then now is the time to change. Of course, most men get that part of the equation; deep down you already realize that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women. Unfortunately for a variety of different reasons instead of changing the things that you must oftentimes you look to change those things that are the easiest to change or even worse attempt to become someone that you are not in order to attract women.

Believe it or not, attracting women and having the kind of success that you want with women usually requires you to change into the kind of person that is content with where he is at now and most importantly knows where he is and wants to go. In other words, a man who has discovered and is able to reside within his own power and knows who he is will attract women. Now, it is important that you realize that when I say attract women I mean that you will attract the kind of women into your life that you want and most importantly can thrive in the power that is your essence of man.

A lot of times what throws many men off in terms of success with women is that you change into the kind of man that you aren't really are but have been led to believe that it will attract women. However, the truth of the matter is you cant attract all women nor should you even try. In the end, once you begin to accept the fact that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women, you can begin discovering just exactly who you are which ultimately will lead you to exactly where you want to go.

How Any Guy Can Attract Hot Girls Like Brad Pitt

If you have always believed that the only reason why so many women are mesmerized by Brad Pitt was because of his looks, then you're so deadly wrong. His looks do play a part but that's not the crux to his mega attractiveness with women.

Brad Pitt is what society considers as an Alpha male. An alpha male is simply a guy who is dominant, confident and is assured of himself. If you've ever watched any of Brad Pitt's movies, from FightClub to Ocean's Thirteen, you would realized that Brad was always confident, sure of himself and sometimes just plain cocky and funny.

That's the qualities women are hardwired and deeply attracted to. Think about it for a moment. Do you have friends that aren't as good looking as you but just have some of the most awesome looking girlfriends. Be honest. Look at the streets and you can easily find such beauty and the beast examples.

Convinced? So how can any guy transform himself to cocky and funny Brad Pitt quickly?

Here are 3 traits you need to pay attention to.

Confidence

Now I'm sure this shouldn't come as a surprise for confidence is an important key in success in many areas of life including dating and relationships. Take the many James Bond movies for example, most of the women James meets are reluctant and resistant to him initially. It's his confident behavior that get him what he wants eventually.

Initiate & Conquer Rejection

The reason why alpha male tend to get the female is because alpha males are more pro-active. They take the initiative to start the conversation or asking her out. Alpha males don't fear rejection and besides rejection can only make one stronger. After all, what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger! Thus, be an alpha male and take the lead. As you practice more and more, rejection will not bother you anymore.

Body Language

When you interact with someone, words only make up of 7%, while 38% accounts to tonality and body language makes up 55% of your interaction. Thus, body language can tell a lot about you and your personality.

So, what type of body language does the alpha male portray? First, they stand confidently with their chest slightly sticking out. They walk confidently with both arms swinging and when they sit, they
occupy more space than required.

If you're still clueless in finding the right words when approaching a lady, you would like to consider reading the Alpha Male Newsletter by dating expert, Jake Riley. His popular newsletter is read by newbies and dating experts to improve their dating game.

Is This the Only Thing Preventing You From Attracting Women?

In this article we are going to discuss what for a lot of men is one of the most challenging and oftentimes the only thing that is preventing you from achieving the kind of success that you want with women.

While some of you might already know the answer to this, for those of you who don't let me tell you, it is the fear of change.

"It's the most unhappy people who most fear change." Mignon McLaughlin

This quote pretty much says it all in a nutshell when it comes to having the kind of success that you want with if you are currently unhappy with the results that you are getting then now is the time to change. Of course, most men get that part of the equation; deep down you already realize that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women. Unfortunately for a variety of different reasons instead of changing the things that you must oftentimes you look to change those things that are the easiest to change or even worse attempt to become someone that you are not in order to attract women.

Believe it or not, attracting women and having the kind of success that you want with women usually requires you to change into the kind of person that is content with where he is at now and most importantly knows where he is and wants to go. In other words, a man who has discovered and is able to reside within his own power and knows who he is will attract women. Now, it is important that you realize that when I say attract women I mean that you will attract the kind of women into your life that you want and most importantly can thrive in the power that is your essence of man.

