How to Make Him Want You - Don't Chase Him - Let Him Come After You

Some people go on the contrary, and this article is just the one to deal with such people. You thought that if you want him first, he would want you next, didn't you? Well, it doesn't work like this for some guys. You got to appear to be 'cool' in order to catch his attention. That is how to make him want you.

But first, you better get some things straight. You need to understand a little on the kind of guy you want to attract. Do you think he will go contrary? Read on only if you think so. You don't want to sabotage yourself.

Here are ways on how to make him want you:

1. Find out what kind of girls he date

2. Check how well you fit in and where you stand out

3. Prepare for a little makeover

4. Wait for him to come

Of course if you want to make him come to you, you got to do a little work, unless you already know, such as, what are the kind of girls he date. Surely you will notice something in common among the girls.

Next, check how well you fit in with that description and where you stand out. The parts which are compatible with you could mean that you could be a girl that he dates. The parts where you don't fit in could be your unique points; that make for why he should want to date you, among others.

As for the makeover, do so only in areas that you are comfortable in. You should not have to force yourself. That would be silly and it certainly would not last. Makeover yourself only in areas that you are willing and therefore, believe in!

In getting on with how to make him want you, you should know that this process is not meant to be rushed, unless you are sure of what you are doing. Remember, it is how to make him want you, not how to go after him and letting him know it. If this is a contrary guy, that could be embarrassing. By now of course, you should be comfortable with the idea of being together with this kind of guy. It is your choice.

When you have done your part, you just let him know and look forward to your presence. This is the easy part. Smile when you see him and strike up a light conversation when possible. The point is, to let him look forward to your presence.

 Find out the kind of girl he dates. Be one of them plus add something else of your own so that you stand out. You aren't really 'adding' anything as it should be something that is already you. Improvise on areas that you are comfortable in and when you are ready, let him feel and look forward to your presence.