Dating Tips For Men - What is Her Problem?

From where you sit everything looks okay. You more often than not have a blast every time you and your girlfriend get together. The relationship in your opinion is hitting on all cylinders. So it's understandable that you just don't get it. You have done everything within your power to please your date and she is still not happy. That's not to say she is miserable all the time. The two of you are still together. You like her and she has on more than a few occasions expressed her feeling towards you.

But there are some things men do that really grate on women (no kidding right?). It's not that these things cause women to end the relationship immediately. They may suffer through it silently, give you some subtle or not so subtle hints as to the nature of the problem or state it outright but for whatever reason it is just not registering with you. It could be that whole men are from Mars, women are from Venus thing. We have all heard the rumors.

Still there are a few things you need to be careful about when it comes to your dating relationship.

1. Showing Off

Very few people enjoy being around a braggart. Sure it's okay to talk about the incredibly good things going on in your life. But many times the conversation can be about what's going on in her life and yet you still find a way to turn the discussion back towards you.

May be you don't say much of anything but when you go out, your date catches you strutting like a peacock. You are just too cool for words. Women are very good at noticing things and reading body language is one of them.

2. Chivalry On Life Support

It's a new era as far as many of us are concerned. If women want to be treated as equals that's okay with you but it's not all gravy so they have to learn to take the good with the bad when it comes to equal treatment.

Scores of men miss the point about this. Women have always wanted to be treated as equals but that does not mean you stop treating them like ladies. In quite a few surveys women mention things like opening doors for them, helping them on with their coats or when walking together making sure she walks to the inside. They are such little tidbits that it's no big deal one way or another. Right?

Wrong. The fact that women talk about these things means that they are a big deal. Besides if acting like a gentleman can score you bonus points with your girlfriend then do it.

3. You Were Listening. Sort of.

This is the one that probably does it for women more than showing off and lack of chivalry. Mainly because it sends out a couple of unmistakable signals: One is you have no respect for what she has to say and two, she is really not worth listening to. You may not mean any of those things but that is how it is coming across. If you want to put the future of your relationship in jeopardy then this is the way to do it.

We are who we are and there are some women who hold the flawed notion that they can change the man they are with so as to make him more suitable to their taste. That of course is a blueprint for trouble. But there is nothing wrong with practicing a little humility, good manners and better listening skills. Making her happy by doing the little things can only be to your benefit.

Dating Tips For Men - What is Her Problem?

From where you sit everything looks okay. You more often than not have a blast every time you and your girlfriend get together. The relationship in your opinion is hitting on all cylinders. So it's understandable that you just don't get it. You have done everything within your power to please your date and she is still not happy. That's not to say she is miserable all the time. The two of you are still together. You like her and she has on more than a few occasions expressed her feeling towards you.

But there are some things men do that really grate on women (no kidding right?). It's not that these things cause women to end the relationship immediately. They may suffer through it silently, give you some subtle or not so subtle hints as to the nature of the problem or state it outright but for whatever reason it is just not registering with you. It could be that whole men are from Mars, women are from Venus thing. We have all heard the rumors.

Still there are a few things you need to be careful about when it comes to your dating relationship.

1. Showing Off

Very few people enjoy being around a braggart. Sure it's okay to talk about the incredibly good things going on in your life. But many times the conversation can be about what's going on in her life and yet you still find a way to turn the discussion back towards you.

May be you don't say much of anything but when you go out, your date catches you strutting like a peacock. You are just too cool for words. Women are very good at noticing things and reading body language is one of them.

2. Chivalry On Life Support

It's a new era as far as many of us are concerned. If women want to be treated as equals that's okay with you but it's not all gravy so they have to learn to take the good with the bad when it comes to equal treatment.

Scores of men miss the point about this. Women have always wanted to be treated as equals but that does not mean you stop treating them like ladies. In quite a few surveys women mention things like opening doors for them, helping them on with their coats or when walking together making sure she walks to the inside. They are such little tidbits that it's no big deal one way or another. Right?

Wrong. The fact that women talk about these things means that they are a big deal. Besides if acting like a gentleman can score you bonus points with your girlfriend then do it.

3. You Were Listening. Sort of.

This is the one that probably does it for women more than showing off and lack of chivalry. Mainly because it sends out a couple of unmistakable signals: One is you have no respect for what she has to say and two, she is really not worth listening to. You may not mean any of those things but that is how it is coming across. If you want to put the future of your relationship in jeopardy then this is the way to do it.

We are who we are and there are some women who hold the flawed notion that they can change the man they are with so as to make him more suitable to their taste. That of course is a blueprint for trouble. But there is nothing wrong with practicing a little humility, good manners and better listening skills. Making her happy by doing the little things can only be to your benefit.

How to Impress a Woman - 2 Killer Tips You Must Know Right Now

Imagine seeing a beautiful woman walking across the street. How do you feel? Do you get the urge of going over to approach her, but at the same time you feel nervous? If you do, then you are a fully functional male! This happens to most men at one point or the other - but the bad thing is that most men do not get over this nervousness and anxiety. They do not know exactly what the problem is - and the truth is that unless you know what the problem is you won't get any better. Read on to discover the secrets on how to impress women - and get super amazing results right off the bat...