A lot of times what throws many men off in terms of success with women is that you change into the kind of man that you aren't really are but have been led to believe that it will attract women. However, the truth of the matter is you cant attract all women nor should you even try. In the end, once you begin to accept the fact that you must change in order to have the kind of success that you want with women, you can begin discovering just exactly who you are which ultimately will lead you to exactly where you want to go.

How Any Guy Can Attract Hot Girls Like Brad Pitt

If you have always believed that the only reason why so many women are mesmerized by Brad Pitt was because of his looks, then you're so deadly wrong. His looks do play a part but that's not the crux to his mega attractiveness with women.

Brad Pitt is what society considers as an Alpha male. An alpha male is simply a guy who is dominant, confident and is assured of himself. If you've ever watched any of Brad Pitt's movies, from FightClub to Ocean's Thirteen, you would realized that Brad was always confident, sure of himself and sometimes just plain cocky and funny.

That's the qualities women are hardwired and deeply attracted to. Think about it for a moment. Do you have friends that aren't as good looking as you but just have some of the most awesome looking girlfriends. Be honest. Look at the streets and you can easily find such beauty and the beast examples.

Convinced? So how can any guy transform himself to cocky and funny Brad Pitt quickly?

Here are 3 traits you need to pay attention to.

Confidence

Now I'm sure this shouldn't come as a surprise for confidence is an important key in success in many areas of life including dating and relationships. Take the many James Bond movies for example, most of the women James meets are reluctant and resistant to him initially. It's his confident behavior that get him what he wants eventually.

Initiate & Conquer Rejection

The reason why alpha male tend to get the female is because alpha males are more pro-active. They take the initiative to start the conversation or asking her out. Alpha males don't fear rejection and besides rejection can only make one stronger. After all, what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger! Thus, be an alpha male and take the lead. As you practice more and more, rejection will not bother you anymore.

Body Language

When you interact with someone, words only make up of 7%, while 38% accounts to tonality and body language makes up 55% of your interaction. Thus, body language can tell a lot about you and your personality.

So, what type of body language does the alpha male portray? First, they stand confidently with their chest slightly sticking out. They walk confidently with both arms swinging and when they sit, they
occupy more space than required.

If you're still clueless in finding the right words when approaching a lady, you would like to consider reading the Alpha Male Newsletter by dating expert, Jake Riley. His popular newsletter is read by newbies and dating experts to improve their dating game.

Online Dating - First Email

So, you've already found the dating site you want to use. You've taken your time, read a few articles and think you have a pretty good profile. Now you begin your search to look for that person of your dreams. It should be so easy now, right? Well, I wouldn't go that far. You have to remember that the person you're contacting has most likely been contacted before, especially if he or she is a long-time and/or an attractive person. This is why the online dating first email is such an important step in breaking the ice.

You might not think too much about it, but an online dating first email is probably the hardest thing you'll do when using a dating site. No, I don't mean hard as in actual "work." Think of it more as a test. When contemplating what to write in an online dating first email, it should be all about the person you're sending it to - that's first and foremost. For example: the person you're sending the online dating first email to has an affinity for Chinese food and Lil Wayne. Do you have something in common here?

It's better to be non-specific in this area. You may think a great way to open is to say "Wow, I love Chinese food and Lil Wayne, too," but this comes across like you're trying too hard. In your online dating first email, you should hint to having the same interests, without appearing agreeable. Like: "I like your interests; we have a lot in common." See the difference? It's the subtleties like these that either make or break your chances in your online dating first email.

Another thing to remember about an online dating first email is that it needs to be an informal introduction, not a novel! So many people write 3, 4, even 500-word emails to their targeted mate. Needless to say, this is far too long if you're looking for effectiveness. Your online dating first email should be short, sweet, and to the point. Also, you want to make the email conversational. This means no "lol," "W/E," "ttfn," or other forms of Inter-slang. At the same time, you don't want to get overly wordy. Keep it informal and well-written.

