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пятница, 31 октября 2008 г.

Dating Tips - How to Date a Beautiful Woman Part 1

Many men gawk at the site of a beautiful woman but would never attempt to approach her. Others walk right up to her and give it a shot. Which one are you? There are ways to approach a woman, from a woman's perspective which is far more important than any man's perspective. Striking up a conversation with a hottie is one thing, dating a beautiful woman is an entirely different game.

How to approach a beautiful woman?


  • Watch her for a little while.

  • Read her body language, her facial expressions.

  • See how she looks at others around her.

It is important to watch her, not stalk, not gawk. Does she appear to be in a good and happy mood? Don't approach a woman that looks angry, chances are you'll get the cold shoulder. If she is beautiful, chances are someone is going to approach her...what is her reaction?

Reading her body language is like having a conversation without words. Pay attention to her facial expressions. Does she seem friendly; is she smiling? Does she look tense, nervous? Is she pleased or does she roll her eyes when someone approaches her?

The way she looks at others is also an important sign. Does she look judgmentally at others? Does she appear to be looking in a particular direction (other than yours) for a while? That could mean she has her eye on someone that interests her. And this could also mean you being rejected.

In all honesty, beautiful women do not always have a date or a boyfriend. Men that really interest a beautiful woman rarely approach her, they are usually afraid of being rejected. It takes a special man to date a beautiful woman:


  • He has to believe in himself, as there will be a lot of competition from other men.

  • He has to have a sense of humor; there isn't a woman that doesn't like to laugh.

  • Being successful, career-wise, won't hurt; having a regular job is ok too.

  • He must be charming, polite and know how to hold a conversation; no one likes an ass.

  • Appearance is very important; you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or have his bank account either (although that would probably help), just be appropriately dressed and clean.

Useful Tips for Dating Your Best Friend

You have been friends with a male or a female for a long period of time, and suddenly you feel that the relationship is changing. What do you do in this scenario?

The shift from the friend zone to a relationship can be a risky one, as you do not want to ruin your friendship if the relationship does not work out. But what you can do is be open about your thoughts and ideas, discuss with each other the importance of friendship. The trust you both have, make sure you do not do things in a rush, and instead of attaining a blissful relationship you even ruin your friendship.

Before you get physically involved with your friend, you need to talk about certain elements.

-Would you both be physically involved without being in a relationship?
-Will you date separate people?
-What if one of you becomes jealous?
-Would you want to give your relationship a new name?
-Will you disclose this new change to other friends?
-How will you manage this?
-Will you want to move in together?
-What if your girlfriend gets pregnant?
-Are you comfortable with each other's pasts?
-Will you not taunt or be sarcastic about each other's flaws, since as friends you would be aware of the pros and cons of the other person?
-Will you be able to forgive each other, and not have huge expectations if the relationship fails?

All these questions are important, make sure you discuss them. If you both feel that you would remain friends even if the relationship does not work out, then no problem you can always give things a new try. Maybe your friend is the one for you. Make sure you make rational decisions, do not be ashamed of dating your own friend. It is common, many times you realize that the true person you want to be with happens to be your own friend. Clarifying out thoughts, and with rational judgment you can have a smooth transition from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend.

The Secret to Attracting Women So They Approach YOU First

Is there a secret to attracting women? I know for many guys, it sure feels that way! It feels like there is some secret code that a guy has to crack in order to get women to be attracted to them.

There really is no secret to attracting women. The "secret" to attracting women is something that is really inside of all of us. You simply need to know how to act. And the way you want to act is in a supremely self confident way. But what if you do not have a lot of self confidence? It's true that success is probably the best way to develop self confidence, but you can fake it 'til you make it, as they say. And you do this by developing fantastic body language. When you carry yourself in a very confident way, you will instantly feel more confident.

And when you have great body language, you know what will happen? You will be unlocking the secret to attracting women in a way that will have them approaching YOU first! Yes, you read that right! You won't have to worry anymore about finding any great lines to use when trying to meet a woman, and you won't get that fear of rejection anymore, because they will be making the first move. This will make you the selector, which puts you in a very powerful position. So I guess you could say that the "secret" to attracting women is acting in a way that makes them die to meet you.

Marketing You Online

How should the world view you?

Your online portrait should appropriately state who you are and clearly define what you seek. Your profile is you, and needs to reflect your glowing, positive qualities. The energies you emit through your writing will attract like energies. The tone you set in the first couple of lines will determine your success. Stating yourself with confidence and enthusiasm will entice the reader and precipitate that same type of positive attitude in response. Adding a bit of intrigue and mystery will provoke a desire to know more.

