How to Attract Women & Get a Girlfriend - 11 Things You Need to Do!

Do you sometimes feel embarrassed or bad because you don't know how to attract women?

Well good news for you is that, it isn't as bad as you may think!

I know how you feel. You feel socially awkward and a bit ashamed to admit to people that you simply are clueless about the topic on how to attract women. I mean, this ranges from not really knowing what to say, or not knowing how to act around her. Heck, this may also come across in the form of not understanding that she doesn't even like you at all to begin with and you simply just don't know why!

Well my friend... you surely are not the only one!

I've been there too.

So have many other guys!

Fact is, there are a lot of men out there like you who have literally no idea.

In fact MILLIONS, I mean literally MILLIONS of Guys who simply suck at attracting women.

But you know what?

It's quite ok to not know how to attract women...

Now why would I come out and say such a thing?

Simple.

How to attract women was never taught in kindergarten.

How to attract women was never taught in pre-school.

How to attract women was never taught in school.

How to attract women was never taught in high school.

How to attract women was never taught in university or college.

How to attract women was... NEVER TAUGHT AT ALL!

So why are us guys expected to really know something when it was never taught to us at all? I mean, it seems like every time you hear about a guy who doesn't know how to attract women, or admitting that he is lacking in this area he is considered somewhat less of a man! It's as if society is expecting guys to know how to game women from the word get go! And if he doesn't, well he is put down!

But what's even worse is... If people find out that the guy is trying to learn how to improve his skills with women he is further put down because it is considered by society to be taboo and shameful that you have to learn how to pickup girls!

But that's just plain wrong!

I mean, seriously, why are men expecting to know something when it was never ever taught to them? That's just as silly as going up to a person on the street and throwing him a bunch of tools and saying "Ok, now here's the tools and there's the material, now go build me a nice house".

I mean, you know as well I do that if something were to be created from that it would not be considered worthy of being a house. This analogy explains the same reason why most men have no idea on how to attract women!

It is only after being rejected, turned down and hung up enough times do most men kind of stumble their way into some sort of method where they think they are able to get women. This is after years of heart break, trial and error learning and receiving other demoralizing experiences. Plus it's not guaranteed to actually get you anywhere. Also, it's only the few lucky ones who are able to somewhat figure out a sort of "method" to all that madness!

I know myself that I had to learn the hard way. It was not until my late teens till I was able to somehow convince a girl to date me. What was worse is - I didn't even like her. In fact, I think I just settled with her, because well frankly, she didn't say no! It was after years of being in that relationship where I didn't have any feelings for her did I realize that I needed to work on my situation with women. That's when I started the soul searching journey and started to learn how to attract women on the internet - just like you guys are doing right now.

There is so much stuff out there on the internet that it is quite confusing. In fact, it is VERY confusing and it took me a long time to figure out what actually works and what doesn't. The good news is, I FOUND SOMETHING THAT WORKS!

YES IT'S FREE TOO!

Well, the basic stuff is... but not the hardcore advanced stuff.

I'll give you a quick summary of the key points that you need to learn in order to know how to attract women:

1. You need to let her know that you are interested in being more than just a friend - I find it interesting that a lot of guys think it's ok to just be friends with a woman first and attempt to seduce her later. I'm afraid that's not the case. You don't want to be just any friend, you want to be that "special" friend, the one that she thinks in the back of her mind that might be more than just a friend!

2. You need to show her that you have higher social status than her - this is very important. Women are automatically attracted to men who show higher social value. For example, they like rockstars and rich men because these guys are perceived to have higher social value. But what if you're not rich or famous? You can still act like you are cooler than her by not whining and begging for her attention.

3. You need to show her that you are a challenge - It is human nature to not value something we get easily. That's why if she wants something from you, you should always ask for something in return, but in a playful manner.

4. You need to know how to flirt with her - flirting is the key to generate sexual interest. If you don't flirt with her, how is she going to even know you are interested in her?

5. You need to present good body language around her - this shows her that you are a confident man and that you are not intimidated by her beauty. That means you need to stop fidgeting, stand tall and create a presence.

6. You need to constantly tease and test her - this goes hand in hand with flirting with women. The best way to flirt with a girl is to tease her about silly things she does. Then you also test her to see how far her boundaries are in relation to what you're teasing her about. This way you get to know her in a fun and interesting way!

7. You need to know how to work the environment - guys, this means if the door is there, you need to open it for her. Be a gentleman but don't be a kiss ass. If you are in a cafe with a bad atmosphere, MOVE and physically move her to an environment that is conducive for you to get to know her better.

8. You need to be a funny bastard - this one is obvious. Women like men with a sense of humor, as this conveys confidence and charisma. Don't try and be too funny. You don't need to tell jokes, in fact all you need to do is tease her and comment on what she does. That's all!

9. You need to be nice at times and mean at others - unpredictability will create intrigue and attraction. If you are way too nice all the time, then you are the nice guy. If you are a nice jerk, then she will hopelessly feel attracted to you.

10. You need to be playful in general - there are men out there who take their interactions with women too seriously. Guys, women like to have fun. They also like to be led. Thus, if you are not having fun and they are following, then she's going to follow you and not have fun, resulting in a boring interaction for both of you!

