How to Tell If He Loves You - Seven Signs That Say Yes

Do you ever wonder if the guy you are dating is in love with you? Would you like to think of him being with you forever, but you can't tell where he is? There are certain signs that will let you know what he is thinking, what he is feeling, and where he is headed, before he ever says the words: I love you.

Warning signs: men who are abusers, or who are controlling, or who just want to get women into bed, will rush relationships, tell you they love you before they know you, shower you with gifts, and try to tie you down before you know him. You must be aware!

However...If you are dating a guy who has a good career, is known to keep his word, does not abuse alcohol or drugs, is a kind person, has good friends, and is not a player, then you can trust the following behaviors as being genuine:

Sign # 1 He isn't dating anyone else.

Is he in love with you? If your guy is not dating anyone else, and is completely captured by you, this speaks volumes. He would not give up dating other people if he did not feel that this relationship was going somewhere.

Sign # 2 He isn't LOOKING at anyone else.

When a guy only has eyes for you, and is not scanning the room for other women, he is captivated. If he is looking at other women, you need to have a conversation with him. Don't be coy or play games. Just let him know that you don't feel appreciated when he does that. If he cares, he will stop.

Sign # 3 He keeps in touch.

When he is in love, he wants to check in with you often. He calls, texts, and wants to know what you are doing. He likes to talk to you and share what he is doing, what he is thinking, and tell you that he misses you.

Sign # 4 He wants you to meet his family and friends.

If he loves you, he wants his family to meet you and for you to meet them. He wants to share how he feels with them. It's not a good sign if he doesn't want you to meet his family; it's even worse if he doesn't have any friends.

Sign # 5 He talks about the future.

If he loves you, he consciously or unconsciously thinks of you in his future. He talks about where he wants to live, where he wants to visit, and what he wants to do with his life. He looks to you for your agreement or opinions.

Sign # 6 He validates you...over and over.

Guys love women who they respect, admire, and want to tell their friends about. He is proud of you, tells you often what he sees in you that he loves, and compliments you all the time.

Sign # 7 He gives you gifts.

Love often shows up in tokens of affection, such as flowers, something you have admired, surprise dinners or trips, books, cards, or even a kitten. He has paid attention to what you like and he wants to please you. He also gives you the gift of affection by holding your hand, spontaneous kisses, hugs, and more.

These are seven signs of love. If your guy is known to be a good guy, and he is showing you these signs, he wants to be in your life in a sincere, serious way.