How to Use Indirect Approaches to Pick Up Women!

Every woman has her dreams about the man in her life and what he should be like. And that man is the "prince charming" of her life. Even the fairy tales of yesteryear wove around the girl and her 'prince charming' and how he 'swept her off her feet'. This phrase, of course, is not to be taken in its literal sense.

But enough of the fairy tales. I am going to explain how you can become a guy who may become her "prince charming". But unless you approach and talk to women, you don't have a chance of meeting a woman that you may one day connect with.

So let me start with one technique that you can use to approach a woman. Indirect Approaching.

An Indirect approach is an approach that you are not stating your interest in her. You are commenting on something that is going on in the environment around you. Thus giving her no real reason to think that you are just another guy trying to pick her up.

It beats the old school approach to physically bump into a woman thereby dropping her belongings, and then helping her pick them up. In all probability the matter will end there without further ado and she will probably charge you with assault :). Avoid this very direct approach where the woman, rather than being enchanted by you, she would actually feel annoyed with you.

The examples I will give you where you can use the indirect approaching method to your advantage. You might come across a woman either at a party, or in a park or may be even in a shopping complex. You might even find her waiting in a queue. You could use an indirect approach in any of these situations.

If she is alone at a party you could make a comment like "Wow, that's a pretty big back you've got there are you running away from home or something?" Deliver that with a little sarcasm and she will laugh and relax,then you can start chatting to her. It beats saying wow cool bag doesn't it?

Another one you could use is just say your in a music store and you see a woman you are interested in, and she is holding a CD. You could comment on how great the band is and that you have that CD and it is fantastic. Again that is another great way to indirectly approach a woman. And this is a sure fire way to get a response from her, thus leading to a conversation.

A third way of working an indirect approach. Just say you were standing in a supermarket isle. You notice a woman you have an interest in. You could ask for her advice on a particular product, you might ask which sauce would be better with this pasta. You could ask about anything, just use what ever is in front of you. Something that is in your environment.

It is not rocket science if you are just relaxed and approach her with confidence you will deliver these approaches with great ease and women will gladly stop and chat with you.

If you can master the art of great indirect approaches with women it is a great way to then engage her and then eventually get her number, as it is a really effective way of approaching a woman without looking like a threat and you are using your environment to your advantage.

Windows to the Soul!

Ok, guys, it isn't as easy finding that perfect woman anymore, is it? We now have to be attractive to women. Hit the gym, look presentable, don't be a slob. She now has a choice! Gone are the days when a woman dropped a handkerchief in hopes that the man she had her eyes on will pick it up. We actually, God forbid, have to work on it. We have to do the flirting. Not just women. And how do we do that?

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. So use them! If you are able to make the proper eye contact you can really go a long way to meeting that special someone. Eye contact is the best body language you can possibly use. You are telling that person that you are interested in her. Look into her eyes. It is with your eyes that you first make contact. Now as guys, we tend to look at the whole picture.

We see her from head to toe, and everything in-between. And, if you like what you see, go back to her eyes. Don't linger on one particular aspect that all guys find attractive. Be smart. If you do it right, all possibilities are open to you.

If a woman likes what she sees, and believe me she has also looked you over from head to toe, she might want to get to know the entire package. She may look away at first, but she will give you a subtle hint that she has checked you out and it is ok to approach her. Gosh, all that power that women have.

It's enough to make grown men cry. But, you have to play it this way. Look at her and smile. This should be the open door to say hello. You introduce yourself and you are now talking to that special someone.

The night is going well. You've made her feel at ease. You haven't come on too strong. You made her laugh. And, if you don't know how to make a woman laugh, there are books on the subject. I know, more work for you, but in the long run it will be worth it.

You are getting to know her. She is great at conversation. She probably does something cute and you find her terribly attractive. You want more! A kiss?

It is time to use your flirting body language again. Remember, the eyes are the window to the soul. So, stare at her intently! Feel the heat and the passion of the moment. If she stares back, watch carefully what she does with her eyes. If she is interested in kissing you she will flick her eyes back and forth between your eyes. She is trying to get a good read on you.

Look at her pupils. Are they dilated? The more dilated and the wider her pupils the more attracted and excited she has become. She is expecting a kiss right now, the way should be clear. Don't screw it up. Don't allow uncertainty to ruin your chances. And make sure you kiss the right way. There are books on this too!

Flirting - tough work? Yes, now more than ever. Be confident! Move forward! Zero in on her eyes and linger there - eventually she will notice and hopefully you'll be on your way to that blissful feeling that the best of relationships can bring. But remember, you have to do the work. Times have certainly changed and you have to change with them!

5 Proven Ways to Become a High Status Alpha Male

There are 5 proven techniques to make yourself into a high status alpha male. None of them are difficult. Most of them will make you life infinitely better in more ways than with women. All of them will require some work. It's absolutely the best work you will ever do for yourself.

1) Look good. First on the list for looking good is your physical body. If you're out of shape and/or overweight begin to exercise. This will tone your body, make you physically healthier, and stronger. Then take a good look at your appearance. Check you hair, skin, nails and facial hair. Are you clean and neat? Do you need a new hairstyle or a trim/cut of you facial hair? Do you have body odor? These are basic, but can't be overlooked. The same for your clothing. You don't have to spend a fortune in clothes to be clean, neat, and reasonably stylish. Two or three pairs of pants and nice shirts will be a good start.

2) Work towards your goals. Do you have a goal in life? Do you have a dream? If you haven't begun to make the effort to reach out for these, then now is the time. You only have one life. You deserve to have the life that you want. Make a plan on how to reach your goal or dream, then put that plan into action.  Keep it up until you reach it.

