Get Chicks to Talk to You

So you've followed all the advice given to you in the men's magazines. You look the part. You act the part. But still, women aren't talking to you? It's time to bring out the big guns.

Now, the thing is...you can be the best-dressed guy in the room, but unless a woman has a reason to talk to you, she's not going to. She may think that you're good looking. She may want to talk to you. But she doesn't have a good opening line. That's what's stopping her.

She needs a good opener. And you have to give it to her.

How can you do this?

Get rid of all your boring clothes. Yes, they may make you look well-groomed, and women do want you to be well-groomed, but they also want something that makes you stand out.

Here are three ways that you can stand out from the crowd:

1. Wear a cool shirt or tie. Don't just walk around in polo shirts every day. Wear a t-shirt that has a funny saying. Wear a tie with an interesting design.

2. Wear cool shoes. Boots, sneakers or wingtips, women notice your shoes. And if you're wearing something unusual, she's sure to take notice.

3. Carry a cool bag. Think men shouldn't carry bags? Think again. Bags can help keep your organized and help you catch a girl.

How does doing these things get women to talk to you? It gives them a good opening line. She's now able to say, "Hey, I like your bag!" or "Where did you get those shoes?"

This is a good way of breaking the ice without having to make the first move. Having something in common (even something as silly as an interest in the same style) breaks down barriers and allows conversation to flow more smoothly. Better still, if it's a woman that you're not interested in, it becomes easier to let her down by simply "assuming" that she's just being friendly.

Why Men Dump Women - There is a Cure to Stop Being Dumped!

Why do men dump women in a relationship? This is the question a young woman put before me. In fact, she has suffered in the hands of several men who were positively attracted to her and deep into the relationship, the men will dump her. She desperately wanted assistance and she came to me for help. The truth is that this is a serious problem affecting several men and women all over the world and the reasons adduced for this problem are many but we have seen people with similar problems enjoying long term relationships. There is a secret and there is a technique to overcome this problem.

The woman is an American, the daughter of a prominent businessman. This woman was well educated, polished, and moreover, possessed of all the requisite of a beautiful woman, except that of inspiring a feeling of friendship on the part of those men whom she came in contact. The men dump her just when the relationship was getting exciting after sometime.

She is the type that is opportune to come in contact with respectable men and they seem to be attracted to her, nevertheless she was handicapped by the fact that she repelled friendship, rather than invite it. They get attracted to her, but they dump her as quickly as they are attracted to her. She is already in her thirties.

In desperation, she made the trip across the Atlantic to consult me and to beg a cure for her serious problem - why men dump her as quickly as they are attracted to her?

Her cure for why men dump her was very easy. I simply put her through a course of exercises until she mastered the technique and then had her saturate her mind with the whole techniques.

Well, after sometime, this young woman began to radiate such an atmosphere of likeability, friendship and magnetism that she quickly men the right person who was willing and ready to keep a long term relationship with her.

Her old problem disappeared like magic - she became a new woman. And, yet it was all very simple. Mere child's play, when one has the secret magical techniques, as you will soon have in your possession. The young woman was so happy that she insisted upon presenting me with a gift of $1,000 more than the amount for my time and trouble.

Today, she is in a very happy and loving relationship. She is married with four lovely kids.

I could go on reciting case after case how this technique has helped several men and women to keep long term relationships beyond their wildest dreams, stop divorce, break ups and lovers rejection. And most importantly, eliminate forever the reasons adduced for "why men dump women or why women dump men." The cure is within your reach now.

Why Some Men Have All the Success Meeting Women Online

When it comes to meeting women online, there are men who understand a simple principle and use it to succeed wildly, while the other vast majority keep failing and merely get hung up on figuring out what exactly they are doing wrong.

That secret is the distinction between the scarcity and abundance mindset. Now, what does this mean?

On a very basic and cursory level, it's simply the fact that winners (in virtually any endeavor of life) view life as having abundance FOR THEM. This means they don't get let down when failure comes their way. They know there is enough success ahead of them, stored for the taking.

They strive to SOLVE the problems ... versus those who adopt a "loser mentality" become overwhelmed by problems.

The same thing applies when we are seeking to attract that amazing partner online. It does not happen right away and many times, you will endure a lot of let-downs before you attract a woman you really click with.

Now, how do you adopt a more successful mindset to get you here?

I have a few practical methods that you can readily use:

1. Find someone who is an example of the abundance principle. He does not get jealous of other men ogling his partner. He knows that he is able to attract women readily. And most importantly, he understands that even if he does fail, it's a momentary thing. Just by virtue of associating with guys like this, it'll do wonders for you.

2. Understand that much of the scarcity mindset is caused by media instead of reality. We think there is an ideal out there in which we do not fit. Should we give up? Women, although similar are also quite different and different enough that there will be plenty of ones whom are mutually attracted to you, regardless of who you are.

Think about it this way.... if we were all attracted to the same thing in reality, from a biological standpoint, we'd become incestuous. Now, that's quite boring and it's not even natural.

3. Roll with your successes. Realize that they can be replicated again and they will. If you're trying to meet women online and fail at first, don't send them hate mail or act bitter ... simply move on and have the abundance principle in mind. Once a success or two comes, you can roll with that even in the face of future failures.

Red Flags With the Man You're Dating

At one time or another we've been so caught up with a man, we started acting like a crazy clown.

Have you ever been there? Or you there now?

You go all out taking about how much you LOVE him on network cable and TV. You didn't pay attention to the red flags when you started seeing him and he bewitched you by pretending that he put Orion in the sky then you tell all of your girlfriends that he can make stars. Meanwhile your girlfriends are worried that they may have to commit you.

Some women have a pattern of being in love with the idea of thinking that they're really special to a particular man. And all the signs are there. When it gets really bad, you write dear Abby telling her you're convinced your man loves you but you're having communication problems.

It ain't communication, it's liberation problems you're having. You won't do what it takes to really free yourself from him. If you've trapped yourself with a man who you think loves you and you're wondering why he can't really seem to love you, then you need to take out a pen right now.

Go on, do something dangerous.

Draw two columns. On one side write, "What love is" and on the other write, "What love isn't."

I hope you're not afraid to really find out because at least you have a man. When you are ready to become a Queen, you'll do what it takes to be responsible for being the kind of woman who a real man can truly cherish.