7 Questions You Must Avoid Asking a Woman on a First Date

1. "Is that your real hair color?" Even if you think she has hair extensions in her hair, and a lot of women do, do not make the mistake of letting her known that you suspect that what she has on her hair may not be all hers.

2. "How much do you weigh?" A woman 's weight is a sensitive area -- one that you must do everything you can to avoid making inquiries. Once you get to know her a little better, and she feels more comfortable around you, then you can start asking her about her weight.

3. "Do you want to have sex?" This one question has the potential to totally ruin your date. Women in general do not feel comfortable answering questions that have to do with sex on a first date. If you don't want her to think that you are a jerk, then stay away from this hot question.

4. "Do you think you and I have a future together?" Sure, most women want long term relationships, but they only want it when they have determined for themselves that you are the one. Don't let your date come to a screeching halt by asking marriage related questions prematurely.

5. "How much money do you make?" Asking this question will make her feel that you are a gold digger. So if you don't want her to get the wrong impression, then stay away from questions that might suggest that you are looking for a sugar mama.

6. "What is your bra size?" Even if you are a "Breast man", don't make the mistake of asking a question that will make you seem only interested in her body. Women want to know that you like them for they way they are on the inside instead of what they look like on the outside.

7. "Are you going to pay for your meal?" Asking this question when you are in a restaurant makes you look very cheap. Most women feel that if you are going to ask them out on a date, then you aught to be man enough to foot the bill.

So if you want to ensure that your first date does not turn out to be a disaster, then you must do everything in your power to avoid these seven first date killer questions. Since your first date is where you make your first impression on a woman, you make to make sure you ask the right questions to get her hooked on wanting to get to know you better.

How to Make Any Girl Fall For You - She Will Be So Into You That You Won't Know What to Do!

If you have been wondering how to make any girl fall for you and failed, this is normal. Cracking the female code has eluded men for ages, however there are certain things you can do to ensure your success with the ladies. I'm going to give you a few things to keep in mind when trying to pick up women in any situation, anywhere, and anytime. Let's get started.

You Have to Have Humor! Make Them Laugh!

If there was ever a key to making a woman like you, it's getting on her funny side. When you can make a girl laugh, you are showing her it's okay to have fun with you. This allows her to drop her guard and gives you a chance to move in. Practice some witty lines or crack a joke here and there and you will be well on your way to getting her to laugh. Some of the best pick up lines are rooted in some humorous way!

Show Your Confidence, but Don't Be Cocky!

If there's one thing that will turn a girl on, it's confidence. Ask any woman you know, and this is normally at the top of their list, and for a reason. Girls want someone who is confident and knows they will be taken care of by their man. There's a fine line between confident and cocky however, so be careful on crossing that line.

Start Flirting Fella's!

Girls like to play games sometimes, but one thing that is for sure is they love the confidence that comes from a guy that's obviously trying to get with them. If you show them a little flirtation it can go a long way. Be careful not to lay it on too strong as you are just wanting to set a foundation for them to grasp your personality. Stay as mysterious as you can.

5 Personality Traits That Turn Women Off

1. Being self-centered. If you are in the habit of constantly talking about yourself, you may be alienating the women you meet. The essence of talking to a woman that you are interested in, especially at the early stages of dating, is to essentially get to know what makes them tick -- to see if you are a match. So if you take up that time to merely talk about yourself, most women will end up feeling that you really are not interested in them and will mentally tune you out. So if you think that you will impress women by talking about yourself, think again. By behaving this way, you end up making sure that women will not date you.

2. Being extremely shy. When you are shy around women you make them feel that you do not have the confidence to chat them up. They assume that you are intimidated by their presence. And women will not hang out with you if they feel that they will have to pull conversations out of you. Women are attracted to confident men.

3. A know-it-all. If you appear to know something about every single subject under the sun, most women will start doubting your honesty and integrity. They think that there is no way you can possibly know something about every single subject matter they bring up. Even when you know a lot, it may pay you more if you let her teach you and show off her knowledge on about a few subject matters. When you let a woman educate you on a few subject matters, you demonstrate that you are a good listener. And women love men that can listen to them.

4. Being overbearing. Do not suppress their ideas, opinions, or suggestions. If you are the type that wants to make every single decision for them or the type that never gives them credit for thinking up good ideas, you will have a hard time getting them to fall for you.

5. Acting like a player. This is one of the worst turn offs for women. Don't act like you have so many women after you. This kind of behavior will not make you more attractive to her. You will only end up making her feel that you are not a one-woman man. And no woman wants to deal with the headaches of a Casanova.

Now you know the five most commons personality traits that turn women off, it is now up to you to make the changes where necessary so that you can double your dating.

How to Attract Women Like Crazy

If you are one of those guys wondering how one guy gets all the girls; what does this guy have that I don't? The answer might surprise you, absolutely nothing!! I don't care if this guy has a great body, gorgeous eyes, and drives a sports car he does not have an advantage over you unless you let him.

It's not hard to learn how to attract women consistently, I'm not saying it's easy; but it is fun and pay's off. If you want to learn how to attract women then you have to understand how women work. The most important theory to understand is attraction is not a choice. There are ways to show her your personality so that you tug on those inherent attraction switches in women. Once you have a firm understanding of social dynamics you will be able to understand how to attract women, how to pick up women, and all the why's behind this.

