Dating Relationship - Is it Togetherness Or Possession?

It's been awhile since you have been in the dating game but you are back with a vengeance. And happily you have met someone that you are getting serious about. The calls last to all hours of the morning even though the two of you have to get up early.

You spend weekends together sharing life experiences along with your hopes and dreams for the future. Neither of you has had it easy but you're hanging in there and the fact that the two of you have found each other makes every moment you spend together that much better.

But the thought has passed through your mind a time or two that may be you and your dating partner spend too much time together. You get an uncomfortable feeling that a certain amount of neediness is creeping into the relationship. Yet it does not stop there.

You also think that neediness is turning into possession. It is not just that you hate to be away from your dating partner but you find yourself having certain thoughts that border on unhealthy jealousy.

Take into consideration a few things:

1. The Court Room

When you and your dating partner get together after an absence, how do you go about asking them questions? Is it just a general what have you been up to or does it turn into a serious cross examination. You want to know all the details and if something does not add up from your perspective you find yourself going over their testimony again until you are fully satisfied.

2. The Panic

You don't hear from them for a day or even two. How do you handle it? Longing to be with them is one thing but letting their absence take you on an emotion roller coaster ride is another. Does your mind start racing towards some jealous thoughts? Or does it get to the point where you have to get in touch with them not to see how they are doing but alleviate your fears or confirm your suspicions?

3. The Mood

When you and your dating partner do get together, they cannot help but notice your mood has changed. They ask you if anything is wrong. You tell them know (which is a lie) or you let your emotions get ahead of your logic and tell them how you felt when they were away. Your partner may appreciate that you missed them but your tone and body language could also tell them they are going to have trouble with you in the near future.

It's good to be in love but keep in mind the best way to destroy a relationship is to smother it. If your dating partner has strong feelings for you and vice versa enjoy it while giving the relationship space and time to blossom. That space and time will also help you from driving yourself crazy.

Make Him Play Right Into Your Hands

Some believe there's a game out there. They think that men are playing games and often we hear both sexes say, "I'm not into playing games."

Give me a break.

Life is a game. When you do what works, you win. When you don't, you lose. It's that simple.

Now, when I talk about playing, I don't mean coming at it from a selfish or malicious point of view. I mean, having the kind of bombshell self respect that will naturally trigger feelings of intense attraction in men.

You shouldn't even start dating unless you can be the boss of you. Dating is not about trying to get men to do what you want by force...it is about doing the sort of things that will cause you to leverage a man's attention so that it works out for the both of you.

Think about this...if you are always available or sleep with a man within a short period of time, this will not trigger feelings of intense attraction within him. He will not have a chance to fall in love with you if he ALREADY has you.

Once you're conquered, he'll be bored and look for another challenge. This might sound harsh but plenty of women just don't get that want them to MAKE them want them. They use a man's attraction as a sign that he's wanting a relationship and give the poor guy a wedding even before he has a chance to really care. Good grief!

Make a man play into your hands by using the tools that he knows. Distance and resistance will cause a man to be hot on fire for you.

How to Know If He Really Loves You

The only thing that matter when it comes to flirting and seducing women is to make them ENJOY your company. One key ingredient in the whole mix is humor - if you can make her feel happy and laugh at your jokes, you are well on your way into her panties.

This might sound straightforward enough, but the reality is that most men just totally FAIL at this. They come across as totally uninteresting and highly predictable. Avoid making this mistake - read on to discover the three surefire ways to flirt with females and win her over - via 'brute force' if necessary...

3 "Brute Force" Ways To Flirt With Women - And Make Them Absolutely Love You

Tactic Number One - "The Cocky Challenger". Here's a fact - for some reason, women like cocky men. The funny thing is that the more challenging a man gets, the more irresistible he becomes. So how do you use this to your advantage? Simple. Whenever she tries to come close - push her away. You will soon find out that the harder you push her away, the more she wants to come closer!

Tactic Number Two - "Ups And Downs". First, give her heaps of attention, and be extra nice to her. Then, without warning of any sort, completely ignore her. The name of the game is 'confusion'. Keep her guessing of your intentions, and she will be captivated.

Tactic Number Three - "Fractionation". This is a technique lifted from hypnosis and psychology which involves bringing a woman (in a conversation) through an emotional rollercoaster. It is said to be able to make a woman want to sleep with a man in as little as 15 minutes. Highly controversial stuff.

Three "Brute Force" Ways to Win a Girl Over

The only thing that matter when it comes to flirting and seducing women is to make them ENJOY your company. One key ingredient in the whole mix is humor - if you can make her feel happy and laugh at your jokes, you are well on your way into her panties.

This might sound straightforward enough, but the reality is that most men just totally FAIL at this. They come across as totally uninteresting and highly predictable. Avoid making this mistake - read on to discover the three surefire ways to flirt with females and win her over - via 'brute force' if necessary...

3 "Brute Force" Ways To Flirt With Women - And Make Them Absolutely Love You

Tactic Number One - "The Cocky Challenger". Here's a fact - for some reason, women like cocky men. The funny thing is that the more challenging a man gets, the more irresistible he becomes. So how do you use this to your advantage? Simple. Whenever she tries to come close - push her away. You will soon find out that the harder you push her away, the more she wants to come closer!

Tactic Number Two - "Ups And Downs". First, give her heaps of attention, and be extra nice to her. Then, without warning of any sort, completely ignore her. The name of the game is 'confusion'. Keep her guessing of your intentions, and she will be captivated.

Tactic Number Three - "Fractionation". This is a technique lifted from hypnosis and psychology which involves bringing a woman (in a conversation) through an emotional rollercoaster. It is said to be able to make a woman want to sleep with a man in as little as 15 minutes. Highly controversial stuff.

3 Signs That a Girl Likes You - Undisputed Effective Ways to Know Whether She Likes You Or Not

It is often difficult to tell when a girl really likes you. Although the signs can be hard to decipher, there are a few cues that should lead you to the conclusion that the girl you are interested in, is also interested in you....

Direct Eye Contact - If a girl looks directly into your eyes when you talk to her there is a good chance that she likes you. If she holds the contact for a longer than normal period after you have stopped talking, she likes you even more! Even in the animal kingdom, eye contact (or lack of it) is very telling in mating rituals. In humans, if the girl does NOT hold eye contact and instead is looking off elsewhere constantly when you are talking there is a good chance that this girl is not quite captivated by you (at least not yet!).

Body Language - If the girl you are interested in has her body faced in your directly; in other words, her shoulders and upper torso are pointing in your direction, this is an indication that she is probably attracted to you.

Laughter - If a girl laughs at your jokes, no matter how lame they are, then she is most likely very interested in you. She may be laughing not even intentionally at your jokes to make you feel good, but is instead responding to her own positive feelings. When someone is happy and in a good mood, their ability to laugh and find fun in the simple things you say will prove that she is enjoying you as well as your attempts at humor.

If you see any of the previous three signs, it is likely that the girl you are seeking, is trying to match up with you as well.