How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams - 3 Astonishing Keys to Getting Her to Like You Instantly!

Obviously there is something about this girl; she's not overly open, but you want her to be. It's hard to do anything with someone who has walls up at every corner; you are always feeling lost and confused. She has her walls up for her own protection, and a lot of girls just want to see if you can climb them, go the limits; and some other girls are just shy. Whatever the girl, she's still as closed as the curtains of a play after the show. Here's how to get in on the show before the curtains are closed, and see behind the scenes with a girl:

Compliment her- the best way to win anyone over is to immediately compliment them! Find anything; this is how sales people work, this is how business interactions work, and same in the dating world; showing them you appreciate qualities in them boosts them up to be more able to do what you want. You want her to be open, compliment the things you know so far, and even things she didn't think you knew. Tell her talents- make it go beyond her physical appearance, she will be surprised and honored at the same time; and will be more likely to open up as she sees now you are worthy, and like to do your research.

Don't be predictable- obviously there are plenty of fish in the sea- however they all tend to be the same species and have all the same habits. She wants something different, she has the wall up for a reason, she's afraid of being let down, and getting the typical stereotypes. Don't treat her like every other person does. Surprising her is best- with many ways; ways she didn't expect- you don't have to be a romantic, you just need to present new interesting things, that she didn't see coming; but will love; you don't have to know her to know what she does- so once you know what she does go from there.

Don't talk cheap- cheap talk is the kind that is all about you, what you make and how great you are in bed. It will be seen as badly exaggerated in her mind; and it's exasperating to her. This doesn't mean that you have to concentrate entirely on her- just don't bring work home, stop bringing up yourself every second- obviously you have intentions for yourself. Talk about intentions that will involve both of you; if you feel you are coming on too fast and she is getting afraid; then do it subtly with hints. Also don't apologize for suggesting the things you will- as long as they are in the boundaries (as in not abrupt sudden talk about sex); she will see it as a weakness, and you are merely pointing out your intentions, which is nothing to be ashamed of or sorry for.