Romantic Seduction With a Woman

Most seduction tips that you find lurking around on the internet are far from romantic. More often than not, they involve cheesy pick up lines, and gimmicky routines to try and almost trick a woman into feeling a certain way. While this may appeal to certain men, there are many more out there that are more into the idea of being able to seduce a woman in a much more romantic way. And there is good reason for this. One option will leave you as a regret in her mind, while the other will keep you as a special memory that she is fond of.

What should you know about romantic seduction with a woman?

1. The setting should be right. You don't want to make your move in a slummy bar or a dingy night club. You have to be able to set the mood so that the night seems special to her. Remember, that you want her to remember you and her time with you in a good light, so make sure that you choose the right place. There are many different options that you can choose from and they don't have to cost a lot of money. They just cannot seem cheap and scummy.

2. The conversation should escalate. You don't want to jump right into seducing her. This will cheapen the moment and it will also cause her to see you as more of a guy that is just trying to get laid. You want her to feel as though she is caught up in a moment, one that she cannot and does not want to resist. To make this happen, you have to escalate her attraction for YOU. This involves using simple methods to trigger her sexual attraction for you.

3. You have to know how to make her feel DESIRE for you. Romantic seduction has to be a two way street. This is not a time when you want to dominate a woman in any way. You have to lead her and know what it is that will trigger her attraction for YOU.

How to Seduce a Girl Using 4 Super Effective Methods You Can't Miss!

If you have been wondering how to seduce a girl that you have been wanting for quite some time now, then it is time that you looked at the following to learn about 4 super effective methods to seduce and girl. These methods are a must to know and you just can't miss it.

Take Care of Hygene - Give the utmost priority to personal hygiene. Women like a man who looks and dresses smart and of course a man who smells smart. Make certain that you shower daily and wear your best clothes and the best perfume.

Be Confident - Women also are attracted to a man who oozes confidence. You will have to make certain that you practice well and get your confidence level higher than what it is. If you miss out on the confidence then you can be rest assured that she will be taken by your competitor and that is something you don't want!

Read up So You Can Have a Conversation - For the third super effective method to seduce a girl, you will have to learn well and be abreast in all walks of life. Women like challenge and hence have raised the bars for you. They no longer want a man who can be mundane. They want to have a conversation that can trigger them intellectually. Women are no longer naïve with world information. They are well educated and they can surely have a decent conversation that just doesn't revolve around sex. So if you are looking forward to seducing a woman, then make certain that you learn more and not just speak about sex and how best you can satisfy her. If you think about it, your guaranteed satisfaction would last not more than 30 minutes hence she would not bother with you if you are just boring and mundane and if your mind just keeps revolving around sex.

Look Rich - Even if neither of the first three methods seem to work for you, you can be assured that the last will definitely work. Women always like to associate with men with more money. Women are looking for financial security and they definitely want a man who can give it to them. Now make certain that your bank-roll is either heavy or you can fake it.

Now make certain that you follow every single tip like a hard and fast rule and see how even you can easily seduce even the most seductive women in town. Now you can say good-bye to those lonely days where you have been wondering how you can seduce those hot women and now you can actually seduce them like a walk in the park.

Romantic Seduction With a Woman

Most seduction tips that you find lurking around on the internet are far from romantic. More often than not, they involve cheesy pick up lines, and gimmicky routines to try and almost trick a woman into feeling a certain way. While this may appeal to certain men, there are many more out there that are more into the idea of being able to seduce a woman in a much more romantic way. And there is good reason for this. One option will leave you as a regret in her mind, while the other will keep you as a special memory that she is fond of.

What should you know about romantic seduction with a woman?

1. The setting should be right. You don't want to make your move in a slummy bar or a dingy night club. You have to be able to set the mood so that the night seems special to her. Remember, that you want her to remember you and her time with you in a good light, so make sure that you choose the right place. There are many different options that you can choose from and they don't have to cost a lot of money. They just cannot seem cheap and scummy.

2. The conversation should escalate. You don't want to jump right into seducing her. This will cheapen the moment and it will also cause her to see you as more of a guy that is just trying to get laid. You want her to feel as though she is caught up in a moment, one that she cannot and does not want to resist. To make this happen, you have to escalate her attraction for YOU. This involves using simple methods to trigger her sexual attraction for you.

3. You have to know how to make her feel DESIRE for you. Romantic seduction has to be a two way street. This is not a time when you want to dominate a woman in any way. You have to lead her and know what it is that will trigger her attraction for YOU.

Romantic Seduction With a Woman

Most seduction tips that you find lurking around on the internet are far from romantic. More often than not, they involve cheesy pick up lines, and gimmicky routines to try and almost trick a woman into feeling a certain way. While this may appeal to certain men, there are many more out there that are more into the idea of being able to seduce a woman in a much more romantic way. And there is good reason for this. One option will leave you as a regret in her mind, while the other will keep you as a special memory that she is fond of.

What should you know about romantic seduction with a woman?

1. The setting should be right. You don't want to make your move in a slummy bar or a dingy night club. You have to be able to set the mood so that the night seems special to her. Remember, that you want her to remember you and her time with you in a good light, so make sure that you choose the right place. There are many different options that you can choose from and they don't have to cost a lot of money. They just cannot seem cheap and scummy.

2. The conversation should escalate. You don't want to jump right into seducing her. This will cheapen the moment and it will also cause her to see you as more of a guy that is just trying to get laid. You want her to feel as though she is caught up in a moment, one that she cannot and does not want to resist. To make this happen, you have to escalate her attraction for YOU. This involves using simple methods to trigger her sexual attraction for you.

3. You have to know how to make her feel DESIRE for you. Romantic seduction has to be a two way street. This is not a time when you want to dominate a woman in any way. You have to lead her and know what it is that will trigger her attraction for YOU.

"Date Check" - A Tool For Criminals

On Sunday morning I overheard an interview on Fox and Friends about a cell phone application that provides instant background checks for singles. At first I thought great idea; another tool to help our members. I finished watching the interview, wrote down some notes and then went online to find out more. Even though I would be promoting another company my initial reaction was to gather as much information as possible so I could share it with our members. After all, I'm here to keep you Safer in the City right?

But, all that positive thinking fizzled the more and more I researched the company behind the application, Intelius, and the application itself. Lets start with the company and mind you not much effort is needed to find something sketchy.

With just a quick Google search using the following words, "Intelius and scams", I found an article in TechCrunch, from March 2009 describing a company swimming in consumer complaints and legal issues.

You'll read that almost all of the customers complained of unauthorized monthly charges appearing on their credit or debit cards after paying for a one-time fee service on the Intelius site. Some even complained that the searches they initially paid for weren't accurate and could not be used.

