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Overcome Fear of Rejection - A Powerful Technique to Conquer Your Fear of Rejection With Women


Are you looking for a technique to help you overcome fear of rejection in approaching and dating women? If you're like most guys who enjoy reading my articles and visiting my website you've probably got your hand held high, right? It's true...for most of us, finding a technique to help overcome fear of rejection is a big part in getting ahead in the dating game.

So what is a really good technique that works like magic...yet is at the same time a bit underground and simple? Well, to answer this question, I'd like to share with you a technique I learned several years ago. The premise behind this method is fairly simple. As the good folks over at Nike say...just do it. You dramatically increase your chances of success by throwing caution to the wind.

Here's how my overcoming fear of rejection technique works:

When you're in a social situation, such as a club or bar, scan the room for a woman who catches your eye. Immediately approach her. When you leap before you look you're not feeding any thoughts of rejection into your mind. You simply walk up to her and introduce yourself. If she is receptive to your approach...your in. If she rejects you, move on to the next lucky girl.

This technique may seem outlandish to many guys, but it works. The reason it works is quite simple. You give your mind no opportunity to worry about consequences when you react without thinking. All negative thoughts that would otherwise hinder your self confidence are blocked out when you keep your eye on the prize.

Men who are naturally good with women successfully employ this concept all the time. They live for the moment knowing how they feel inside will be portrayed outside.

Guys who suffer from fear of rejection stop their pursuit before it even starts...getting them nowhere. Having said that, you should seize the opportunity to talk to an attractive woman any time you spot her. Of course there's no guarantee that she will react positively, but you can guarantee you won't get results by not approaching her.

As hockey great Wayne Gretzky once stated, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Now of course, you're not going to be successful 100% of the time. This is okay...no guy ever is. Consider every approach to be valuable practice rather than taking your failures to heart. You will be one step closer to conquering your fear of rejection every time you utilize my technique.

A second benefit to employing this technique is that the more times you randomly approach beautiful girls, the better your seduction skills will become. Before too long, striking up conversations with beautiful women will become second nature to you, and you'll have more phone numbers than you can shake a stick at.

Don't allow the fear of rejection to rule your love life. Walk up to that beautiful girl sitting at the bar and you just might find yourself amazed at her response.

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