What Not to Do on a Date

On a date, especially a first date there are many things that you should not do, making a great first impression is vital if you want the relationship to go further and you would like a second date.

Below are a few helpful points of things you should avoid doing when on a date:

• Don't leave your phone on - something that will definitely annoy your date is if you are constantly looking at your phone or even talking on it for periods of the date. If you must have it on for something important for example if you have kids then you should put it on silent.


• Don't talk about your ex - never on a date start talking about your ex girlfriend / boyfriend, chances are it will make your date feel uncomfortable.


• Don't eat too fast - try to eat at a good pace and remember your table manners, your date will not want to see you eating like you haven't eaten for a week.


• Don't be late - try not to be late, if you are running late and you really can't help it then call your date in advance, explain why you are late and say you are looking forward to the date, they will appreciate a call more than you just showing up late.


• Don't get too personal on the first few dates.


• Don't be too over the top - while women love romance, most may find you too over the top if you show up with gifts and a huge bouquet on the first date.


• Don't talk too much, try to hold two way conversations as your date will not like you talking way too much and not letting him/her get a word in.


• Don't be rude - it's not a good idea to be rude to the waiter or brag about your salary, you will just come across as really rude.


• Don't turn up looking sloppy - try to make an effort and at least wear a nice outfit, if you're a guy it's a good idea to shave etc.


• Don't lie - try to 100% truthful on you date and on your member profile, if you are serious about wanting a relationship then lies will just make you seem dishonest and your date will lose interest.


• Don't order for your date - while some women will like this, most will probably find it controlling.

Dating is something you should enjoy, try to be yourself but also try to be considerate to your date, following the basic points above should help you.