Now let's explore the cell phone application that Intelius has just launched in October through iPhone, Blackberry and Android. There are five searches that are available to cell phone customers once the application is downloaded and this is where it got creepy for me. Although, I was okay with the first search called the "Sleaze Detector" which instantly checks for past criminal activity. But then I noticed the other four searches that instantly check for the following:

Net Worth

• Property ownership information
• Home details (bedrooms, bathrooms, square footage, tax info)
• Assessed property value

Compatibility

• Birth Date
• Horoscope and astrological
information

Interests

• Social Network Info
• Professional Info
• Educational background

Living Situation

• Names and ages of relatives, associates & roommates living at search subject's residence

Reading through these searches made me nauseous. My initial thought was what a brilliant tool for a criminal! With just a name, phone number or email address Intelius can tell you all this information INSTANTLY. Now I understand that some of this stuff is available online in some way, which is another problem, but starting in October it's easier then ever to gather it in an instant one stop shop.

Does anyone else have a problem with some stranger learning about your property ownership, assessed property value and the names and ages of relatives living in your home? What does that have to do with dating? You would think marital status would have been number one on their search list but it was left out. I guess they felt learning the number of bedrooms and bathrooms was more of a priority then whether someone was married or single.

Now that we know this application is out there, here is some advice on what to do to block some of your information from being shared through this tool. Linda Criddle, the expert in my latest interview, "What the Fraud!", talks about contacting local government agencies to request that your housing information remain private. Linda spent 13 years at Microsoft where she was a pioneer in online safety for mobile devices and PC's for the MSN division. She advises that within your home town learn what is public knowledge and accessible through the internet and request that it be removed. Also, be sure to change the settings on your social networking sites so that only "connections" or "contacts" authorized by YOU can see your profile information.

- Jessica

"Date Check" - A Tool For Criminals

On Sunday morning I overheard an interview on Fox and Friends about a cell phone application that provides instant background checks for singles. At first I thought great idea; another tool to help our members. I finished watching the interview, wrote down some notes and then went online to find out more. Even though I would be promoting another company my initial reaction was to gather as much information as possible so I could share it with our members. After all, I'm here to keep you Safer in the City right?

But, all that positive thinking fizzled the more and more I researched the company behind the application, Intelius, and the application itself. Lets start with the company and mind you not much effort is needed to find something sketchy.

With just a quick Google search using the following words, "Intelius and scams", I found an article in TechCrunch, from March 2009 describing a company swimming in consumer complaints and legal issues.

You'll read that almost all of the customers complained of unauthorized monthly charges appearing on their credit or debit cards after paying for a one-time fee service on the Intelius site. Some even complained that the searches they initially paid for weren't accurate and could not be used.

Now let's explore the cell phone application that Intelius has just launched in October through iPhone, Blackberry and Android. There are five searches that are available to cell phone customers once the application is downloaded and this is where it got creepy for me. Although, I was okay with the first search called the "Sleaze Detector" which instantly checks for past criminal activity. But then I noticed the other four searches that instantly check for the following:

Net Worth

• Property ownership information
• Home details (bedrooms, bathrooms, square footage, tax info)
• Assessed property value

Compatibility

• Birth Date
• Horoscope and astrological
information

Interests

• Social Network Info
• Professional Info
• Educational background

Living Situation

• Names and ages of relatives, associates & roommates living at search subject's residence

Reading through these searches made me nauseous. My initial thought was what a brilliant tool for a criminal! With just a name, phone number or email address Intelius can tell you all this information INSTANTLY. Now I understand that some of this stuff is available online in some way, which is another problem, but starting in October it's easier then ever to gather it in an instant one stop shop.

Does anyone else have a problem with some stranger learning about your property ownership, assessed property value and the names and ages of relatives living in your home? What does that have to do with dating? You would think marital status would have been number one on their search list but it was left out. I guess they felt learning the number of bedrooms and bathrooms was more of a priority then whether someone was married or single.

Now that we know this application is out there, here is some advice on what to do to block some of your information from being shared through this tool. Linda Criddle, the expert in my latest interview, "What the Fraud!", talks about contacting local government agencies to request that your housing information remain private. Linda spent 13 years at Microsoft where she was a pioneer in online safety for mobile devices and PC's for the MSN division. She advises that within your home town learn what is public knowledge and accessible through the internet and request that it be removed. Also, be sure to change the settings on your social networking sites so that only "connections" or "contacts" authorized by YOU can see your profile information.

- Jessica

Halloween Dating Safety - Trick Or Treat?

Halloween is made for going out and the party scene will be jumping. So, ladies, pull out your best ideas to create a fabulous costume. Then keep these tips in mind so you will have a wonderful time when you plan your fantastic night on the town.

The cool thing about Halloween is that for one night, you can step out of your everyday world into a fantasy world. This can be a lot of fun; and best done with a clear head and common sense.

Think of the rules you had as a kid to keep you safe when you went out for trick-or-treating. Then update them for the adult you are now and you have the idea.

• About that fabulous costume. Have fun and enjoy, but make sure you can move freely and see clearly out of your mask--particularly if stilettos and a tight skirt are part of the attire.

• Trick-or-treat in groups. As a kid your parents insisted that you do not go out alone. You probably went out with Mom or Dad at first. Then later on, it was you and the siblings, or maybe some carefully chosen friends. The same principle applies here: safety in numbers with a group of your coolest buds in fabulous costumes and you get the idea. It is not only cheaper to split cab fares and the gas but it is fun!

• If you want to accept a drink from that cute vampire, take a stroll to the bar to watch the drink being prepared. You do not want your drink to include any unwelcome Halloween surprises.

In fact, you will have a better time (and feel much, much better the next day) if you do not overdo the drinking or imbibe exotic and unfamiliar mixtures.

Halloween Dating Safety - Trick Or Treat?

Halloween is made for going out and the party scene will be jumping. So, ladies, pull out your best ideas to create a fabulous costume. Then keep these tips in mind so you will have a wonderful time when you plan your fantastic night on the town.

The cool thing about Halloween is that for one night, you can step out of your everyday world into a fantasy world. This can be a lot of fun; and best done with a clear head and common sense.

Think of the rules you had as a kid to keep you safe when you went out for trick-or-treating. Then update them for the adult you are now and you have the idea.

• About that fabulous costume. Have fun and enjoy, but make sure you can move freely and see clearly out of your mask--particularly if stilettos and a tight skirt are part of the attire.

• Trick-or-treat in groups. As a kid your parents insisted that you do not go out alone. You probably went out with Mom or Dad at first. Then later on, it was you and the siblings, or maybe some carefully chosen friends. The same principle applies here: safety in numbers with a group of your coolest buds in fabulous costumes and you get the idea. It is not only cheaper to split cab fares and the gas but it is fun!

• If you want to accept a drink from that cute vampire, take a stroll to the bar to watch the drink being prepared. You do not want your drink to include any unwelcome Halloween surprises.

In fact, you will have a better time (and feel much, much better the next day) if you do not overdo the drinking or imbibe exotic and unfamiliar mixtures.

Halloween Dating Safety - Trick Or Treat?

Halloween is made for going out and the party scene will be jumping. So, ladies, pull out your best ideas to create a fabulous costume. Then keep these tips in mind so you will have a wonderful time when you plan your fantastic night on the town.

The cool thing about Halloween is that for one night, you can step out of your everyday world into a fantasy world. This can be a lot of fun; and best done with a clear head and common sense.

