Men, Avoid These Stupid Online Dating Mistakes!

With the internet and online dating, it really makes finding a date so much more easier and fun to do at the same time. However, if you are just starting out on the internet online dating arena, it will take you some time to get the hang of it. Online dating, like other skills, takes some patience and practice.

It is a common misconception that just because you are using the internet, you are connected to the world even if you are in your pyjamas seated at your computer. Nothing could be more wrong! People will not come and chat with you for no reason. The fact is that you must take your own initiative to actively seek to contact those possible dates you like on these online dating websites. But remember when you are contacting others or you are being contacted by others who are interested, also requires you to use some common sense.

Trust me when I say that there are many idiotic and stupid things that some men are doing on the online dating websites which are doing them more harm than good. These are the guys who will eventually complain that women are ignoring them and online dating does not work. If you are one of these guys, then you must read on to find out what you are doing wrong and what mistakes you are making!

You must first understand what women are looking for on these online dating websites. Women, being women, are creatures that need to be loved and cared for. So naturally they are searching for men who know exactly how to make them feel good, secure and have great time with. They probably want a guy who is intelligent, who listens, has a great sense of humor with a positive attitude. So in order to get some responses and perhaps even get to know women more closely by online dating, you first ought to stop making mistakes like below :

Mistake 1

Never send women pictures of your "privates". This will turn many women off and they might they you are a pervert! They will ask you if they want to see that.

Women usually browse through the profiles to find their match just like everybody do. So do post a good recent picture of yourself. Choose the best one with a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or style, a bit of your character.

Mistake 2

Check your profile over and make sure your profile contains proper spelling and grammar. Do not ruin your chances with simple mistakes in your profile. No women appreciate a stupid man or a man who can't spell. This is time well spent to get a response.

Mistake 3

Do not use a nickname that has a sexual innuendo ( unless you are on an adult dating site). Most women on online dating websites usually like men with some class. Why risk your chances?

Mistake 4

Do not use negative words in your profile. Comparing a negative and a positive man online, there is no doubt that women are much more likely to be attracted to the positive one.

Mistake 5

Do not send every woman on the online dating site exactly the same email. Personalize each email that you send out to each woman to show them that you are sincere. Put in some thought and you will be rewarded. Just imagine : these women probably get hundreds of emails from all sort of guys. Thus you must make yours stand out from the rest!