3) Take quality time for yourself. Think about some of the things that interest you. Do you like football? Then go out and play a game with some friends, or coach a junior team. Does rock climbing look like fun? Go find a gym that has a rock climbing wall and try it out for yourself. It may not be El Capitan in Yosemite, but it's better than sitting on your butt watching TV or drinking your life away. Be involved with your life and do something your interested in. You'll become a more interesting person.

4) Be confident. This seems to be the area most guys have problems with. OK, here's some steps to take to look confident until you ARE confident. When standing, stand straight and pull your shoulders back slightly. Smile. If you get rattled about something, take a deep breath and exhale slowly. Smile. Don't fidget with your hands or feet. Smile. Begin to put these simple steps into action and you'll be surprised at how confident you feel.

5) Respect people. This should be a no-brainer, but some guys need reminding. Listen to what people are saying when they talk with you. Don't ridicule or make fun of people. Be pleasant company. Don't pick your nose, fart, scratch your privates, or pick out your underwear when talking with someone. Especially women. Use a little common sense and have some manners.

These techniques are basic, but they are time-tested and proven to work. All you have to do is apply them. Every day, in every situation.

What Girls Find Attractive in the Guys They Want

Wouldn't it be great if you could crawl inside a woman's head and know what she finds attractive in a guy? That kind of insider information could take you a very long way with any woman you wanted to date.

Most guys haven't got a clue what women want. The great news is that women have been telling men all along what they want. Here's a collection of six of the most popular things on the female desires list.

· Excitement

Everyone loves excitement. Boredom is... well a bore! :) If you can draw a woman out of her boredom you'll automatically BE exciting to her. Add a little mystery to the mix and you have an explosive situation. Being mysterious causes her to do the hard imagination work. If you change what she imagines to something else exciting it just reinforces to her that you're exciting beyond her expectations.

· Intelligence

Smart guys get it. Literally. Women have a left-right brain radar. They sense intelligence in the reasoning area and the emotional area of a guy. Don't even try to hide it. They pick it up even when you're in stealth mode. Women are disgusted by guys who can't figure out how to feel and think the right way. In other words be the right guy internally and you'll be the right guy, period!

· Self Confidence

This one aspect of who you are may very well be the most important. It's like the headline in a newspaper. If women read it and it doesn't interest them they never go any further. A man who is self confident can't help but display it in his body language. He'll be cool in social situations and in private situations as well. He can be depended upon, relied upon, and trusted to take charge. If you exude self confidence you'll have trouble getting rid of women rather than trying to attract them.

· Sense of Humor

Laughter is the ultimate natural high for anyone wanting to be happy. Women love being happy so you must have a good sense of humor. Humor is like a virus. It's infectious. Utilize humor the right way and you can say anything...with a laugh. By putting her at ease you can easily suggest things that wouldn't be appropriate in a normal conversation. Insinuations and innuendos will naturally slide past her normal defenses and become something she considers without fear. Make her laugh and she'll make you happy.

· Status

Women love leaders. (See the section on self confidence) Leaders take charge. They protect. They provide. While women want to see themselves as enlightened and no longer desiring security nothing could be further from the truth. If you're a leader you display the qualities that prove you're capable of keeping them emotionally and physically secure. This is a very high need on their list so you'll be very high on their list.

· Style

How you look matters. If you're not attractive (usually meaning well groomed) she won't even take a second look at you. You have to stop and consider that she probably took quite some time to put together her look for you. If you haven't shown the same respect and courtesy in this 'small matter' she'll probably consider that this is how you are and who you are and won't want anything do to with you.

5 Proven Ways to Become a High Status Alpha Male

There are 5 proven techniques to make yourself into a high status alpha male. None of them are difficult. Most of them will make you life infinitely better in more ways than with women. All of them will require some work. It's absolutely the best work you will ever do for yourself.

1) Look good. First on the list for looking good is your physical body. If you're out of shape and/or overweight begin to exercise. This will tone your body, make you physically healthier, and stronger. Then take a good look at your appearance. Check you hair, skin, nails and facial hair. Are you clean and neat? Do you need a new hairstyle or a trim/cut of you facial hair? Do you have body odor? These are basic, but can't be overlooked. The same for your clothing. You don't have to spend a fortune in clothes to be clean, neat, and reasonably stylish. Two or three pairs of pants and nice shirts will be a good start.

2) Work towards your goals. Do you have a goal in life? Do you have a dream? If you haven't begun to make the effort to reach out for these, then now is the time. You only have one life. You deserve to have the life that you want. Make a plan on how to reach your goal or dream, then put that plan into action.  Keep it up until you reach it.

3) Take quality time for yourself. Think about some of the things that interest you. Do you like football? Then go out and play a game with some friends, or coach a junior team. Does rock climbing look like fun? Go find a gym that has a rock climbing wall and try it out for yourself. It may not be El Capitan in Yosemite, but it's better than sitting on your butt watching TV or drinking your life away. Be involved with your life and do something your interested in. You'll become a more interesting person.

4) Be confident. This seems to be the area most guys have problems with. OK, here's some steps to take to look confident until you ARE confident. When standing, stand straight and pull your shoulders back slightly. Smile. If you get rattled about something, take a deep breath and exhale slowly. Smile. Don't fidget with your hands or feet. Smile. Begin to put these simple steps into action and you'll be surprised at how confident you feel.

5) Respect people. This should be a no-brainer, but some guys need reminding. Listen to what people are saying when they talk with you. Don't ridicule or make fun of people. Be pleasant company. Don't pick your nose, fart, scratch your privates, or pick out your underwear when talking with someone. Especially women. Use a little common sense and have some manners.

These techniques are basic, but they are time-tested and proven to work. All you have to do is apply them. Every day, in every situation.