Positivity Attitude For Meeting and Attracting Women

Do you want the secret to success with beautiful women?

Do you want to know a way to never get blown out when you approach a hot woman?

Do you want the key to being a 'natural' with women?

The answer to these questions is that there is no BIG secret to become really good with women...it's as simple as having a POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

The 3 reasons why Positive Attitude is SO important in this game:

1) It's attractive to women.

2) It helps you deal with all the bull shit that you have to go through to get 'GOOD'.

3) It motivates you to succeed.

When you start off learning 'game' you might spend 90% of your time on material: memorizing techniques, learning lines, reading 'how to' guides, studying social psychology, etc, but after a while these parts of your game become somewhat automatic. Basically any person who can read a book can learn the techniques of 'pick up' game.

At some point in your quest to become 'good with women', you will realize that you could read yourself to death and still not get results. At this point it becomes apparent that elements of your core self such as attitude, confidence, presence, hard work, self-esteem etc will comprise the majority of your results with women.

These elements take a lot more hard work to change. A Positive Attitude will help you tackle the many obstacles you will face, keep your morale up, and motivate you during the process of change.

So the 2 main elements to getting 'good' are POSITIVE ATTITUDE and TAKING ACTION (going out, meeting women, dating, having sex etc.)

You must realize that forming a great attitude takes a long time in itself and is a continual process. Not only will having this mind frame help you take action, but it will lead to actual success, further reinforcing in your mind that you are good with women.

Guys who are willing to change their mindset over time will change who they are at a CORE level, and eventually results will simply fall into their laps!

To start developing a Positive Attitude you need to get into the mindset of others who understand the power of positive thinking. You must constantly expose yourself to this form of thought until it becomes a part of who you are.

Here are a few "classic" books on this subject to start you off with:

Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Awaken the Giant Within - Anthony Robbins

A Positive Attitude will give you success in your journey towards being an attractive man, and will also help in the actual act of picking up women:

One thing that you can do right away is start smiling a lot, especially when you are trying to meet women. Always smile when you are out at a bar, club, or even on the street picking up women.
Try a little social experiment: when you go out to a bar next notice which guys appear more attractive to women. You'll notice that these men are not always the guys who are more physically attractive, but the guys who seem to exude confidence and have lots of positive attitude. These are the guys who will be smiling, laughing, having fun and enjoying their surroundings.

Next, adopt this attitude at all times and get out there and SMILE.

A good way to do this is to think of the funniest thing you can think of on the spot, or just joke around with your buddies to get into a laughing mood. Now walk around smiling and smile every time you approach a woman. It's simple and extremely attractive. This will make every aspect of your game easier.

Recently I took a friend out to show the 'ropes' of the pick up game. He already had been going out regularly to meet women, but knew there was something wrong with what he was doing, but couldn't pin point it. He got blown out pretty hard in his first couple encounters that night. I asked him how he thought it went and he was really hard on himself.

At that point I merely coached him a little, made him laugh, then told him to SMILE constantly. He approached his next group of women smiling and it went well, which further upped his game throughout the night. While he didn't suddenly transform into a Casanova, It's funny how something as simple as a SMILE and attitude adjustment upped his game 10 fold.

A positive attitude is the difference between someone who is just going through the motions of the game and the guys who will WIN in LIFE. These are the men who actually have lots of sex with women. The guys who come off natural and have a constant flood of women in their lives.

This fundamental attitude has been the factor that has lead to the majority of my success with women. Not just any women, but hot, smart, funny, HIGH QUALITY women!

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Disclaimer--

Do I walk around all 'happy go lucky' with a big fat grin on my face ALL the time? Not at all. But I do have a slightly more positive outlook on life than a negative outlook. My overall frame towards women is that they are cute, friendly and want to meet me.

Also, I constantly work on developing and maintaining this attitude. This attitude does not come natural for a lot of us. Read inspirational stories, self improvement, surround yourself with like minded people, think happy thoughts, and live a positive life!

This attitude leads to greatness in all facets of your life.

Most importantly, to really get good you not only have to have the right POSITIVE ATTITUDE, but you have to TAKE ACTION.