In your online dating first email, I know you're just itching to scream out, "You're so hot!" Well, don't do this... seriously. This is especially true for guys writing an online dating first email to a girl. You don't need to compliment her looks at all. To the contrary - even if looks are what drew you in to her page - comment on her profile, likes and dislikes, etc, but never on physical appearance.

Read over the person's profile before sending the online dating first email. If he/she already answers a question in their profile, be sure not to ask it again. In fact, try to avoid asking anything. Simply let them know you're interested. Remember to keep it short, sweet, non-intrusive, professional, and simple. Follow these steps and this email could be the first of many.

Too Soon For Online Relationship Intimacy?

For most people, when they think of relationship intimacy, they think of the physical side of things. While this is one form of intimacy, there is a lot more to it than that. If you are starting an online relationship with someone, then this physical act will not be possible until you meet in person. There are other forms of intimacy that you can share with someone on the Internet, but when is the right time to become intimate with someone online?

Emotional intimacy is a big part of any relationship. Do not allow this relationship intimacy to become a factor too soon in an online relationship or you will likely scare the other person off. As we all know, it is a lot easier to do things online that we would not normally do if the person was sitting beside us. It is important to recognize that so you can avoid sharing too much too soon.

It is important to keep yourself safe online because there are many people who are out to steal the identities of anybody willing to give up their information. Do not become intimate with someone online too quickly because it can lead to disaster.

If you are dating online it is best to try and do things as you would do them if the person was in the room with you. Take things in stride, and when it is time to share certain things, you will know. If you wouldn't say something if the person was in the room with you, don't say it.

Too Soon For Online Relationship Intimacy?

For most people, when they think of relationship intimacy, they think of the physical side of things. While this is one form of intimacy, there is a lot more to it than that. If you are starting an online relationship with someone, then this physical act will not be possible until you meet in person. There are other forms of intimacy that you can share with someone on the Internet, but when is the right time to become intimate with someone online?

Emotional intimacy is a big part of any relationship. Do not allow this relationship intimacy to become a factor too soon in an online relationship or you will likely scare the other person off. As we all know, it is a lot easier to do things online that we would not normally do if the person was sitting beside us. It is important to recognize that so you can avoid sharing too much too soon.

It is important to keep yourself safe online because there are many people who are out to steal the identities of anybody willing to give up their information. Do not become intimate with someone online too quickly because it can lead to disaster.

If you are dating online it is best to try and do things as you would do them if the person was in the room with you. Take things in stride, and when it is time to share certain things, you will know. If you wouldn't say something if the person was in the room with you, don't say it.

Online Dating - First Email

So, you've already found the dating site you want to use. You've taken your time, read a few articles and think you have a pretty good profile. Now you begin your search to look for that person of your dreams. It should be so easy now, right? Well, I wouldn't go that far. You have to remember that the person you're contacting has most likely been contacted before, especially if he or she is a long-time and/or an attractive person. This is why the online dating first email is such an important step in breaking the ice.

You might not think too much about it, but an online dating first email is probably the hardest thing you'll do when using a dating site. No, I don't mean hard as in actual "work." Think of it more as a test. When contemplating what to write in an online dating first email, it should be all about the person you're sending it to - that's first and foremost. For example: the person you're sending the online dating first email to has an affinity for Chinese food and Lil Wayne. Do you have something in common here?

It's better to be non-specific in this area. You may think a great way to open is to say "Wow, I love Chinese food and Lil Wayne, too," but this comes across like you're trying too hard. In your online dating first email, you should hint to having the same interests, without appearing agreeable. Like: "I like your interests; we have a lot in common." See the difference? It's the subtleties like these that either make or break your chances in your online dating first email.

Another thing to remember about an online dating first email is that it needs to be an informal introduction, not a novel! So many people write 3, 4, even 500-word emails to their targeted mate. Needless to say, this is far too long if you're looking for effectiveness. Your online dating first email should be short, sweet, and to the point. Also, you want to make the email conversational. This means no "lol," "W/E," "ttfn," or other forms of Inter-slang. At the same time, you don't want to get overly wordy. Keep it informal and well-written.