Think of the rules you had as a kid to keep you safe when you went out for trick-or-treating. Then update them for the adult you are now and you have the idea.

• About that fabulous costume. Have fun and enjoy, but make sure you can move freely and see clearly out of your mask--particularly if stilettos and a tight skirt are part of the attire.

• Trick-or-treat in groups. As a kid your parents insisted that you do not go out alone. You probably went out with Mom or Dad at first. Then later on, it was you and the siblings, or maybe some carefully chosen friends. The same principle applies here: safety in numbers with a group of your coolest buds in fabulous costumes and you get the idea. It is not only cheaper to split cab fares and the gas but it is fun!

• If you want to accept a drink from that cute vampire, take a stroll to the bar to watch the drink being prepared. You do not want your drink to include any unwelcome Halloween surprises.

In fact, you will have a better time (and feel much, much better the next day) if you do not overdo the drinking or imbibe exotic and unfamiliar mixtures.

Does He Want a Relationship? Three Things to Look For

Isn't it always hard to tell if a guy wants a relationship or not? Don't you wish you could see clearly and know what the guy wants? Are you tired of reading him one way only to learn he actually meant something completely different? It's not easy, but it's not impossible. There are some subtle signs to look for.

The first thing you want to determine is your place on his list of priorities. While it is unreasonable to think you'd be at the very top of his list, you should be in the top three. Even if his workload is heavy, he should have time to see you, or at least call. Listen to the tone and words he uses when he tells you he can't see you. Is he apologetic? Does he offer an alternative night to see each other? A guy who makes flimsy excuses and is vague about future dates is not really interested in pursuing the relationship.

Another thing to consider is the number of dates he invites you on. If they are scattered and infrequent, he may not be ready and willing to invest much time in getting to know you. Also, where does he take you on these few dates? Some place elegant or fun? Or does he just invite you to his place?

Which leads to the third thing to look out for... Does he not even want to bother to take you out to dinner, but he is quick to take you to bed? If the guy only wants to go to bed with you and nothing else, chances are your relationship will stop at the threshold of his bedroom door. Though you may think the hot and heavy sex is a good sign of a solid future with this man, he's just thinking of the next time he can have a good time with you.

The man who wants a relationship with you will be more patient and understand than that. Knowing you're worth the wait, he won't pressure you, but will take his time to win you. He'll spend the time getting to know you and allow you to get to know and trust him.

Does He Want a Relationship? Three Things to Look For

Isn't it always hard to tell if a guy wants a relationship or not? Don't you wish you could see clearly and know what the guy wants? Are you tired of reading him one way only to learn he actually meant something completely different? It's not easy, but it's not impossible. There are some subtle signs to look for.

The first thing you want to determine is your place on his list of priorities. While it is unreasonable to think you'd be at the very top of his list, you should be in the top three. Even if his workload is heavy, he should have time to see you, or at least call. Listen to the tone and words he uses when he tells you he can't see you. Is he apologetic? Does he offer an alternative night to see each other? A guy who makes flimsy excuses and is vague about future dates is not really interested in pursuing the relationship.

Another thing to consider is the number of dates he invites you on. If they are scattered and infrequent, he may not be ready and willing to invest much time in getting to know you. Also, where does he take you on these few dates? Some place elegant or fun? Or does he just invite you to his place?

Which leads to the third thing to look out for... Does he not even want to bother to take you out to dinner, but he is quick to take you to bed? If the guy only wants to go to bed with you and nothing else, chances are your relationship will stop at the threshold of his bedroom door. Though you may think the hot and heavy sex is a good sign of a solid future with this man, he's just thinking of the next time he can have a good time with you.

The man who wants a relationship with you will be more patient and understand than that. Knowing you're worth the wait, he won't pressure you, but will take his time to win you. He'll spend the time getting to know you and allow you to get to know and trust him.

Halloween Dating Safety - Trick Or Treat?

Halloween is made for going out and the party scene will be jumping. So, ladies, pull out your best ideas to create a fabulous costume. Then keep these tips in mind so you will have a wonderful time when you plan your fantastic night on the town.

The cool thing about Halloween is that for one night, you can step out of your everyday world into a fantasy world. This can be a lot of fun; and best done with a clear head and common sense.

Think of the rules you had as a kid to keep you safe when you went out for trick-or-treating. Then update them for the adult you are now and you have the idea.

• About that fabulous costume. Have fun and enjoy, but make sure you can move freely and see clearly out of your mask--particularly if stilettos and a tight skirt are part of the attire.

• Trick-or-treat in groups. As a kid your parents insisted that you do not go out alone. You probably went out with Mom or Dad at first. Then later on, it was you and the siblings, or maybe some carefully chosen friends. The same principle applies here: safety in numbers with a group of your coolest buds in fabulous costumes and you get the idea. It is not only cheaper to split cab fares and the gas but it is fun!

• If you want to accept a drink from that cute vampire, take a stroll to the bar to watch the drink being prepared. You do not want your drink to include any unwelcome Halloween surprises.

In fact, you will have a better time (and feel much, much better the next day) if you do not overdo the drinking or imbibe exotic and unfamiliar mixtures.

Does He Want a Relationship? Three Things to Look For

Isn't it always hard to tell if a guy wants a relationship or not? Don't you wish you could see clearly and know what the guy wants? Are you tired of reading him one way only to learn he actually meant something completely different? It's not easy, but it's not impossible. There are some subtle signs to look for.

The first thing you want to determine is your place on his list of priorities. While it is unreasonable to think you'd be at the very top of his list, you should be in the top three. Even if his workload is heavy, he should have time to see you, or at least call. Listen to the tone and words he uses when he tells you he can't see you. Is he apologetic? Does he offer an alternative night to see each other? A guy who makes flimsy excuses and is vague about future dates is not really interested in pursuing the relationship.

Another thing to consider is the number of dates he invites you on. If they are scattered and infrequent, he may not be ready and willing to invest much time in getting to know you. Also, where does he take you on these few dates? Some place elegant or fun? Or does he just invite you to his place?

Which leads to the third thing to look out for... Does he not even want to bother to take you out to dinner, but he is quick to take you to bed? If the guy only wants to go to bed with you and nothing else, chances are your relationship will stop at the threshold of his bedroom door. Though you may think the hot and heavy sex is a good sign of a solid future with this man, he's just thinking of the next time he can have a good time with you.

The man who wants a relationship with you will be more patient and understand than that. Knowing you're worth the wait, he won't pressure you, but will take his time to win you. He'll spend the time getting to know you and allow you to get to know and trust him.

Things to Say to a Girl You Like - How to "Smooth-Talk" Your Way to Seduction Success

One huge mistake that the majority of men make is believing that only rich men get gorgeous women. There is no need for money or great looks to become attractive in the eyes of women. You simply have to practice your social skills and get a good boost of self-confidence.

A lot of guys, no matter how ugly or broke they are, are successful with women just because of their interaction skills. They are able to adapt to numerous social situations and even know what to say to women. Here are several ways to effective female seduction with the use of such conversational skills.

