The First Date Bill of Rights

Ladies: When you go on a first date, it's a good idea to have some standards and guidelines that will help you know, quickly and efficiently, if he's worth a second look. Don't waste time dating Mr. Wrong!

If he falls far short in any or several of these categories (one or two small deficiencies may be excusable), starting a relationship with him may not be a good idea. Don't despair if he does--you're now free to look for other, better prospects.

If all goes well, this first date may lead to another, then another, and you're off on the Road to a Relationship. But don't speed down this road in a souped-up convertible with the top down, no matter how much fun it seems to be! Keep your eyes open and your judgment intact.

As a single woman, you are entitled to expect the following traits from your first date.

• Reliable: Did he call you when he stated he would?
• Accessible: Did he provide you with his cell phone number and email address, in case you need to reach him about an unexpected change in plans?
• Approachable: Did he welcome you to contact him at any time?
• Conscientious: Is the planned activity both convenient and enjoyable?
• Accommodating: Did he suggest and book a suitable place to meet?
• Thorough: Were you impressed with the arrangements that were made?
• Polite: Did he show good manners?
• Connectable: Was it easy to talk, or did making conversation feel like "pulling teeth"?
• Attentive: Did he listen to what you told him or hinted about your personal preferences?
• Generous: Did he reserve a table at a restaurant suitable for intimate dialogue, and did he tip appropriately?
• Comfort: Did you leave with the feeling that you would really enjoy spending time together in the future?
• Chemistry: Are you physically attracted to your date?
• Integrity: Did he seem honest?
• Safety: Did you feel secure throughout the evening?

How to Attract Girls Super Fast - Using the "Lightning Speed Seduction" System

The biggest misconception about attracting women that guys have is that they think that looks and money are the most important things to get women. The fact is this - you can speedily make any woman fall in love with you if you know the 'system' - and it doesn't matter whether you're average looking or if you don't have lots of money. Read on to discover this system - which will make you get laid like a rock star - fast...

The Lightning Speed Seduction Method - Attract Girls Fast!

Tactic #1. Raise Her Emotional Temperature. When you talk to a woman, IMMEDIATELY talk about her emotions. This is the key to super fast seduction. If you don't talk about something which touches her emotions within the first three minutes, she won't feel attraction to you at all. She will then feel extremely bored and as a result, try to get away from you as fast as she could. Bottom line - always talk about her EMOTIONS.

Tactic #2. Adopt The Cliffhanger Technique. Don't tell her everything. Keep her interested by using "cliffhangers" in your conversation. The hungrier she gets, the more she will want to talk to you, and the deeper she will fall for you.

(Advanced) Tactic #3 - Fractionation. This is probably the fastest method of all. Masters of this technique has been known to be able to bed the women they meet in as little as 15 minutes! This technique involves bringing the woman through an emotional rollercoaster in a conversation, and then associating the 'high points' with the man, thus generating instant attraction (and in some extreme cases, addiction).

Are You Ready to Find True Love Online?

There is no doubt we are attracted by love. Love is one of the most powerful force. We desire to be loved and through opposite sex, we experience the nature of love. With the rapid development of internet, we are not limited to find a partner from our social circles. Finding a date online is easier than ever. Two singles remotely situated can link together with internet. Indeed, there have been lots of successful stories that convert an online linkage into a real romantic relationship. However, we need to be cautious and get prepared for the online dating trend.

First of all, there is a difference between reality and the virtual world. Many people are willing to post their pictures and share stories in match making sites. But the profile you find may not be always genuine. One case happened years ago when two men joined a match making site for female lesbian to look for a partner. They chatted over instant messenger for months, before they decided to meet in person. With the will to tell the truth on first date, they were shocked to realize the situation. This might be a rather extreme case, but you should not expect every person to be honestly open to you. While I believe the majority online are sincere with intent to meet friends, you still need to stay alert. Use your duly diligence to judge.

Next you have to consider privacy issue. When you post your information, others may use it with deviated intent, such as commercial purpose. Be sure to familiarize with the privacy policy of the sites you join. Disclose information you believe is safe to share with others. For better protection, you should join online dating sites with high reputation.

Flirting Signs - 5 Ways to Know She's Interested

Knowing if she's interested used to be a huge problem of mine, and I know it is for a lot of guys today. What are the flirting signs? How do you know she's interested and not just 'being nice'?

Eventually, you will ALWAYS know she's interested by the vibe you are getting. Until you reach that point though, you can look for the 5 major flirting signs as a guide.

As a general rule, once you receive three solid flirting signs, you know its ON and she is fully interested in you. Knowing this makes it really easy to escalate to a kiss or something beyond chatting, because you can be positive inside she's interested.

So what are these obvious flirting signs?

1. She Asks Your Name
This one is huge. For a girl to ask your name, she is very interested in learning who you are. Always take this as a big sign.

2. She Strokes Her Hair While Talking to You

3. Her Body Language is Directed Toward You

For example, you're sitting down and her legs are crossed towards you, torso facing you as well. This is a solid flirting sign. She's interested.

4. She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even When They Aren't Funny

5. She Stays With You Even If Friends Leave

When a girl's friends go to the bathroom and she stays to chat with you, you can assume she's interested. This is one of the biggest flirting signs of all.

There are literally hundreds of subtle ways to tell that a girl is interested in you. With practice and experience you will learn how to spot them all, without conscious effort.

Once you gain enough experience with flirting signs, you will just "feel" it.

Good to Know

Mad Dawg

Tips to Make Approaching Women Natural and Easy

Did you know that two-thirds of flirtatious encounters are initiated by women? However the researchers found women are not simply initiating flirtatious encounters - but are often going to grasp for signs men would ask out them out.

You'd be astonished how many good looking men have never had a girlfriend. If they ever open up you could hear typical story: "I've used to make an effort when I was younger but I made such a mess of things that I just came to the conclusion that I was useless with women."

Most men usually don't have the guts to approach women in public. I've been surprised how easy it is to get a conversation started.

Do you think that you are simply not good enough to attract anybody? If you are one of many single men who can hardly talk to girls, left behind approach them or make a connection, you should work on your self confidence. Getting in touch, approaching and making friendship are first steps to making appropriate social contacts with people, especially with the opposite sex.

So how do you force yourself to socialize more? The following situations come as a scenario:

1) Strolling through a mall alone, you see a nice looking lady walking in the opposite direction as you alone or with friends
2) You go into a take out restaurant, where you see 3 ladies together waiting for their order.

Now you think it would be pretty rude to just run up to her in either of these situations, and start spouting out how beautiful you think she is and how you are just dying to meet her.

For one, you can just make up excuses: "Excuse me, do you know where the Gap is in this mall?" or "Do you know what time it is?" Whatever... It's not a line as much as it's a way to break the ice.

Making jokes about situation makes a good attempt at lighthearted banter. The idea is that - maybe she does want to meet you too, and all you need to do is break this invisible wall between you and you've got the ball rolling.

Wish you could apply it to meeting women for real?

Once you find a way to break the ice, if a woman is interested in meeting you you'll probably be able to get a conversation started. If she's not interested - be polite and be on your way. When you do contact her you might want to ask her if she ever considered you as someone she would like to go out sometimes.