In your online dating first email, I know you're just itching to scream out, "You're so hot!" Well, don't do this... seriously. This is especially true for guys writing an online dating first email to a girl. You don't need to compliment her looks at all. To the contrary - even if looks are what drew you in to her page - comment on her profile, likes and dislikes, etc, but never on physical appearance.

Read over the person's profile before sending the online dating first email. If he/she already answers a question in their profile, be sure not to ask it again. In fact, try to avoid asking anything. Simply let them know you're interested. Remember to keep it short, sweet, non-intrusive, professional, and simple. Follow these steps and this email could be the first of many.

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Let Women Teach You All the Secrets About Dating

The last thing you want to do is get advice about dating from your guy friends. After all, what does any guy really know about women. If you really want to be able to approach and talk to women; then get advice from a woman. Who knows women better than a woman.

For the longest time, women never wanted men to know all their secrets. As time went on, women slowly discovered that they were missing out on the good guys. It turns out that most of the good guys were to shy to approach or talk to women. The reason most men are to shy is because they never really know what it is that women want. The great news for men is that no longer has to be a problem. Women are now writing books and magazine articles to help men understand what it is that they want.

The idea is that if a guy knows ahead of time what women want, then they will not be to shy to approach or talk to them. At the end of the day, the number one quality a woman looks for is confidence. By knowing secrets about women, you will have no problem being confident. Another way to give you confidence is to have a plan before you approach women. You want to make sure you know how you are going to approach them and how you are going to open the conversation. This will be easy to do with the help of women.

So stop spending your evenings alone. Learn how easy it really can be to approach and talk to women.

Too Soon For Online Relationship Intimacy?

For most people, when they think of relationship intimacy, they think of the physical side of things. While this is one form of intimacy, there is a lot more to it than that. If you are starting an online relationship with someone, then this physical act will not be possible until you meet in person. There are other forms of intimacy that you can share with someone on the Internet, but when is the right time to become intimate with someone online?

Emotional intimacy is a big part of any relationship. Do not allow this relationship intimacy to become a factor too soon in an online relationship or you will likely scare the other person off. As we all know, it is a lot easier to do things online that we would not normally do if the person was sitting beside us. It is important to recognize that so you can avoid sharing too much too soon.

It is important to keep yourself safe online because there are many people who are out to steal the identities of anybody willing to give up their information. Do not become intimate with someone online too quickly because it can lead to disaster.

If you are dating online it is best to try and do things as you would do them if the person was in the room with you. Take things in stride, and when it is time to share certain things, you will know. If you wouldn't say something if the person was in the room with you, don't say it.

Let Women Teach You All the Secrets About Dating

The last thing you want to do is get advice about dating from your guy friends. After all, what does any guy really know about women. If you really want to be able to approach and talk to women; then get advice from a woman. Who knows women better than a woman.

For the longest time, women never wanted men to know all their secrets. As time went on, women slowly discovered that they were missing out on the good guys. It turns out that most of the good guys were to shy to approach or talk to women. The reason most men are to shy is because they never really know what it is that women want. The great news for men is that no longer has to be a problem. Women are now writing books and magazine articles to help men understand what it is that they want.

The idea is that if a guy knows ahead of time what women want, then they will not be to shy to approach or talk to them. At the end of the day, the number one quality a woman looks for is confidence. By knowing secrets about women, you will have no problem being confident. Another way to give you confidence is to have a plan before you approach women. You want to make sure you know how you are going to approach them and how you are going to open the conversation. This will be easy to do with the help of women.

So stop spending your evenings alone. Learn how easy it really can be to approach and talk to women.

Let Women Teach You All the Secrets About Dating

The last thing you want to do is get advice about dating from your guy friends. After all, what does any guy really know about women. If you really want to be able to approach and talk to women; then get advice from a woman. Who knows women better than a woman.