How To Become A Smooth Talker Around Women And Make Them Fall For You

Method 1: Seductive Conversation. Your tone of voice happens to be a highly effective tool of seduction. Keep in mind that first impressions are memorable, and you voice would be a big factor in making great first impressions. To avoid squeaking, clear your throat. Then, put on a deep, low baritone voice right from the beginning. This will make her take full notice and garner immediate attraction.

Method 2: Magnetic Conversation. Once you are talking to her, you need to keep her attention on you, no matter what. The majority of men believe that openers are the most essential factor when it comes to building rapport; however, it truly lies on how you can keep a woman's attention that will actually get you places. A smart way to keep her attention would be through hypnosis.

The method of hypnosis during conversation may appear controversial; however, it actually works. In less than 14 minutes, you can establish your presence within her head and feel an emotional bond with you in numerous ways.

One such method, called fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love very quickly just by using simple conversational methods. Used by both master seducers and regular guys, this technique has been jealously guarded because it is amazingly effective.

Things to Say to a Girl You Like - How to "Smooth-Talk" Your Way to Seduction Success

One huge mistake that the majority of men make is believing that only rich men get gorgeous women. There is no need for money or great looks to become attractive in the eyes of women. You simply have to practice your social skills and get a good boost of self-confidence.

A lot of guys, no matter how ugly or broke they are, are successful with women just because of their interaction skills. They are able to adapt to numerous social situations and even know what to say to women. Here are several ways to effective female seduction with the use of such conversational skills.

How To Become A Smooth Talker Around Women And Make Them Fall For You

Method 1: Seductive Conversation. Your tone of voice happens to be a highly effective tool of seduction. Keep in mind that first impressions are memorable, and you voice would be a big factor in making great first impressions. To avoid squeaking, clear your throat. Then, put on a deep, low baritone voice right from the beginning. This will make her take full notice and garner immediate attraction.

Method 2: Magnetic Conversation. Once you are talking to her, you need to keep her attention on you, no matter what. The majority of men believe that openers are the most essential factor when it comes to building rapport; however, it truly lies on how you can keep a woman's attention that will actually get you places. A smart way to keep her attention would be through hypnosis.

The method of hypnosis during conversation may appear controversial; however, it actually works. In less than 14 minutes, you can establish your presence within her head and feel an emotional bond with you in numerous ways.

One such method, called fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love very quickly just by using simple conversational methods. Used by both master seducers and regular guys, this technique has been jealously guarded because it is amazingly effective.

What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.

How to Get a Woman in the Mood Fast - Easy Seduction Techniques

It is important to understand that a woman needs to feel emotionally connected with a man before she wants to take the relationship beyond the friendship stage. Just as foreplay is vital for successful lovemaking so is the process of going through certain steps to know how to get a woman in the mood fast. The great thing is that these steps are simple and easy to manage for the average guy, so find out now how to get her in the mood and turn your dreams into reality.

Give her a slow appraising stare

Look her in the eyes and hold contact, then slowly work your glance right down her body and then back up again, with an appreciative look. This will probably make her feel a little self conscious but at the same time she will feel a prickle of excitement as she feels that you are virtually undressing her with your eyes.

Loosen up a bit

By this I mean for you to unbutton a couple of buttons on a well fitted shirt, just enough to give her a hint of manly chest, and make her wonder what the rest of you looks like.

Splash on a hint of cologne

Make sure you smell good. A hint of a sexy smelling cologne always kick starts a girl' s senses to get her in the mood, but take care you don' t over do it. She does not want to be overpowered by a strong, sickly smell.

Make her laugh

Keep the conversation going and try and inject a touch of humour. Women love a guy who can make them laugh and also who can show a sensitive side to himself.

Romance her

There is a lot to be said for romance and women love a romantic setting, whether it' s an old fashioned pub with a log fire, or simply a romantic setting indoors with candles and soft music playing. Nothing works better than a touch of romance for how to get a woman in the mood fast.

What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.

Is He the Right Guy For You?

I mean, honestly, how can you tell if this is the right guy for you?  He may have plenty of qualities you admire. 

Maybe...you enjoy his company, you're attracted to him, he has a good job, gets along with his family; but is he 'the one?'

Follow our easy step-by-step plan to make one of the most important decisions of your life.  Get out a pen and paper, or open Microsoft word, and let's get busy.  If you're serious, this is not something to do in your head.  Get it down on paper.

In order to know if he is for you, you first have to know what your priorities are, so you can determine the qualities you want in a man.  Obviously, there are as many different priorities as there are people.  Only you can decide what is important to you.

1. Jot down.. without censoring.. all the attributes you can possibly think of that are important to you.  Here are a few ideas for what you might want in a guy, just to get you thinking:  responsible, funny, Christian, adventurer, down-to-earth, risk-taker, good money manager, loves children, great relationship with his family, well-mannered, respectful, interested in my life, non-smoker, trustworthy, generous, physical connection, owns his own home, entrepreneur, steady job.. the list is endless.
   You may have noticed, aside from 'physical connection', there's no mention of physical attributes such as six feet tall, handsome, dark hair, etc.  If physical appearance.. we're not talking physical attraction..if this is important to you, then write it down.  But, listen, girlfriend, you could totally miss your Prince Charming if you get too hung up on what you think a guy needs to look like as opposed to his character and values.
   
    
   
   


2. Once you have your list, circle the qualities that are absolutely non-negotiable.  If a sense of humor is top of your list; if you want someone who doesn't take life too seriously, then you will not be happy, in the long run, with a 'stick in the mud'.  Or, can you imagine if 'family' is big for you and you hook up with someone who doesn't get along with his family?  Little note here:  A guy estranged from his whole family should be a huge red flag, anyway.  What about kids?  If you want children and he absolutely does not, you need to seriously consider breaking it off.  There are certain areas that just can't be compromised.
    
   
   


3. Now, list your core beliefs and world views.. This can be a real eye opener all in itself.. but write down who you are.
    
   
   


4. Final step.. see if your values match up with the list of what you want in a man..  I mean if you are a real adventurer and you say you want a responsible, down-to-earth guy.. you have to step back and consider this conflict.  In reality, the two probably won't match up very well.

These steps can save you time and heartbreak by getting clarity on what qualities are essential in a relationship, and what's not as important.

Couple of final thoughts to find the right guy for you-

• Do not think, 'this guy would be great if only _______' fill in the blank.  If you can't embrace who this guy is today, move on.  Trying to fix somebody to fit your ideal is hugely insulting to him and never works.
   
  
  


• Fixer-upper's are for houses, not men.  Do not try and rescue or fix a guy.. For example, say he's an alcoholic or drug addict.  My advice?  Run for the hills.  Tell him to look you up when he has one year sobriety.  What if he's in the middle of a divorce?  Have him call you after the divorce is final.  You don't have to listen to me, but you'll save yourself a world of hurt, if you do.

So, follow our steps .. and find the guy that is just right for you.. not right for your girlfriend, sister, co-worker.. but just right for you!

Is He the Right Guy For You?