11. You need to be an alpha male - this one is key! If you are the alpha male you will display all of the above characteristics and have a personality that will constantly draw the attention of women. Being the alpha male also means you will not only get women, but other men will also enjoy hanging out with you.

That's just a quick summary of the key elements you need to have as part of your personality if you want to get a girlfriend and attract women.

I sincerely hope that every guy can also learn the knowledge that I gained, because you will be able to not only get a girlfriend, but keep her, and have a long lasting relationship. Because after all, isn't that what every guy is ultimately after?

I suggest you check out How To Attract Women for more information on this topic.

How to Hook Up With an Attractive Woman

If you are a man who has never had much luck when it comes to hooking up with an attractive woman then you are in luck because there is an answer for you. Join an internet dating site. Yes, believe it or not, there are many attractive women using online dating sites these days. And the great thing about that for a man like yourself who may lack some confidence is that you can win over these attractive women with your personality. If a woman falls for your personality before meeting you, then they are more likely to find you attractive physically as well.

There are different types of internet dating sites for different types of needs and you will find different types of women on these different sites! Roughly put there are sites for "meaningless" dating and sites for "serious" dating. I think you know which kind you are interested in. If you've had enough of "one night stands" and you are looking for something permanent and long lasting (perhaps even marriage) then obviously you want a "serious" dating site. But if you are really more interested in just "having fun" then of course the "meaningless" dating site is for you.

You may not think that you have the looks or the money to pull off hooking up with a beautiful really attractive woman but I think you will be surprised by what you can do in the world of online dating. It's a "whole new world" out there and it's definitely time to check it out.

Why the Kamikaze Approach Draws in and Attracts Women

WARNING: This technique is not for everyone. However, if you think you have what it takes to go this route, by all means, read on.

When I talk about 'going kamikaze' I'm talking about the ultimate way to approach and attract women. Just so that you know what you're getting into here, you will be rejected by some women. Now that you know that, if you still believe that you can do this, here's the plan.

There is no plan.

No watching a woman. No checking out her body language. No across the room flirting. No prep time.

You see a woman you like, you go up to her, and start talking. Sure, some women will reject you, but a lot more will be immediately attracted to you.

Here's the reasons why this approach works:

You refuse to give in to the fear of rejection; this builds confidence. Confidence is king when it comes to meeting women. They are drawn to a confident man like a moth is driven to the flame. Confidence is simply one of the most attractive characteristics a man can possess.

You quit thinking about failure and have a winning attitude. When failure isn't an obstacle, but merely a turn in the path, you instinctively know that there's another girl just around the corner. Your attitude remains positive and easygoing.

Your time is spent in talking to more women each night instead of studying them. You can spend anywhere from half an hour to half the night watching one woman before you make any kind of a move. Going kamikaze uses that time to meet women instead of watching them. A much better use of time.

Going kamikaze is definitely not for the faint of heart. But, if you're tired of spending hours and hours of your precious dating time planning and watching, this may be the answer you've been looking for.

Nice Guys Don't Always Finish Last

It's a question which has puzzled many people - what do girls look for in a guy? The shortest answer is someone 'nice'. Having a flash car, dressing in designer gear and being super smooth in conversations don't always guarantee getting the girl. Neither does being a bad boy with dodgy friends and a criminal record. All girls want in a guy is someone who'll treat them nicely. So if you're a nice guy and are fed up of finishing last, then it doesn't have to be that way anymore.

Don't be shy

Conversation can really make or break a date for a girl. Women like to talk. They tend to be curious and like to find out as much information as possible about the guys they date. You will be asked questions on your date so make sure you have the confidence to answer them in an interesting and honest way. Short 'yes' and 'no' answers will make for a very dull and awkward date. Also remember to ask about her and what she likes to do, girls appreciate a man who does this as it shows that they care.

Love yourself

No one likes a show off but displaying confidence in yourself can keep girls interested. Paying attention to detail to your appearance will show a girl that you like her enough to make an effort for the date. Not caring about what other people think of you is a hard trick to pull off but if you can master it then you'll be a hit with the girls. All girls like to feel special and they certainly will if you show confidence and coolness and choose them to go on a date with.

Don't be a push over

Most girls find confident guys attractive. Make sure you don't look shocked or surprised if she asks to see you again and don't drone on about how lucky you are to have gone on a date with her. Like guys, girls like to do a little bit of chasing too so don't make yourself too available or confess your love after just one date. While following the phrase 'treat them mean to keep them keen' might be going a bit far, you can let a girl know you like her without saying it outright and potentially coming across as desperate.

Be funny

This doesn't mean throwing out Little Britain catchphrases every other sentence or making fun of other people for a cheap joke. Having a good sense of humour can simply mean being able to laugh at yourself and not taking life to seriously. Forced and awkward conversation is probably the key to not getting a second date but by relaxing and being yourself you'll probably find that comedy comes easily and you'll have your date in stitches.

Act your age

Unless you're 15 and trying to impress someone in your school then pulling wheelies on a BMX or asking a girl to watch your latest goal on a football game will not impress. Girls look for fun, excitement and conversation on first dates so sitting around playing computer games or taking her on a pub crawl with your mates are best avoided. Be creative when you're planning a date and suggest unusual places to go such as a local museum or gardens, an old film screening or a walk in the country. This will show thoughtfulness and maturity.

Nice guys don't always finish last and with these tips and by simply being yourself, you can win first place with the girls.