What to Say to Him on the Phone - Leave Him Wanting

The first few minutes of a new conversation with a man is usually intimidating. Sometimes you trip up on your words or say something you might regret. If you get a chance to chat with your man again or if you talk to him regularly, here's what you can do to leave him breathless.

First, you must avoid any sexual innuendos when you chat on the phone...he'll think of you as a call girl if you go there. Mark my words!

Many women don't understand that they have to become the character of what they want to portray. So if you're the shy type, you need to work on BECOMING the opposite of that in order to enhance your social skills and learn how to connect with men.

The character that is best to portray is a a balance between an intellectual and a funny bone. You must portray that you don't give a rip about it - men are intoxicated by women who have a natural ease about themselves. These kinds of women give the appearance of being "centered" and in "control"...these are the kinds of attributes that men are drawn to.

Next you must push the envelop a bit - you've got to be BOLD, not outrageous, just bold. Think about a few questions or make a BOLD statement. You can use this as backup while you're talking and throw it in. Make him think...hard and long and your question/statement after he gets off the phone with you.

Use the following example but make sure your conversation is light, breezy, and you are confident when you say it.

Here's an example..."So...are you any good at ______________?" Fill in the blanks. Then when he answers say, "Hmm...you sure?"

This question is BOLD, it's a challenge. He'll want to PROVE himself to you which my dear...he should!

Finally, get off the phone within minutes of asking him the question. Say, "It's been fun chatting. let's catch up again sometime soon."