I mean, honestly, how can you tell if this is the right guy for you?  He may have plenty of qualities you admire. 

Maybe...you enjoy his company, you're attracted to him, he has a good job, gets along with his family; but is he 'the one?'

Follow our easy step-by-step plan to make one of the most important decisions of your life.  Get out a pen and paper, or open Microsoft word, and let's get busy.  If you're serious, this is not something to do in your head.  Get it down on paper.

In order to know if he is for you, you first have to know what your priorities are, so you can determine the qualities you want in a man.  Obviously, there are as many different priorities as there are people.  Only you can decide what is important to you.

1. Jot down.. without censoring.. all the attributes you can possibly think of that are important to you.  Here are a few ideas for what you might want in a guy, just to get you thinking:  responsible, funny, Christian, adventurer, down-to-earth, risk-taker, good money manager, loves children, great relationship with his family, well-mannered, respectful, interested in my life, non-smoker, trustworthy, generous, physical connection, owns his own home, entrepreneur, steady job.. the list is endless.
   You may have noticed, aside from 'physical connection', there's no mention of physical attributes such as six feet tall, handsome, dark hair, etc.  If physical appearance.. we're not talking physical attraction..if this is important to you, then write it down.  But, listen, girlfriend, you could totally miss your Prince Charming if you get too hung up on what you think a guy needs to look like as opposed to his character and values.
   
    
   
   


2. Once you have your list, circle the qualities that are absolutely non-negotiable.  If a sense of humor is top of your list; if you want someone who doesn't take life too seriously, then you will not be happy, in the long run, with a 'stick in the mud'.  Or, can you imagine if 'family' is big for you and you hook up with someone who doesn't get along with his family?  Little note here:  A guy estranged from his whole family should be a huge red flag, anyway.  What about kids?  If you want children and he absolutely does not, you need to seriously consider breaking it off.  There are certain areas that just can't be compromised.
    
   
   


3. Now, list your core beliefs and world views.. This can be a real eye opener all in itself.. but write down who you are.
    
   
   


4. Final step.. see if your values match up with the list of what you want in a man..  I mean if you are a real adventurer and you say you want a responsible, down-to-earth guy.. you have to step back and consider this conflict.  In reality, the two probably won't match up very well.

These steps can save you time and heartbreak by getting clarity on what qualities are essential in a relationship, and what's not as important.

Couple of final thoughts to find the right guy for you-

• Do not think, 'this guy would be great if only _______' fill in the blank.  If you can't embrace who this guy is today, move on.  Trying to fix somebody to fit your ideal is hugely insulting to him and never works.
   
  
  


• Fixer-upper's are for houses, not men.  Do not try and rescue or fix a guy.. For example, say he's an alcoholic or drug addict.  My advice?  Run for the hills.  Tell him to look you up when he has one year sobriety.  What if he's in the middle of a divorce?  Have him call you after the divorce is final.  You don't have to listen to me, but you'll save yourself a world of hurt, if you do.

So, follow our steps .. and find the guy that is just right for you.. not right for your girlfriend, sister, co-worker.. but just right for you!

What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.

Is He the Right Guy For You?

I mean, honestly, how can you tell if this is the right guy for you?  He may have plenty of qualities you admire. 

Maybe...you enjoy his company, you're attracted to him, he has a good job, gets along with his family; but is he 'the one?'

Follow our easy step-by-step plan to make one of the most important decisions of your life.  Get out a pen and paper, or open Microsoft word, and let's get busy.  If you're serious, this is not something to do in your head.  Get it down on paper.

In order to know if he is for you, you first have to know what your priorities are, so you can determine the qualities you want in a man.  Obviously, there are as many different priorities as there are people.  Only you can decide what is important to you.

1. Jot down.. without censoring.. all the attributes you can possibly think of that are important to you.  Here are a few ideas for what you might want in a guy, just to get you thinking:  responsible, funny, Christian, adventurer, down-to-earth, risk-taker, good money manager, loves children, great relationship with his family, well-mannered, respectful, interested in my life, non-smoker, trustworthy, generous, physical connection, owns his own home, entrepreneur, steady job.. the list is endless.
   You may have noticed, aside from 'physical connection', there's no mention of physical attributes such as six feet tall, handsome, dark hair, etc.  If physical appearance.. we're not talking physical attraction..if this is important to you, then write it down.  But, listen, girlfriend, you could totally miss your Prince Charming if you get too hung up on what you think a guy needs to look like as opposed to his character and values.
   
    
   
   


2. Once you have your list, circle the qualities that are absolutely non-negotiable.  If a sense of humor is top of your list; if you want someone who doesn't take life too seriously, then you will not be happy, in the long run, with a 'stick in the mud'.  Or, can you imagine if 'family' is big for you and you hook up with someone who doesn't get along with his family?  Little note here:  A guy estranged from his whole family should be a huge red flag, anyway.  What about kids?  If you want children and he absolutely does not, you need to seriously consider breaking it off.  There are certain areas that just can't be compromised.
    
   
   


3. Now, list your core beliefs and world views.. This can be a real eye opener all in itself.. but write down who you are.
    
   
   


4. Final step.. see if your values match up with the list of what you want in a man..  I mean if you are a real adventurer and you say you want a responsible, down-to-earth guy.. you have to step back and consider this conflict.  In reality, the two probably won't match up very well.

These steps can save you time and heartbreak by getting clarity on what qualities are essential in a relationship, and what's not as important.

Couple of final thoughts to find the right guy for you-

• Do not think, 'this guy would be great if only _______' fill in the blank.  If you can't embrace who this guy is today, move on.  Trying to fix somebody to fit your ideal is hugely insulting to him and never works.
   
  
  


• Fixer-upper's are for houses, not men.  Do not try and rescue or fix a guy.. For example, say he's an alcoholic or drug addict.  My advice?  Run for the hills.  Tell him to look you up when he has one year sobriety.  What if he's in the middle of a divorce?  Have him call you after the divorce is final.  You don't have to listen to me, but you'll save yourself a world of hurt, if you do.

So, follow our steps .. and find the guy that is just right for you.. not right for your girlfriend, sister, co-worker.. but just right for you!

What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.

What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.

Venturing Into Online Dating

The expansion of the internet has changed the way in which people interact with others. This is evidenced through social networking sites, online fantasy realms, and, yes, online dating. Actually, online dating has grown enormously in popularity and there are many reasons for it. Probably the most obvious reason is that it allows people to meet in the easiest manner possible. Yes, flirting online is quickly becoming a preferred "hobby" of scores of people and many report great success with it. However, some do not achieve the amount of success they wish they could but their situation is not irreversible. Following a few simple tips will help anyone succeed at online dating.

It is certainly necessary to be confident when you present yourself to someone online. Actually, this is true whether you meet people online or in person or whether you are seeking to date the person or dealing with someone on a business level. Confidence is always a good thing to portray and it is definitely a positive trait that delivers results. Those looking to succeed with online dating need to project confidence.

