Relationship Break Up - Why First Relationships Usually Have a Break Up

Are you already scared of a break up after just falling in love for your first time or  you are just from swearing an oath of love for better or worst with your first love?Then this article is for you.

It is true most people when they get into their first relationship they become very attached and that most often result in many problems because of many different reasons.It might be due to immaturity of both partners,or inexperience in handling relationship issues like jealousy for example...What ever the case, it is a fact that most often, people in their  first relationship usually face a relationship break up problem of some kind.

I think it's only natural if it's your first relationship,  if you think about it you will also come to the conclusion that relationship is a learning experience. If you are in this for the first time and facing a relationship break up problem already I want you to know it is not your fault,you are not the first neither are you alone in the break up crises.

Now learning that it is not your fault,that you are not the first ,neither are you alone in this relationship crises does actually console you a beat but does not help solve the problem does it. Now lets look at how others handle such issues and what is the best way to deal with yours.

Some people who just got in to their first relationship handle the problems in a relationship so well you might think they had been in a relationship before or to a school of relationship studies.This most often are people who have already had an insight of relationship break up problems by learning from family members,friends or doing an intensive research or asking others before really starting to date.

How ever if you got in to your first relationship with just love and no preparation what so ever...may be because you had heard love will drive you through your problems to a better relationship. But that seems not to apply in your case.

Then this is what you should start doing today;

* Accepting that your partner is just a human like you who makes mistakes just like you do.

*Yeah it's usually a learning process and by making mistakes or having these break up problems you would  learn to love each other more and avoid the same mistakes in future.

*Since the  problems involves both of you,the success of  you both depends on  your communication skills and how well you know what you need.

However I am not saying you should go to the extent of risking your life for a joke who is very problematic and can not grow up.