How to Make a Girl Love You Instantly

Have you ever wondered why some men seem to have all the luck when it comes to attracting women? Why does it seem that some are able to make any girl to like them while the others absolutely struggle? What do these 'players' know that the other men do not? Read on to discover these secret tactics that expert seducers know when it comes to making girls fall in love with them...

First things first - you will have to realize that getting a woman to fall in love with you has got absolutely NOTHING to do with her - but EVERYTHING to do with you. With that mindset, you are now ready to learn the secrets...

Techniques To Make Any Girl Like You - Instantly

Tactic Number One - "Show Active Disinterest". This is a powerful trigger of speed seduction, and my number one tactic to make a woman think about me, all the time. First, give the girl lots of attention. Then, immediately be cool to her - without giving any indication at all. This will drive her crazy and she will start chasing you instead.

Tactic Number Two - "Give Her A Good Time...And Bad." Bring her through a rollercoaster of emotions - make her feel both good AND bad. This is the key to making a girl totally ADDICTED to you. Girls like drama in their lives. So don't disappoint them!

Tactic Number Three - "Be A Control Freak". This could seem to be crazy but women seem to like control freaks. Be a male chauvinist and make her obey to your requests! Often you will find her to comply to your wishes, which is excellent.

The Power of Online Dating

Most people have become very adventurous nowadays, searching for the perfect lifetime partner online rather than the traditional boy meets girl-personally. Many people have tried online dating for the simple reason that it is something thrilling and possibly a new way at deconstructing the idea of love at first sight. Now, it has become, love at first click, of the mouse that is.

There are several online dating sites you can choose from. Some are on the onset very wholesome and friendly while there are those that are more mature and have relatively more mature content. The varieties of online dating sites are created in the hope of addressing the different needs of their target market, audience of client. Nonetheless, the idea behind online dating sites is to find the perfect match for you; someone with whom you will be able to feel comfortable with without having the idea of how that person actually looks like.

The power of online dating has worked beyond just the meeting stage. It has actually worked for many people more than we ever expected it to be. Some couples who tried online dating sites successfully found each other and right then and there clicked. If you are hoping to find someone special without going through the hassle of meeting up in an instant and then feeling disappointed all at once, online dating is the best dating tool designed just for you. Try online dating now, you just might find that person you have been looking for all these years.

Love by Numbers - Find Your Soul Mate

Falling in love by birth date is easier than you think! Are you finding it hard to choose between lovers, curious about how to make the best of the dating scene or wondering if your significant other will ever change? Discover your lover's sign or add up the numbers in his or her birth date to use numerology!

Love By Birth Date Using Sun Signs

Aries (March 20 - April 20): Quick to jump into a relationship. Love the thrill of the chase! They can be selfish!

Taurus (April 21 - May 22): They don't like to give up until they've tried everything!

Gemini (May 22 - June 23): If you don't keep their attention, they might get away! They can seem superficial, but are actually very intelligent and question everything.

Cancer (June 23 - July 24): As a lover they can be clingy! Whether they hide it or not, they are very sensitive to criticism.

Leo (July 24 - August 24): Though generous lovers, they can be a bit full of themselves!

Virgo (August 24 - September 23): Can be their own worst enemies, always focused on what is best and reasonable.

Libra (September 23 - October 23): Often accused of being lazy in relationships, they have a great sense of fairness.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21): Passionate to the point of obsession! Harsh words from a lover can cut them deeply.

Sagittarius (November 21 - December 20): Generally honest in relationships, they can sometimes be careless with the feelings of others.

Capricorn (December 20 - January 19): They can be suspicious when starting out in a relationship, but then can have big plans for the future!

Aquarius (January 19 - February 18): They can seem to be quite aloof in relationships, but have a deep capacity for love, sometimes finding the unconventional endearing!

Pisces (February 18 - March 20): Having their heads in the clouds, they can often have unreasonable expectations in relationships, but are deeply emotionally sensitive.

Love By Birth Date Using Numerology

1 - Aggressively pursue those with whom they are interested, but can be individual and aloof once in a relationship.

2 - Enjoy being in relationships and and value balance. They might be rarely single once they enter adult life!

3 - Talkative and enjoy others who can provide stimulating conversation! They often win a debate!

4 - Crave stability and may be driven by family values.

5 - Restless people, they always want to take action, and can often hop from one relationship to another.

6 - It can take a while of doing it the hard way before they learn, but they can work towards responsibility!

7 - Deep thinkers, they value lovers who are intellectually stimulating.

8 - Bossy by nature, they are perfectionists and there can often be a power struggle in their relationships.

9 - Have a lot of options in their lives, and the only problem is choosing one and following through with it to the end!

Online Dating Using Craigslist Personals

The other day I got an email from a guy asking me about whether he should use Craigslist Personals, my initial answer was no, and then I got thinking. A lot of guys seem to prefer free online dating sites over paying ones, yet surely you are going to have a better chance of meeting someone of quality on a paying site and that's my experience.