Being interesting is often helpful to project. Of course, the word "interesting" is open to interpretation. Some may infer that it means being self-centered, outrageous, or flamboyant. Really, it simply means projecting a few things about yourself without being too overly detailed. Basically, letting people know a small amount about your interests, pursuits, and accomplishments can make you interesting. Why only a small amount? The more detail you give the less interesting you become because you run the risk of being verbose. And be forewarned: verbose is only a small step away from being boring. And being boring would never help the cause!

Maintain a sense of truthfulness in all your endeavors. Yes, some people love to exaggerate their accomplishments and this may work for the short term. However, when a lack of truthfulness is exposed it really undermines the cause and will damage any potential for casual dating to turn into a relationship. As the old saying goes, honesty is the best policy. This is true in dating and life in general!

Having a sense of adventure will always take you far. No, this does not mean you need to take risks. Being adventurous does not mean you need to engage in risky behavior. It simply means you should try and do things outside the norm in order to appear lively and unique. This will certainly help your dating ventures dramatically.

Is He the Right Guy For You?

I mean, honestly, how can you tell if this is the right guy for you?  He may have plenty of qualities you admire. 

Maybe...you enjoy his company, you're attracted to him, he has a good job, gets along with his family; but is he 'the one?'

Follow our easy step-by-step plan to make one of the most important decisions of your life.  Get out a pen and paper, or open Microsoft word, and let's get busy.  If you're serious, this is not something to do in your head.  Get it down on paper.

In order to know if he is for you, you first have to know what your priorities are, so you can determine the qualities you want in a man.  Obviously, there are as many different priorities as there are people.  Only you can decide what is important to you.

1. Jot down.. without censoring.. all the attributes you can possibly think of that are important to you.  Here are a few ideas for what you might want in a guy, just to get you thinking:  responsible, funny, Christian, adventurer, down-to-earth, risk-taker, good money manager, loves children, great relationship with his family, well-mannered, respectful, interested in my life, non-smoker, trustworthy, generous, physical connection, owns his own home, entrepreneur, steady job.. the list is endless.
   You may have noticed, aside from 'physical connection', there's no mention of physical attributes such as six feet tall, handsome, dark hair, etc.  If physical appearance.. we're not talking physical attraction..if this is important to you, then write it down.  But, listen, girlfriend, you could totally miss your Prince Charming if you get too hung up on what you think a guy needs to look like as opposed to his character and values.
   
    
   
   


2. Once you have your list, circle the qualities that are absolutely non-negotiable.  If a sense of humor is top of your list; if you want someone who doesn't take life too seriously, then you will not be happy, in the long run, with a 'stick in the mud'.  Or, can you imagine if 'family' is big for you and you hook up with someone who doesn't get along with his family?  Little note here:  A guy estranged from his whole family should be a huge red flag, anyway.  What about kids?  If you want children and he absolutely does not, you need to seriously consider breaking it off.  There are certain areas that just can't be compromised.
    
   
   


3. Now, list your core beliefs and world views.. This can be a real eye opener all in itself.. but write down who you are.
    
   
   


4. Final step.. see if your values match up with the list of what you want in a man..  I mean if you are a real adventurer and you say you want a responsible, down-to-earth guy.. you have to step back and consider this conflict.  In reality, the two probably won't match up very well.

These steps can save you time and heartbreak by getting clarity on what qualities are essential in a relationship, and what's not as important.

Couple of final thoughts to find the right guy for you-

• Do not think, 'this guy would be great if only _______' fill in the blank.  If you can't embrace who this guy is today, move on.  Trying to fix somebody to fit your ideal is hugely insulting to him and never works.
   
  
  


• Fixer-upper's are for houses, not men.  Do not try and rescue or fix a guy.. For example, say he's an alcoholic or drug addict.  My advice?  Run for the hills.  Tell him to look you up when he has one year sobriety.  What if he's in the middle of a divorce?  Have him call you after the divorce is final.  You don't have to listen to me, but you'll save yourself a world of hurt, if you do.

So, follow our steps .. and find the guy that is just right for you.. not right for your girlfriend, sister, co-worker.. but just right for you!

Free Online Dating Should Be Based on Mutual Trust

You must care about your assurances when you contact a person through free online dating process. The behavior from the other end may be full of suspicions. Expectations may vary which reflects the behavior you show to the person. This may incite trouble in future relationship. To avoid this, you should be firm in your assurances and explain clearly about your own feelings. The person at the other end should understand the behavior and must make due moderation in his behavior onwards.

Human behavior is apt to change in different environments and your partner should be permitted to rectify the behavior accordingly. An unpleasant behavior can be restrained if it is properly managed with patience and trustworthy guidance. You must have in your mind to expect some awful behavior from persons on free dating sites. This is a way of allowing the advantage of indecision to a person to continue relationship.

The inside issue of the subject is that the abusive behavior originates from the fear of partnership loss and a low level of understanding in some people. They have never known prudence. They need proper counseling and it is time that you must make your mind up whether to prolong the relationship with the particular individual or not.

You are free to step back once again to get a true partner through online dating service. You can reach a fresh partner through free dating sites and do not have to stick to the old contact any more when things did not work optimistically for you.

You should be able to communicate trust in a person's aptitude to continue with the assurances to keep up the relationship going and reaching its maturity. In case, there is a bit of doubt in the other person's mind, offer encouragement and your eagerness to put trust when the partner desires to reciprocate the same feeling.

Both of you should be honest in expressing mutual feelings to each other and have trust to make it a matured relationship. Free online dating makes it easy to examine credentials and credibility of partners before you make decisions through free dating sites. Look for the partner with an open mind and suspicion and make it possible through free dating.

Venturing Into Online Dating

The expansion of the internet has changed the way in which people interact with others. This is evidenced through social networking sites, online fantasy realms, and, yes, online dating. Actually, online dating has grown enormously in popularity and there are many reasons for it. Probably the most obvious reason is that it allows people to meet in the easiest manner possible. Yes, flirting online is quickly becoming a preferred "hobby" of scores of people and many report great success with it. However, some do not achieve the amount of success they wish they could but their situation is not irreversible. Following a few simple tips will help anyone succeed at online dating.

It is certainly necessary to be confident when you present yourself to someone online. Actually, this is true whether you meet people online or in person or whether you are seeking to date the person or dealing with someone on a business level. Confidence is always a good thing to portray and it is definitely a positive trait that delivers results. Those looking to succeed with online dating need to project confidence.

Being interesting is often helpful to project. Of course, the word "interesting" is open to interpretation. Some may infer that it means being self-centered, outrageous, or flamboyant. Really, it simply means projecting a few things about yourself without being too overly detailed. Basically, letting people know a small amount about your interests, pursuits, and accomplishments can make you interesting. Why only a small amount? The more detail you give the less interesting you become because you run the risk of being verbose. And be forewarned: verbose is only a small step away from being boring. And being boring would never help the cause!

Maintain a sense of truthfulness in all your endeavors. Yes, some people love to exaggerate their accomplishments and this may work for the short term. However, when a lack of truthfulness is exposed it really undermines the cause and will damage any potential for casual dating to turn into a relationship. As the old saying goes, honesty is the best policy. This is true in dating and life in general!

