5 Reasons Why Your Weight Could Be Affecting Your Love Life

1. When most men think of their ideal woman, they often have images of women who are healthy and in good shape. Does it mean that you will never find a man that loves big beautiful women? Of course not. There is a man for every woman, but it becomes more difficult for men to become attracted to you when all they see is your weight.

2. Most men want beautiful women in their arms. As we all know, the American culture defines a beautiful woman as one that is a size six with a slender build, beautiful skin and long flowing hair. If for some reason you do not fit this mold, most men do not want to take the chance to get to know you.

3. Since men are by nature visual creatures, they tend to quickly assess a woman 's value (which is definitely wrong), based on her beauty. Since it is nearly impossible for a man to get that opportunity to get to know your inner-self due to the problems they may be having getting over the fact that you have gained weight.

4. Men tend to passively seek the approval of their friends when it comes to the women they date or want to marry. They typically want their friends to think that the girl they are with is "hot". And if for some reason you have put on a few pounds a lot of men will have difficulties going beyond what they see to get to know you.

5. Men in general are attracted to women who look good in their clothes. So if your weight gain has made it tough for you to fit into the fashionable clothes men drool over, then your love life is bound to be affected.

So if you want to attract a lot of men or keep the attention of the one you have, it is important that you make the time to keep fit on a daily basis. Set a goal to lose weight gradually. No matter what, it is important that you understand that a lot o men will fall in love with you just the way you are, but you will have to work harder to project your personality more so that men do not judge you solely on the weight you have gained.