On a First Date

A good impression on the first date may lead to second date. On first date, one need to know each other on the surface and a little below. Never ask too private or too controversial questions. Be polite, graceful and well mannered; one must know the right time to speak and right time to listen. On your first date you can talk about different topics such as:

Favorite Food: Everyone has some favorite dishes so this topic can not be wrong. Discussing this topic will let you know that whether she loves to cook and prefers home made food or loves to go out. You might come to know that your date is a good cook or even don't know how to boil an egg.

Music: Music is a great topic to start with. Almost everyone listens to the music so try to learn which types of songs your date likes. You can start by inquiring about bands, artists, songs and so on. This can be a good opening statement.

Hobbies: Ask about her hobbies and how she likes to spend her leisure time. This might give good idea that what type of person she is; a book worm or have daring nature. Through this you can easily find that your interests are similar or not for a good relationship.

Family: It is always good to ask about a family but try not to get too personal. This will show her interest in her family and you will know if her family has close family ties.

Places: This topic might be very interesting. If she likes traveling then you guys can share lots of experiences by asking lots of details from each other. From this you will know that what kind of climates she likes and what type of life she likes; a busy city, simplistic country life or blend of both.

Films: Films can create a healthy discussion from the kind of films and about particular actors. She might like to watch adventure or horror movies in contrast to romantic or funny films. This will help you to know which type of person you are dating with; the one who lives in fantasy or the one who loves to be live in reality.

Pets: Try to find out what type of pets she likes. Either she likes any or not. If she doesn't like dogs and you have many then you might have to face a problem.

Make a comfortable environment that puts your date at ease and don't let your anxiety approach you. Try to go slow and just don't ask dozens of questions at one go. It is not necessary to talk about all the topics mentioned above. Just go slow; let her talk and listen to her very carefully you might get another topic by listening to her. Just try to keep things simple.