Overcome Fear of Rejection - A Powerful Technique to Conquer Your Fear of Rejection With Women

Are you looking for a technique to help you overcome fear of rejection in approaching and dating women? If you're like most guys who enjoy reading my articles and visiting my website you've probably got your hand held high, right? It's true...for most of us, finding a technique to help overcome fear of rejection is a big part in getting ahead in the dating game.

So what is a really good technique that works like magic...yet is at the same time a bit underground and simple? Well, to answer this question, I'd like to share with you a technique I learned several years ago. The premise behind this method is fairly simple. As the good folks over at Nike say...just do it. You dramatically increase your chances of success by throwing caution to the wind.

Here's how my overcoming fear of rejection technique works:

When you're in a social situation, such as a club or bar, scan the room for a woman who catches your eye. Immediately approach her. When you leap before you look you're not feeding any thoughts of rejection into your mind. You simply walk up to her and introduce yourself. If she is receptive to your approach...your in. If she rejects you, move on to the next lucky girl.

This technique may seem outlandish to many guys, but it works. The reason it works is quite simple. You give your mind no opportunity to worry about consequences when you react without thinking. All negative thoughts that would otherwise hinder your self confidence are blocked out when you keep your eye on the prize.

Men who are naturally good with women successfully employ this concept all the time. They live for the moment knowing how they feel inside will be portrayed outside.

Guys who suffer from fear of rejection stop their pursuit before it even starts...getting them nowhere. Having said that, you should seize the opportunity to talk to an attractive woman any time you spot her. Of course there's no guarantee that she will react positively, but you can guarantee you won't get results by not approaching her.

As hockey great Wayne Gretzky once stated, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Now of course, you're not going to be successful 100% of the time. This is okay...no guy ever is. Consider every approach to be valuable practice rather than taking your failures to heart. You will be one step closer to conquering your fear of rejection every time you utilize my technique.

A second benefit to employing this technique is that the more times you randomly approach beautiful girls, the better your seduction skills will become. Before too long, striking up conversations with beautiful women will become second nature to you, and you'll have more phone numbers than you can shake a stick at.

Don't allow the fear of rejection to rule your love life. Walk up to that beautiful girl sitting at the bar and you just might find yourself amazed at her response.

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed

Dating Tips For Men - What Should YOU Say to HER?

One of the areas that most men find a challenge when it comes to attracting women, is knowing exactly what they should say to make a woman feel attraction. Far too many men kill any chances that they might have with a woman, simply because they do NOT know the things to say to her. You have to be able to talk to women in a way that not only gets her attention, but that also builds her attraction for YOU.

So, what are some things to say to a woman?

1. Ask her what she does for fun. This is a great way to build rapport and attraction as you can find at least one thing that you have in common with her. Then you can start to make her to associate YOU with having a good time as she explains what she does for fun and you relate how you like to do the same.

2. Ask her to pull up some good memories. Now, you can phrase this any way that you want. But, having her remember good things will cause her to feel good in that moment. And as she feels good in that moment, she is with you. This will help to associate your face with those good times. Which will make her see YOU as someone that she can have a good time with.

3. Ask her what the worst pick up line she has ever heard is. This is a fun one, because you get to make fun of guys that try this and as a result, distance yourself from being that kind of guy. Using this is a great way to introduce humor into the conversation while at the same time, making her feel as though you are NOT one of those men that are just trying to score.

These are just basic tips of what to say to a woman. You have to really know how to use conversation to YOUR advantage if you want to be successful with women. The more time that you spend working on this area of your life, the better your results will be.

How to Attract Women Fast

The first step to attracting more women is to flirt with your eyes. You have to use your eyes to show women that you are attracted. Moreover, they will use their eyes when they themselves are interested.

You should practice smiling with your eyes, a skill (hard to acquire) that will instantly lure women to you. There is an article that discusses how to smile with your eyes in more detail.  That article also discusses the "Gaze of Intent," a term I've personally coined. The gaze of intent is when a woman gazes at you and when you make eye contact with her, she gazes down, only to look back up at you 15-30 seconds after. This is a definite sign of interest that you must look out for.

Practice making eye contact with women everywhere. When you're on the subway or bus or even when you're walking down the street, you should gaze at women for 5-7 seconds at a time. This will help you boost your confidence and also help you look out for the gaze of intent.

The second step to attracting more women is to up your sex appeal. How do you do that? You fix yourself up.

First of all, are you clean shaven? If not, you should be. However, if you look really young without facial hair, then keep the facial hair but make sure it is shaped up. You need a consistent look. Avoid thick beards. A jaw lined shapeup works better. Avoid single mustaches, a goatee is better.

How's your hairstyle? Do you have one?  If not, go to a stylist. It might be a little expensive but it's well worth it. Trust me, every pick up artist will attest to the importance of having a consistent and clean hairstyle.

Nosehair? Pluck it. Ear hair? Remove it. Blackheads on your nose? Use biore strips. Back hair? Wax it. Chest hair?  Shave it.

How's your wardrobe? Avoid graphic tees and avoid jeans that drag on the floor. Get yourself a pair of black dress shoes from Macy's. Stick to solid colored dress shirts. Dark colors if you're overweight and lighter colors if you're underweight.  

Get yourself a watch (this is a MUST). Women see watches as a sign of time management and it is a turn on to every woman.

These are two sure ways to attract more women fast. Next thing you need is the approach. You can find many articles on my website about how to approach women and I am actually publishing an E-Book, "Learn to Flirt Fast!" which will discuss the approach in more detail.

I also have another article here on ezine, "How to Talk to a Girl You Met" I recommend you check it out.

Your digital wingman,

Marlon Reed