How To Impress A Woman - 2 Killer Tips You Must Know Right Now

Tip #1: "The Differentiating Factor". The biggest mistake that any man can make in dating women is to think that in order to impress women, they will need to be better than other man. That's wrong, plain and simple. You really do not need to be better - you just need to be DIFFERENT.

When women see something new and different, they will naturally be curious. Taking this further, if you are able to bring women through a new and unique experience, then they will be impressed with you easily.

Tip #2: "Hypnosis / Fractionation". Expert seducers have been using hypnosis techniques to impress women and make them fall in love super quickly. The fact is that hypnosis remains a super powerful seduction technique - although its usage has been very controversial.

Fractionation is a hypnosis technique which is purportedly able to make a woman want to sleep with a man very quickly (in less than 15 minutes). It involves bringing a woman through an emotional roller coaster, and in the process make her emotionally 'dependent' on you.

Online Dating Tips - What Your Conversation May Be Telling Your Dating Partner

In the offline world it's not really a bad thing as far as you are concerned. Your friends know that once you get going it's hard for you to stop. You talk about your interests, likes, dislikes, what you saw, what you wish to see and so forth with such gusto and passion that at times it appears to lift anyone's spirit who happens to be within earshot.

Yet that same enthusiasm does not appear to be translating well in the world of on line dating. Every potential relationship has always ended rather quickly. As far as you know you have polite and thoughtful.

The problem is if a discussion with your dating partners mostly or always swings back in your direction than it may be telling them something you are not aware of. Whether it turns out to be true or not, it is hard to shake an initial impression of someone. Instead of coming across as passionate, it may be telling your cyber date:

1. Conversation Domination

Online or off there are few things worse than dating someone who will not let you get a word in edgewise. They even tend to dismiss what the other person typed in an online chat. If they do notice, it's only to take a small portion of what they said and swing the conversation back to their vantage point. It's bad enough that they are not really paying attention; it gets even worse when they take what the other person says out of context.

2. Lack of Respect

Simply put you are telling your online dating partner that what they have to say is not all that important. In fact it's just background noise. Since you are hogging the conversation and in essence dismissing their input that is a red flag to tell them you would have no problem doing the same thing when the two of you met face to face.

3. Self Centered

If it is all about you in cyberspace than it must really be all about you in the offline world. In poll after poll; one of the things that always makes the top five list when it comes to dating turnoffs is arrogance. Chatting with you may give the other person the impression that you are not looking for a date so much as you want a servant to cater to your every whim.

4. Control Freak

If it strikes your dating partner that you must hog the conversation; than they may start to think that it probably does not stop there. One of the signs of a control freak is not just the conversation domination but that everything must be exactly their way. This might not be true for you but your dating partner does not really have anything else to go on.

You are a good person. People that come into contact with you know it now it's time for the folks in cyber space to find out. Keep your passion and enthusiasm but do not be afraid to set it aside from time to time so you can make way for your online dating partner along with their passion and enthusiasm.

What Women Want - Less Important Than You Might Think

You can determine what women want in a man by examining which men are successful with women, rather than which men women claim they prefer. Actions speak louder than words, after all.

Essentially, there are two main groups of men when it comes to dating and relationship success...

Roughly 85% of the men who date don't do very well at it and the other 15% make out pretty well most of the time.

The exact percentages over specific population segments might be higher or lower, but the fact remains that some guys seem to excel with women while most others struggle at it.

One of the most useful exercises for learning how to do better is to watch how each of those two groups approaches dating and then notice the patterns which are common to one group but rare in the other.

• A regular pattern amongst guys who excel might be worth adopting, especially if it's rare with guys who struggle.


• And if there's a pattern common to guys who struggle but rare with guys who excel, there's a good possibility that this behavior might be worth eliminating.

One of the most pronounced differences we've seen between guys who struggle with women and guys who excel with women is that the guys who struggle with women tend to focus obsessively on figuring out what the women they're dating (or the woman they hope to date) want ... and then to give her everything she wants.

The entire focus (his and hers) is on that woman and making her happy.

Not surprisingly, he'll end up feeling miserable. Why? Because he'll probably be doing "all giving" and "no getting."

If your sole pleasure in life is being used by women, that's the formula for achieving your goal of having a one-way relationship ... from you to her.

But if you're like most guys and would like some affection, sex, and even some appreciation now and then, you won't get it by being her unpaid personal valet.

Women don't respect servants ... they respect men they can't wrap around their little fingers. And women don't get hot for men they don't respect.

• If your goal is to be used by women, then hang on her every word and satisfy her every want, but


• If your goal is to be treated well by women (both in and out of the bedroom), then also focus on what you want and expect that your needs be accommodated as well ...

In other words, the guys who get laid a lot are usually the guys who focus on getting laid a lot. The guys who end up being servants are usually the guys who focus on being servants

If you focus solely on what women want and their needs, she'll serve up more wants and needs to you - endlessly!

There's nothing wrong with meeting some of the wants and needs of a woman if she's doing the same for you.

Don't settle for less than that. What women want is not the only thing!