How to Get a Girlfriend If You're Shy and Lack Self-Confidence

If you're the type of guy who hasn't been lucky with dating girls and you're wondering "how to get a girlfriend?" the good news for you is that it is not going to be too difficult for you to land yourself a girlfriend. You've probably spent more nights in on your own than you care to admit to. All your friends are out on dates, having sex, maybe even getting married and you feel as though life is just passing you by and so are all the beautiful women. Well this article will help you out and show you the first few steps that you need to do to get yourself a simply lovely girlfriend.

Step 1

Confidence! If you've had none or very little success, it's very easy to lack confidence when you're out hoping to meet a woman. So the first thing you should do when you go out is NOT to go looking for a girlfriend. The minute your mind understands that you're out looking for a girlfriend, you will begin to feel pressured and your confidence will go. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, then don't go out with that intention.

Step 2

If you can, go out with a group of confident friends of both sexes and watch and learn how they handle themselves around the opposite sex. Watch both your guy and female friends because you want to see how your male friends approach women and you also want to see how your female friends react to men who approach them.

Step 3

If you can't go out with a group of friends, then your next best bet is to make sure that you have hobbies and interests where you are likely to meet single women. This is one of the easiest ways to meet women and to get a girlfriend.

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Prove that you are worth a 'catch'-

Well, you must be wondering that how can you be the catch being a guy! Times have changed; if you got to attract hot girls then you should show some worth. Hot girls won't run after you till they find you worth fighting for! You need not be extremely good looking for that but yes be decent and pleasing.

Build that comfort zone-

It is important that you build that comfort zone between you two. Girls are sensitive and you must be ready to hear them out whole-heartedly. This will certainly help her rely on you and be comfortable with you. Slowly show signs of that attraction and you will see her respond to your touch. Do not be pushy but gradually be comfortable with her when you casually touch her.

Don't show that you need her-

You might be wondering that this is just the opposite you want then why this! Well, if she feels that you want her badly then she might stop responding. If you make her feel that you are not dying to date her, this will surprise her, as she would like you to chase her. After the initial attraction when you will try to revert back, she will be more drawn towards you. There you go; finally you have successfully attracted her in full glory!

Assumptions of Women at the Club

Please use this routine at your discretion and remember there is much more to a person than memorizing a script. Your cool personality will carry you much further in the scope of a relationship but if you are in search of a needed boost to your game than continue. If you are looking for a crutch to start out and gain more comfort and confidence within then use the following routine.

Assumptions of Women at the Club

Just because a women is out with her friends doesn't mean she is enjoying there company and doesn't want to talk to other people. The club is a social environment which is loud or may present quite a bit of ambient noise. "Flash Game" is a structure a Man uses with a women to gain her attention and raise a level of attraction in a short amount of time. Half of what you say in the Club will be lost in translation and the other half of communication is through body language. Be prepared to project your voice very loud in her ear and have her do the same with you.

Venue location either Bar or Club

Works best after you've approached a few different women...

Entertainment Routine

Walk up to a group of girls or one girl alone and say the following:

Man: Why is it that all the girls I talk to are so boring? Please tell me you have an entertaining story for me.

Women: Huh

Man: Every time I go out, the girls just think they can dress up and not have something intelligent to say. I feel like I'm just a piece of meat everybody grabbing my hand, girls pinching my cheeks, this is ridiculous.

Women: Okay, let me start... I just moved back from Florida where my boyfriend lives and I am here with my girls.

Man: I like your boots they are soft... How nice...

I grab her shoe and then her ankle escalating kino. I check for comfort by touching her shoulder and playfully hitting her thigh. Find something on her person that is different and compliment her.

Women: You're the first guy to every tell me that!

Man: Yes I can appreciate a little style and a nice personality. When I first came and sat next to you, you gave me such a weird look. But you seem like a nice girl and probably have a cool personality. Whats up with that?

Women: I'm so sorry... There are so many weird guys that come up to us at the club but you are different.

Man: So anyways... I have to go and say Hi to my friends and we are going to catch up later. If for some reason I don't bump into you later on the dance floor I want to get your number. Go ahead and put it in my phone it starts with 415 right.

Women: No it is a Florida Area code, here it is.... I will bump into you on the dance floor.

This is an example of the many successes in the club which is very easy to recreate just remain confident and this will work. The conversation can go many ways just go with it... This is my original material that my friends told me not to release but looking for a few karma points. Good luck!