They tend to attract less spam and more quality, attractive, single women. So why do some guys refuse to pay for online dating sites even if it leads to them remaining miserable? Maybe they don;t have too much money to spend, they don;t have any confidence that they're going to meet anyone or they like to be lonely and alone. now I know saying that might be a littlie harsh but sometimes people actually fear successful as much as they do failure. The way many men conduct their dating lives leaves them little chance of success and sometimes you have to invest such a little bit more time and money into getting what you want and it makes a world of difference. So since I know that most guys will continue to use free online dating sites even though I recommend paying sites I decided to elaborate on the Craigslist Personals question.

Should you use Craigslist Personals?

You have probably heard at least one of your friends discussing Craigslist Personals at some point. Maybe they had a good experience perhaps it was a bad one, but I am going to assume it was probably the butt of a few jokes. I have heard some interesting experiences that different people have had using Craigslist Personals and I must say that you could probably write a killer novel on them.

While I would recommend that you try other personals sites such as Yahoo or AOL Personals before you try using Craigslist Personals there still may be a reason for trying Craigslist Personals.

Your own personal entertainment!

If you have never tried the old style of newspaper personals then Craigslist presents a great opportunity to try it out. It is also a great opportunity to practice using emotive language and the power of just your words to appeal to a woman and get them to respond to you. Practicing just the words you use is a great way too improve your success meeting women online and at bars and clubs too. It can also be a lot of fun seeing some of the responses you get.

That being said you have to be careful and use some common sense as well on Craigslist. There are a fair amount of dating and Russian bride scams running on Craigslist Personals due to the anonymous nature of their personals sections. If you do end up meeting someone on Craigslist I recommend you talk to them on the phone before meeting them. Make sure you avoid any women with really old looking pictures or that want you to send them money or buy them plane tickets too come and see you before meeting them. These women are not interested in you and for all you know if you haven't talked to them on the phone they may not even exist.

You have to be careful as these kinds of dating scams are becoming more prevalent on the internet in particular on sites like Craigslist. These dating scams try to play on the strong emotions that men have around the quest for fulfilling their desires for both love and sex.

I remember a few years ago now I was approached by a very attractive girl from Texas claiming she was new to my area and wanted someone to show her around. This didn't ring any of my alarm bells as every thing seemed genuine and it seemed plausible as I was having a lot of great success with women at that point. We took our conversation off Friendster and all the emails seemed pretty genuine but something was just off, after about three emails I got a link to some kind of adult entertainment or escort site she was running. For the next year I got unsolicited spam in my inbox from similar such "women" claiming they wanted to "get to know me" better. I was not amused! Safe to say I learned my lesson and I fortunately was not naive enough to get trapped or fooled again.

So make sure you keep that in mind when you are using free services like Craigslist Personals because there are a few dating scams out there. Be very carefully of women who approach you from the Eastern Europe, South East Asia or South America on these sites if you are living in the west. These are often some kind of dating scam and I'm sure you have probably heard about the Russian Bride Scams by now.

So go have fun on Craigslist and enjoy trying out a good old fashion personals ad with just words and a picture. Just keep in mind that some people do not always have your best interests at heart and are only trying to deceive you to take your money. If you are serious about online dating I highly recommend some of the major online dating services with good reputations like Match.com, Yahoo Personals and AOL.

Instant Sex Appeal For Men - 3 Superficial & Shallow Seduction Strategies That Are Still Sexy!

Okay guys, I'm going to fill you in on a little secret: Just because we recognize that they are shallow, a bit superficial and ultimately are MOSTLY for show....we still find some of those little seduction strategies VERY sexy! While most women are NOT big fans of show offs...there is STILL something very powerful and erotic about a man who knows what he wants in life and goes out and gets it. (and her!) Let's look at 3 things that MOST women still find to be a turn on....on a date! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: A Man Who Tips Wells is VERY Sexy!

Nothing tells a woman about the true character of her guy MORE than how he treats the hired help! And when you're out at a restaurant....well, let's be honest, we are ALL being served..:-) The way he treats the waiter or waitress is REALLY important...and SO is what he leaves behind with the check. Trust me...a man who knows how to leave a good tip is a man MOST women want to see again! (Plus it's a good sign you are giving elsewhere as well.)

Filed Under: Send for A Car....and a Driver!

This is VERY sexy guys...and as superficial as it gets! But EVERY woman wants to feel like Cinderella regardless of how smart, cultured or progressive she is. Order a car to pick you up for dinner and drinks....and tell her it's because you don't want the road to distract you from looking at her all night. Cheesy? Sure is! Effective - You better BELIEVE it! If you think she'll think she owes you for just a simple dinner, wait until you see the smile on her face when the chaffer opens the car door to let her out..:-)