Having a sense of adventure will always take you far. No, this does not mean you need to take risks. Being adventurous does not mean you need to engage in risky behavior. It simply means you should try and do things outside the norm in order to appear lively and unique. This will certainly help your dating ventures dramatically.

Venturing Into Online Dating

The expansion of the internet has changed the way in which people interact with others. This is evidenced through social networking sites, online fantasy realms, and, yes, online dating. Actually, online dating has grown enormously in popularity and there are many reasons for it. Probably the most obvious reason is that it allows people to meet in the easiest manner possible. Yes, flirting online is quickly becoming a preferred "hobby" of scores of people and many report great success with it. However, some do not achieve the amount of success they wish they could but their situation is not irreversible. Following a few simple tips will help anyone succeed at online dating.

It is certainly necessary to be confident when you present yourself to someone online. Actually, this is true whether you meet people online or in person or whether you are seeking to date the person or dealing with someone on a business level. Confidence is always a good thing to portray and it is definitely a positive trait that delivers results. Those looking to succeed with online dating need to project confidence.

Being interesting is often helpful to project. Of course, the word "interesting" is open to interpretation. Some may infer that it means being self-centered, outrageous, or flamboyant. Really, it simply means projecting a few things about yourself without being too overly detailed. Basically, letting people know a small amount about your interests, pursuits, and accomplishments can make you interesting. Why only a small amount? The more detail you give the less interesting you become because you run the risk of being verbose. And be forewarned: verbose is only a small step away from being boring. And being boring would never help the cause!

Maintain a sense of truthfulness in all your endeavors. Yes, some people love to exaggerate their accomplishments and this may work for the short term. However, when a lack of truthfulness is exposed it really undermines the cause and will damage any potential for casual dating to turn into a relationship. As the old saying goes, honesty is the best policy. This is true in dating and life in general!

Having a sense of adventure will always take you far. No, this does not mean you need to take risks. Being adventurous does not mean you need to engage in risky behavior. It simply means you should try and do things outside the norm in order to appear lively and unique. This will certainly help your dating ventures dramatically.

Free Online Dating Should Be Based on Mutual Trust

You must care about your assurances when you contact a person through free online dating process. The behavior from the other end may be full of suspicions. Expectations may vary which reflects the behavior you show to the person. This may incite trouble in future relationship. To avoid this, you should be firm in your assurances and explain clearly about your own feelings. The person at the other end should understand the behavior and must make due moderation in his behavior onwards.

Human behavior is apt to change in different environments and your partner should be permitted to rectify the behavior accordingly. An unpleasant behavior can be restrained if it is properly managed with patience and trustworthy guidance. You must have in your mind to expect some awful behavior from persons on free dating sites. This is a way of allowing the advantage of indecision to a person to continue relationship.

The inside issue of the subject is that the abusive behavior originates from the fear of partnership loss and a low level of understanding in some people. They have never known prudence. They need proper counseling and it is time that you must make your mind up whether to prolong the relationship with the particular individual or not.

You are free to step back once again to get a true partner through online dating service. You can reach a fresh partner through free dating sites and do not have to stick to the old contact any more when things did not work optimistically for you.

You should be able to communicate trust in a person's aptitude to continue with the assurances to keep up the relationship going and reaching its maturity. In case, there is a bit of doubt in the other person's mind, offer encouragement and your eagerness to put trust when the partner desires to reciprocate the same feeling.

Both of you should be honest in expressing mutual feelings to each other and have trust to make it a matured relationship. Free online dating makes it easy to examine credentials and credibility of partners before you make decisions through free dating sites. Look for the partner with an open mind and suspicion and make it possible through free dating.

Free Online Dating Should Be Based on Mutual Trust

You must care about your assurances when you contact a person through free online dating process. The behavior from the other end may be full of suspicions. Expectations may vary which reflects the behavior you show to the person. This may incite trouble in future relationship. To avoid this, you should be firm in your assurances and explain clearly about your own feelings. The person at the other end should understand the behavior and must make due moderation in his behavior onwards.

Human behavior is apt to change in different environments and your partner should be permitted to rectify the behavior accordingly. An unpleasant behavior can be restrained if it is properly managed with patience and trustworthy guidance. You must have in your mind to expect some awful behavior from persons on free dating sites. This is a way of allowing the advantage of indecision to a person to continue relationship.

The inside issue of the subject is that the abusive behavior originates from the fear of partnership loss and a low level of understanding in some people. They have never known prudence. They need proper counseling and it is time that you must make your mind up whether to prolong the relationship with the particular individual or not.

You are free to step back once again to get a true partner through online dating service. You can reach a fresh partner through free dating sites and do not have to stick to the old contact any more when things did not work optimistically for you.

You should be able to communicate trust in a person's aptitude to continue with the assurances to keep up the relationship going and reaching its maturity. In case, there is a bit of doubt in the other person's mind, offer encouragement and your eagerness to put trust when the partner desires to reciprocate the same feeling.

Both of you should be honest in expressing mutual feelings to each other and have trust to make it a matured relationship. Free online dating makes it easy to examine credentials and credibility of partners before you make decisions through free dating sites. Look for the partner with an open mind and suspicion and make it possible through free dating.

Sugardaddy Dating Tips - Reasons For Breaking Up

Some of you might take breaking-up for granted. So much so, that you may not put enough thought about it. Breaking is a serious business that takes guts and effort on your part to do. It is a skill that is just as important as any other in dating. Thus, it's not fair for you to just vanish without a trace, leaving your sugardaddy alone and confused. Remember, karma has a way of getting back at people.

Alright, you've done just about everything to patch up your problems. You've talked about like mature adults, you've tried once again, and maybe, you've even consulted someone about it, but nothing is working. Actually, there are only a few reasons that can be valid for a break-up: time, geography, money, and incompatibility. These are the major causes of a break-up.

First up is time. Why is this the first? Well, mostly because if you have enough time for a person, and that person has enough time for you, there should not be any problem. Spending time with each other means that you can create a bond wherein you get to know each other more, have a peek at each other's personalities, and just hang out with each other. If you miss this, your relationship won't grow.

Next, there's geography. I know, I know, being in an online millionaire dating relationship, distance is a given. But again, online dating is just a phase, a stage that you would need to pass one day when you decide to become serious in your relationship. Too much of a geographical discrepancy can hinder that physical connection that you need to get your relationship going.

Ah. The next factor is an issue in millionaire dating. But then again, it should not become an issue, especially if at the beginning, both of you are already upfront about it. When you get down about this issue, money is not just a piece of paper, it symbolizes status, power, and lifestyle. So, it would be a great idea, if from the start, you are totally honest with each other about this issue, but ONLY IF it is an issue for you. If it's not an issue, then well and good for you.

The last, you have incompatibility. However, the catch is that you need to find someone nice who can complement you. Now, I'm not saying that to be successful, you need to be with someone exactly like you, no. Differences do not equal to incompatibility. However, make sure that you don't have that big of a difference that could cause you to become incompatible with each other. Besides, if those differences are negotiable, don't you think it's great if you could fight for your guy and he should compliment you in every way?

