Don't Be a Sugardaddy Gold Digger

There's a new kind of online dating phenomenon that has caught on like wild fire. They are called sugardaddy dating sites, or wealthy dating sites. But just how legit are these sites and why do people register? The reason people register with these wealthy dating sites is because they promise you will meet rich handsome men easily and you will live happily ever after. What's wrong with that? Nothing - if it's the real thing. Unfortunately there are a lot of scammers out there. First let me explain what a "sugardaddy" is. A sugardaddy is usually a middle aged very successful white businessman (he doesn't have to be Caucasian, but in general they tend to be) who is married and is looking to spoil a younger, beautiful woman by pampering her and buying her clothes. Lots of times they will pay their rent and utility bills and give them a monthly stipend.

Gold Diggers and Wannabe Sugardaddy

Unfortunately, men get on these wealthy dating sites pretending to be rich only to dupe the women into sleeping with them and then dumping them. Well, I say it serves these women right. Between the gold diggers online and the wannabe sugardaddies online, it's really hard to know when you are being scammed. That's why it is important to be successful yourself before you go on these types of wealthy dating sites. Stop looking for men to take care of you!

Have Some Self-Respect

First of all, it shows poor taste to go on one of these sites looking for handouts. Any man who is successful will not be attracted to a woman who cannot take care of herself. Men love confident women - women who can hold their own. The best way you can snag a sugardaddy is to be successful yourself. But you might argue, "Then what is the point of having a sugardaddy if I have to be successful too"? I say be really honest with yourself. To put it bluntly, you should not be looking to prostitute yourself and for you to think that a wealthy businessman who has worked all his life to become wealthy should just hand all of his cash over to you. Some women really believe that they are entitled to this. I used to get on these rich dating sites before I became a very successful internet business owner, looking for rich men to take care of me. But that is such a complete turn off to men and it made me lose respect for myself.

So How Do You Snag a Sugardaddy?

So what did I do? I became a very successful business owner myself. I can now afford to pamper myself. Yes, I'm on these wealthy dating sites but I'm on an even keel - I can hold my own. I'm not looking for a rich man to take care of me - rather, I seek an equal - someone who compliments me. It's alright to want to meet rich men and have them spoil you - but you have to be realistic, you have to have something going on for yourself, or you will not attract the sugardaddy of your dreams! Here are some valuable tips to snag a sugardaddy:

1. Get educated - get your college degree. There is nothing worse than an airhead. Rich men are intelligent and need mental stimulation.

2. Become current with worldly events - it makes for interesting conversation.

3. Never ever come across as expecting him to take care of you - he'll run in the opposite direction.

4. Most importantly, be a success yourself! Have your own successful business. This shows that you are ambitious and not looking for handouts.

That Which is Like Unto Itself Is Drawn

You can only attract that which you are! Be successful yourself - don't look for a man to take care of you. You owe it to yourself to be a successful woman. Once you've become a successful woman, you will attract a successful wealthy man, or, shall I say, a sugardaddy.