Seducing Older Women - A Simple Guide

Seducing Older Women - A Guide For The Average Joe

OK you all know you've thought about seducing older women before. Be it your hot neighbor next door, or your friends mom who you think has a thing for you. Don't worry you are not alone. In fact some 99% of men have thought about seducing an older woman but only the brave, insane or Brad Pitt look-a-likes seem to act on it.

The truth is though that it is not that difficult to achieve. When it comes to seducing older women you should forget that you looks are worse than those of Napolean Dynamite and focus more on promoting your suave, mature personality.

But I don't have a suave, mature personality I hear you say. Don't worry help is at hand

Seducing Older Women Isn't As Hard As You Think

The first thing you need to remember when seducing older women is that you shouldn't be acting like you do when you are trying to attract the attentions of a woman your own age. No, I'm afraid that when seducing older women, sniffing 3 shots of vodka up your nose before puking on the dancefloor simply won't cut it.

You need to get to know the woman first, if it's your friends mom (god forbid) then why not start turning up at her house when you know he's out. Before you know it you will be offered a coffee. Offer to do some odd jobs for her around the house. Be the perfect gentlemen.

Remember - Seducing Older Women Can Be A Real Thrill - But If You Do it Wrong It Can Really Damage Your Ego

Hint to her that you are not really interested in the immature antics of girls your age, you need a more refined woman, a more mature woman.

That will show your interest and I'm sure she will be thinking about what you said after you have gone. Whatever you do, never point out her flaws. Don't strike up a conversation about her age, don't ask her how she gets rid of cellulite and under no circumstances should you ever mention the strands of gray hair starting to emerge from her head.

The Hierarchy of Attraction - The Ranking of Qualities That Attract Women

In a previous article, I stated that confidence is the biggest source of attraction for women. I had numerous emails in subsequent weeks asking me to detail what other factors make up the attraction matrix. In order to fully illustrate this hierarchy, I will explain each characteristic by example.

Here goes...

• Looks are more important than money. An attractive, handsome poor man will, all other things being equal, attract more women than an ugly rich man


• Status is more important than looks. An ugly dj who is the resident dj of a major club will, all other things being equal, attract more women than an attractive man who does not have that kind of visible position


• Power is more important than status. A (non famous) dj with a label deal will, all other things being equal, attract more women than a dj who is merely a resident dj at a local nightclub


• Personality is more important than power. A dj with a good, fun personality who is a resident in a local night club, will all other things being equal, attract more women than a (non famous) boring, no-personality dj with a major label


• Confidence is more important than personality. A confident, aggressive man with a good personality will, all other things being equal, attract more women than a fun, humorous man with little confidence- those guys are called clowns

Important note: There is an X-Factor in all of this which trumps all of the previous characteristics- FAME. A famous artist, musician, athlete, politician, world leader, or whoever will be instantly attractive to tons of women without having to do a single iota of effort. They can be dull, boring, meek, ugly and with low self-esteem but they will still be able to date tons of women. Fame is truly the biggest aphrodisiac, but so few people have it, that it is not worth examining. Hence, for 99.9% of the male population, confidence is the biggest attractive characteristic for women.

Recap: Confidence beats personality which beats power which beats status which beats looks which beats money.

Conclusion? Guys focus on developing your confidence and personality and less on making money solely as a way to attract women. Rich guys who dump money on women have lots of attractive women in their company, but those women are almost always just using them for their money and have no attraction for them at all. Don't focus your energy on buying a woman's false affection, become the kind of man who women fall in love with just because of who they are.

Dating Tips For Men - What Does a Women Find Attractive in a Man!

Have you ever noticed that very attractive women are not interested in nice man but are attracted to Bad Boys? Do you have attractive women friends that just want to be friends with you?

I have and I got sick of this response.

Most men never really explore this question and act far too nice. Most men try to please the women by asking out for dinner and give flowers etc. Most men are very needy around a women and want love and sex.

They felt they were not really loved from mum and so are needy in wanting a women to love them so they can feel good about themselves. They are looking for a mum to overcome a lack of love early in life.

Women really want a challenge and not a wuss. They love a very confident, sexy man that knows he can attract any women with no effort.

Attraction comes from a deep gut level which is not logical. And being nice to a women does not make a women attracted to you.

I found this hard to understand at first as this has no logic. Once I got over being nice and pleasing, I found women much more interested in me. I more I stopped trying to please and be always available the more the women became interested.