Free Online Dating Should Be Based on Mutual Trust

You must care about your assurances when you contact a person through free online dating process. The behavior from the other end may be full of suspicions. Expectations may vary which reflects the behavior you show to the person. This may incite trouble in future relationship. To avoid this, you should be firm in your assurances and explain clearly about your own feelings. The person at the other end should understand the behavior and must make due moderation in his behavior onwards.

Human behavior is apt to change in different environments and your partner should be permitted to rectify the behavior accordingly. An unpleasant behavior can be restrained if it is properly managed with patience and trustworthy guidance. You must have in your mind to expect some awful behavior from persons on free dating sites. This is a way of allowing the advantage of indecision to a person to continue relationship.

The inside issue of the subject is that the abusive behavior originates from the fear of partnership loss and a low level of understanding in some people. They have never known prudence. They need proper counseling and it is time that you must make your mind up whether to prolong the relationship with the particular individual or not.

You are free to step back once again to get a true partner through online dating service. You can reach a fresh partner through free dating sites and do not have to stick to the old contact any more when things did not work optimistically for you.

You should be able to communicate trust in a person's aptitude to continue with the assurances to keep up the relationship going and reaching its maturity. In case, there is a bit of doubt in the other person's mind, offer encouragement and your eagerness to put trust when the partner desires to reciprocate the same feeling.

Both of you should be honest in expressing mutual feelings to each other and have trust to make it a matured relationship. Free online dating makes it easy to examine credentials and credibility of partners before you make decisions through free dating sites. Look for the partner with an open mind and suspicion and make it possible through free dating.

Sugardaddy Dating Tips - Reasons For Breaking Up

Some of you might take breaking-up for granted. So much so, that you may not put enough thought about it. Breaking is a serious business that takes guts and effort on your part to do. It is a skill that is just as important as any other in dating. Thus, it's not fair for you to just vanish without a trace, leaving your sugardaddy alone and confused. Remember, karma has a way of getting back at people.

Alright, you've done just about everything to patch up your problems. You've talked about like mature adults, you've tried once again, and maybe, you've even consulted someone about it, but nothing is working. Actually, there are only a few reasons that can be valid for a break-up: time, geography, money, and incompatibility. These are the major causes of a break-up.

First up is time. Why is this the first? Well, mostly because if you have enough time for a person, and that person has enough time for you, there should not be any problem. Spending time with each other means that you can create a bond wherein you get to know each other more, have a peek at each other's personalities, and just hang out with each other. If you miss this, your relationship won't grow.

Next, there's geography. I know, I know, being in an online millionaire dating relationship, distance is a given. But again, online dating is just a phase, a stage that you would need to pass one day when you decide to become serious in your relationship. Too much of a geographical discrepancy can hinder that physical connection that you need to get your relationship going.

Ah. The next factor is an issue in millionaire dating. But then again, it should not become an issue, especially if at the beginning, both of you are already upfront about it. When you get down about this issue, money is not just a piece of paper, it symbolizes status, power, and lifestyle. So, it would be a great idea, if from the start, you are totally honest with each other about this issue, but ONLY IF it is an issue for you. If it's not an issue, then well and good for you.

The last, you have incompatibility. However, the catch is that you need to find someone nice who can complement you. Now, I'm not saying that to be successful, you need to be with someone exactly like you, no. Differences do not equal to incompatibility. However, make sure that you don't have that big of a difference that could cause you to become incompatible with each other. Besides, if those differences are negotiable, don't you think it's great if you could fight for your guy and he should compliment you in every way?

Overcome Fear of Rejection - A Powerful Technique to Conquer Your Fear of Rejection With Women

Are you looking for a technique to help you overcome fear of rejection in approaching and dating women? If you're like most guys who enjoy reading my articles and visiting my website you've probably got your hand held high, right? It's true...for most of us, finding a technique to help overcome fear of rejection is a big part in getting ahead in the dating game.

So what is a really good technique that works like magic...yet is at the same time a bit underground and simple? Well, to answer this question, I'd like to share with you a technique I learned several years ago. The premise behind this method is fairly simple. As the good folks over at Nike say...just do it. You dramatically increase your chances of success by throwing caution to the wind.

Here's how my overcoming fear of rejection technique works:

When you're in a social situation, such as a club or bar, scan the room for a woman who catches your eye. Immediately approach her. When you leap before you look you're not feeding any thoughts of rejection into your mind. You simply walk up to her and introduce yourself. If she is receptive to your approach...your in. If she rejects you, move on to the next lucky girl.

This technique may seem outlandish to many guys, but it works. The reason it works is quite simple. You give your mind no opportunity to worry about consequences when you react without thinking. All negative thoughts that would otherwise hinder your self confidence are blocked out when you keep your eye on the prize.

Men who are naturally good with women successfully employ this concept all the time. They live for the moment knowing how they feel inside will be portrayed outside.

Guys who suffer from fear of rejection stop their pursuit before it even starts...getting them nowhere. Having said that, you should seize the opportunity to talk to an attractive woman any time you spot her. Of course there's no guarantee that she will react positively, but you can guarantee you won't get results by not approaching her.

As hockey great Wayne Gretzky once stated, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Now of course, you're not going to be successful 100% of the time. This is okay...no guy ever is. Consider every approach to be valuable practice rather than taking your failures to heart. You will be one step closer to conquering your fear of rejection every time you utilize my technique.

A second benefit to employing this technique is that the more times you randomly approach beautiful girls, the better your seduction skills will become. Before too long, striking up conversations with beautiful women will become second nature to you, and you'll have more phone numbers than you can shake a stick at.

Don't allow the fear of rejection to rule your love life. Walk up to that beautiful girl sitting at the bar and you just might find yourself amazed at her response.

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed

Dating Tips For Men - What Should YOU Say to HER?

One of the areas that most men find a challenge when it comes to attracting women, is knowing exactly what they should say to make a woman feel attraction. Far too many men kill any chances that they might have with a woman, simply because they do NOT know the things to say to her. You have to be able to talk to women in a way that not only gets her attention, but that also builds her attraction for YOU.

So, what are some things to say to a woman?

1. Ask her what she does for fun. This is a great way to build rapport and attraction as you can find at least one thing that you have in common with her. Then you can start to make her to associate YOU with having a good time as she explains what she does for fun and you relate how you like to do the same.

2. Ask her to pull up some good memories. Now, you can phrase this any way that you want. But, having her remember good things will cause her to feel good in that moment. And as she feels good in that moment, she is with you. This will help to associate your face with those good times. Which will make her see YOU as someone that she can have a good time with.

3. Ask her what the worst pick up line she has ever heard is. This is a fun one, because you get to make fun of guys that try this and as a result, distance yourself from being that kind of guy. Using this is a great way to introduce humor into the conversation while at the same time, making her feel as though you are NOT one of those men that are just trying to score.

These are just basic tips of what to say to a woman. You have to really know how to use conversation to YOUR advantage if you want to be successful with women. The more time that you spend working on this area of your life, the better your results will be.

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed