Dating For Men Part 7 - What to Look For in a Woman (Hint - It's Not Her Chest)

Sometimes, knowing what's really important to you in a woman can be more complex than you'd think. It seems like a simple thing at first, I mean what does anyone want in a woman? Kindness, good looks, a woman who "pulls her own weight" instead of relying on you for everything. But when you get out into the dating world, you'll find that many women posses many other characteristics that may or may not be to your liking. Well don't fret, I'm going to walk you through my method of screening out women I'm not interested in.

First of all, remember to always keep an open mind. You can't be judgmental or a woman will feel that you are looking down on her. Plus, you might be surprised at some of the amazing women who you might have never gotten to know if you hadn't stepped outside your box.

Also, forget what all your friends say. They have no idea what's best for you.

Ignore maxim, playboy, lingerie ads and the like. These women are so airbrushed and covered in makeup from head-to-toe that they'd have to TRY to look bad. Plus they have the advantage of professional photographers who know what posses to put them in to show off their best features and hide their worst.

Something I encourage men to do is to just think for a moment about what makes two PEOPLE compatible. Not a man and a woman, just two people. What types of things do people commonly bond over? What types of things make two best friends so compatible?

Also, in choosing a woman I would encourage all of you to consider the entire person, not just her looks. Think about her personality, her interests, her ambitions and such. What type of strengths do you want a woman to have? What types of weaknesses are not such a big deal to you? You'll find that a woman who turns you on mentally will soon become very attractive to you, regardless of her body.

As men we tend to be very visually stimulated. We are visual creatures. When we see a beautiful woman and get excited, our brain tells us "THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT!" But it's to our advantage to have more self control than that. This woman who's exciting us may be completely psychologically unstable. Or even if shes not, she may not be a person who you can enjoy yourself with for very long.

I'm a big fan of the outdoors. I also like to watch sports on television. Finding a woman who enjoys these things with me is a HUGE turn on. Plus, it's nice to be able to talk about things with a woman that you would talk about with your friends.

So, in closing, try to keep an open mind and really concentrate on the IMPORTANT things first. Good looks are great, but they're really of secondary importance.

I hope you've found this report helpful and that in the future you'll approach women with a better sense of what's important to you.