5 Tips to a Successful Relationship

Everyone wants that perfect relationship, right. Well, I am not going to sit here and tell you that relationships are easy and that you do not have to work at them to make them successful, because you do. But there are some fundamental building blocks that can help ensure that your relationship is healthy and that you will have someone special to share your life with you.

1. The first and most important thing you need to do in a relationship is listen to each other. It is very easy to get distracted and caught up with everyday life, but make sure that you are leaving time to relax with your partner and you are giving them the attention that they deserve. Listen and be interested in what they have to say. It will be one of the best parts of the day.

2. One simple word, Trust. You have to be able to trust each other. If there is no trust in a relationship then there can not be a relationship. If you do not trust your partner then it will lead to negative feelings being held inside which will escalate and eventually rupture. Now do not get confused between jealousy and trust. Jealousy is not a lack of trust. A small amount of jealousy is healthy and shows your partner that you still care and are protective of them.

3. Don't be afraid to pay a compliment. Take the time to notice your partner. One of the most common mistakes is to notice them, but then nothing is ever said about it. You have to let them know what you are thinking. If she walks through the door and you are taken back, then mention how beautiful she looks. And ladies, if he puts on that shirt you like so much, tell him you especially like the way it looks on him. Small compliments go a long way in a successful relationship.

4. Communication. You absolutely have to communicate with your partner. Don't be afraid to say what is on your mind. Especially if an argument in sues, and yes, there are arguments in successful relationships. Be open and express your feelings. Never turn your back, walk away, or go to bed angry. Resolve the conflict with communication and mutual understanding. There is a solution, find it together. Besides, making up can be very pleasurable.

5. Surprise. That's right. Surprise them with anything spontaneous. For example, come home from work with flowers or send something special to the office. Another great surprise is to get up from the bed a little early and put a nice note on the bathroom mirror. Just be sure to use a dry erase marker so that it can be wiped off. A surprise does not have to be big or expensive, but it will definitely make their day.

So there you have it, five simple tips to a healthy successful relationship. Try them out and I am sure you will be rewarded in more than one way.