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пятница, 20 февраля 2009 г.

Stuck in Friend Zone With a Special Lady? Here's How You Can Get Out of It

If you're stuck in "friend zone" issues with that special lady you have your eye on, then keep reading to learn how you can break out of it and make her your partner or girlfriend. Despite what you might think, you don't have to be perpetually trapped in that situation of being friends, but nothing more. Keep reading to learn what you need to do to get her to want you, more than you want her.

• Don't walk on egg shells and be afraid of offending her. The worst thing you can do is to appear timid by agreeing to everything she says, always backing her up, never jokingly insulting her etc. If she can't take a joke, or gets angry if you don't always agree with her then she's not worth the hassle anyway.

• You should never smother her with contact, or you will get stuck in the friend zone permanently. Get out of the mindset that if she's not talking or texting you, then she's not thinking about you. Most women love the thrill of the chase, and if you just throw yourself at her then she'll lose interest. Make her chase you, and don't appear needy or weak, and you'll have far more success of getting out of the friend's zone.

• Although this might sound counter-productive, and even a bit wrong, don't get obsessed with one girl. Instead, communicate with as many women as you can, flirt with them, go on dates etc. This will prevent you from smothering the girl you are stuck in the friend zone with attention. She will also think that you're in hot demand, and will be more likely to want a "piece of the pie".

• Don't be her emotional dumping ground. If she simply wants to vent onto you, or only comes to you for for advice then don't listen, because once you become her "support buddy" she will almost never be able to think of you as more than a friend. Instead, always be positive around her, as this will make you seem like an excellent person, the kind that most women want and crave.

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