Regain Your Manhood and Walk Your Walk

Lonely guys at the end of the bar, pathetically nursing their drinks and pretending to be more interested in the big screen that they can't hear are there for many reasons. If it's you, then you probably already know your reasons. If it's not you, then you know your reasons for not wanting to be there. Define, for the sake of that empty bar seat, what you want in this life and what you want from the women you have the potential to meet. Be clear in your desires and your decisions and stop being a wishy washy mush ball. It's unattractive.

If you're all into meaningless flings and you're greatest interest is in the fastest possible way to get laid, then fine. Your relationships can be defined that way. If you are still there because that is the reputation you have given yourself, but it isn't making you feel fulfilled, you can step out of it simply by redefining the image of what you're looking for an act accordingly. I've known guys who have been with more women than they can count who finally realize that they are rather miserable. Yet they continue the behavior because that is what is expected of them. It's not necessary. If it makes you happy, fine. If it doesn't, then change it.

Some guys have an easier time of breaking their reputation by finding a new place to hang out. Sure, they end up without their buddies, but overall, they find it easier to present themselves without the expectation that they have led people to believe is true about them.

You get to walk your own walk anytime you want. You get to define what you're looking for and change it up as you see fit. The expectation of others is really pretty inconsequential. Because you are your own man, and you are entitled to your own definitions of what it means to be a man, then you are in control. Being in control of your own choices gives you freedom.

When you decide that you're going to walk a new walk, and you go through the time and energy to define how it's going to be, nothing is written in stone. In fact, often you might find that you are a little lonely during your new vision and you might slip back to your old stomping grounds for a night and grab and quickie. It doesn't mean you are ingenuine about what you are looking for. It means you're a guy with a need that you still have the capacity to fill. Once you're involved with a woman that choice is no longer recommended, but you will probably find that you're happier anyway. After all, you're the guy that made the choice to walk your different walk.

Relieving ourselves of the expectation of others is a gift to our own sense of manhood and our own ability to be our own man. Regardless of the reputation you have set forth for yourself, you get to change it at will and let the world know that you are in control of your own decisions and choices.

If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free eBook titled "Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women". I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It's a must read.

Create Better Dates

I always get emails from people about dates, and what are the best things to do on them. People are always asking me, "is dinner and a movie okay?"

Sure, dinner and a movie are great - if you want to sit there in silence and stare at a screen for two hours. You drop them off at the end of the night and you haven't learned a thing about them the entire evening!

How about going to a movie and bringing a picnic into the movie? Having a picnic during a movie is always fun. You can hide it in your manbag! You can whip out this great little sushi meal as you watch The Return of Godzilla! You could even make the food fit the theme of the movie.

How about watching the sunset? Most people think, let's go to the beach and watch the sunset. It's like kissing on New Year's Eve - how cliché. I read something recently in a magazine that I thought was a cool idea: why don't you paint the sunset?

Go to the store and get two paint kits and actually paint the sunset. Whether you are a professional artist or a stick-figure artist (like me) you will really be able to interact with the person you are painting with. You could ask them, "so what made you put the sun to the right?" "Why does your stick figure look so much different than mine?

What about a Sunday drive? Instead of just cruising to the beach or a lake, why don't you go to open houses? I've talked a lot about this in some of my products. Take a look at some of the houses in both the good and the bad neighborhoods. Get an idea of what each of you like in a house.

This will bring up a lot of interesting conversations between the two of you as well. Even if a house that you look at isn't really that great, you can talk about it and it will give you an idea of the depth of her character

And when you go and visit the McMansions you can take a look at it, have some fun and really pretend that you're interested in buying the house. It can be a really fun day.

Here's something I've read about but I've never really done it: shooting clay birds. I don't know, I've never really seen a clay bird. I have a bird in my office two days a week, but I've never shot clay birds in my life. Apparently it's quite fun and a good idea for a date. Go figure that one out.

So there are some new date ideas for you.

Regain Your Manhood and Walk Your Walk

Lonely guys at the end of the bar, pathetically nursing their drinks and pretending to be more interested in the big screen that they can't hear are there for many reasons. If it's you, then you probably already know your reasons. If it's not you, then you know your reasons for not wanting to be there. Define, for the sake of that empty bar seat, what you want in this life and what you want from the women you have the potential to meet. Be clear in your desires and your decisions and stop being a wishy washy mush ball. It's unattractive.

If you're all into meaningless flings and you're greatest interest is in the fastest possible way to get laid, then fine. Your relationships can be defined that way. If you are still there because that is the reputation you have given yourself, but it isn't making you feel fulfilled, you can step out of it simply by redefining the image of what you're looking for an act accordingly. I've known guys who have been with more women than they can count who finally realize that they are rather miserable. Yet they continue the behavior because that is what is expected of them. It's not necessary. If it makes you happy, fine. If it doesn't, then change it.