By understanding the social dynamics you will get a better understanding of what women are attracted to psychologically and socially. In today's dating world beautiful women get approached hundreds of times a week and build up psychological defenses to deal with it. The key is to learn how to break those defenses down. Beautiful women get approached by the same type of men all the time, if you can show her that your are different and better than all those other men she will respect you and maybe even open up to you. This is the type of psychological advantage that men have been understanding and using with success for a while now. It is also very important to read the physical indicators of interest as well as the psychological ones.

When you first meet a women there has to be an attraction, and to build on that attraction there needs to be a little flirting going on. By this I mean she might flirt with you and put her hand on your knee and you might put your hand on her lower back very lightly. Don't make the mistake of being to shy and awkward around women, this can sometimes come across as being disinterested and cold. In order to have a healthy relationship it's important to make sure physical contact is a natural part of your relationship. There are some steps you can do to make this happen.

First, when you meet a women it's OK to increase the closeness you feel by touching her on the arm or hand. This will show her that you are a friendly and warm person. Second you want to keep up physical contact and make it a normal part of your relationship. For example, you can touch the small of her back to show her which direction to go. Keeping physical contact will help you form a bond with her so she won't forget you. Now don't get too aggressive and make her feel uncomfortable. Look for her to respond to you positively and she should also make gestures of physical contact to show that she is interested in you.

Attracting women is not rocket science, if you follow these tips you should be able to attract the women of your dreams. And of course always be a gentlemen, men that treat women like dirt only attract women that have low self-esteem and are young and naive. You can easily attract a beautiful woman if you give her the respect that she deserves.

Free Yourself of Past Relationship Baggage and Make Room For Someone New

Have you ever felt as if someone from your past was still holding on to you? Or maybe you felt that you are still holding on to them? Or hope of getting them back?

Free yourself and them and allow yourself to make room for someone better to come into your life.

Consider how much more energy and focus you will have once you learn how to free yourself from the baggage of past relationships.

You can do whatever you want with this extra energy and you may find that you have made room for someone new in your life. Done correctly, you may actually release pain, anger, fear and resentment from the past and make room for someone special to come into your life.

Imagine, doing something simple and effective that makes you feel a whole lot better about yourself AND which has the added benefit of attracting someone into your life who is better suited to who you are now.

In this article I will share this simple yet powerful technique that has its roots in Shamanic ritual and native American tradition. NYC Prime Hypnosis combines powerful techniques, practices and disciplines and combines them into a user friendly approach to being your BEST SELF!

You will need and open mind and some things for this ritual :

1. Toilet tissue ( burns easier )

2. Pen

3. 30 minutes of quiet/alone time

4. A candle ( matches )

5. Bathroom with the toilet lid opened

Give yourself a few minutes to write down the name and whatever emotion you are feeling about this person from your past. Write this down on the toilet tissue ( I fold it several times and place a book underneath for easier writing )

It is best to start with the one relationship that feels like it is holding you back the most. This way you can get a feel for the ritual and how great it feels. Then the next time you can make a longer list of names and do a longer more complete ritual.

You can write something along the lines of :

"I now release ( write their name ) this person and forgive them and myself for whatever happened. We did the best we could with what we had at the time. For the best of all concerned, I honor the good times and the lessons learned. I now resolve any and all unhelpful emotions related to this person and relationship. I keep the lessons and leave the bitterness behind. I free myself and them to move on with our lives on separate paths towards happiness...and make room for someone better suited to enter into my life." etc.

You can start with just writing this and naming one person whom you feel is somehow holding you back from happiness or is somehow keeping you stuck in the past or in a destructive pattern.

The way I do this ritual is by standing in my bathroom with the toilet lid opened and lighting a candle. I make sure there is a clear space where nothing can catch fire. ( the water puts out the flames and relates to the elements in nature and in alternative healing )

Then I take my toilet tissue that I wrote on and I tear off a section of it relating to that person/relationship and I very carefully touch the paper to the candle ( which is set on the top of the toilet tank )

I take a deep breath and think of that person and feel whatever the emotion is relating to them that may have been keeping me from my full potential. Then I exhale as I touch the paper to the candle and drop it carefully into the water in the toilet bowl. You may feel as if you are releasing the unwanted or painful emotions and making room for something better.

You can see the past baggage going up in flames and smoke and then being cast into the water. There is a sizzling sound as the flames hit the water and you can see, hear and feel that something powerful is happening.

Every time I do this ritual I feel a tremendous sense of peace and serenity as well as feeling energized the next few days afterwards.

It feels as if I have let go of the past and forgiven myself and those from my past and I am thankful for the lessons as I feel a clear path in front of me that leads to greater success and happiness. There are many ways to release emotions and blockages and this is just one of the simple and effective methods that is easy enough to learn from reading.

Blow out the candle and flush the toilet and let yourself feel that same wonderful sense of peace. As if all is right with the world again.

P.S. You may be pleasantly surprised to find someone new and special entering into your life within a few weeks of performing this shamanic releasing ritual. And for some people they meet someone special even sooner!