3 Tips to Supercharge Your Confidence to Approach Women

Confidence. Chicks dig it, right? Of course they do. I'm pretty sure you know that women are wildly attracted to men who display confidence. That goes without saying. But, what if you don't have the confidence you need to approach a woman you're attracted to? That's when it gets tricky.

All of these people are telling you that you need confidence. But, no one seems to be telling you how to get it. Many of my female friends say that I have A LOT of it. It's borderline cockiness. But, I'm not jerk. It's a fine line that, when walked right, can lead to many successful interactions with the opposite sex.

So, enough talk! Would you like to learn a few of my tips for gaining confidence to approach women?

Good! Let's begin:

1. Practice approaching women in casual situations.

Reading a book or listening to someone stage talk to you about approaching women is a great idea. But, that knowledge is useless unless you do something with it. But, of course, I'm sure you don't want to approach a women without the confidence you need.

So, how do you get it? Well, approaching women in casual situations is a fantastic start. But, let's go a step further. Start approaching women you're not attracted to in these same casual situations. I'm not saying you should start flirting with water buffaloes. But look for women that ordinarily would not have caught your eye.

What's the point of this? To get you in the habit of interacting with women, period. Chances are, if you don't converse with women you are attracted to, you don't converse much with those you are not. Either way, this makes for good practice.

2. Remove all expectations from the encounter.

After you've practiced approaching women you're not really attracted to, there's going to come a point in time where you will have to step things up a notch. It's just like weightlifting. After you can easily bench 200 pounds, it's time to move on. Otherwise, you won't improve.

So, what's the first thing that you can do now that you're approaching women you're attracted to? Remove all expectations you have before going up to her. What do I mean? Well, one of the reasons that most men don't approach women is because they have a fear what she will say or do. Namely, turn them down.

Men fear this because they approach the situation with expectations. Instead of doing that, try not to expect anything from her. You're simply speaking to a female. Nothing more, nothing less.

3. Use a "contextual opener."

We've all heard the phrase: "taking things out of context." I'm sure you hate when someone does that to you. Now, imagine how women must feel when we say things that are completely "out of context" when we approach them. If you're confident enough to go up to a woman and just say: "hi, my name is such and such. I wanted to come over and speak" then my all means, go for it.

However, if you're not there yet (and that's okay) then you need to put your approach into context. You can do this by pointing out something that's relevant to her at that very moment. Use that to segue into a conversation.

For instance, if the woman you want to approach has a weird look on her face, ask her why she looks like she just ate brussels sprouts. Most women I've done this too are very receptive to it. And chances are, they will appreciate the humor.

That's it! Not hard stuff at all. So, let's recap. To build up your confidence to approach women, use these three tips: start approaching women you're not attracted to in order to get some practice, remove all expectations from the counter, and use a contextual opener to easily segue into a dialog. Incorporate these tips and your confidence will immediately begin to change for the better.