6 Great Ways to Get Your Ex Back

1) Become confident and Strong

Do not show any weakness or negative emotion. If you show any signs of depression and drag your feet on the ground then no one is going to want to be around someone with such negative energy. Show confidence and be strong. This will give your Ex signs that you are stable and confident. And possibly get them the idea that you know they will come back to you. Keep yourself well dressed and have a good appearance about yourself. If you look good then you will feel good. So stay strong but do not get cocky and let your ego overtake your mindset. You want to be humble about this idea.

2) Keep Yourself Busy and Stay Flexible.

This is one of the best tricks to get your Ex back with you. This will also help your mind stay clear. Keep yourself busy and stay flexible. Sounds contradicting doesn't it? Well, there is a trick to this. When you keep yourself busy you doing are two things. Keeping yourself busy will help you keep your mind off any negative emotion you have about breaking up with your Ex and will stabilize your mood. However, you want to be flexible for you Ex. When your Ex notices you are busy and you happen to show them you will drop everything your doing to spend time with them is priceless. The fact that you made time for your Ex shows them how much you really care about them. This makes you look more sincere and will make your partner feel extremely special when they notice you have put a hold on everything just to spend time with them.

3) Minimize Contact for a Short Period

If you truly want your Ex back then you will probably call them 10 times a day and leave multiple voice mails on their phone. It's very tempting but do not do this! This will make you look desperate. As even if you tried to bring them back to your place and put your arm around your Ex will also make you look desperate. Breaking up is a phase that dramatically takes a huge toll on someone's emotions. So slowly work your way back into the whole contact stage. If you should call them do it once a day or once every few days to see how they are doing. If you should make physical contact give a soft kiss on the cheek and a gentle hug goodbye. If they make the first move of contact accept it mildly and don't push it too much. Give your Ex time to think but also let them know you are there when they need you. Remind them you still care and show them you are reliable if they should need to talk to you.

4) Good Memories are Everything

We all want to remember the good times in our lives. Do you remember your first date with your partner? Or the first time you revealed your love for them. These precious memories can be the key to mending a broken relationship. Take them out to the first restaurant you had dinner at, or a park where you had a romantic picnic. Try to sneak in the first romantic song you listened to with them. Find a picture of you two and frame it and put it somewhere so they can notice it. All this will show your Ex that you cherish the good memories and this will remind them why they fell in love with you in the first place. This phase will help bring back your Ex's true emotions for you and everything will start to come together.

5) Be More Involved with your Ex's Family and Friends

Yea, this sounds strange but its a big factor on getting your Ex to be back with you. This phase comes later in the process of winning your Ex back. Be more oriented and involved with your Ex's family and friends. Casually make a social event and invite everybody to come. You can even host a casual get together at your place or at a nice restaurant. If you need to find a reason just be casual and do it out of the kindness of your own heart. This will seem more genuine and sincere. Being flexible and having time to enjoy being around your Ex's family and friends is key. But, do not make your intentions obvious, which means keep conversations about your Ex to a minimum. If your Ex should come up in a conversation say only good things but be humble about it. Doing all this will give you points on getting your Ex back. Your Ex's friends and family will say so many good things about you.

6) Improve yourself, admit to mistakes, let them speak

This is pretty general here, obviously there was a reason on why your Ex left you. Show your Ex that you will change and become a better person. Admit to any mistake and promise them you will put in a lot of effort in improving your overall well being. If you need to see someone for advise or seek professional help do not be ashamed for that either. These are all just simple steps on creating a new relationship with your Ex that will be improved and less likely to fail again. And always listen to their feelings, let them speak, repeat what they say in your own words so they know you are listening and understand. Relationships have to go both ways but there is always an anchor and that sometimes has to be balanced out. If they are wrong about something do not point it out as much. Show them you can fix your own faults and they will surely eventually do the same for themselves.

If you truly cared about that person and would want to give it another chance then you should. It's better to try rather then give up and not try at all. So now that you've convinced yourself to give it another shot, you have to now convince them to give you another chance. So timing must be perfect and you must be patient as well. Let them slowly ease their way in back into your life. Do not rush things ever. Especially when you're trying to win your ex back. Keep simple contact, and wait for the opportunity to aspire.