The Rules of Attraction When Trying to Get a Man

When you're trying to get a man it's best to frame your thoughts and actions from a male perspective. If you know what draws and holds their attention you'll soon find yourself surrounded by attentive men.

Cleavage Counts

Men become fascinated with the female form at a very early age and one of the more obvious differences is we don't have breasts. It piques a curiosity that never ends.

What some women fail to embrace is our ability to find appreciation in all makes and models. It's a well developed trait past down for generations that's become more of a gift than a hindrance. Have you ever seen the movie "The Sixth Sense"?

We may not see dead people but we can find some breasts. Use our fascination to your advantage.

Think Sexy Not Slutty

Flash and trash may draw attention, garner some stares and advances, but when it's all said and done no one wants to bring home a prostitute for dinner.

Men picture you naked when you walk through the door. It's a natural reaction and not our fault. You only need a hint of sex to hold our glance. When you go overboard and dress inappropriately it sends signals that you're worth looking at but not worth pursuing.

Two Things That Drive Men Wild

High Heels. Men go crazy for heels. The next time you're in a room filled with men and you hear the "clickity-clack" of high heels approaching, take note of how many guys turn to look. The person wearing heels has every man's attention before she even walks in the room.

Glasses. For most men, an early crush is developed on one of their teachers. Whether or not she wears glasses doesn't matter. It's the notion of intelligence and glasses that recreate those early attractions.

If you don't usually wear glasses, throw on some flattering frames and notice the difference. You become a new person. A smart "teacher" kind of person and men love that.