Your writing should be accurate, sincere and to the point. Any long-winded dissertation will merely prove to deter interest. The addition of humor will impart warmth and offer insight into your personality and spirit. Creating a clever, whimsical introduction line that displays an engaging disposition will extend an approachable aura. The goal is to attract attention and promote you as being a valuable asset. Offering the reader a pleasant place to visit while adding a smile to their day is always a positive and will inspire a call to action

Be clear with regards to your likes and dislikes but don't limit yourself with labels. Use a no-nonsense approach while offering a hint of your depth. Your statements should reflect exactly what you have to offer and what it is you are looking for, in short summary. Your profile need not display your life history or any negative aspects of your circumstances. Negatives are not attractive and showing your weaknesses places you in a vulnerable position from the start. Keep it real, effective and on the lighter side.

Your objective is to avoid misrepresenting yourself and creating an atmosphere for potential misunderstandings. Clearly stating your limits and boundaries will speak to your strength and character. (IE: Please do not respond if you are married, in town looking for a good time, live out of state, seeking cam sex or casual sex, etc). You can emphatically define those as an addendum rather than the foreword. Although it is important information to share, it is best to keep it separate from your list of endearing qualities and positive attributes. Be careful not to offer anything you cant' or aren't willing to do in reality. Leave little room for interpretation.

Pictures add to the number of responses and interest but are not a necessity. Choosing to add a photograph to your profile should be based on your level of comfort and need for discretion. If your profile is well written and holds enough power, intrigue and mystery, it will command a response without a photo. Any picture you add should reflect the same qualities as your written word. Pictures with babies and animals are attention getters and present an endearing disposition. Far too many people display outdated pictures and misrepresent themselves in order to boost their contacts. That form of deceit may help to fill your email inbox but will not help in reaching your ultimate goal.

The Internet brings us in contact with the world and offers endless opportunities. That type of exposure does not come without risks however. There are very specific rules for online dating and exposing yourself to the world through cyber space. When preparing your profile and in preparation for the online dating experience, it is wise to consider the risks and possible consequences. In that regard it is imperative that you avoid offering any personal information in your profile. It is wise to use an alternate email address and Instant Messaging screen name for dating contacts. When you feel comfortable moving to a telephone meeting it is best to give a cell number rather than your home phone number to better protect you. Great adventures lie ahead if you are prepared and have planned well.

To Love a Divorcee Or Not

A friend of mine is in dilemma right now. She met two men at the same time and she is dating both of them. One is a romantic and stereotypical individual who has all the fundamental principles in life where she can have all the security she needs once she marries him. The other guy is a divorcee but a warm, modern and happy guy whom my friend finds easy to be with and is actually beginning to fall in love with.

The problem with the second guy she is dating is that he still sees his ex-wife and still supports her even though she is already married to another guy. Malen (my friend) confides in me that she would have chosen Alan (the second guy) over Melvin (the first guy) if only Alan would stop seeing and supporting his ex-wife. She believes that after the divorce, he does not need to support her anymore.

Their relationship is on and off as Malen would demand her part but Alan also demanded his part to be understood and accepted by Malen. But neither both wanted to really give up on each other. When any of them tried to stop dating, the other one would complain not to stop and so it goes on a cycle.

And when both of them (Malen and Melvin) are not in good terms, Malen will tell me that she would marry Melvin and it makes me really mat at my friend. I always admonish her to follow her heart and give an unconditional love towards Melvin.

I believe to demand from someone is quite selfish specially if you are just starting a relationship. In the case of Malen, it would be wise for her to just simply accept the fact that Alan is still attached to his wife but he is willing to change that since his divorce is already done with. It will only be time that both of them needed so that the love and affection will be totally given by Alan to Malen in due time.

If only Malen can understand this and accept it, things should be better for both of them but she is very stubborn in her beliefs that Alan can only prove his love to her if he follws her demands. Now they just waste time on absurd disagreements when they know that they really like each other.

Many people are in the same situation as Malen and Alan. The key to real love is understanding and once you understand all things, is there a question left? So for Malen, if she understand the time requirement for Alan, they will now be enjoying more moments together and not destroying it. It is also true to other situations. If understanding is the center of any relationship, then all things will be clearer and you can expect growth towards any union on this earth.

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