For the longest time, women never wanted men to know all their secrets. As time went on, women slowly discovered that they were missing out on the good guys. It turns out that most of the good guys were to shy to approach or talk to women. The reason most men are to shy is because they never really know what it is that women want. The great news for men is that no longer has to be a problem. Women are now writing books and magazine articles to help men understand what it is that they want.

The idea is that if a guy knows ahead of time what women want, then they will not be to shy to approach or talk to them. At the end of the day, the number one quality a woman looks for is confidence. By knowing secrets about women, you will have no problem being confident. Another way to give you confidence is to have a plan before you approach women. You want to make sure you know how you are going to approach them and how you are going to open the conversation. This will be easy to do with the help of women.

So stop spending your evenings alone. Learn how easy it really can be to approach and talk to women.

Too Soon For Online Relationship Intimacy?

For most people, when they think of relationship intimacy, they think of the physical side of things. While this is one form of intimacy, there is a lot more to it than that. If you are starting an online relationship with someone, then this physical act will not be possible until you meet in person. There are other forms of intimacy that you can share with someone on the Internet, but when is the right time to become intimate with someone online?

Emotional intimacy is a big part of any relationship. Do not allow this relationship intimacy to become a factor too soon in an online relationship or you will likely scare the other person off. As we all know, it is a lot easier to do things online that we would not normally do if the person was sitting beside us. It is important to recognize that so you can avoid sharing too much too soon.

It is important to keep yourself safe online because there are many people who are out to steal the identities of anybody willing to give up their information. Do not become intimate with someone online too quickly because it can lead to disaster.

If you are dating online it is best to try and do things as you would do them if the person was in the room with you. Take things in stride, and when it is time to share certain things, you will know. If you wouldn't say something if the person was in the room with you, don't say it.

Romantic Body Language - How to Make Her Ache For You

Do you want to become the man which women absolutely ache for? If you do, then you need to learn the principles of romantic body language. This is all about conveying the right characteristics which inspire attraction within women. Here are just some of the principles of the alpha male body language.

1. Slow Down

Most guys seem to act "wired". That is to say that their movements are usually very jerky and wide ranging.

You need to set yourself apart from the crowd and give her a reason to notice you. So slow down all of your movements. This includes the pace at which you walk, down to how fast you turn your head when someone calls your name. This will give you a kind of "rockstar persona" which women find deeply attractive.

2. Strong Eye Contact

You will never be able to flip her attraction switches unless you can make strong eye contact with her. It's as simple as that. Women view men as insecure or dishonest if they cannot make strong eye contact with them

Needless to say, these are two traits that will NEVER get you more dates.

Practice making strong eye contact with everyone you speak to. This conveys confidence in the man you are and what you have to say.

3. Your Vibe

You need to give off the right vibes with your body language. To do this, you need to have a winning mindset. Stop telling yourself that you aren't good looking enough, or rich enough for her. See yourself as THE MAN, and she will also see you in this light.

Romantic Body Language - How to Make Her Ache For You

Do you want to become the man which women absolutely ache for? If you do, then you need to learn the principles of romantic body language. This is all about conveying the right characteristics which inspire attraction within women. Here are just some of the principles of the alpha male body language.

1. Slow Down

Most guys seem to act "wired". That is to say that their movements are usually very jerky and wide ranging.

You need to set yourself apart from the crowd and give her a reason to notice you. So slow down all of your movements. This includes the pace at which you walk, down to how fast you turn your head when someone calls your name. This will give you a kind of "rockstar persona" which women find deeply attractive.

2. Strong Eye Contact

You will never be able to flip her attraction switches unless you can make strong eye contact with her. It's as simple as that. Women view men as insecure or dishonest if they cannot make strong eye contact with them

Needless to say, these are two traits that will NEVER get you more dates.

Practice making strong eye contact with everyone you speak to. This conveys confidence in the man you are and what you have to say.

3. Your Vibe

You need to give off the right vibes with your body language. To do this, you need to have a winning mindset. Stop telling yourself that you aren't good looking enough, or rich enough for her. See yourself as THE MAN, and she will also see you in this light.

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