Some guys have an easier time of breaking their reputation by finding a new place to hang out. Sure, they end up without their buddies, but overall, they find it easier to present themselves without the expectation that they have led people to believe is true about them.

You get to walk your own walk anytime you want. You get to define what you're looking for and change it up as you see fit. The expectation of others is really pretty inconsequential. Because you are your own man, and you are entitled to your own definitions of what it means to be a man, then you are in control. Being in control of your own choices gives you freedom.

When you decide that you're going to walk a new walk, and you go through the time and energy to define how it's going to be, nothing is written in stone. In fact, often you might find that you are a little lonely during your new vision and you might slip back to your old stomping grounds for a night and grab and quickie. It doesn't mean you are ingenuine about what you are looking for. It means you're a guy with a need that you still have the capacity to fill. Once you're involved with a woman that choice is no longer recommended, but you will probably find that you're happier anyway. After all, you're the guy that made the choice to walk your different walk.

Relieving ourselves of the expectation of others is a gift to our own sense of manhood and our own ability to be our own man. Regardless of the reputation you have set forth for yourself, you get to change it at will and let the world know that you are in control of your own decisions and choices.

If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free eBook titled "Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women". I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It's a must read.

How to Get Your Boyfriend Back - Why Some People Give You the Wrong Advice

There are lots of people who will give you advice on how to get your boyfriend back but unfortunately not all of this is good advice. Some of the people who give you not so good advice probably are trying to help but haven't actually been through what you're going through right now. Unless someone has actually experienced the pain of being dumped by their boyfriend, the sleepless nights, lack of appetite and let's not forget how it throws off your monthly cycle, they can't really give you first hand information.

When my boyfriend and I broke up I had all of these symptoms and more, but that's all changed now and I feel that I am experienced enough to help you through your crisis. Let's face it, being dumped is pretty high up on the list of the most terrible feelings you'll ever feel especially if you're deeply in love with the guy.

Like you, I didn't have a clue how to win back an ex boyfriend and had to rely on what other people told me. Luckily, I managed to stop and take a step back before he was gone forever, I then had to do some damage control and go back and try again; luckily the next time around it all came together.

You're probably suffering pretty hard right now and I do sympathize with you but you need to shake that feeling of quickly, the longer you feel like this the more likely you are to do something which you'll regret later.

Think back to when you first started dating, you don't need to think about him but you do need to think about yourself, that's the person who he's going to want back. If you're sat at your computer in your dressing gown with your greasy hair and make up smudged down your face from crying, I can guarantee that you didn't look like that when you were together so that really needs to change.

I'm not going to lecture you any more, I will tell you that there is hope and I don't care if he's seeing someone else or whether you have lost all faith. If you want him back I can help you.

Create Better Dates

I always get emails from people about dates, and what are the best things to do on them. People are always asking me, "is dinner and a movie okay?"

Sure, dinner and a movie are great - if you want to sit there in silence and stare at a screen for two hours. You drop them off at the end of the night and you haven't learned a thing about them the entire evening!

How about going to a movie and bringing a picnic into the movie? Having a picnic during a movie is always fun. You can hide it in your manbag! You can whip out this great little sushi meal as you watch The Return of Godzilla! You could even make the food fit the theme of the movie.

How about watching the sunset? Most people think, let's go to the beach and watch the sunset. It's like kissing on New Year's Eve - how cliché. I read something recently in a magazine that I thought was a cool idea: why don't you paint the sunset?

Go to the store and get two paint kits and actually paint the sunset. Whether you are a professional artist or a stick-figure artist (like me) you will really be able to interact with the person you are painting with. You could ask them, "so what made you put the sun to the right?" "Why does your stick figure look so much different than mine?

What about a Sunday drive? Instead of just cruising to the beach or a lake, why don't you go to open houses? I've talked a lot about this in some of my products. Take a look at some of the houses in both the good and the bad neighborhoods. Get an idea of what each of you like in a house.

This will bring up a lot of interesting conversations between the two of you as well. Even if a house that you look at isn't really that great, you can talk about it and it will give you an idea of the depth of her character

And when you go and visit the McMansions you can take a look at it, have some fun and really pretend that you're interested in buying the house. It can be a really fun day.

Here's something I've read about but I've never really done it: shooting clay birds. I don't know, I've never really seen a clay bird. I have a bird in my office two days a week, but I've never shot clay birds in my life. Apparently it's quite fun and a good idea for a date. Go figure that one out.

So there are some new date ideas for you.