If a women is not attracted to me after a first contact I do not try to get her to change her mind. I just say next and move on. It is very hard to change a women's opinion if she just wants to be friends. Easier to move on than waste a lot of time.

Just go on a good Internet dating site and you can date as many women as you want. Place a good photo of you smiling and make a funny, cocky profile.

Most men's profile are very boring so do something a bit in your face and different. I like to say on my profile that women with emotional problems, sexual hang-ups please do not contact me. This gives the impression that I am not needy and selective. Women love this.

There is an abundance of women looking for men. Dating a few women at once gives you a good state of mind that if one women is not what you want you can easily move on. The more I can be indifferent to women the more they get attracted.

If you have a problem about approaching attractive women just set a task of walking up to then again and again till you could not care less how they will respond. Once you get to this level they will start to respond. Funny hey.

Yes it is scary at first to do this but why give you power to women! Why be scared of attractive women for the rest of your life.

Is it not time to grow up and be a man!

Life After Being Dumped

Just been through a very bad breakup? Accusing fingers flying through the air. You ex seriously thinks that you are problematic. You think he or she has terrible issues they are unwilling to deal with. Your friends think that your relationship was never strong enough and you were never meant to be. You sulk all day or cry from shoulder to shoulder. You play your favourite kinds of music to soothe your self but instead, you end up bursting in tears. No one seems to be able to help...!

Don't over burden your self with problems. Let go of the problem and move on. You can only do that by sorting out and letting go of your past. Don't be some one with unsorted issues! It is not healthy or attractive in any one at all! Start on a fresh page and always try to be a better person. You will be greatly rewarded in the long run. Clear the air within you and allow your self to heal. Sounds clichéd but, time does heal wounds! Certain elements in life happen in mysterious ways.

Tell your self that you are not stupid but, you are a smart person and soon, some one who really deserves you would come along and see all the great qualities about you and would go out with you. Oh no! You won't blow it this time because you know what? You are much stringer and wiser this time and you are well aware of certain things that could have negative effects on your new relationship and you have worked with it in order to improve your self. Go out and socialize and remember, you truly deserve to be happy so, don't hold back from a having great time.

Improve on your self and the things that you do. You could upgrade he way you dress or appear as long as it is still you or what you want to be. Work on certain aspects that needs attention in your life- you are always impatient? Work on being more patience! You find it hard to stick to time? Do some thing about it! You do not have enough tolerance? Put in more effort to be more tolerant and be more likable. This little giants will make you forget al your sorrows almost quickly and you will emerge the winner in almost every thing you do. Try to improve the quality of your life.

Dating Tips - How to Date a Beautiful Woman Part 1

Many men gawk at the site of a beautiful woman but would never attempt to approach her. Others walk right up to her and give it a shot. Which one are you? There are ways to approach a woman, from a woman's perspective which is far more important than any man's perspective. Striking up a conversation with a hottie is one thing, dating a beautiful woman is an entirely different game.

How to approach a beautiful woman?

• Watch her for a little while.


• Read her body language, her facial expressions.


• See how she looks at others around her.

It is important to watch her, not stalk, not gawk. Does she appear to be in a good and happy mood? Don't approach a woman that looks angry, chances are you'll get the cold shoulder. If she is beautiful, chances are someone is going to approach her...what is her reaction?

Reading her body language is like having a conversation without words. Pay attention to her facial expressions. Does she seem friendly; is she smiling? Does she look tense, nervous? Is she pleased or does she roll her eyes when someone approaches her?

The way she looks at others is also an important sign. Does she look judgmentally at others? Does she appear to be looking in a particular direction (other than yours) for a while? That could mean she has her eye on someone that interests her. And this could also mean you being rejected.

In all honesty, beautiful women do not always have a date or a boyfriend. Men that really interest a beautiful woman rarely approach her, they are usually afraid of being rejected. It takes a special man to date a beautiful woman:

• He has to believe in himself, as there will be a lot of competition from other men.


• He has to have a sense of humor; there isn't a woman that doesn't like to laugh.


• Being successful, career-wise, won't hurt; having a regular job is ok too.


• He must be charming, polite and know how to hold a conversation; no one likes an ass.


• Appearance is very important; you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or have his bank account either (although that would probably help), just be appropriately dressed and clean.