Maybe He Loves You, Maybe He Doesn't

If you're a man's girlfriend, it doesn't necessarily mean's he's in love with you. A man can want a woman for a girlfriend just to have a companion and a regular sex partner.

There's are plenty of signs that your man might love you but the sure sign that he doesn't is if you have to wonder about it. If you've been trying to decode your man's behavior just to know whether he loves you, look at what he DOES and not at what he says.

Take a step back and be honest with yourself because when a man loves a woman, its way more than some nice little feelings of attraction fixated on your brain. He makes you FEEL him, deep inside of your heart. He will help you "get" him and he will cause you to know beyond a shadow of doubt that you're someone extremely special to him.

When he doesn't love you, you just don't "get" him. He wont move a mountain to be a part of your life and he wont be interested in anything but what he can get out of being with you. And this is precisely why many women train men the wrong way. They give men too much before a man has the time to really fall in love. It's like paying $100 for a $20 shirt.

Good grief.

Test your man's emotional intelligence by pulling back from him a bit to see if he misses YOU or he just misses sex. When he calls, just make him wait. Don't return his call for 24 hours. When you talk to him again, act as you've always been to him, be very happy and explain that you've been crazy busy. His response will help you know how he really feels about you.

There are so many other ways to know if your man's crazy about you. I've written about it in my ebook, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife.